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Jedes Jahr die gleichen Punkte auf der Liste

Im privaten Bereich unterscheiden sich die Neujahrsvorsatz-Listen vom einen zum anderen Jahr kaum: 5 Kilo abnehmen, endlich ordentlicher werden, weniger Alkohol trinken, mit dem Rauchen aufhören, mehr Sport machen, sich gesünder ernähren, das Smartphone weniger verwenden, wenn andere anwesend sind, sich verlieben, mehr Zeit mit der Familie verbringen, weniger Geld ausgeben, etwas Neues lernen, organisierter werden, mehr Gutes tun… das alles steht da immer wieder oben und die Liste ist endlos. Umso frustrierender ist es, wenn dann 2 Monate später alles wieder vergessen und nichts davon erreicht ist.

Eine Studie der Universität von Scranton belegt, dass nur 8 Prozent der Vorsätze wirklich erreicht werden. Das ist die traurige Wahrheit und motiviert nicht unbedingt dazu, sich wieder neue Ziele zu stecken. Es gibt jedoch auch gute Gründe, warum das so ist, die wir dir gleich verraten werden!

Neujahrsvorsätze für den beruflichen Bereich

Natürlich steckt man sich nicht nur im privaten Bereich Ziele, sondern kann die Neujahrsvorsätze auch problemlos auf das berufliche Weiterkommen ausweiten. Häufige Vorsätze dabei sind etwa eine Beförderung zu erreichen, sich endlich zu trauen mehr Gehalt zu verlangen oder eine Weiterbildung zu beginnen. Das sind alles sehr konkrete Vorsätze und das ist ja nichts Schlechtes. Sie sind gut messbar und Ende des kommenden Jahres weiß man, ob man sie erreicht hat oder nicht.

Dennoch empfiehlt es sich auch Vorsätze zu wählen, die nicht immer nur an konkrete Ereignisse anknüpfen, sondern das eigene Verhalten gänzlich unter die Lupe nehmen. Wir geben dir ein paar Beispiele für Neujahrsvorsätze, die in diese Richtung gehen:

1. Triff deine Entscheidungen bewusst
2. Lerne „Nein“ zu sagen, wenn du etwas nicht möchtest
3. Stelle dich Herausforderungen, vor denen du dich bisher immer gedrückt hast
4. Finde deine persönliche Balance zwischen On- und Offline
5. Achte darauf nicht auf der Stelle zu treten

Vielleicht erkennst du beim Formulieren deiner Neujahrsvorsätze auch, dass du schon seit langem auf der Stelle trittst und es in deinem Beruf nur noch Aufgaben gibt, vor denen du dich am liebsten drücken würdest. Wenn nichts mehr deine berufliche Situation retten kann, dann ist vielleicht ein Neustart notwendig. Hier kannst du nachlesen, wie der perfekte Neustart gelingt oder dich durch unsere über 5.500 Videointerviews auf whatchado klicken!

Ziele mit langfristiger Wirkung

Wichtig ist es, dass deine Vorsätze nicht nur für 2 Wochen gelten, sondern Ziele mit langfristiger Wirkung verfolgen. Notiere dir zu den Vorsätzen, die du für dich wählst, jeweils konkrete Beispiele, wie du sie umsetzen könntest und im Nachhinein dann umgesetzt hast. Willst du deine Online-Offline-Balance finden, lege dir Zeiten fest, an denen du nicht aufs Handy schaust, beispielsweise während eines Gesprächs, beim Abendessen oder nach 20 Uhr. Schreibe nieder, welcher unangenehmen Aufgabe du dich gestellt hast und wieso du das früher nicht getan hättest oder in welchem konkreten Fall du bewusst „Nein“ gesagt hast.

Es geht darum dein Verhalten ganzheitlich zu ändern und längerfristig gesehen schlechte Gewohnheiten abzulegen. Die eigenen Vorsätze können nicht dadurch erreicht werden, dass man einmal nach mehr Gehalt verlangt, die Anfrage vom Chef zurück gewiesen wird und man sich fortan wieder ein halbes Jahr nicht zu fragen traut oder man einen Auftrag ablehnt, den man nicht machen wollte. Es geht vielmehr darum auch etwas zu riskieren, sich neuen Aufgaben und Herausforderungen zu stellen, die man sich früher vielleicht gar nicht zugetraut hätte. Die Veränderung muss auf ganzer Ebene stattfinden und nachhaltig wirken.

