Is she in a certain age group? Does she work out regularly? Athletic? Consider everything you can think of!

Now, what personality type does your dream woman have? Is she outgoing or shy? Does she love to go out and socialize, or is she more of a homebody type that loves to cook and sew? Is she a lady or a tramp? Or a little of both? Write down anything you WANT. What are her music and food preferences? Does she like sporting events? Nightclubs? Traveling? Shopping? Does she like animals? Children? Does she have any children? Does she have a career? Is she a student?

You will find definite traits and requirements that you’re looking for in a woman. Don’t feel shy or guilty about these requirements. Never feel ashamed for who you are and for what you want. There are many kinds of women out there, and many of them will meet your demands. You need to decide your minimum requirements. You also need to figure out which qualities or attributes you are willing to compromise.

As you progress through meeting and dating different types of women your ideal woman may lose or adopt new qualities. You must stay focused on what you want, even if that keeps changing, to progress in a positive direction. By knowing what you want, you’ll be able to eliminate undesirable types of women. You want to meet and get women you desire with little hassles or wasted efforts.

If you have answered the questions honestly, you should know more about who you are and what you are looking for. I’ll bet that if you look over your analysis, you’ll find that the woman you want has similar physical and personality traits as yourself. No doubt she shares similar interests and values, and she probably likes guys like you. The information gathered here will be used later on to advance your plan to pick up and seduce the woman (or women!) of your dreams. If you have not yet gone through and answered the questions above in writing!

Then, STOP whatever you’re doing and answer them NOW!

It is in your own best interest to know who you are and what you want. Below, we talk about what women want. So you need to know what you have going for and what you might have to change to become more attractive and approachable to women. Now that you know what YOU want, it’s time for you to figure out what women want. Once you know what she wants, you can begin fine-tuning your behavior to better your odds of getting Miss Right. Once you know what she wants, you then have the power to appeal to any woman and make her want you.

Women Will No Longer Be a Mystery!

For most women, it seems we hit a soft spot. In taking on this project our purpose wasn’t to put women down or to put them in check. Instead, it was to explain in-depth the fronts that many women unconsciously put up, the emotional processes that motivate their actions towards you, how to play off their emotional processes to make them think you’re the man, how to recognize the signs of a girl that’s leading you on, and then how to make her fall for you when you do.

This is THE DATING GUIDE TO END ALL DATING GUIDES. Women nowadays have a lot of attitudes, and if you’re a single guy, there’s a lot you need to know if you want a relationship or just a one-night affair. The truth is, women like the attention they get from guys, and that’s why many of them go from one to the next. You have probably seen this for yourself. Susie Homemaker is a thing of the past. Many of today’s young women are manipulative and scandalous and

most guys have found out the hard way.

Unfortunately, when we look to buy anything, we try to find out what we are looking for. But when it comes to a dating partner, many of us have no clue what kind of person will satisfy them. Let us look at some qualities that may specify your partner.

Physical – Are you looking for a great specimen? A smashing looker? Will you be happy, even if the other person is lacking in intelligence but has a great body? Or do you need more intelligence and an Ok, body? Are you prepared to compromise on looks if your partner is otherwise good, or good looks are a must? Please think hard and decide.

Emotional – What should be the emotional makeup of your partner? Will you be emotionally satisfied only if you find a caring partner? Or do you need someone for who you will care? Should your partner have his/her emotions ruling over the head? Are you looking for a compassionate person or someone tough and emotionally strong? Someone who begins crying looking at a miserable scene or one who will say – this is what life is and walk away? Emotions rule every facet of our life. We must know our emotional makeup and the emotions we desire in our partner. Please prepare a long list of questions about emotions you desire your partner to have in plenty and try to find out before you proceed further. If your partner is short-tempered and if you hate anger, you will never love him/her. Am I correct? Please define your priorities.

Intellectual – Will anyone with normal intellect satisfy you or do you need someone who can write volumes on any given subject. What is your intellectual level, and what kind of partner are you seeking in this area? Please decide very carefully about this. This quality is many times responsible for destroying relationships. Sometimes, people of average intellect manage to attract someone of very high intellect and then suffer from this complexity all through their life.

Goals – What are your values in life? What are your goals about money, children, family life, and other areas? If your partner has different values and life goals, it will be destroyed right from day one.

If we know what we are looking for, we present ourselves as thinking individuals who know their minds to any dating partner. You will be respected for that and will surely attract the one you desire.

Women, on their part, are not fascinated by insecure, hypocritical, wussy men. They will either decline him on the spot or possibly more shocking, take advantage of the situation by exploiting him to furnish her meal after meal, gift after gift, and normally go out with an additional man for real love, romance, and sex.

