Cor Domum: Parenting with Joy

Season 3, Episode 15: Happiness Challenge: Day 2

Sun, 21 Jul 2019 18:42:11 +0000

Why Giving to Others Makes You Happy

One of my all-time favorite memories was Christmas as a child. Family came in from out of town, there was good food, everyone was happy. Christmas was downright magical as a kid, and the presents didn't hurt either! Getting presents always seems like kids happy. (FYI, receiving gifts IS one of the five love languages!)

But then something happens. You grow up and have your own babies, and you realize that GIVING those Christmas presents is a far more exciting experience.

It feels good to give. You feel happier when you make others happier.

But why? As it turns out, there is a little bit of science behind this too! A study from the Harvard Business School found that when individuals give, they activate the pleasure centers in your brain.

It literally feels good to make other people happy.

The Challenge

Give to another today.... it could be something big... it could be something small like the last piece of cake (especially if you really wanted it!)
You don't have to let us know what you did, but let us know when you're done... then you can continue to inspire others! (Facebook, Instagram, Twitter)
Encourage your family to start the challenge too!

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Season 3, Episode 14: The Happiness Challenge: Day 1

Thu, 18 Jul 2019 21:12:35 +0000

In this episode, Katie focuses on happiness -- and how you can achieve it.

Happiness: What Is It? What Isn't It?

Happiness doesn't mean that everything always goes your way.

Happiness doesn't mean that you're over-the-moon ecstatic 24/7.

Far from it.

Happiness means that you choose positivity. You choose to endure. You choose to look on the bright side. You choose to keep on keepin' on - even in the face of adversity.

Happiness is about the choices you make.

Happiness is about choosing joy in your heart.

The 7-Day Happiness Challenge

Because happiness is about the choices you make, there are things you can do to create a happier life, and the 7-day challenge can help you get there.

Each day, I'll post a new challenge both here and on social media so feel free to follow along!

Back to Nature
Give to another
Focus on meditation
Self-care
Attitude of gratitude
Make a new goal
Affirmations

I won't be leaving you alone either; I'll be doing the challenge with you, showing you science-backed reasons how these small acts contribute to happiness.

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Season 3, Episode 13: What Is Natural Parenting?

Sat, 13 Jul 2019 20:51:41 +0000

In this episode, Katie introduces the 8 principles of Attachment Parenting and how they can relate "natural parenting." Natural parenting is about creating a lifestyle that is responsive, conscious, and responsible.

This episode briefly covers each of the principles of Attachment Parenting and how it can be used to parent by nature.

She'll cover:

What is natural parenting?
What are the principles of Attachment Parenting?
Is Attachment Parenting right for your family?
How Attachment Parenting can create a lifestyle that fosters joy and happiness

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The 8 Principles of Attachment Parenting (and How They Affect Any Relationship)

Wed, 10 Jan 2018 19:39:07 +0000

In this episode, Katie introduces the 8 principles of Attachment Parenting and how they can relate to any relationship - not just the parent-child relationship.

She'll cover:

Is Attachment Parenting new?
What is the foundation of Attachment Parenting?
Is Attachment Parenting right for your family?
How A.P. can help strengthen any relationship EVEN if you're not parents yet

Resources mentioned in the podcast:

A Natural History of the Senses by Diane Ackerman (aff link)
The Attachment Parenting Book : A Commonsense Guide to Understanding and Nurturing Your Baby by Dr. Sears (aff link)
Blog post mentioned: 5 Principles for Romancing Your Wife

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S2.Ep1: What Type of Parent Are You? (And Why It Matters)

Tue, 02 Jan 2018 22:27:18 +0000

In the Season 2 Kickoff, Katie begins by exploring the common parenting labels. Most importantly, she talks about the good - and the bad- aspects about each label. Learning about what category you fall into, can help you learn about your own parenting strengths and weaknesses.

In this episode, we'll cover:

What the common parenting labels are
Helicopter parent
Lawnmower parent
Free range parent
Attachment parent
Wolf Dad
Dragon Mom
The good and the bad qualities of such stereotypes
What you can learn by uncovering what your own label is
What type of parent are you? How can you use that info to bring more happiness into your family?

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What is your parenting label? What kind of parent are you - and how can you use that info to bring more joy into your life? Comment below!

S2,Ep00: Who We Are (And What You Get For Listening)

Tue, 02 Jan 2018 22:21:30 +0000

This episode is a refresher of who we are and what our mission is... and what you'll learn by following along to this podcast.