Einer der Gründe, warum viele ihre Neujahrsvorsätze nicht erreichen, ist, dass diese in den meisten Fällen unrealistisch sind oder schnell wieder in Vergessenheit geraten. Darum geben wir euch Tipps, wie ihr es schaffen könnt, im kommenden Jahr endlich mit voller Energie durchzustarten!

Neujahrsvorsätze

1. Schritt für Schritt zum Ziel

Überlege dir gut, welche und wie viele Neujahrsvorsätze du umsetzen möchtest. Häufig macht man hierbei den Fehler sich zu viele Vorsätze zu nehmen und seine persönlichen Ziele zu hoch zu stecken. Das Ergebnis davon ist, dass du mit hoher Wahrscheinlichkeit keinen oder kaum Vorsätze davon umsetzen kannst, dadurch frustriert bist und schnell aufgibst.

Die Faustregel lautet sich maximal 3 Vorsätze für das gesamte Jahr zu suchen, die man auch wirklich ernsthaft umsetzen möchte. Wichtig: Passe bei der Formulierung auf, dass diese auch realistisch sind! Wenn du seit Jahren keinen Kilo abgenommen hast, ist es utopisch zu glauben, dieses Jahr 5 Kilo abspecken zu können. Wenn du von Natur aus ein unordentlicher Mensch bist, dann nehme dir nicht vor, ab jetzt eine blitzblank aufgeräumte Wohnung zu haben. Die Lösung liegt in den Kompromissen: Fange klein an, nehme dir nur 2 Kilo vor statt 5 oder dass du zumindest immer gleich die Küche nach dem Kochen aufräumst, anstatt gleich die ganze Wohnung.

2. Suche dir Verbündete

Wie wir wissen, ist alles gleich viel einfacher wenn man sich Verbündete sucht. Also erzähle möglichst vielen von deinen Vorsätzen und umgebe dich mit Menschen, die ähnliche Ziele verfolgen. Dann könnt ihr euch gegenseitig motivieren und eure Erfolge und Misserfolge untereinander austauschen. Du kannst auch einen eigenen Blog über das Erreichen deiner Vorsätze starten und kontinuierlich über deine Erfolge berichten.

Verbündete

3. Berichte anderen regelmäßig über deine Erfolge

Tatsächlich motiviert es einen enorm, wenn andere die eigenen Fortschritte verfolgen und man diese Personen nicht enttäuschen will. Bei Versagen kommt dann das Prinzip der „sozialen Sanktion“ ins Spiel, das man grundsätzlich gerne vermeidet. Das führt dazu, dass man sich in den meisten Fällen noch mehr anstrengt die Vorsätze zu erreichen. Probier’ es aus! Du wirst überrascht sein, wie gut es funktioniert!

4. Notiere dir deine Vorsätze und platziere sie passend

Es kann auch hilfreich sein, sich die eigenen Neujahrsvorsätze zu notieren und mit kleinen Merk-Zettelchen auf ausgewählte Stellen zu positionieren. An die Haustüre zum Beispiel ein: „Wie wär’s mit Laufen gehen?“, auf das Lesezeichen im Buch „Wolltest du nicht früher schlafen gehen, um morgen fit in den Tag zu starten?“ oder an die Kühlschranktür ein „Hast du wirklich noch Hunger oder ist dir nur langweilig?“. Wichtig dabei ist, dass man die Zettel jede Woche austauscht und auch ihre Position verändert. Das menschliche Gehirn gewöhnt sich nämlich erstaunlich schnell an diese Zettel und übersieht sie recht bald, da sie als Teil der „Einrichtung“ wahrgenommen werden.

Neujahrsvorsätze

5. Mache den Halbjahres-Check

Ein weiterer guter Tipp ist, dir einen Stichtag festzulegen an dem du überprüfst wie weit du mit der Umsetzung deiner Neujahrsvorsätze schon gekommen bist. Ziehe eine Zwischenbilanz für dich selbst und passe deine Vorsätze gegebenenfalls an. Dabei geht es jedoch nicht darum das Ziel runterzuschrauben, da du es ohnehin unmöglich noch erreichen kannst. Sondern vielmehr darum zu hinterfragen, ob der Vorsatz, den du dir zum Jahresanfang gestellt hast, überhaupt noch in dieser Form Sinn für dich macht? Manchmal verändern sich unsere Ziele im Laufe der Zeit und das ist auch gut so.

