How often do you feel guilty or anxious about skipping fruits and veggies?
Daily, weekly, once in awhile?
In my experience, this thinking comes from believing the myth that skipping a single food (or foods) will automatically trigger a breast cancer recurrence.
The truth is, that’s not how food works in your body.
Here’s a different way to think about it. The pattern of your diet over time is what determines the “healthfulness” of your diet.
Ask yourself this: “Do I eat produce more often than I don’t?”
If the answer is yes, you’re doing great and can let that guilt and anxiety go. If the answer is no, that’s a place where you can make some improvements. I call those areas for improvement “nutritional gaps” – how many do you see in your diet?
Taking action to improve areas of your diet that could use some help is a healthier and more productive way to spend your time than feeling anxious or worried about what you’re “not” doing.
The mental exhaustion from constantly thinking about food in that way isn’t peaceful!
So let’s dig into what happens when you don’t eat enough produce; I’m gonna say right here, it’s probably not what you think.
Produce gives your body a beneficial combination of vitamins, minerals, fiber, antioxidants and phytochemicals.
Here’s why that’s important.
Beneficial compounds support your breast and overall health and may help reduce recurrence risk.
Fiber helps aid digestion, fills you up and keeps you feeling satisfied. A high-fiber diet helps reduce your urge to snack; a painless and excellent strategy for crowding out less nourishing foods.
One of the things I teach my clients is how to effortlessly add more veggies to a meal or snack through small changes that elevate the health of their plate. Do you have a strategy for that?
When I have discussions with clients about those “nutritional gaps” (especially not eating enough veggies), without fail, the conversation shifts to the worry they feel about “not eating right”.
I’ll say it again. The pattern of your eating over time vs a single meal determines the healthfulness of your diet overall.
Worry, guilt and shame about the way you’re eating is a guaranteed way to eat even more of those less healthy foods you grab in place of produce.
So we need a strategy to keep the emotions in check and produce on your plate.
One of my clients loves consistent reminders about adding fruits and veggies on a regular basis, saying that rather than feeling repetitive, they help her eat more fruits and veggies on a regular basis. How would reminders help you eat more produce?
For most people, fruit tends to be easier to eat consistently, it’s those veggies that typically get pushed aside.
Think about an apple. You grab it, wash it, and enjoy. But onions, eggplant and sweet potatoes?
They take prep and cook time.
Or maybe an apple often sounds appetizing, but you need to have a taste for veggies, and that may happen less often than you’d like.
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Savoring a sandwich. Lingering over a latte. Munching a muffin. Eating was oh-so-simple and something to enjoy!
Now?
It’s tough to shake the food stress. Avoid the worry that you’re not making the “best” choices. Nix the niggling thought that one wrong bite will bring your breast cancer roaring back.
It’s not crazy to think that way.
Whether you’re wading through social media posts aimed at clicks vs accuracy, getting “advice” from well-meaning folks, or drowning in the rabbit hole of your “own research”, you know how it goes.
One minute you’re happily making yourself a sandwich, and the next you’re freaking out over the carbs in the bread (ahem, the same bread you’ve been eating for years because you LOVE it).
Eating after breast cancer is different.
You want to eat as well as you can, as often as you can. You’re determined to choose foods that help you stay healthy and cancer-free. You also want to enjoy your food.
The funny thing is, after breast cancer none of those things seem to fit together. It’s either eat for your health OR enjoy your food – they can’t possibly co-exist.
Or can they?
When I work with someone who’s on the breast cancer survivor austerity diet (you know, no caffeine, sugar, dairy, alcohol, processed or non-organic foods) and they’re drowning in guilt because they can’t stick with it, it’s generally because they have no idea how to make eating for health and joy co-exist in peace and harmony.
Before your breast cancer eating was complicated, but also, doable.
You were either on or off a diet. Being “good” or “cheating”. Gobbling fries and a cheeseburger when you had your period (salt and fat, amen!) or a stressful day.
