Prayer is the master key to open any door you desire regarding your marriage and relationships.

CHRIST THE HOME BUILDER 

MESSAGE BY PASTOR ANTHONY

A house is built but a home is made. A house can be given as a gift without no input from you. A home is only made by you and your spouse and subsequently your children / families.

Let me go back to the garden of Eden, Adam do not have a part in the choice of the garden which is likened to the house, but he was given the mandate to keep it which is likened to a home. Keeping it is now premise on how he wants to go about it. It becomes Adam prerogative. God has given all of us that prerogative to make our homes the way we want. E.G use the colleague at work. GM

God is the architect . We all know the role of an architect.

He is the master planner, Whatever the labourers are putting up, it must be in line with the architect draws. Architect don’t compromise their concept or plan. Jeremiah 1 vs 5. Therefore no matter how we go about our union or relationship. Let us be sure it is in line with God’s concept for that particular union.

Each couples have different capacity and capability which we are all aware of therefore you cannot copy or imitate your colleagues , friends or even family. Each Union is designed to be progressive and full of joy. Whenever we realise, some of the ingredients that makes a union progressive is lacking we need to re-appraise and step back a bit

Lets highlight and relate it to the subject

Psalm 127 vs 1- except the Lord builds the house ———

What does it take to build a house and to make a home in relation to marriage and relationship

You can see a house but you don’t only see a home , you feel it

Have you visited a family and you enter the house, very good and lovely. Very accommodating and the occupier either both spouses or one of the spouses try as much as they can in their hospitality but you can still perceive that something is not right even without the host telling you anything.

Houses can easily be seen or assessed but home is a bit more challenging. And majority of problems affecting marriages and relationships is not from the house perspective but from the home’s.

Let us take a house as our physical frames. God gives none of us a choice but created us as He desires or in relation to His choice that is why some are tall or short or light skinned or dark skinned or caucusian or whatever. But now gave us the choice to go for what we desire or want

It is now those desire that influences our choices. While at the same time accumulate over a period to influence the way we make our homes or input into the kind of home we have.

We need to be guided as majority believes that now I am this or that / grown up and can journey through life independently. Ezra 8 vs 21-23. And Ezra proclaim a fast to seek from God guidance for the right way for us, the little ones and all our substance. Our loving God gives us so much independence that He will just be looking at us when we decide to go far from Him, to continue. Unfortunately most of us don’t quickly realise how far we have gone from Him until a big gap-hole is already created in our homes . This is also applicable with the singles. Every package of blessings from God comes with what you need to do to get the delivery.

We have all heard about the statement – as you lay your bed, so you lie on it. No one will come to make your home for you.

INGREDIENTS to build a home. First we need to understand that it is impossible for a home to be built by one person, there must be a helper. Same in marriage it takes the two to input their all : Not only the best. In marriage you don’t put your best, you put your all.

Faithfulness & Dedication: involves your feeling and the commitment that you will still give all even if your spouse is not changing or presenting what you want at any particular time

Communication—Romance / sexual  —Peace——Finance —-Joy–Trust–Honesty etc

Two biggest sinker of marriage / relationship or homes in general is

Adultery and bad association. Type of friends you sit with determines your seat

These two also has link to the garden of Eden. This is the genesis of marital challenges / tribulation.
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EMPOWERMENT TO FLOURISH IN MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP

Message by Pastor Anthony Emmanuel

There are two forces that operates in this world or on earth viz
The Forces of God and
The Forces of Evil
The two forces function or operate in opposition to each other. While one force operates on the truth the other operates on lies while one gives life the other stifle life off you
Unfortunately, we all have a choice of the force we want to operate in our lives. Also in the same vein, none of the forces can force its way unto us. You cannot choose to be in the middle of these two forces. Joshua 24 vs 14 – “Choose ye this day whom ye will serve —–”
Malachi 3 vs 17 – And there will be a discernment between those that serve Him and those that serve Him not
2 occassions we confess that choice is the day we gave our life to Christ (salvation) and on the altar on the day we all get married is another day of confession and showing of choice that we are in God’s camp. While you are say saying “Yes I do” to your husband, you are also automatically saying “Yes I do” to God.