In this episode, Katie will talk about:

What "Cor Domum" means
Her inspiration for starting this podcast
What listeners will learn from the podcast
The goal of the podcast to inspire families to live better, happier lives

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Episode 9: Sleeping Your Way to A Happier Family

Tue, 06 Jun 2017 21:21:25 +0000

In this episode, Katie begins to tackle the topic of sleep. We all know sleep is good for us (duh) but sometimes we don't always get the highest quality of sleep. Sleep is critical for a happy and healthy BODY and MIND.

In this episode, we'll cover:

How sleep plays a role in the body's natural detoxification process
The importance of a sleep schedule
Ways to improve your quality of sleep including
What is a blue light
Essential oils including how to make a "home spa" spray
How orange/amber lights induce sleep
Cherry juice to help induce sleep
How sleep improve overall family life
WHAT IS YOUR SLEEP SCORE?

Mentioned in this episode:

Study done on blue lights
The orange light we use (affiliate link)
Where to buy lavender and cedarwood essential oil
Where to buy tart cherry juice (affiliate)
Home spa recipe:
- -25 drops of dōTERRA® Serenity
  -20 drops of Ylang Ylang essential oil
  -15 drops of Vetiver essential oil
  -15 drops of Marjoram essential oil
- Add to a 2 oz spray bottle
  -Fill the rest with water

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Episode 8: Why Nature Makes You Happy

Wed, 05 Apr 2017 22:06:16 +0000

In this episode, your host Katie Trudeau shares explores why and how nature makes people happy and boosts moods.

In this episode, she'll explore:

A personal reflection of napping outdoors
Why Northern Europeans make a daily habit of the outdoor nap
The philosophical implications of a happy life and the great outdoors
The physical benefits of spending time outdoors

Resources mentioned:

Hammock for napping outdoors
Study linking outdoor play to decreased ADHD symptoms
BBC article about Nordic babies napping outside

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Episode 7: Why Serving Your Kids is Good

Fri, 17 Mar 2017 15:43:31 +0000

In this episode, parenting author Katie Trudeau explores the good that comes from serving your kids.

In this episode, we'll cover:

1. Why modern parents are afraid to serve their kids

2. The notion that service is a mandatory teaching tool

3. Why spoiling kids is not possible

4. The reason why kids lack manners

5. How service leads to love

Items mentioned:

The Five Love Languages
Chamomile Tea - the tea that showed me who's boss!

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Interested in learning more about Attachment Parenting? I suggest these books:

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Episode 6: Gentle Parenting Myth #1: You'll Have An Out-of-Control Child

Fri, 10 Mar 2017 22:47:30 +0000

In this episode, parenting author Katie Trudeau dives into one of the myths surrounding gentle parenting and Attachment Parenting. Even though Attachment Parenting is popular, there are still a lot of myths that need debunking. One of the most prevalent myths is that you'll end up with an out-of-control child.

In this episode, we'll cover:

1. Why this myth came to be

2. The notion that gentle parenting does not mean lax parenting

3. What is harsh punishment

4. Alternatives to spanking/timeouts that really do work

Time in
Talking
Redirection
Hug it out

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Episode 5: The Secret of Family Happiness According to a 4 Year Old

Fri, 03 Mar 2017 15:06:54 +0000

In today's episode, Katie explores the secret to family happiness according to a 4 year old.

Highlights from the show include:

What is a child's favorite thing about family life?
Strengthen family bonds through experiences
Make each moment count: go big or go home
Quality vs quantity time

Homework:

Think about a way to spend more quality and quantity time with your family

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Episode 4: Is Attachment Parenting Right for Your Family?

Wed, 22 Feb 2017 20:51:00 +0000

In this episode, Katie introduces the 8 principles of Attachment Parenting. She'll cover:

Is Attachment Parenting new?
What is the foundation of Attachment Parenting?
Is Attachment Parenting right for your family?
How A.P. can help strengthen any relationship EVEN if you're not parents yet

Resources mentioned in the podcast:

A Natural History of the Senses by Diane Ackerman (aff link)
Blog post mentioned: 5 Principles for Romancing Your Wife

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Episode 3: Why Kids Save Their Worst Behavior for Their Parents

Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:41:35 +0000

In this episode, Katie talks about why kids save their worst behavior for their parents and what you can do in those situations.