Du solltest dir unbedingt die Möglichkeit offen zu lassen, deine Vorsätze anzupassen oder diese umzuformulieren. Schließlich geht es darum am Ende des Jahres auf ein glückliches und erfolgreiches Jahr zurückblicken zu können. Da bringt es nichts starr an Zielen festzuhalten, die so vielleicht gar keinen Sinn mehr machen. Merke dir: Nichts ist in Stein gemeißelt und es ist in Ordnung seine Ziele neu abzustecken!

Ein kleiner Tipp zum Schluss

Formuliere deine Neujahrsvorsätze positiv! Untersuchungen von Marieke Adriaanse von der Universität in Utrecht haben ergeben, dass Verbote und Vermeidungsvorsätze genau das Gegenteil zur Folge haben! Der sogenannte „Ironie-Effekt“ bewirkt, dass wir genau das tun, was wir eigentlich vermeiden wollten. Also lieber positiv formulieren und dadurch das eigene Gehirn austricksen!

Wir wünschen dir viel Erfolg beim Einhalten deiner Vorsätze und denke daran, immer einen Schritt nach dem anderen zu gehen!

Guten Rutsch und einen motivierten Start ins neue Jahr,
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Every year, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions, hoping to spark positive change. The recurring themes each year include a more active approach to health and fitness, improved finances, and learning new things for personal and professional development. Chances are, more than a couple of the top 10 most common resolutions will look familiar to you:

  1. Exercise more
  2. Lose weight
  3. Get organized
  4. Learn a new skill or hobby 
  5. Live life to the fullest
  6. Save more money / spend less money
  7. Quit smoking
  8. Spend more time with family and friends
  9. Travel more
  10. Read more

Every year, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions, hoping to spark positive change. The recurring themes each year include a more active approach to health and fitness, improved finances, and learning new things for personal and professional development. Chances are, more than a couple of the top 10 most common resolutions will look familiar to you:

  1. Exercise more
  2. Lose weight
  3. Get organized
  4. Learn a new skill or hobby 
  5. Live life to the fullest
  6. Save more money / spend less money
  7. Quit smoking
  8. Spend more time with family and friends
  9. Travel more
  10. Read more

However once the glow of a fresh new year wears off, many people struggle to make good on their plans. According to a study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology, only 46% of people who made New Year’s resolutions were successful. That means over half of the people who set a goal for the new year will fail!

The study also involved non-resolvers, people who did not make a New Year’s resolution, but had a goal they wanted to achieve that year. Only 4% of non-resolvers were successful at achieving their goals, a far bleaker result than those who did make a New Year’s resolution.

Naturally, we don’t want to be in the camp of folks that fail to achieve their aspirations and dreams for 2019, so we’ve put together an exhaustive plan for following through on your resolution.

If you want to realize your New Year’s resolution this year, follow these 10 steps:

1. Mentally prepare for change

Changing ingrained habits is no easy task, so before diving head-first into your New Year’s resolution, it is important to take a step back and get ready for that impending change.

The first breakthrough in change is taking a personal inventory. Being that it’s the end of one year and the beginning of the next; it’s perfect timing to take stock in the past year’s accomplishments. Think about the following:

  1. What did I set out to do in the past year?
  2. Where did I make progress?
  3. Where didn’t I see progress?

Naturally, your resolution may focus on areas that lack progress, but don’t forget to savor the progress made, and find some small way to celebrate. Those happy feelings are useful! If possible, try to associate them with an object or word related to your accomplishment.

You will want to keep upbeat with your new resolution, so you can use that positive association with last year’s accomplishments to remind you of those good feelings when you are feeling challenged.

As you start thinking about the changes you want to implement, make sure to do the following:

  • Stay positive
  • Try not to make big/quick changes
  • Change should be gradual
  • Build on smaller changes
  • Allow a little room for error

2. Set a goal that motivates you

You would be surprised how often people set goals that are not for themselves. These goals could be dictated or coerced by a manager, spouse, or parental / peer pressure.