Now a word of advice to the singles, while in relationship or still courting you begin to monitor and observe the actions and utterances of the person you are going out with. I am talking of both the man and the woman. It should not be only the prerogative of the woman that will be chasing and following up the man – not dong this on the foundation of “I don’t trust him or her” that you will now be phoning with 100 missed calls that becomes a harassment. Such is not a solid foundation. I am talking about subtle checking on information giving to you and finding out that something is not right. For example – when still dating my wife I am privilege to know her programmes / activities. I know when she is at a programme in church and when she finishes work. What I do is once in a while I call using the time frame I know she should be at home. When you do this and the other person is always found giving excuses or reasons every time that he/she is not ——–, then signs of unreliability begins to show. And you begin to find partners lying and trying to defend their lies. At that stage you need to begin to reassess the relationship as to which of the forces the person is under. It is not possible for the two-opposing camp to unite or be married. Why? The forces you are under coordinates your life and what happens in your home.

This is not to say that there are not situations when people get married working under the force of God and the force of evil not try to start tempting one of the spouses gradually into its camp. When this start happening you are never blindfolded, you will notice it. Please my sisters and brothers, you speak out quickly (not in anger) but as subtle as the issue is creeping in, you call your spouse to tell of your observation. This is for amendment to be able to be made quickly. Our father in the faith used to say “A closed mouth is a closed destiny”. Some marital destiny have been destroyed by broken homes due to the spouse
just keeping quiet, believing he/she will change but rather the person goes deeper and farther into the other camp
The Bible says in Luke 10 vs 19- “I have given you power to tread upon serpent and scorpion and nothing will by no means hurt you” this is the “Empowerment” we will be talking about. When two believers are involved in a relationship or are married, the fundamental power in relation to the covenant is already released / delivered to them. It is now for us to start using the arsenals available in the camp. The bible says two very profound statement in Matthew 16 vs 18 “ And I will build my church ———” Do we know that we are the church and not the building. That is why He says our body is the temple of God. The 2nd statement Matthew 18 vs 20 “ where 2 or 3 are gathered in my name there I am in the midst of them”. These are very 2 fundamental principles that marriage and relationship and homes operates to flourish. Jeremiah 29 vs 11 “ For I know the thoughts that I think towards you saith the Lord thoughts of peace—-. Also 3 John vs 2 “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper ——–” .

• The intension of God is for marriages and relationship to flourish and continually move forward. That is why every creation is made or design – for example the eyes, nose, feet etc to operate in a forward manner. Therefore, naturally every union or relationship should be flourishing i.e moving forward. We have all being given that power or all being empowered on equal measure to flourish. The way we now use the power is what differs or our understanding of the level of power or empowerment that resides in us to accomplish all that we desire in our marriage and relationship. A marriage that is flourishing will have the following :
• Fruitfulness,
• Peace, John 14 vs 27
• joy,
• Finance & prosperity,
• romance,
• honesty,
• trust,
• good sexual relationship,
• respect . This is where most of us African men is found wanton. Explain about God bringing Adam a helper. A helper is always stronger, resilient, etc

Things to do to

Things to do to continually continually to to enjoy that empowermentenjoy that empowerment anand d consequently flourishingconsequently flourishing
1. Prayer- A family that prays together stays together
2. Spending time together will improve communication and constructive communication is like food to relation . For example in the garden of Eden, God comes down in fellowship with Adam before creation of Eve. It emphasises the importance of spending to time together. Some bible scholars even said that if Adam had been with Eve, we wont have been in the position we are today.