The good boy, fawning, wussy approach may be seen Whenever a man is inviting a woman to dance or offer to pay for her drinks a drink without first developing the attraction or chemistry.

Is Cocky rather than Wussy is the answer?
The sweet boy attitude isn’t the best way, as we explained before, and acting mean and rude will not succeed as well. The best way, which has proven 90% of the time to work magically with women is the confident, bold, cocky, and funny attitude.

In this tactic you build the relationships on a give and take, a compliment and a bust (with a smile), you indicate the woman you’re confident enough to criticize her, you express yourself naturally around women, you are not scared of her, you are not concerned if she cares about you or not, you’re honest and express your opinions openly, you are playing the self-assured hard to get the funny guy. Now you bring her self-confidence to the test, you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction. Let her chase you! You ought to be her prize, a reward for her hard-earned efforts for playing her cards right with you.

For instance, you start and say something like: I like your jacket, it’s nice (a compliment), then comment: but it doesn’t fit so well with your shoes does it? (a bust), you do it on purpose, you should practice on it.
Manipulate her, like hand it to her and then take it away in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser, and fascinating.

How would you know if she is interested in you?
It’s simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you’re wearing, I like them, She is looking who is it and then say: Thank you. You: arent you melting in them in such hot weather? (smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She: (smiling) hell, no, I love them, that’s all, I’ll bet my feet are nicer compared to yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded, therefore, she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you own a very good opinion about yourself, pretty lady, why won’t we arrange a feet contest…
The crucial thing is to keep it going with a light humoristic and fun attitude. Without ever even realizing it, you are both engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual attraction.

When you start dating a woman, take into account you are not on a job interview. Don’t cause it to feel like questions and answers, don’t make it boring, don’t try to show off, talk with her about general stuff she understands and sympathizes with, such as popular Television shows and such. It can look too superficial in the beginning, but this is the way to take it. Try to keep away from, at least at first, talking about your problems at work, your relations with your parents, etc.

What do you look for in a guy? How will you recognize a good relationship? What can you do to help a good relationship develop and grow? Let me give you three things necessary for healthy relationships of any kind. These three things are respect, empathy, and genuineness.
I believe that you know what is meant by respect. When people have respect for each other, they value each other. They want to know each other’s needs, thoughts, and opinions. There may be disagreements, but the opposing opinion is respected and even valued, if only because the opinion is important to the other person. This can be hard to do at times. It is related to maturity. As we mature, we are better able to hold respect for others.

Think about respect as you date different people. Show respect for your date. Does he show respect for you? Is he interested in your opinions? Does he ask what you would like to do or where you would like to go? These are signs of respect.

Empathy is a wonderful trait to develop. Empathy is the ability to put oneself in the other person’s shoes and to understand their view and perception of a situation. This ability may not come naturally. Fortunately, it is a skill that can be developed. Just start practicing by imagining that you are the other person in a conversation. Try to see their point of view. Try to think like them to understand better. You can even practice this while watching television. Try to put yourself in the various characters’ shoes. Try to see each person’s viewpoint and why they are different.
Does your date show empathy? Does he listen to what you say? Is he able to verbalize your ideas and see your point of view? These things indicate empathy. If two people can provide empathy for each other, conflicts are more easily resolved. Add respect to the relationship, and things are even better. The result is a relationship that will uplift and compliment both persons.

Genuineness relates to both respect and empathy. You have to be yourself in the relationship. Don’t try to put up a front and pretend to be someone else. Just be you, with plenty of empathy and respect. If you are not genuine, it will eventually show, and it is a turn-off for most people. When you show respect, it must be genuine. When you show empathy, it must be real.

Genuineness may be a little shaky early on in the relationship because you will both be on your best behavior. With time the façade will drop, and hopefully, you can both just be yourselves.

Respect, empathy, genuineness, and move toward making them a part of your relationships. Even better, make them a way of life.

This happens with many of us. Out of two partners, one takes a unilateral decision to break away and does not inform the other. There may be many reasons for going cold, including finding somebody else. But is it worthwhile chasing the cold date anymore?

No. But most breakaway partners don’t say so clearly, and the change in relationship is not spelled out. That causes a problem for a time. This is surely unethical. One should never behave like this. But you can do nothing about it.

You have no option but to wait for some time and then ask a straight question. Are we separate now? Are you no longer interested in meeting me? After getting a clear yes, begin again. Don’t ponder and worry over why the earlier person behaved so strangely. Some people are like that.

Imagine, if you had got married to somebody so unethical and unreliable?
This kind of behavior certainly shocks. But there is no use. Try to recover as soon as you can. This time, be more careful selecting your new dating partner and hope for the best. Despite many failures, success always comes. That is right. Please claim it.