How much time do you spend thinking about hair?
You probably fix it most days.
You get it cut a few times a year.
And sometimes you stare a little too long at when someone dyes theirs blue.
Some folks wash it every day. Some go with “dry shampoo” and call it good.
We all know bedhead and hat hair when we see them.
Hair is an interesting thing.
- If you’re eating out and find an unknown stray in your food, your appetite vanishes.
- Samson was toast without it.
- We shave some areas, grow out others, laser it off entirely, and wince in pain when it gets pulled.
And yet, most days — once we run a comb through it and add a little product — we don’t think much about it at all.
Unless it becomes a situation.
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My family can attest that I’ve done plenty of things with my hair.
I’ve grown it long enough for a man bun and pulled it up like a sumo wrestler.
I’ve dyed it. Bleached it.
Side note:
One time in college, my buddy Craig and I decided to dye our hair. I convinced him to do his by sticking his head in a toilet full of bleach. Teenagers are full of confidence and terrible ideas.
With the help of my mother-in-law, I’ve permed my hair.
I’ve worn mullets, side-parts, and middle parts.
Styled it up. Styled it down.
And I’ve probably looked at way more Brad Pitt and David Beckham photos than I care to admit — hoping my barber could turn me into one of them.
Speaking of my barber, don’t ask her how many times I’ve fallen asleep in her chair.
I’ve got a love-hate relationship with hair.
At least mine.
Around the time we started to have kids, I noticed some changes.
More on the shower floor. More scalp catching the sun.
For a while, I could ignore it. Unless I saw it in a photo.
Here’s the thing, hair is one of the few things that can be both dead and emotionally manipulative.
My experiment with Rogaine lasted about two months. Maybe I wasn’t patient enough, but the return on investment wasn’t there. Mel, to her credit, never wavered. Till death do us part.
I own lots of hats. Mostly ball caps. I bet I wear one about 75% of the time. Including right now.
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But today, I’m thinking about hair. Or the lack of it.
I went to see Vanessa this week, and while she tried, she couldn’t talk me out of getting rid of mine.
Cue-ball.
Mr Clean.
Dr Evil.
Aerodynamic.
I’ve heard them all. And honestly? I’m good with it.
What I’m not worried about today is the wind.
Or people taller than me.
Or sitting on the front row.
Because no one wakes up thinking about hair, but everyone wakes up judging it.
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18 years ago this smiley little munchkin made me a dad. I’m as proud of him today as I was the day we brought him home.
C – here’s eighteen things I think that every 18-year old could benefit from knowing. It’s not an exhaustive list and it’s not in any sort of ranked order. I didn’t come up with them all and I don’t want to imply that I hit them all consistently, your mileage may vary.
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– Love God, love your neighbor.
– It’s easy to put someone down, but much more difficult to build them up.
– Consistently show up. You’ll achieve much more by being consistently reliable than by being occasionally extraordinary.
– Success is fleeting, find joy in everyday life.
– On your deathbed, you won’t wish you had spent more time at the office.
– Choose your hard.
– Say “I love you”. Tell them.
– No one has it all figured out.
– The people you choose to surround yourself with will determine your outcomes.
– The good old days are happening right now.
– Confidence is built.
– Nobody cares nearly as much as you think they do.
– Apologize when you’re wrong, taking responsibility is important.
– Practice gratitude.
– Stay curious.
– The only real failure is not trying.
– Manage your money and your time. (But only one of them can you get back.)
– Books are cool.
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The fall season was short, just a 6-game league play where — due to a field shortage — we had to play everything away. Also, just to see where our boys stacked up, our head coach of the baseball program signed us up for the JV1 division which means we would be playing against 5A and 6A schools, instead of the 2A and 3A-sized schools that we typically play against. No complaints, we had a great time.
We also got our teeth kicked in most games. Thankfully, we improved every week, ending up pulling out a win in our last game to finish the season with a 1-5 record…
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From the email:
Electing Clowns
In not-so-surprising news to me, our school board is at it again.