Points of note

There is the law of seed time and harvest. What you sow is what you reap. For a marriage or relationship to flourish there must be something deposited or sown.
Everything working is because there are people working behind to make it work. A system not empowered is a system that fails. The same with a man or woman not empowered is one that can fail. We can relate it to our environment. How do you feel when there is no power or light i.e in the general context what we call electricity, to some the effect is stand still, to some things can still work but very slowly, some it can lead to death. Even before creation that is why God brought light first. That is power taking the lead before creation now started
If you fake it you wont make it
Philemon 1 vs 4- God said without your mind I can do nothing

As a man thinketh in his heart so is he. The success or strength of your marriage is determined by you. If you see successful marriage or relationship no matter your union will be successful. For example Joshua and Caleb saw successful entry into the promised land among the 12, and indeed the two entered,
Abraham saw as well and he became exactly what he saw
Look at Joseph he saw himself on top did he succeed or not even in the midst of challenges to thwart the destiny
Why is it so ; The tower of Babel sums it up.

Limitations / Hindrances to Flourishing or Empowerment
1. Bad Association. Amos 3 vs 3
2. Bitterness leading to no joy (Deuteronomy 28 vs 47-48, Habbakuk 3vs17, Joel 1 vs 12), lack of peace, consequently death
Until our mind changes things will not change. Until you align with God’s way of thinking, God’s desire may not be accomplished. Matthew 12:33-35. Proverbs 23:7
Your mindset determines you life set. Genesis 11vs 6
Philemon 1 vs 14: God cannot do anything without your mind. Let’s look at the story of the tower of Babel.
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THE POWER OF AGREEMENT 

By Pastor Anthony

Agreement is the switch for any light to come on in a home or relationship. And when it is on darkness disappears.
Analogy of Agreement compares to the black and red cable that requires connection to generate power. Without the two coming together they are powerless, the moment they connect they can burn or electrocute anything.
If you need power in your marriage in your home then agreement is what you need. If you want to fend off against the attack of the enemies enter into agreement with your spouse, If you want a shield around you and your family that other cannot comprehend what is happening , always ensure that you reach agreement with your spouse on almost all issues.
John 10 vs 10- the devil has come to steal, kill and destroy. Show the example by calling out 2 couples one in agreement and the other not —————. How easy for devil to access a home with no agreement.
What is agreement / Explanation/ Definition

The power of agreement is one of the most important themes we find in the bible. This is particularly true when it comes to marriage. Words like “agreement”, “unity”, “oneness”, “being one” and “covenant”, are meant to convey powerful word pictures to encourage us to choose this blessed way of alignment for ourselves. Jesus himself through the entirety of John 17 fervently prays that oneness would be a reality in the lives of all that would follow after him.
Various definitions: it is a negotiated and typically legally binding arrangement between parties as to a course of action. It is the absence of incompatibility between two things
Most occasion the indigenous people uses Partner to describe their spouse rather than husband and wife. This makes me look at the meaning of partner – It states . One that is united or associated with another or others in an activity or a sphere of common interest.

It is amazing that Jesus uses the word agreement to describe our relationships. Use references & scriptural examples
][ The Greek word is sumphoneo. Sum is the word together, and phoneo is voice or say. We get our word symphony from this word. It means to let the same word of faith go forth from all of us in harmony. Every instrument in an orchestra is different, but when all the instruments are led by a capable conductor, the music is miraculous. This is the kind of harmony that is sweet to the ears of God. This kind of relationship makes miracles possible. God loves this kind of unity
The foundation of every marriage is agreement, Amos 3 vs 3: Can 2 walk together except they agree. Meaning there is a level of agreement even when man and woman are still courting

Marriage is one of the greatest partnerships on the planet! A husband and wife that walk in agreement can achieve great things. Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NLT) says, “Two people are better off
than one, for they can help each other succeed.” Being in agreement doesn’t mean you’ll always see things the same way. It means you have a common goal and purpose, and together, you help each other succeed.
Agreement is a powerful tool in building a marriage.
It is essential for you and your spouse to be fully aware that you are partners in your marriage-building process. As partners, one of the most powerful tools you have is the power of agreement.
When you and your spouse get in agreement, you will start to see amazing things happen. Matthew 18:19-20 (NKJV) says, “Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them
The goal for you and your spouse is agreement in thinking. Philippians 2:2 (NIV) talks about “being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose.”
The farther apart a couple is in their thinking, the farther apart they will grow in their marriage relationship. However, that doesn’t mean you will always see things eye-to-eye. It means that when it comes to planning and building your life together, you are of one mind, headed in the same direction with the same goals. There is nothing more satisfying than accomplishing goals together!

