Comedian Alicia Kismet and art instructor Michael Gaughan, the hosts of “Laugh and Draw,” on July 18 at the Q.arma Building in Minneapolis.Alex V. Cipolle | MPR News

On a summer evening, one after another, standup comedians take the mic in front of a group of artists in a brightly lit gallery.

“Good to say ‘Hello’ and look you all in the eye,” Alex Ngo says.

“This is a little jarring. You usually have brighter lights looking back at me, so I never have to see you.”

The artists sit with sketchpads and pencils. They begin to draw.

“How long have I had this pose up?” Dru Nustad asks, holding up a prop — a vintage clock. “I feel like I’m planking right now. All right, all right, I’m switching up on you guys now. I’m going with Bad Posture Man.”

The crowd – of artists – laugh and look back down at their paper.

“I want everyone to draw me really sexy,” says Greg Orange. “Is that cool? I feel like it probably can’t be that hard.”

Drawing laughs

This is Laugh and Draw, a quarterly event series that combines stand-up comedy and a figure drawing class.

Alicia Kismet is a comedian as well as an arts reporter and critic for the Minnesota Star Tribune. Along with, Michael Gaughan, an art instructor at the Minneapolis College of Art and Design, she started the series in 2024.

“I wanted to host a show, but not just like any comedy show, something that felt kind of more specific to my interest in visual art,” Kismet says.

“I had written an essay about can art make you laugh for Hyperallergic,” Kismet says, “so I was like, ‘How can I bring art and comedy together in real life?’”

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I thought my days of writing about selfies were over. My book The Selfie Generation (2017) had done its job: It chronicled the form’s rise into the mainstream, from becoming Oxford Dictionaries’ “Word of the Year” in 2013 to transforming TV shows, pop psychology, marketing, and visibility for marginalized people. Today, the selfie has become so normalized that, like the texts I send and the air I breathe, I’d almost forgotten about it.

Then, the selfie resurfaced at the most basic of places — Chicago’s massive Six Flags Great America amusement park— in a most unusual way.

On a warm afternoon last autumn, my partner and I were riding the Logger’s Run, a watery roller coaster-esque ride that involves sitting in an oversized fiberglass log as it floats down a “river” — a metal slide filled with water. After many twists and turns, it ends with one big drop and a giant splash.

A few minutes later, smiling and soaked, we headed to a contraption with flying chairs. We were swinging through the air with other fairgoers when my partner discovered that her phone wasn’t in her pocket. It must have flown out during the Logger’s Run, so we raced back to it. We cut the line, weaving our way through sweaty bodies until we reached the log-dismounting area. After about 20 minutes of asking around, a guy wearing a soaking-wet blue shirt hopped out of his log clutching my partner’s iPhone. Moments later, it was back in her hands.

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Proud to be on Maggie Faris’ PRIDE SHOW!

Q&A with Alicia Kısmet

Have you performed on Maggie’s PRIDE show before? 

I haven’t performed on one of her shows before! Knowing Maggie’s comedy, I am sure folks can expect unhinged hilarious queer comedy!  

If you had to pick any color of the rainbow to be, which color would you pick and why?

I think I would pick green because it feels moody.

What does PRIDE mean to you?

For me, Pride means that I can be my authentic self and be proud of it. 

What makes you excited about the future of queerness?

I’m really excited about people feeling safe to come out as nonbinary and gender fluid. It gives me hope that eventually the patriarchy will die and the future will be truly queer.

What are you talking about right now in your comedy?

These days in my comedy, I am talking about queer parents having kids, me being confused about my age, sexuality and how weird labels are, dating, sex, relationships, my family, my cats, healthy and not-so-healthy boundaries, intimacy. 

What is your astrological sign? 

Aquarius  

Favorite gas station snack?

Good Humor Strawberry Shortcake Ice Cream Bar.

What are you reading or listening to right now?

“With Teeth” by Kristen Arnett

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Turkish artist Ibrahim Çallı, “New Year’s Ball in the Park Hotel,” 1930 (private collection).

The metaphor of the magnolia and the advent of the apocalypse meld in a Turkish artist’s imaginary.

By Sena Başöz

Translated from the Turkish by Alicia Kismet Eler

I first encountered a reproduction of magnolias by painter İbrahim Çallı at my grandma Muazzez’s house in Denizli. In fact, if I remember correctly, this might have been the first time that I’d ever seen a painting. It might’ve even been a random month ripped from an old calendar. I remember it hanging from a slightly high-up place in my grandmother’s house, in the room where she served breakfast on a round metal tray. We had to look up at the painting, which must have given it a sense of authority. It was probably hung up there to hide an eye sore like an old outlet for a stove.