While it’s nice to have some external support, if you don’t share the same passion, the resolution has a small chance of succeeding and could even be dead on arrival.

To do this, you need to make sure the goal you set is important to you and only you and that there is value or benefit for you in achieving the goal. It is these two things that will provide the reason and willingness to take action. This is also known as motivation!

Thus, it’s a safe bet if your resolutions align with the following:

  • Your goals
  • Your priorities
  • Your dreams
  • Your aspirations

Not only should you align around your inner-most desires, but you should also make sure the resolutions align around your top priorities. This will lead to a “must do” attitude.

3. Limit resolutions to a manageable amount

A common mistake in resolution setting is having too many and spreading yourself too thin. We all want to learn 25 different languages, 15 new job skills, and eliminate 5 bad habits, but we are not superheroes. We only have so much attention span we can dedicate to self-improvement, so having too many resolutions is a great way not to achieve the many goals you have set out for yourself.

Thus, you should make a short list of resolutions that you can manage in the upcoming year. Knowing that short list of priorities is the hard part. The key here is understanding how to prioritize.

Here is an exercise that you can undertake to help you figure out what is most important in your life. All you need is a post-it pad, a pen, and a wall.

  1. Write anything you want to accomplish for self-improvement purposes on a post-it
  2. Each post-it only gets one discreet tactic
  3. Place each post-it on the wall
  4. Go crazy – use as many post-its as possible
  5. Group together similar post-its
  6. Place the topics you feel strongly about at the top of the wall
  7. Put the topics you feel “meh” about on the bottom
  8. Spend a lot of time thinking about the order of the first 3-5 post-it (groups)

As you might suspect, #8 is the most time-consuming, because it will determine what resolutions you are going to take on this year.

The final piece of the puzzle here is knowing your limitations and personal bandwidth. With that in mind, you should focus on your top priorities while balancing how much attention you can honestly devote to a resolution.

Final thought: It’s better to tackle one resolution well than multiple resolutions poorly.

4. Be specific

When it comes to setting resolutions, it’s easy to set bad goals that could lead to poor follow through. Fortunately, SMART goal setting framework can help you craft better goals.

SMART goals are:

  • Specific – Articulate the resolution as clearly as possible. For example, quitting smoking is better than being healthy. While “being healthy” is great, the wording can be interpreted in many ways.  
  • Measurable – Quantify your resolution if possible, i.e. I will lose 10% of my body weight.
  • Attainable – Choose a goal within the realm of possibility, but yet challenging. Making 100 friends this year would be amazing, but probably pretty hard to do. On the other, making 10 new friends is doable.
  • Relevant – Keep it relevant to your priorities and goals. See motivation section above!
  • Time-sensitive – Give yourself a time-frame in which to achieve a goal. A deadline will instill some urgency and provide a time when you can celebrate your success.

5. Break up big goals into smaller goals

A lot of us tend to be over eager and grandiose when it comes to resolutions. We have the best of intentions and may accidentally take on a goal that is too big to achieve. Thus, it’s helpful to divide a big goal into smaller goals that are more achievable.

Let’s say you are the leader of an alien race, and your resolution for 2019 is capturing the planet Earth. That is a huge goal!! You can’t just tell your intergalactic fleet of spaceships “take over planet Earth” and expect success.

You have to chunk up this big crazy feat into smaller more management accomplishments:

  1. Claim New York City
  2. Sack the Tri-state area of New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut
  3. Dominate Eastern Seaboard
  4. Capture the United States of America
  5. Occupy North America

Similarly, you can break up your year-long resolution into weekly or monthly goals. And have tasks planned for each month.

  1. January: North America
  2. March: South America
  3. May: European
  4. July: Asia
  5. September: Africa

By breaking your tactical plan into discrete steps, you now have a pretty good chance of world domination by the end of the year.