Love agreements are real. You make them, and you carry them out. Once you have made these love agreements in your heart, the day-to-day behavior will begin to follow. As you make love agreements with your husband or wife, you will see different behaviors and attitudes show up in your marriage. Aiming at higher standards of behavior opens us up to improvement.
God has given each one of us the power to make and carry out our agreements. We choose whether we are going to invest this power in a positive agreement or a destructive one. The events of September 11, 2001, began when one heart determined to make an agreement to hate and kill others. Yet, it was also the power that Mother Theresa invested in a positive agreement that enabled her to love the millions of unlovable people whose lives she touched for good in India. God created both individuals, and each had one heart. Both made agreements in their hearts, and both successfully carried out those agreements. You too have a heart—a great big heart capable of incredible constructive or destructive agreements.
There are varieties of agreements be it financial, business, career, holiday, parenting etc
The agreements that you and your spouse make regarding your relationship, which I call love agreements, are critical which I will concentrate on for this retreat.

The love agreements you make or don’t make in your life can be the difference between having a great loving marriage or a distant, cold marriage
Your love agreements will show up in your day-to-day behavior. Day in and day out, you will live out the agreements you make.
These seven love agreements will expose you to greater intimacy with God and with your spouse. Love agreements don’t guarantee instant results, but they launch us on a process of bettering the marriage relationship. The process works best when wife and husband choose the behaviors together. But one partner can make the agreements solo as a way of drawing closer to his or her spouse. The love agreements are not once-and-for-all promises. As humans, sometimes we fail to be patient or kind. It’s better to review and renew the agreements frequently. One day at a time builds true love and intimacy.

The Seven Love Agreements

Faithfulness: I will be faithful to my spouse at all times in all circumstances.
Patience: I will not try to change things about my spouse that I do not like but will modify any of my behaviors that annoy my partner.
Forgiveness: When I have offended my spouse, I will quickly ask for forgiveness, and I will forgive my spouse’s offenses in my heart even before being asked.
Support / service: I will anticipate my spouse’s spiritual, emotional, physical and material needs and will do everything I can to meet them.
Respect: I will not act or speak in a way that ridicules or embarrasses my spouse.
Kindness: I will be kind to my spouse, eliminating any trace of meanness from my behavior and speech.
Appreciation / Celebration: I will appreciate my spouse’s gifts and attributes and celebrate them personally and publicly.
When you fully understand these seven love agreements, you can direct or correct the course of your marriage. When you understand the love agreements, you realize you can make heartfelt choices that orient your will to act more Christianly toward your spouse.

Everyone has heard the saying, “if you aim at nothing, you’ll hit it.” I’ve heard several motivational speakers and pastors express the need for focus or aiming for goals.
Take time with your spouse and write down some goals for your marriage and family that you can get in agreement on. Pray and confess the Word over them. As you walk together in agreement, there is nothing you can’t accomplish together!

CHALLENGES

Envying, strife and divisions had reduced believers to the natural, or carnal, state that they were in before they were born again. It had so stunted their spiritual growth that they couldn’t understand the things or appreciate the benefits of unity / agreement
Satan has sent the same spirit of division among us today. He knows that a house divided against itself will fall. Matthew 12:25, KJV: 25 And Jesus knew their thoughts, and said unto him, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself shall not stand
He also knows if we all come together in the unity of our faith, we’ll arrive at the full stature of Christ Jesus (Ephesians 4:13). So, he has assigned a spirit of division to operate in our personal lives, our church lives, our social lives and our family lives.
When God says one will chase a thousand and 2 to chase 10000, it takes agreement for that to manifest or come to pass.
The Bible says that a double-minded man is unstable in all his ways (James 1:8)