I doubt it’s national news but we have school board situation that’s kind of embarrassing. Over the last couple of elections, the two communities that share a single school district here locally have essentially gone off the rails when it comes to finding normal leaders to lead our students. It’s a microcosm of what our nation has seen at the macro level: extremism, shaming, blaming, fire-throwing, name calling, and generally less-than-mature behavior. I’ve stayed out of it for the most part but I’m not totally ignorant to what has gone on.
(the rest of this was on an old email newsletter that shut down, thanks TinyLetter)
]]>Life in Grapevine, Texas during the 1920’s to 1950’s (from the Star-Telegram archive)
A while back I stumbled across this post from the Star-Telegram of photos from our little town back in the day. Because too much on the internet gets lost, I decided to grab a copy of it all as an archive for myself. Your mileage may vary.
A couple things I’ve noted looking through them:
- #1: We attend this congregation though neither the building or the location are the same as this photo.
- #7: This school building still stands and has been a place of education for both of my boys (currently the younger one still has 1.5 years left in it). It’s also a block from our house.
- #12: We’ve had the same mayor for over 40 years. The mayor before him? His dad.
- #19: The Lucas family has owned and operated a funeral home in Grapevine for decades. My current office used to be the place where they stored their caskets.
- #24: Ola Mae (Black) Hodges was one of our favorite Grapevine residents for years when we first moved here. She and her husband lived in the same house for almost 60 years and amazingly enough, had the same phone number for their entire time of owning the home. Her husband Bob was a war veteran, a varsity quarterback at Grapevine HS, and has forgotten more committed-to-memory scripture than I’ll ever be able to learn.
- #32: There are more cantaloupes in this picture than I’ve seen grown in this town in my entire time living here. I kind of wish I was around when we were a little more agriculture focused.
- #33: The tallest building on the left side of the street in this photo is my office (right above where it says Drugs).
- #36: This building is about 3 doors north of my office. No longer a bank, now it’s a steakhouse.
- #37: We live in the D.E. Box neighborhood of Grapevine. Prior to this photo, I didn’t know who D.E Box was.
- #43: Again, office on left side, tallest building.
- #44: A little more recent view of downtown to match it up with #43.
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Aug. 26, 1952: New Church of Christ building in East Grapevine
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Oct. 31, 1950: This air view shows the $630,000 grade separation of State Highway 121 to Grapevine, left, and State Highway 183 to Dallas, right. Tarrant County’s incorporated town – Richland Hills – a residential project, is at the top left. Along the new four-lane highway to Dallas, construction of a shopping center was underway. A second residential development was under way south off 183.
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April 6, 1950: “Mrs. William R. Nichols of Grapevine, a rural census enumerator, finds barbed wire fences and forbidding-looking cows all in a day’s work as she trudges from a farm, taking the agricultural and population census in Tarrant County. She is one of 51 enumerators working in county, excluding Fort Worth.”
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June 21, 1952: Arriving in Grapevine from Washington, D. C., the family of Congressman Wingate Lucas starts unpacking Saturday by removing four bicycles from the top of the car. Left to right are Mary Ann Clark, niece of Mrs. Lucas, holding the dog, Weinie; Mrs. Lucas, and the five Lucas children, Ellen, Will, Wink, Mary Dell and Christine.
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May 13, 1958: Highway Patrolman Howard L. Robuck of Grapevine and curious bystanders examine the car in which Sidney A. Morse of Denton was riding when it rammed a freight train. Morse was killed as the car was knocked down embankment into a telephone pole.
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Undated: Early pioneer William Giddens and his home near Grapevine, Texas.
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Oct. 24, 1950: Grapevine school students gathered outside the building to watch Harry Fielder, sophomore son of Mr. and Mrs. D. H. Fielder, raise the American and United Nations flags. Members of the Grapevine Home Demonstration Club made the U. N. banner and presented it to the school.
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Nov. 19, 1958: Cheers for the Grapevine High School Mustangs are led by left to right top, Judy Gee, Margaret Ann Davis, Jean Parker, and bottom, Patsy Miller, Jana Brackney and Mattie lou Baze.
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Nov. 18, 1958: Grapevine Gallopers — Backs who will see action for Mustangs against Bowie Friday night are, left to right, James Davis, Wayne Quenichet, Daryll Hawkins, Johnny Bowen, Jackie Dyer, John Fielder.