Now chunking up a big goal is easier said than done. Here are a few tips to help you make your massive goal more achievable:

  • Create a list of sub-tasks
  • Prioritize and order them
  • Use a visual map to display
  • Assign milestones to each task
  • Decide how much time each task requires
  • Allocate resources accordingly
  • Focus on the next step, not the big goal

6. Write down your goals

While it’s great to have goals, it is critical to document them in some way. Here are six reasons to write down your goals:

  1. They are easy to forget. While that may seem silly, we are human, and it is human to be easily distracted and forgetful.
  2. Writing down your resolutions helps you clarify what it is you want to achieve. It forces you to make decisions and be precise with your words.
  3. Writing establishes intention, but action needs to be taken to achieve your resolution. Having a written account of your goals is a constant reminder to take action.
  4. Written goals can act as a filter and guiding light for what opportunities to pursue. On any given day, there are a million decisions to make. When in doubt, refer to the goals you have set to dictate the way forward.
  5. Documented goals will help you overcome resistance to progress. We set goals to move forward, but there is a natural resistance to change. Your written goals spur you forward when you hit a speed bump or obstacle.
  6. Finally, written goals are a reminder of how far you have come and what you have achieved. It’s a nice feeling to look at back at the end of next year, and know your resolution has come to fruition. It’s a reason to crack open that bottle of champagne and celebrate.

Here are a few ways you can document your resolutions for 2019:

  • Write them in a journal
  • Draft an email to yourself
  • Store in Evernote or some other note-taking tool
  • Print and tape to the wall

7. Share your resolutions with others

“If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?”

It’s great to make a resolution for yourself and maybe even write it down, but if no one else knows about it, it’s easy to forget about or even ignore. And when you don’t achieve it, no one will notice or care.

On the flip side, your counterparts who decided to tell someone about their goal, feel something different. Now that they’ve gone public with their goal, they feel a sense of obligation and accountability. Essentially, if you don’t follow through, they are going to let everyone down.

Crazy as it sounds, this sense of guilt is often more powerful than self-motivation. The upshot here is that when you do succeed, the people you shared with will celebrate with you!

If you want to take goal sharing to the next level, you could organize a mastermind group. A mastermind group is a collection of highly motivated people who share a common goal and are looking to encourage and help each other improve.

How to do it:

  1. Find some kindred spirits with similar goals
  2. Meet regularly (weekly or monthly depending on level of commitment)
  3. Share setbacks and progress
  4. Stay motivated!

Now if you don’t have the time or inclination to do the above, another way to achieve the same result is to make a Facebook post declaring your intentions to all your friends. You can bet people will cheer you on and ask about your progress over the course of the year!

8. Automate where possible

A stitch in time saves nine.

The good news is you probably have technology in your pocket that can help you follow through on your resolution – automation in the form of reminder apps.

Nowadays there are a million different apps and services to help you follow through on your resolutions. These free tools can help provide a constant reminder:

  • Google Calendar: Set a recurring meeting tied to your resolution, i.e. scheduling workout sessions at the gym.
  • Google Now: Personal assistant that provides information as you need it.
  • Reminders (on iOS): Set up timed alerts for tasks.
  • Boomerang for Gmail: Schedule reminder emails to yourself (Freemium).

On top of these commonly used apps, there are also “to-do list” and task management apps that have the ability to schedule reminders and milestones. Here are a few popular choices:

  1. Asana
  2. Trello
  3. Todoist
  4. Microsoft To Do
  5. Omnifocus
  6. Things

Note: All of these apps listed above won’t help you do the work, but they do serve a constant reminder of the work that needs to be done.

9. Review your resolution regularly

Let’s face it, if you are not thinking about your resolution regularly, you are not going to follow through. Thus, a crucial part of realizing your goal is a regular review.

At a minimum, this review should be monthly, but the more frequent the better.

Here’s one way to build in goal review into your routine.

  1. Schedule a monthly “big picture” review during the first week of each month. This will serve as a planning meeting where you distribute smaller tasks and goals to different weeks throughout the month.
  2. Do a weekly check-in to check progress on the monthly goal.
  3. Set a daily reminder for smaller resolution tasks.

It may seem a little crazy to think about your resolution every single day, but it is those smaller incremental steps that lead to massive changes over the course of a single year.

10. If you fall off track, get back on quick

Rome was not built in a day.

We’ve established it will take time for your resolution to become a reality and we know change is difficult. In fact, we’ve already established we should leave some room for mistakes and setbacks.

Keep the following ideas in mind:

  • Skipping an intermediate task is not a complete failure
  • Missing a goal by 10% or even 80% is not a complete failure
  • Finishing a task late is not a complete failure
  • A moment of weakness is meaningless in the grand scheme of things

Setbacks can happen, but so long as they are handled correctly, they will not impact the big goal. The key is to avoid a defeatist attitude at all costs, i.e. “Well I screwed up once, why should I even try to do this anymore.