ISSUE OF PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENT.
What satan did- Divide and Conquer
Satan has always deceived believers and nonbelievers into a self-centered narcissism that has brought destruction and waste. When you follow the enemy’s tracks, his goal is always to divide and conquer.
In Eden, Satan brought death, dealing division to Adam and Eve and plunging the human race into the fall. At Babel, Satan sought to use the miracle principle of unity to lead another rebellion against God. The ancient ruler Nimrod sought to usurp God’s throne, as had Satan, by building a tower. Consequently, division came and the nations began to war against each other.
The division of Jacob’s sons and the selling of Joseph into slavery led to famine and shortage for Israel. This would only be remedied by the restoration of these brothers.
The captivities of both Israel and Judah took place after their division into two separate kingdoms under Jeroboam and Rehoboam. Israel could mark its decline from that breach in family relationship.
When Jesus arrived on the scene, the faith of Abraham was divided into Pharisees and Sadducees. They had wrecked the faith, and now the nation lived in slavery under Herod and Rom

The Benefits of agreement as stated in scriptures
Strength
Ecclesiastes 4:12 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
A bundle of sticks cannot be broken. If the strands in the broom do not agree you cannot sweep with it.
An ant does not have strength to kill except when they are in numbers.
Encouragement
Ecclesiastes 4:10 If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!
Success/ Hood dividend
Ecclesiastes 4:9 two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:
Defense
Ecclesiastes 4:12a … And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him
Faith Booster
When at least two people agree, it means we are joining or faith together.
Overcomes our limitations
Scriptures supporting agreement / unity

1 Corinthians 1 vs 10: I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought
Matthew 18:19-20. “Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you
Psalms 133 vs 1: How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity
Phillipians 2 vs 2: make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose
Romans 15 vs 6: so that with one accord you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ
2 Chronicles 30 vs 12: The hand of God was also on Judah to give them one heart to do what the king and the princes commanded by the word of the LORD
Ephesians 4:3 “Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.
Amos 3 vs 3: Can two walk together except they agree.
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CEMAFAM 2018 FEBRUARY RETREAT FEEDBACK / EVALUATION FROM PARTICIPANTS

• Beautiful retreat, good interaction. Food very poor but hotel is fantastic

• Great programme, Need more time for discussions in the separate workshop, Excellent delivery by Rev. Jesse Song. Looking forward to the August programme, African food at the gala nite will add colour, great efforts by the organizers, keep it up   – Ajadis

• Good avenue for sharing important information, lots keep time so we can have more sessions, Annual gathering in convenient venues easily reached by public transport
• Fantastic , organised, learnt alot about love /relationship, music/dance wonderful, in future-more time in conversation- Immaculate
• Excellent, Mind blowing and informative
• Very interactive, very informative, very well planned and educative forum with helpful messages
• I enjoyed every session. Next time let’s have more time
• I really appreciate to be in the midst of these events, I really enjoy every bits, I have gained the opportunity to learn realistic points about relationship and marriage. E.g love much but do it well, I really enjoy every thing said at this events. I thank God I didn’t turn down this opportunity and I feel blessed to come here to receive powerful Words from God servant
• Food- good, would have made with more dessert. Conference room- good, well decorated, good service from staff and welcoming
• Location- good, programme excellent, educative, Christ centered focus, great retreat seminar would benefit coming Easter Friday so that couples make use of Spa/Gym facilities. Host Speaker message excellent related to vision of the Ministry, educative. Venue: rooms cold at night, bed squeaky, room not properly clean, dust on chairs
• Good venue, Excellent sessions, powerful messages that inspired marriages, educative interaction among attendees
• Good and excellent venue, food lovely, time keeping needs to improve, Word ministry powerful
• 5 Stars, need to work on timing, room to — auditions plus adding games to the programme for variety sake
• Good program, enjoyed every bit of it, there is room for improvement in the area of time keeping and games
• Good concept, games and organisation. Longer time for talks, Q&A etc
• Location 10/10, Guest Speaker 10/10, Content 9/10, Organisation & Planning 9/10, keep up the good work, God will help us. What to expect in Next Event: To spend quality time looking into the clash of cultures and how it impacts our marriages- Living in Diaspora
• Refreshing Time and educative, More time for the interactive session
• I will like to comment on the teaching- was so impacted. The next retreat they should teach more of singles
• Awesome time, expository, refreshing. Am glad I came. I enjoyed every bit of it all. I look forward to enjoying more sessions. Enough time to be provided
• So blessed for the Ministry, music , prayer, interactions, messages etc Thank God

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Thanksgiving is defined as expression of gratitude. The difference between the secular / unbelievers and believers are that the secular / unbeliever give thanks when something is given but a believer is expected to give thanks in everything. This should be applied in our marriage, relationship and home.