Of course you wanted to eat “healthy”, but that approach was generally aligned with trying to drop a few pounds (pssst, it’s possible to eat healthy food and still be overweight).
Before your cancer, regardless of the food path you were on in any given week, you knew Monday was coming and you’d just start over.
It didn’t feel like your life depended on the recipe you chose to make for dinner.
Now. It’s complicated.
And you hate it.
Let me share a simple exercise that will help you get clear on three things:
Here’s the three-step exercise; grab a piece of paper and a pen (yes, old school!) and work through it.
Step 1
Step 2
Step 3
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You were so worried about food after you finished treatment that you sort of “forgot” how to go about feeding yourself in a normal way.
Rather that simply fueling yourself, you know; grabbing a plate, putting food on it, sitting down to eat it – you started making up stories to make eating easier.
But those stories began to take on a life of their own, encouraging you to second-guess your food choices, doubt your own judgement about what’s best to eat, and erode your trust in your body’s ability to “handle” any food that wasn’t perfectly in line with the perfect eating you believe you should be executing.
So here you are, struggling to eat without succumbing to the waves of anxiety you feel every time you feel a hunger pang (hunger pangs are dangerous, don’t you know).
One of the best ways I’ve found to help my clients who tell themselves those unhelpful stories is to question those stories for truth. Relentlessly. Repeatedly. Resolutely.
I find there are four common stories that come up over and over and over (relentlessly, if you will). Let’s look at them here, and then. . . explore them for truth.
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Pernicious and persistent, at its most basic this story says: eating good = being good.
Translation, if you eat the “right” food, the virtue of doing so elevates you to “perfect eater” status and you’ll be untouched by breast cancer ever again. And let’s face it – the moral judgement you level at yourself when you eat or don’t eat certain foods feels necessary to keep you in line (we’ll overlook the helping of guilt served with that).
Eating inside the lines, towing the “right diet” line, walking the straight food line – these are the only ways to keep you safe, am I right?
If we would all (remember, I’m also a survivor) to just eat what we’re “supposed” to eat, we’d fill our bodies with so much nutritional goodness that breast cancer wouldn’t stand a popsicle’s chance in hell of returning.
But you, my smart reader, know that’s not true. You can eat all the things and avoid eating all the things and still, there’s no guarantee of no recurrence.
Let’s explore this for truth and look at what’s really behind this thinking. Of course we all want to do the “right” thing, in all areas of our life – especially food. It feels protective. Feeling on track in the food morality department may offer a level of psychological protection that insulates you from the fear, but it doesn’t actually translate to any physical protection, and without fail, it ratchets up that guilt I touched on earlier.
Try this instead: Remember that food terms like “clean”, “unprocessed” and “whole” are often used in an inflammatory manner to get your attention. Unfortunately, they also ratchet up your anxiety. The goal is to decrease your anxiety around food, so I invite you to think of all food as neutral, not good and not bad. Some foods are better for you than others, absolutely! Choose those most often and let the rest go.
As a breast cancer survivor, the fear that food will do something “to” you is powerful. You may be at a loss to explain it logically, but in your food fear-riddled mind, you’re convinced it will do all sorts of horrible things, primarily, bring your breast cancer back.
Other things food could do TO you? Make you want more of it (bad), make you gain weight (scary), soothe your sadness, loneliness, anxiety (weakness).
Let’s explore this for truth and look at what’s really behind this thinking. When you focus on all the horrible things food could possibly do to you, it takes your mind off all the horrible things you’ve just been through. It gives you a level of relief that feels necessary to help you heal from the trauma, but the truth is, you’re trading one fear for another; and that keeps the trauma wheel spinning.
Try this instead: Focus on what food does FOR you (gives you energy, immune system support, maintains healthy bones, muscles and nerves). And don’t forget to focus on the joy of eating – you CAN get that back, I promise.
This story is about all the rampant breast cancer survivor food myths that abound, and your willingness to believe them.
That’s not a slam against you; it’s a lovingly honest assessment of how so many breast cancer survivors treat food myths as truths and cling to the false information spread by untrained, uncredentialed influencers more interested in earning clicks than actually helping people.