There was also a real magnolia tree in front of my grandma’s house. The buds of this large flower were collected right before they started opening in the early summer, and its petals were secured with a rope to make sure the flower didn’t fall apart. After that, it was placed into a full glass of water.  I was warned a thousand times not to let the magnolia touch my nose while I sniffed it, which I did quite often. Magnolias have a lemon-lime refreshing scent. But if my nose touched the flower while I was smelling it, the flower would turn black. If my nose didn’t touch it at all, then within two or three days the flower would open, its leaves scattering, exposing its bare naked organ. Even just attempting to sniff the flower could kill it.

The magnolia always brings to mind famous Turkish singer Zeki Müren’s song “My Beautiful Magnolia,” with the lyrics koklamaya kıyamam benim güzel manolyam – “I wouldn’t dare sniff my beautiful magnolia.” In other words, the lover wouldn’t dare touch their beloved. I think that is because, if touched, the woman/magnolia will lose her “purity.”

In the southwestern city of Denizli, as in the rest of Turkey, it’s believed that the very act of touching women could ruin them. In fact, you could hurt the magnolias whether or not you smelled them; the magnolia represents a certain fragile femininity that could be overwhelmed and destroyed at any moment. Nonetheless, Denizli’s natural plants are maqui, a thick, shrubby evergreen underbrush typically found on the shores of the Mediterranean Sea. These modest bushes don’t require much water. They can endure hot weather, and their colorful flowers have an aromatic scent.

Grandma proudly told me that İbrahim Çallı is a world famous painter from Denizli. This thought excited me as a kid who loved to paint, but I had mixed feelings about the magnolia painting. I loved it but it also bored me to tears because it depicted something that lived right in my grandma’s front yard: a magnolia tree.

My grandma was somewhat of a distant woman and spoke little. When my parents vacationed in Pamukkale, a town just north of Denizli known for its thermal springs, they dropped us off at our grandparents’ house, where we were watched with care and the utmost attention. And by that I mean every time we stayed at her place grandma would make my sister and I memorize a prayer. She gave us the PowerPoint version of a religious education, giving us answers to the questions that would surely arise here and in the hereafter.

In the summer of 2017, I spent three months at the Paris Cite des Arts’ guest artist program. One morning, while making a montage on my computer, I felt a vibration coming from somewhere below. A hum buzzed through my headphones, and the windows of my apartment rattled. Curious about what might be happening, I ran to the window. From there, I spotted an endless row of trucks slowly making their way to the front of the building. Every one of the truck’s cabs had been converted into a DJ set, and they were blasting techno music. Behind every truck, 100 or so youth madly danced like there was no tomorrow. Startled, I quickly called my Austrian artist friend, and together we rushed downstairs to watch the dance party. The smell of alcohol and clouds of weed smoke drifted in. It was a never ending parade of dancing Parisian teenagers. I watched for a while, and then suddenly a strange sense of déjà vu struck me. Where could I have possibly remembered this from?

The moment quickly came back to me. It was one of those weekends spent at my grandma’s house, when she explained the impending apocalypse day. She told my sister and I that when the apocalypse begins, we would hear music coming from somewhere. It would be such a loud sound that the windows would shake; instead of using the word “music,” grandma would say “jazz.” There would be jazz. The “mumins,” the believers, would quickly realize what was going on and go on their knees to repent by doing namaz prayer. The “kafirs,” the faithless, would curiously dash over to the window and realize that it was a parade of magical musical instruments playing on their own — by then they would have missed their chance to repent. Huge horns would come out of their heads and they wouldn’t be able to pass through the doors of the house because the horns would be massive. They would repent, running back and forth in the house — but it would be too late because the gates of heaven would have already closed. Turns out the Apocalypse is a techno dance party and those who indulge in anything pleasurable would go to hell with the rest of the sinners.

My grandma told this story so that I would do the right thing when the time came. But even as a young girl, I knew I would’ve definitely run to the window and looked out. Even then, thinking about the potential consequences of my future actions made me feel upset.

It happens that painters’ most popular still lives portray flowers that quickly wither. All of the magnolias that İbrahim Çallı portrays become immortal with their temporality. Çallı grew up in Denizli, but when I was a kid there weren’t really any full-time working artists around and only a few exhibitions. And besides, it felt like the apocalypse could happen any day. A half-human, half-animal creature that wouldn’t be able to fit through any doors because it wants to have fun — who would grow horns and jam themselves into rooms — symbolizes the life of a woman living in a small city in Turkey much more accurately than a magnolia. What a huge amount of her authentic self a woman has to give up because of the deep grief she feels for her unrepentable guilt. In that sense, a woman reveals the supposed “creature-like” side of herself. How authentic could anyone be in an environment where the possibility of having fun is equated with the apocalypse? What could be mourned in lifetimes as short lived and fragile as magnolias? What’s being passed down from one generation of women to the next?