1 Thess 5 vs 18- In everything give thanks because this is the will of god concerning us.

“Thanks” is always in plural which means more than 1 – once

Without thanksgiving your tanks will never be full. And it is a car that has a full tank that can travel far. Same with our destiny. People who give thanks to God at all times have their tanks full and thereby go far in life

If you cannot find reason or anything to thank God for, everyday, every hour or every minute, please thank Him for the free air given to us. You are breathing it anywhere you are, no boundaries and not affected by exchange rate or government. You can imagine if it’s determine by an earthly govt, it would have been withheld from millions.

One thing amazing about the Western world is lots of thank is said even in daily activities. Example of going to a shop to spend your cash and retail assistant help you to pack, even though it is your money you spend but the service must always be complimented by say “Thank you—————–“

There are some code that you must possess to access no matter how intelligent or skilful you are. The Bible says in Psalm 100 vs 4 Enter His gates with thanksgiving and into His courts with praise, be thankful unto Him

Every door / gate has a key ——————— The key to the gate and door of where the “I AM “ lives is Praise and Thanksgiving  Praise is the senior brother of thanksgiving.

The more praise-full you are the more wonderful you become

I Cor 4 vs 15: For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through thanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God

(all these miracles, all these covenant and promises are for us)

THANKSGIVING IS A REQUIRED SIGNATURE FROM HEAVEN TO GET YOUR MIRACLES DELIVERED

YOU NEED TO BE GRATEFUL TO AVOID BEING A GREAT FOOL

Philippian 4 vs 6 be anxious for nothing but in every situation by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving —————

Thanksgiving is the last digit of God’s telephone line

THANKSGIVING TO GOD CAN BE EXPRESSED IN DIFFERENT WAYS.

• Solomon choose to give a thousand burnt offerings (Thanksgiving) ; 2 chronicles 1 vs 6 And Solomon went up thither to the brazen altar before the Lord —– and offered a thousand burnt offerings —

Vs 7 God appeared in the night —– Ask what I shall give thee

• One of the Lepers: Luke 17 vs 15 -16 One of them seeing he was healed turned back and with a loud voice glorifed God and fell down at His feet giving Him thanks

Vs 19 : Jesus said thy faith hath made thee whole

• David showed gratitude in songs and dance ; 2 Samuel 6 vs 14- And David danced before the Lord. God was so please with him that He established his throne forever.

Each of this 3 examples mentioned above received irreversible blessings

Let us look at our Lord Jesus approaches to thanksgiving. Mt 14 vs 13 – 21

Vs 14- Jesus saw a great multitude

Vs 15 – the disciples said they should be sent away

Vs 16 – Jesus said they need to be fed

We also know the story of Lazarus: John 11 vs 41

BOOSTER OF THANKSGIVING

• Feed on the Word of God: Josh 1 vs 8- This is the law meditate on it day and night —

Psalm 1 vs 2: But his delight is in the law of the Lord and in His law doth he meditate day and night

Dan: 9 vs 2 – I Daniel understood by books

2 Tim 2 vs 15 – Study to shew thyself approve

You don’t switch on the light in the room by speaking in tongues but by locating the switch, after the same other you need to locate the Word of God to shine. The more of His Word the higher is your faith and your testimonies which fuels thanksgiving

• Share your testimonies and read or listen to other people’s testimonies

Pray always. Luke 18 vs 1- Men ought to pray always and not to pray. It is not what you hear that makes you but what you do with what you hear. James 1 vs 22 But be you doers of the Word and not hearers only. Pray for the grace to do