It’s easy to do. When you don’t know who to trust or what to believe, of course you’re going to be confused. Nutrition is a science, not an opinion, but opinionated social media influencers don’t care about that. Their goal is to confuse you even more.
Soy, sugar, red meat, dairy, organic – what comes to mind when you read those words?
Overwhelm? Bewilderment? Stress?
Food falsehoods are a little bit of truth blended with a whole lot of bunk, and getting the straight story on what you should actually eat gets lost in all that.
Let’s explore this for truth and look at what’s really behind this thinking. You have every right to feel clear and calm about the food decisions you make, and following a simple “eat this, not that” food strategy seems like the best way to calm you the f— down, but the reality isn’t that. Only food facts, an individualized plan, and guidance on eating in a way that supports your goals will give you that clarity and calm.
Try this instead: Get help from a trained nutrition pro. I’m not kidding. That pro doesn’t have to be me, although I’d love the opportunity to work with you, but it really does need to be with someone who’s trained, credentialed, and experienced in breast cancer nutrition. It’s the only way to cut through the clutter, get the answers you need and the peace of mind you deserve.
Let’s face it, we all want to know why we got breast cancer (ask me how I know this), but honestly, cancer of all types is so complex it’s pretty much impossible to identify the exact cause.
Of course, there are genetic factors and family history, but even with that we can’t say for sure exactly how/when it happened. By putting the blame for cancer on a “thing”, YOU feel better because it feels better in your BRAIN to connect the dots with an “if this, then that” situation.
Our brains like things to make sense. They like patterns and to attribute meaning to things that are random; and what feels more random than breast cancer?
Calling out the cheeseburger, pizza and too much processed food as “the reason that makes sense” feels good. It gives you something concrete to hurl your anger at.
I can’t tell you how many women have said to me, “I think it’s the _______________ (fill in the food of choice) that gave me breast cancer.”
A random breast cancer diagnosis (especially when you “did everything right”) feels too uncomfortable to live with, blaming an actual food feels better.
Let’s explore this for truth and look at what’s really behind this thinking. A breast cancer diagnosis makes you question your lifestyle choices – including diet. Diet is often discussed in relation to risk, and while the intention of that is to educate, it can trigger feelings of guilt. You may feel like you failed in your personal responsibility to take care of yourself, or hold a strong belief that certain foods really did cause your breast cancer.
Try this instead: Understand there’s nothing and no one to blame here – not your dietary choices, not your lifestyle choices, not even your decision to put off your mammogram for longer than you felt comfortable with – breast cancer can happen to any woman, anywhere, at any time.
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During October, you may find yourself oh-so-much-more focused on your food, am I right?
I’m not surprised.
Pink ribbons everywhere. Breast cancer nutrition and health articles and news headlines. The walks, the runs, the raffles. . . all of that laser focus on breast cancer is hard to escape!
Because it’s so all-consuming, there’s a tendency for everything to feel heightened, including the foods you choose to put on your plate.
If you’ve recently finished treatment and were hoping for a little space from all things breast cancer, sadly, this isn’t the month that’s gonna happen.
I know you may need extra support with your food this month, so I want to offer something for you to consider.
Rather than obsess about all the pinkness and breast cancer mania, let’s explore some ways you can take charge (I include myself in this gentle reminder!), starting with your food.
The way you think about food translates to how you view food; is food an enemy to be feared or an ally that aids in rebuilding and maintaining your health after treatment ends?
If you view food as an enemy, you’ll think all food is dangerous, that there are no “good” foods, and that food companies are out to poison you (yes, I’ve heard all of those things from Peaceful Plate clients).
Let’s dig into this thinking. . .
Not true.
Of course some foods are healthier for you than others, but I invite you to consider the idea that all food is neutral. When you think of food as neutral you eliminate the “danger” associated with eating food. For example, if you consider cheese neutral, craving a slice on your veggie burger won’t make cheese the villain that brings your cancer back, rather, you’ve intentionally chosen to enjoy it based on your food likes, dislikes and preferences. Liberating!
