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What is Sacred Sexuality?

Shekina Loves — Mon, 03 Jun 2019 08:47:34 +0000

What’s involved with sacred sexuality? That’s a big question with an even bigger answer. VOLUMES have been written on the subject over centuries….. a quick answer is tough, but let’s say sacred sex seeks to have us humans engage in sexual activity from our highest most honorable selves. When we engage in sexual activity from our lower/animal selves, like the animals, it’s pure instinct, all about getting our needs/ drives met, with no compassion for how “the other” may feel. When we engage in sexual activity from our higher/ divine selves we intend to only engage in activities that will truly heal “the other” and wouldn’t dream of having ourselves receive bliss if “the other” didn’t completely and deeply and truly desire what we ask of them.
Also, sacred sex seeks to stimulate sexual energy (energy of creation) and then have it rise up the spine, awakening spiritual centers in the brain.
Sacred sex can help heal physical ailments, as well as spiritual, emotional, and psychological issues.

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The Disconnect Between the Heart and the Genitals

Shekina Loves — Thu, 05 Oct 2017 16:29:48 +0000

Until we are able to heal this painfully unsatisfying situation by reconnecting the heart to the genitals through the third chakra which is our power center we are unable to actually make love.
In society, the problem is two-fold as women are shamed heavily for being too sexual and/or for desiring sexual exploration. Meanwhile, men are heavily shamed for being too emotional, or feeling their emotions deeply.
A woman who dares explore her sexuality, either consciously or unconsciously, may be the subject of shaming amongst those who know her. “There goes Carly again with a new boyfriend, how many is that so far this year?” “Watch out for Janet she’s a real slut” or even by total strangers, “OMG did you see what that woman is wearing? Has she no shame?”
And to a man who makes a sensitive comment.. “OK Suzy, we get it” or ” Ok ma’am, don’t get your panties in a bunch”
This societal shaming can often be the root cause behind women who cannot orgasm. Her heart is feeling love, and she wants to have a good sexual experience, but she is often not able to feel safe enough in front of her lover because of unconscious fears of slut-shaming and judgment. Meanwhile the man she’s with is often unable or afraid to be overly sensitive because of his own conscious or unconscious fears of being judged as less of a man, so he stays a macho man, pushing forward for sex as the ultimate manly conquest.

A woman can sense when a man’s primary goal is her submission to his penetration,(so he can feel like the macho conquering man) just as a man can tell when a woman’s primary goal is to control him through her acquiescing to sex. (If I have sex with you- you owe me, you must do as I say, support me in ALL ways and never look at another woman again.)

The key to helping a woman orgasm is to honor her heart and make her feel so extremely safe that she trusts you to open sexually and the key to having a man genital Gap is to honor him for being a man and have him trust you so much that you think being a man is a good thing I’m not a necessary evil and that you won’t shame him if he does display extreme sensitivity. It’s okay if she’s a crazy b**** it’s okay if all he has on his mind is sex. Both sexes are shamed for being in both their heart chakra highly emotional in the root or second chakra highly sexual women are shamed more heavily for being sexual and men are shamed more heavily for being emotional so men Retreat to their sexuality women retreat to their heart to resolve this you honor a man for his sexuality and a woman for her heart.
there are physical exercises one can do on one’s own to physically and metaphysically resolve the pathway between the he art and the genitals. the best exercise I have come across for this is sat kriya. Our third chakra power Center is our Naval Center and sat kriya absolutely addresses this.
sat krya is said to bring the lower energy centers, survival sexuality power up through our bodies and into the higher, throat third eye crown. the heart is the bridge between the lower early and upper heavenly energy centers. we can assist in this with visualization, touch, intention, and by using our pelvic floor power, (seat of the soul?)to pump that energy upwards. often sounding the tone ahhhhhh can physically help all the sphincters in the human body to relax, allowing the energy to flow through the body unconstrained.

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We All Heal Together

Shekina Loves — Fri, 30 Jun 2017 10:19:15 +0000

It’s a fact. While independence is certainly more desirable than dependence, interdependence is the highest model for creating the most abundant, healthy, blissful life possible. We need each other on all levels to thrive physically, emotionally, financially, sexually and spiritually.

Do you wish to release negative patterns, habits, injuries, or illness from your life? Here at Blissfully Aware, I have some great Tantric and Spiritual tools I’d like to share with you for bringing your issues into your conscious awareness, and then working on, and releasing them.

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E.F.T. Certification!

Shekina Loves — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 14:37:00 +0000

I am only 2 hours away from my E.F.T. (Emotional Freedom Technique) certification now! Coupled with my Reiki Master Teacher Certification and my extensive QiGong experience, and Divination Gifts, I am soooo ready to begin serving the world, by following my JOY!

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