• Seek help of the Holy Spirit; Zech 4 vs 6- Not by might nor by power but by the Spirit
• Make yourself joyous- Joy attracts God while sorrow attracts satan Depression start with one negative thought

HINDRANCE TO THANKSGIVING

• Sin: Until you permit sin, sin cannot permeate you. Sin enters because you allow it.If you don’t kill the thought, it will become an act. And sin is a sinker of destiny
• The dictionary defines it as a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one’s own achievement. Thereby you take God’s doing for grantedOur daily prayer should be father help me
• Doubt / Double minded:

Fear: One thing that is common with fear and faith is that both of them want you to believe that something you cannot see is about to happen to you. It is now which you think or meditate on that will be watered to germinate or come to pass. Every Word carries a Spirit, it is either the spirit of God or Satanic

• Magnification of Issue brings fear and doesn’t allow for thanksgiving E.g David and Goliath
• Bad association: Psalm 1 vs 1- Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.

I pray for the understanding to always live a lifestyle of thanksgiving.

HE IS EVER FAITHFUL

PASTOR ANTHONY EMMANUEL
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Grace means God in the RACE. And when God is in the race you are guaranteed to finish well. When God is in the race it is impossible for the race to be terminated along the line or in-between. Grace is defined by Bible scholar as “unmerited favour”.

Let us use the story of Esther. She brought God into the race by the counsel of Mordecai and even went on a fast – Esther 4. God’s presence with Esther resulted in divine favour and ended with her union to the King. Lots of other testimonies attached to the story.

After the creation of man, God decided to favour man by showing His mercy not to allow man to be alone hence he brought forth a helper. The next time God made an utterance in relation to marriage to the marriage institution is in Proverb 18 vs 22- “ he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtaineth favour —“. Which favour is God talking about or where is this favour from? It is God’s favour and from Him alone. It means it takes His favour which is His Grace to find the ribs of your ribs as a man (the one he moulded to be your helper). In the same vein it is the same grace and favour upon the wife to be found – because there are millions of “wife” that are there waiting to be found.

We must therefore ensure that our number one prayer item as a couple is for God to continually be in the union i.e His grace which causes favour all-round and through everyone marital journey. While the singles searching should pray to receive His presence (God in the race) resulting in favour to find your wife. And as a woman, pray to god to let His grace position you as a favour to the man to find you as it happened to Esther.

WHAT GRACE DOES

Apostle Paul who knows the importance of Grace attributed everything about his life / achievement to God- 1 Coritthians 15 vs 10 “But by the grace of God I am what I am  —“

When God’s grace is in a marriage or relationship, the following happens:

• Everything falls in line with His purpose for the man and woman
• All errors are covered between the parties’ i.e weaknesses. This shows when people continue to wonder “how can they be successfully married? As they are considered to be incompatible
• All strengths are magnified i.e they begin to see more of the positives
• It allows for easy forgiveness
• It strengthens when you are likely to be weak in performing your marital duties
• Grace brings God’s light into the marriage / relationship and when it shines no darkness is able to comprehend. It blindfolds the enemies i.e satan, therefore not having any influence
• Grace boosts your passion and zeal for each others (husband, wife, fiancé, fiancée). This shows in Apostle Paul
• Grace eliminates lack and brings fruitfulness in all areas be it spiritually or/and materially or/and procreatively

Has your spouse or fiancé gotten you so much angry and you begin to ponder on negatives? At this stage remind yourself of His Grace and ask Him to manifest His presence once again in the union / relationship, you will be surprised how quickly the anger disappears. Anger that is not quickly addressed leads to hatred and to other negativity which can destroy.

I pray for understanding of the effect of His grace leading to your marriage and relationship becoming outstanding.

The Grace that was upon Apostle Paul to achieve destiny is same grace that is released to every marriage, relationship and homes to become enviable to all in Jesus name.

Conclusively no marriage and relationship will fail with ever presence of God through His Grace and to the glory of God, connection to His Ministry- CEMAFAM.

He is a faithful God.

Yours in the Vineyard

Anthony Emmanuel

For CEMAFAM
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