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My oldest son had just come home from a playdate with his Memaw. As my mom dropped him off, she beamed at how good he was. He was polite and chipper and chatty. They played, did arts and crafts, and went out for lunch. It was the perfect day and my boy had been angelic.

So you can imagine my surprise when he started running and screaming and having a meltdown. My mom stared in disbelief and said, "Wow. He was so good today."

I knew what was happening, though. I had seen it before. The dreaded I-was-good-for-other-people-but-now-I'm-gonna-meltdown-for-Mommy syndrome. What gives? I want to be greeted with kisses and hugs - not meltdowns!

But here's the thing: being good is exhausting

Being good and following the rules and listening to the adults is hard work. Exhausting work. It takes so much energy for young kids to be "on their best behavior" that when they come home, they are just over it.

And my son hit the nail on the head. I set him on his bed, thinking that some quiet time with a book or a cuddle could recharge his mood. I asked him, "What's wrong? Why did you spiral out of control?"

His answer made my jaw drop: "I'm all behaved out. Being good was hard work and I'm really tired."

Of course, it was.

So I tucked my little guy in and he got some very needed rest.

Three things to know about why kids reserve their worst behavior for us

If, at first, it hurts yours feelings that your son or daughter saves all their best behavior for others and then unleashes the dragon on you, fear not. Here's some helpful info to remember.

It's normal! Simply knowing you are not alone can help to alleviate the frustration (even just a little bit).
Your child trusts you: Child psychologists are quick to note that a child who feels secure enough to reveal his true self feels unconditionally loved by that parent. It's as if a child is thinking, "Well, I know Daddy loves me no matter what. I need to vent, I need to just let it all out and I know Daddy loves me anyway." Think of it as a compliment.
Make the adjustment easier for your child. Maybe some alone time in his/her room is what your child would like as he works through his emotions. Other children may desire a parent's company. Sometimes just physically sitting next to each other is enough. Let your child lead.

Does your child behave well for others and save the crazy stuff for you? What do you do? How do you make the transition easier for your child?

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Episode 2: 3 Ways to Use Meditation (Even When You're Short on Time)

Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:15:04 +0000

In this episode, Katie talks about the benefits of using meditation. It's not always easy to carve out large chunks of time for yourself, so Katie offers tips to bring peace to your mind even when you are short on time.

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Meditation is one of the oldest ways to center yourself, regulate your emotions, and de-stress. However, it's hard to squeeze in a yoga and/or meditation session in between diaper changes, work commitments, errands, driving here and there, cooking dinner, washing laundry, rewashing laundry, folding laundry, sweeping, and... the list goes on. What's a mama (or papa) to do?

Meditation doesn't have to take place in a studio led by a yogi master. Meditation is a lot simpler. At its simplest, meditation refers to peace that comes from calming the mind. Here are three ways to meditate even when you are short on time.

Use meditation to de-stress, calm the mind, and experience peace

Fix your gaze
If you went to a traditional meditation class, you would learn about Drishti, which is a term for focusing your eyes on one spot. Sometimes, as we feel the stresses of life intensify, our roving eyes can add to the sensory overload. Want to try it? Pick an object (a spot on the wall, a picture frame, the corner of a rug) and fix your gaze on the object for at least 30 seconds. This dramatically reduces the "overload" sensations in your brain, allowing the motion to give way to stillness.

Deep breathing
As any laboring mother can tell you, deep breathing is a helpful meditation tool - not because it relieves pain, but because it helps calm the body. Shallow breathing can contribute to panic, while deeper breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system. The parasympathetic nervous system controls the actions of a body at rest. Deep breathing is easy to do no matter how busy you are. You have to breath anyway, so make it count. :)

Share the moment
While we're on the topic of brain activity, when you make yourself vulnerable and share with another human, oxytocin is released. Oxytocin is nicknamed the "feel-good hormone." When you share your stresses and feelings with another, you make yourself vulnerable and can experience a boost in mood thanks to oxytocin. Try deep breathing with a friend, spouse, or even your child. It's never too early to teach the healing powers of meditation to your little ones.

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Episode 1: My Story & Mission of Cor Domum

Tue, 03 Jan 2017 23:21:34 +0000

Welcome to the Cor Domum podcast! Your host, parenting author Katie Trudeau, navigates families through life, guided by gentle parenting and natural living practices.

In this episode, meet Katie! Learn about who she is and how she started her journey towards peaceful parenting and natural living.

If you're interested in a happier home and more joyful family life, then this podcast is for you. We all have our parenting struggles, but together we can find the joy in family life.

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