Here’s what’s dangerous about food.
Making it the enemy.
It’s that type of thinking that encourages deprivation from limiting your diet to only a handful of foods, declining social invitations because you don’t trust the food (or yourself), losing too much weight, and not getting enough nutrients to support your health. It’s possible to eat a diet that’s balanced, varied and optimal in calories and nutrients without fearing every bite will kill you. Again, liberating!
Nope. Nope. Nope.
I sometimes hear this as a reference to ingredients food companies use; they’re not safe or good for us. To that I say, yes, the ingredients food companies use are “safe” to eat, and at the same time, it’s true that not all of those ingredients are “good” for you.
Learn to read food ingredient labels, become familiar with marketing terms and understand the hype behind food advertising and social media fear mongering. You’ll start food shopping with confidence and stop second-guessing every item you toss into your grocery cart. Btw, I teach this in my Peaceful Plate program!
I want you to think about food as an ally that aids in rebuilding and maintaining your health after treatment ends.
I want you to have a balanced, realistic perspective about food that allows you to eat with peace.
Here’s why that’s liberating.
Because when you’re in charge of your food and have realistic thoughts about what you’re putting on your plate, that serves you well. It allows you to thrive in your survivorship, eat with peace and feel good about your food during October and beyond; you deserve all of that and more.
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I host a weekly masterclass group coaching and education session in my Peaceful Plate program for hormone-positive breast cancer survivors. On a recent call one member shared this; “I feel like the whole food piece is trauma.” That beautifully honest comment launched a deep discussion about food trauma and its impact on survivors. It also made me realize I need to speak more about this! Let’s talk about the “elephant in the room” aka FOOD TRAUMA.
According to the American Psychological Association, “Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, crime, natural disaster, physical or emotional abuse, neglect, experiencing or witnessing violence, death of a loved one, war, and more.”
As a survivor of hormone-positive breast cancer your “terrible event” is just that. . .the cancer experience.
Keep in mind that everyone reacts differently to a traumatic event; one person’s trauma response is not everyone’s trauma response.
For the survivors I work with, food fear, anxiety or worry is a common way of attempting to “cope and manage” with their cancer experience, as well as their constant concern about recurrence (more on that below).
While there are plenty of ways to get information about what to eat or avoid after hormone-driven breast cancer, you and I both know you need more than that!
In my opinion and experience, simply knowing what to eat isn’t enough to move you beyond your constant food panic – you can follow every food list on the planet and still be crippled by food trauma.
Listen. Food trauma is about one thing. CONTROL.
Honestly, was there any time in your life where you felt less in control than when you were going through breast cancer?
I would bet not.
And when everything feels out of control, what’s the easiest and most available thing to control? Your food.
It seems comforting to control foods you purchase, prepare and eat – until you realize you’re terrified to deviate even the tiniest bit from your plan – doing so would mean you aren’t in control of your food universe.
But here’s the thing.
Trying to stay “in control” only serves to accelerate your food trauma; if your food is “out of control” it can mean just one thing. . .recurrence.
Hypervigilance Around Food
Worried Specific Foods Cause Recurrence
Confused by Conflicting Nutrition Messages
I can’t stress this enough, p-l-e-a-s-e don’t try to resolve your post-treatment food trauma on your own!
I would imagine you’ve tried already, or if not, you’re dealing with it the best way you know how. . .by suffering silently.
The first thing I advise is to become aware of how often you experience food trauma on a daily basis; it can show up as worry about what to eat, second-guessing your food choices or feeling guilty for not eating the “right” thing.
Food trauma is insidious and can wreak havoc even without bringing you to your knees.
If you’re thinking “Food trauma seems a little dramatic for what I’m experiencing”, I encourage you to dig a little deeper.
How often do you experience any or all of these?
You get the picture. It’s likely that you can share food trauma experiences of your own with me! I’d love that, by the way; comment below and tell me about yours.
