My husband just puts his legs on the outside so I can keep mine together?

Down w the Patriarchy. Now.

Holy cow. I thought I was the only one who cannot orgasm 98% of the time with a partner because my legs are apart. I learned to masturbate with my legs straight out in front of me with my muscles tensed up, hard. Think toe curling level of tensing up.

The only other way is lying ony stomach, grinding against the bed. As a kid, I’d wake up pressing on the pillow.

Is it too late to teach a woman how to orgasm with legs open? I’ve tried so hard over the years. It’s really a hindrance.

Also, I’m very clear that I do two things that are both called “orgasms” but which are different in every way. These experiences should have two different names, because I know I’m not alone in this. People call them “vaginal orgasms” and “clitoral orgasms,” which is unhelpful. This terminology implies that they’re somehow the same but in a different location, when they aren’t even similar.

To all the females ejaculating, do you either have or had kids vaginally and do you have urine in your bladder when you climax? Female ejaculate is urine…which is one of the most sterile fluids in your body. When you have urine in your bladder enough to be expelled, your spasms will allow your urethra to open up letting urine out. Having a semi full bladder puts added pressure onto your inner g-spot making orgasms even more intense. Some of us still can’t urinate during and orgasm with everything clamped and pressured closed. There is some correlation there with women thst have had children since pur urerhras weaken a little from pregnancy. I mean, right?🤷‍♀️

Sophie-girl your comment made me feel hella better. I mean that has to be one of the weirdest yet most beautiful compliments I have ever read about someone’s 😸 Never had compliments or complaints, but my childhood (80’s) where anything involving sex and a female was taboo. You couldn’t even mutter the word in most households. I swore mine was super abnormal, and it deeply affected my sexual mentality. Everything you saw were women that were all neat and buttoned up, and I’m over here like tf is with my droopy sht?? I still have difficulty accepting mine, but I have open communication with my hubby..finally after 19yrs of marriage. His opinion is the only one that matters to me, and he can’t get enough. It has made such a difference in the bedroom, I can’t even describe…..but I’m sure you know😉 Thank you for your assurance❤️

Dan-You may not be able to have multiple, but some guys are able to perform 2 even 3 times in a row😉 Some ladies can only have one, some of us can have 12 in a row. It depends on a variety of things.