I shared my “apocalypse day” story with a friend. His dad’s explanation of the apocalypse was vastly different from my grandma’s. On that day, people would be out on the streets fucking like dogs. That was a Turkish middle-class family dad’s version of the apocalypse, circa 1980s. Today I believe it’s compelling to think about our own apocalyptic visions because war and global warming are making the apocalypse into an actual doomsday scenario.

Maybe the thing we fear the most is also what we most want.

Sena Başöz’s original Turkish text appeared in 5Harfliler.com.

Comedian Alicia Kismet Eler, pictured with her cat Tija, often utilizes charatcers and props to bring her jokes to life. Credit: Aaron Nesheim | Sahan Journal

‘Jokes from the heart’: Alicia Kismet Eler finds material in experiences as a queer Turkish American

Drawing deeply on her Turkish heritage and queer dating experiences, Alicia Kismet Eler wants to make people laugh and foster innovation and inclusivity in comedy.

By Myah Goff

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My book The Selfie Generation is mentioned in this article on Forbes.com by Sam Mehrbod:

The Face Behind The Brand

Let me break it to you, we are all self-conscious about how we look or how we sound on camera. After all, what we see in the mirror every day is the exact opposite of what the camera shows. We simply would rather play it safe and not make a fool out of ourselves. We fear the camera. As Alicia Eler discusses in her book The Selfie Generation: How Our Self-Images Are Changing Our Notions of Privacy, Sex, Consent, and Culture, the constant need to present a curated version of ourselves on social media has contributed to feelings of anxiety and insecurity when it comes to how we appear on camera. But trust me, as time goes by, you will get considerably better at it.

Golden Horn, Galata Tower, Kadıköy Istanbul (photo Dursun Bayrak).

Looking for love and her father’s past, a Turkish American journalist haunts the streets of Istanbul before and after Covid.

The sticky summer air sank into my skin as seagulls dove into the wavy blue waters of the Bosphorus Strait, the waterway that separates the European and Anatolian sides of Istanbul. My cousin and I sat on the hard wooden benches of the vapur (ferry boat) as it drifted along. I hadn’t been here in over ten years, nor had I ever been to Turkey without my dad, my baba. I’d asked him to come, but he declined. He insisted that he wouldn’t be able to keep up with me and my cousin, who also grew up abroad, as we roamed the streets of Istanbul. But I knew that was just another excuse for avoiding Turkey.

On that windy summer day in Istanbul on the vapur, I spotted an old man reading a pro-government newspaper, a middle-aged teyze (an auntie) wearing a pink headscarf covered in yellow flowers, and a young blonde woman glued to her smartphone. As a queer person who grew up in America, I was used to being able to easily find my people. But since I’d arrived in Istanbul, I hadn’t seen a gay club, let alone a rainbow flag on someone’s coat. Maybe queer people were hiding in plain sight, or maybe I just didn’t know where to go.

Maybe if I fell in queer love with someone here, I could experience the cultural reconnection that I was hoping for — that Baba had, in subtle ways, let me know he’d never give me. I grew up knowing some Turkish, but took it upon myself to finally learn it for real as an adult. I found a teacher in Minneapolis, and he became my friend and the first Turkish man whom I didn’t feel afraid of.

Over time, I gained access to Turkish language and culture, something I didn’t feel I had as a kid. Even though these days my baba and I speak Tinglish — a mixture of Turkish and English — and he’d slowly started opening up more in his native language the more my Turkish improved, his Istanbul still felt like something buried deep in memory. If I cared to discover more about the country he left behind, that was on me.

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Crystal Pearl Molinary, “Habana Riviera” (2011) (courtesy Crystal Pearl Molinary)

I reviewed Jillian Hernandez’s stellar book Aesthetics of Excess: The Art and Politics of Black and Latina Embodiment for Hyperallergic.

Author Jillian Hernandez theorizes the intersecting formations of gender, class, and race in relation to the self-presentation of Black and Latina women and girls.

“I think Barbies are kind of what [White] people look like and Bratz are like what Black people look like. So it’s like, we can relate more to Bratz dolls. They have curves and big lips,” says Tashell, a former participant in the outreach program Women on the Rise! at the Museum of Contemporary Art North Miami and an interviewee in Jillian Hernandez’s Aesthetics of Excess: The Art and Politics of Black and Latina Embodiment.