And if there is a setback, it’s important to understand what lead to that moment, and how you can avoid a similar situation in the future, i.e. “If I play video games after work, I will not go to the gym. Don’t play video games after work!”

Once a mistake is made, own it and move on to the next thing. For example, if you skipped a study session, make it up tomorrow, and keep on moving. A few small mistakes shouldn’t spoil your resolution for the year!

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L’inizio del nuovo anno spesso va di pari passo con la voglia di rinnovarsi e di predisporsi ai mesi successivi nel migliore dei modi. Si ha voglia di cambiare qualcosa, di buttarsi alle spalle tutte le difficoltà del vecchio anno per circondarsi di energia positiva.

La lista

Il modo migliore che molte persone adottano per cominciare con il piede giusto il nuovo anno è quello di stilare una lista di buoni propositi.

Il problema qual è? L’intenzione è buona, ma spesso la volontà cede e tali propositi spesso si perdono nella routine quotidiana che, a dispetto dell’anno nuovo, ricomincia implacabile.

I rischi

Soprattutto chi è scontento della propria quotidianità tende a immaginare il nuovo anno come l’occasione decisiva per cambiare in modo sostanziale ciò che non va. L’occasione può anche essere sfruttata, ma bisogna farlo nel miglior modo possibile, altrimenti il rischio è che porsi obiettivi troppo grandi possa far fallire miseramente tutte le migliori intenzioni. Un fallimento di questo tipo ha poi conseguenze negative sulla propria autostima e tutte le convinzioni positive sul futuro iniziano a vacillare.

Obiettivi fattibili

Ecco che porsi obiettivi troppo generici come: smettere di fumare, dimagrire, cambiare o trovare lavoro, andare in palestra, conoscere nuove persone, ecc. risulta dispersivo e alla fine fallimentare per la maggior parte delle persone.

Può essere utile però sfruttare il momento e la voglia di cambiamento, quindi è fondamentale stabilire una lista di obiettivi fattibili.

Il rischio di fallire

Come prima cosa è necessario capire cosa si ha davvero voglia di cambiare della propria vita, senza seguire i desideri o i suggerimenti altrui. Infatti la motivazione è alla base della riuscita di questo programma, se questa non è sufficiente la probabilità di fallire è alta.

Non c’è poi cosa più rischiosa come quella di porsi obiettivi esagerati che portano solo a finire in una spirale di propositi, fallimenti e ancora nuovi propositi che però non porta a nessun risultato ma piuttosto ad un grande senso di frustrazione.

Precisione nel definire gli obiettivi

Per aumentare la probabilità di successo, gli obiettivi prefissati devono essere precisi e ben organizzati passo per passo. Ad esempio, se un obiettivo riguarda fare una vita meno sedentaria e più attiva, si può stilare una lista di tanti step: non prendere l’ascensore ma fare le scale tutti i giorni, iscriversi ad un corso di uno sport che piace oppure in palestra individuando immediatamente i giorni e gli orari per praticare attività motoria. Quasi nulla deve essere lasciato al caso o alla voglia del momento perché la motivazione rischia di cedere con il tempo.

Motivazione

Resistere alla tentazione di rimanere a casa e andare in palestra conquistando così quella regolarità così utile al fisico e alla psiche, rende più forti e piano piano si inizia a fare propria la capacità di procrastinare una gratificazione nel presente con la chiara visione di una ricompensa futura che diventa sempre più raggiungibile.

Condividere

È necessario mettere in conto anche qualche piccola sconfitta, ma questa deve solo rendere più forti senza interrompere la propria determinazione.

In questo possono essere d’aiuto anche gli altri. Infatti condividere con qualche persona cara ciò che si ha intenzione di fare fornisce un supporto emotivo che è utile per migliorare la propria motivazione.

Anche monitorare i passaggi fatti nel tempo aiuta a capire se si è sulla strada giusta così da aumentare la fiducia in se stessi e in ciò che si sta facendo. Se si capisce invece di aver sbagliato qualcosa si è sempre in tempo a modificare il proprio percorso ma senza cambiare i migliori propositi.

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