And if that’s the case my friend, food trauma has its claws in you – but it doesn’t have to be that way.
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Not a week goes by where I don’t hear from other breast cancer survivors interested in learning what’s best to eat to support recurrence risk reduction and a healthy survivorship. Knowledge is power, and they know that the more they know, the more confident they’ll feel making diet decisions.
There’s no “quick” answer to that question, because in my opinion, applying research-based nutrition recommendations in an effective way requires a tailored approach.
Of course there are specific foods breast cancer survivors can include to create a BALANCED, VARIED, HEALTHFUL diet, and the more often they do, the better!
Yet I always say, you can know what’s best to eat, but when your kids/grandkids are home sick, you missed an important appointment, or you just feel overwhelmed by the weight of the world you’ll head straight for the “feel good” foods like cookies, chips and chocolate; broccoli be damned.
Here’s a brief overview of the power of food and all the “good stuff” your post-treatment body thrives on; refer to it when you need a little reminder:
There are so many foods that fit here, and the multitude of health benefits from them for breast cancer survivors like you are nothing short of astonishing, but I have to ask; how may of the few I listed above are you eating on a daily basis?
If you’re looking for more examples and specific foods that support healing and post-treatment health, be sure to get my FREE guide, The Five Foods Survivors Should Eat; click here!
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I’m guessing that when you think about heart health and breast cancer survivorship, you consider them separate issues.
And while that is true, they are related, so in this post I’ll shine a light on that connection.
You thought it was breast cancer? You’re not alone.
What do your ticker and your breasts have in common?
Surely you know already, in the way of day-to-day functioning, not much.
Although they occupy anatomical real estate in the same neighborhood, their respective physiological responsibilities aren’t related in the least; your heart exists as an underground dweller you tend to forget, your breasts demand constant attention like a Queen Anne Victorian slowly succumbing to neglect and disrepair if you allow it.
The sole purpose of a woman’s breasts?
The sole purpose of a woman’s heart?
You could argue the same for breasts, but that’s a completely different focus than I’ve planned for this post.
The connection?
As it turns out, especially if you’ve had breast cancer, these two seemingly disparate body parts DO have something in common.
Heart disease and breast cancer share several overlapping RISK FACTORS:
Beyond risk factors, “current breast cancer treatments can negatively impact heart health by potentially causing left ventricular dysfunction or accelerating cardiovascular disease in general, and for women with pre-existing heart disease, cancer treatment decisions by both the patient and physician may be influenced.” (1, 2)
And finally, improvements in breast cancer detection and treatment have led to an increase in the number of survivors at risk for potential long-term complications of treatment, as well as age-related heart disease.
According to the American Heart Association, “For older women, CVD poses a greater mortality threat than breast cancer itself.” (2)
To address this issue, in February 2018 the American Heart Association released its first scientific statement on coronary heart disease and breast cancer.
I was especially encouraged to see prevention and treatment of CVD in breast cancer patients addressed through references to:
Lifestyle patterns of physical activity, overweight/obesity and tobacco were thoroughly covered as well.
The bottom line?
When you eat to support a healthy heart, you also support healthy breasts.
Deliberate, intentional, quality “care and feeding” of your physical self is critical to reducing your risk of both heart disease and breast cancer.
“Care” in terms of regular physical activity, wellness check-ups and screenings. “Feeding” in terms of what and how much you choose to actually feed yourself. (4, 5)
Eat more:
Eat less:
Increase:
Decrease:
Cardiovascular disease simply means “heart disease” and includes many different conditions such as arrhythmia, coronary artery disease, and heart attack.
Diabetes, hypertension and abnormal cholesterol are all causes of heart disease, but each of these conditions can be improved or managed with diet and lifestyle behaviors.
Here’s a list of foods shown to be beneficial in lowering cholesterol and supporting healthy hearts; they also happen to be beneficial in supporting healthy breasts.
*Aim to eat DAILY | Eating for weight control? Choose 1-1.5 ounces TOTAL almonds and/or walnuts daily.
