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Coping With Anticipatory Grief: Understanding and Navigating the Emotions Ahead

Steven Lucas — Tue, 30 Jun 2026 08:17:19 +0000

Anticipatory grief is one of those experiences people rarely talk about, yet it’s incredibly common. It arises when you know a significant loss is coming—often due to a terminal illness, cognitive decline, or major life transition. Instead of grief arriving after the loss, it begins early, quietly shaping your days long before anything “official” happens. […]

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Why Secular Humanism Promises More Than It Can Deliver

Steven Lucas — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 13:16:42 +0000

In therapy, questions of faith, religion and meaning come up often, particularly around grief, identity and life transitions. In recent decades, secular humanism has been promoted as a moral framework capable of replacing religion altogether. Its advocates emphasise reason, empathy, human rights and personal autonomy. On the surface, these aims appear noble — even admirable. […]

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Understanding the Emotional Bank Account

Steven Lucas — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 13:09:46 +0000

The idea of an emotional bank account is a useful way to think about mental and relational wellbeing. Every interaction we have — with others and with ourselves — either makes a deposit or a withdrawal. When deposits outweigh withdrawals, we feel resilient, connected and steady. When withdrawals dominate, we experience exhaustion, irritability and emotional […]

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Beyond Atheism vs Theism: How We Can Change a Stale Debate

Steven Lucas — Fri, 06 Feb 2026 14:54:39 +0000

Atheism vs theism. How we find meaning — whether through faith, secular values, or somewhere in between — plays a real role in mental wellbeing. For much of the past two decades, the public debate between atheism and theism has followed a familiar and increasingly tired script. Arguments are recycled, positions harden, and participants often […]

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The Delicate Balance Between Safety and Adventure — And Why Our Mental Health Depends on It

Steven Lucas — Fri, 06 Feb 2026 14:42:01 +0000

Modern life encourages us to be careful. We insure everything, plan meticulously, minimise risk and are constantly reminded of what could go wrong. At the same time, we are wired for exploration, novelty and growth. When these two impulses — safety and adventure — fall out of balance, our mental health often pays the price. […]

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The Unfulfilled Promises of New Atheism

Steven Lucas — Tue, 03 Feb 2026 12:56:23 +0000

In the early 2000s, New Atheism emerged with confidence and urgency. It argued that religion was not merely false, but socially harmful. If humanity could finally outgrow religious belief, they claimed, society would become more rational, peaceful and morally coherent. Two decades later, it is worth asking a sober question: have the promises of New […]

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Understanding and Breaking the Cycle of Negative Thoughts

Steven Lucas — Mon, 05 Jan 2026 14:27:46 +0000

Negative thoughts can feel relentless. They often arrive uninvited, repeat themselves, and quietly shape how we feel about ourselves, other people, and the world around us. Over time, these patterns can affect mental health, confidence, relationships, and overall wellbeing. The good news is that negative thinking is not a personal failure — it’s a learned […]

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Whole Person Care: A More Human Approach to Health and Wellbeing

Steven Lucas — Thu, 18 Dec 2025 10:46:06 +0000

In an age of quick fixes and isolated treatments, many people are discovering that something vital is missing from modern healthcare. Whole person care offers a more compassionate and effective approach by recognising that our mental, emotional, physical and social wellbeing are deeply connected. Rather than asking only “What’s wrong with you?”, whole person care […]

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New Year, New Grace: Letting Go of Shame

Steven Lucas — Sat, 29 Nov 2025 10:28:04 +0000

The turning of the calendar is more than a date change—it’s an invitation to renewal. For many, the New Year symbolises fresh beginnings, yet shame often lingers like a shadow. This post explores how to release shame and embrace grace, so you can step into the year with freedom and confidence. What Is Shame and […]

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Why Some People Don’t Want There to Be a God — And Why We Can Be Confident He Exists

Steven Lucas — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 11:39:52 +0000

Few statements about modern unbelief are as revealing as philosopher Thomas Nagel’s famous confession about God: > “I hope there is no God! I don’t want there to be a God; I don’t want the universe to be like that.” — Thomas Nagel, The Last Word Nagel wasn’t rejecting God because evidence was lacking — […]

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