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The miracle that is your body deserves your love and respect. It is exactly this miracle that will get you through.
New year, new you.
For a few weeks now it’s likely that ads for health clubs, workout routines, diet plans and detoxes have flooded your social media and email.
Those behind the ads are on a mission to unearth the NEW YOU. You know the one. The woman just beyond the extra pounds, unhealthy diet and deconditioned body.
But this year’s different.
This year you’re ringing in the new year as a survivor of hormone-driven breast cancer.
You already are a new you, and depending on your frame of mind and experience, you may not be happy about it.
You want the old you. The woman you were every previous New Year’s Eve who vowed that her out-of-shape body, destructive eating habits and nightly wine pour were behaviors destined for change at the stroke of midnight.
Your resolution list probably looked something like this:
Lose weight. Start exercising. Eat out less. Cook more. Eat better. Cut back on the booze.
How myopic that feels in comparison to now, right?
The idea of changing to a healthier lifestyle used to feel so daunting. Now? You’d give anything to have no concern other than how to make a healthy dinner your entire family will eat, or to decide which diet you can stand for more than 24 hours.
The new year is barely underway. You’re looking at days filled with unknowns.
You don’t know how you feel about what’s happening with your body. You struggle to make peace with it. In truth? You don’t like it at all.
I invite you to welcome the New Year with a different perspective.
What if you celebrated your body in all its forms?
- Your time-of-diagnosis body, which you now distrust because you did your best to treat it reasonably well.
- Your in-treatment body, perhaps reeling from side effects, surprising you daily with its endless changes.
- Your post-treatment body, working to regain strength, flexibility, freedom from pain and navigate survivorship.
Especially if you’ve been at war with your body for years (say, pre-diagnosis), this may be a leap. But I ask you this; is it possible to at least acknowledge that you HAVE a body, one deserving of love in all its forms?
I’ve come up with a list of things to celebrate your body for. Can you imagine what it would feel like to acknowledge its power for the following?
Its ability to heal and recover
Its raw strength, even on days you may not feel particularly strong
Its power to get you off the sofa and into the kitchen for a nourishing snack
Its miraculous digesting and metabolizing of food for energy and curative properties
Its tendency toward balance in support of normal blood pressure, heart rate and rhythm, blood sugar levels and kidney function
Its signaling, subtle and strong alike, that alerts you to feeling hungry, full, cold, hot, so you can respond in kind and keep yourself safe
Its ability to bounce back from surgery, radiation, chemotherapy, medication. Perhaps not looking or feeling as it did before, but here, solidly on earth, participating in the messiness and reality of life
I could go on.
The world as you know it has been upended.
But your body is still here for you, doing its best to rock steady and rock on. What do you say to helping it along, now and in the new year to come? Let me know your thoughts in the comments – I’d love to hear your take on this! xx
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Most survivors of hormone-positive breast cancer get anxious when they think about what to eat after finishing treatment, so I’ve created the Peaceful Plate program to help survivors eat with peace, not panic.
When you eat with peace, you feel free to enjoy your food again.
Ready to eat with peace?
CLICK HERE and grab your FREE copy of The Five Foods Survivors Should Eat
CLICK THIS LINK and watch my 2-minute Peaceful Plate program video!
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This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult your dietitian or doctor for guidance specific to your needs.
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I know you think your potato chip habit will be to blame should you experience a breast cancer recurrence, but I’m here to tell you, nutrition doesn’t work that way.
While it’s common to focus on eating/not eating individual foods as a way to “manage” your recurrence risk (especially foods you eat regularly), I want to encourage you to view your diet with a healthy, balanced perspective.
In order to do that, it’s critical to learn about and understand the impact of your dietary pattern, let’s get into it!
DIETARY PATTERN DEFINED
Dietary pattern is your pattern of eating and drinking over time, such as over one week, one month, or one quarter. One single meal or food is NOT representative of your overall dietary pattern, although I realize it can certainly feel that way!
This is a concept I teach in my Peaceful Plate program, and I can’t overemphasize how important it is for you to understand it.
What fans the flames of your food panic, worry, or fear is that you think whatever you’re eating or drinking, at any time, will make your breast cancer come back.
There’s a common tendency to drill down to single foods or beverages as the culprit in causing a recurrence. Why? Because when you’re trying to manage food fears, it feels empowering to place all the blame on foods you can name.
If you can name it, identify it and avoid it. . .you’ll keep yourself safe, right?
Here’s an example of that thinking: “I have a sweet tooth and I especially love chocolate chip cookies. I know eating so much sugar isn’t good for me after my cancer, and I’m afraid my love of sweets will lead to getting cancer again.”
While I’m not going down the sugar and cancer rabbit hole in this post, you can click here to read what I’ve written about that topic.
What I want to point out is that focusing only on the sugar in chocolate chip cookies is myopic thinking.
Yes, there are certain foods associated with increased cancer risk; i.e. alcohol and processed meats.
Alcohol increases the risk of several cancers (including breast), and processed meats (sausage, ham, bacon, hot dogs, salami) when eaten regularly, increase the risk of colorectal cancer.
Having said that, it’s still necessary to look at an individual pattern of drinking the booze or eating the processed meats to get a sense of whether or not you’re following a healthy or potentially risky pattern.
And even when we DO identify dietary patterns, it’s still not possible to point to a single food or beverage as the “culprit” in a breast cancer recurrence, even as much as you’d like to blame all the cheese and crackers you “stress eat” to manage your fear.
In survivorship, the goal is to eat to support your breast and overall health, as well as manage your recurrence risk. Regardless of the type of diet you choose, there’s no guarantee of no recurrence, but research does show an association between a healthy dietary pattern and a positive impact on potentially reducing recurrence risk.
My number one tip is to put more plants on your plate. The goal is to fill ⅔ of your plate with veggies, fruits, whole grains and beans (legumes, peas and lentils), and fill ⅓ or less with animal protein.
Focus on your pattern of eating over time; is your typical eating pattern filled with produce, plant-based protein, nuts and seeds, fiber and real, whole foods?
If yes, you’re on track.
If not, start today! Keep it simple, such as adding one cup of veggies at dinner and an extra serving of fruit during your day.
And remember. . .a healthy dietary pattern doesn’t mean a perfect dietary pattern.
Perfection isn’t possible, but doing a little bit better than you did yesterday is!
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How often do you sit down for a meal or snack and experience a moment of worry before you eat? Probably more often than you’d like.
I see this happening with way too many women after finishing treatment for hormone-driven breast cancer; their food scares them!
Food doesn’t have to be scary, and eating doesn’t have to feel stressful, panicky or worrisome.
Is this relatable? You. . .
I’m guessing this sounds familiar, and that’s why you’re here.
If you struggle with any (or all) of those issues, you know you’re not eating with peace.
And it’s exhausting.
You know what’s even more exhausting?
When you know you’re not eating with peace and you want things to be different, but your brain is so food-panicked you can’t get there.
There tend to be three main reasons why your brain is stuck in panic mode about food:
How do you get there?
With the skillset and mindset necessary to optimize your nutritional health and well-being.
Here’s what it looks like:
These two work hand-in-hand; I encourage you not to prioritize one over the other!
When you’re in that eat/regret/guilt cycle, it’s easy to trash talk yourself and head down the “F”-it food highway.
The “F”-it food highway has all sorts of off-ramps to other places your brain likes to visit, like the exits for:
You know what I’m talking about, because it’s likely you’re living it.
If you’re not okay with that, and you’re ready for change, I want you to know that there is help available. We all need support to make lifestyle changes, especially when it comes to something as personal as after-breast cancer nutrition.
The take-away? Eating the foods you love without guilt, panic or stress is what eating with peace is all about, and yes, you can have that too!
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Thanks for reading my blog post! Inspired and/or enlightened by what you read? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss a new post.
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This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult your dietitian or doctor for guidance specific to your needs.
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