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Dec. 5, 1947: Grapevine Dam and Reservoir groundbreaking. Left to right, Mayor Floyd Deacon of Grapevine of Dallas. Frank Wilson, Dallas; John W. Carpenter, Dallas, president of Trinity Improve Association; Congressman Wingate Lucas of Grapevine, Col. Henry Hutchings Junior, Dallas; Mayor Edgar Deen, Dale Temple of Dallas, Amon Carter, former Congressman Hatton Summer of Dallas; Col. Bernard L. Robinson, Galveston, and John M. Founts, general manager of Trinity Improvement Association.
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March 21, 1946: From front, J.W Morris, Henry Emery, Gaylen Cowley and Bill Pair, all of Grapevine, Texas. The group of four are Grapevine’s winning 440-yard relay team in the 11-A track meet that took place at Farrington Field.
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Sept. 29, 1951: Superintendent Ben Stone of the Eagle Mountain state fish hatchery releases fish stock in the Grapevine Lake. Standing behind him are D. R. Wiley, left, president of the Fort Worth Anglers Club, and Gordon Tate, mayor of Grapevine, who expects that city to profit from the lake.
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Nov. 17, 1953: “Titled ‘YELL LEADERS,’ pictured here are the five Grapevine students in charge of directing the cheering section at high school football games. They are, from left to right, standing, Jessie Lou Hall, Wanda Tillery, Nelmarie Shofner. Allison Thomas kneels. Sherly Jo Gay, the fifth leader, is not pictured.”
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Sept. 14, 1953: Looking south toward Grapevine, the new Grapevine dam is shown as water builds up into a real lake that – come next June – should be one of the most popular fishing holes in North Texas. At conservation level it will cover 7,300 acres and at flood stage, 10,000 acres.
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May 12, 1952: Mrs. Ruth Hahn is very proud of her 2,000-pound Milking Shorthorn bull, Ma’s Fearless, which she uses on her farm near Grapevine.
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July 3, 1952: Grapevine dam
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Aug. 26, 1952: A ranch type home of Mr. and Mrs. A.C. Stone. The backyard slopes down to Grapevine Lake.
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May 1958: Sarah Bunnell, 17, of Grapevine, 4-H Girl
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July 13, 1940: The W. C. (Mann) Lucas family, at Grapevine, Texas, is shown relaxing in lawn furniture outside Mrs. Lucas’ studio, converted from a 40-year-old smokehouse. Pictured are Mr. and Mrs. Lucas and their son and daughter.
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Jan. 14, 1951: Mr. and Mrs. Joe Hilliard of Grapevine got a surprise when Walter Kidd, 17, of Smithfield, failed to turn a corner and rammed his car through their front door and stepped out on the living room floor uninjured. The Hilliards were startled but not hurt.
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Aug. 12, 1953: This rare albino raccoon, a freak of nature, likes watermelon as much as his owner, Dr. J.H. Hicks, a veterinarian at Grapevine. Dr. Hicks’ dogs treed the animals while hunting recently. Because albino coons are so rare, Dr. Hicks is keeping him as a pet and hopes to obtain a female albino.
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June 22, 1952: Mr. and Mrs. F.L. Bass of Grapevine celebrating their Golden Wedding anniversary. She graduated from Baylor College in 1900 and taught school in Grapevine and Pecan Gap. Her husband was born in 1880 in Hattiesburg, Mississippi. He was an employee of Santa Fe Railroad and was in the grocery business here.
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July 13, 1958: “Craig Norman, saved from downing by brother James Lee Norman. Craig, who hasn’t got his sea-legs yet, toppled off a dock into Grapevine Lake late Saturday. More used to range than the water, Craig began to flounder.”
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June 19, 1940: Four of the 23 candidates who will compete for selection as queen of Grapevine’s sixth annual Cantaloupe Festival on June 28. The contestants are, left to right, Gladys M. Vaughan, Ola Mae Black, Charlotte Allison and Loveta Buckingham.
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May 22, 1945: Grapevine, Texas, school children visiting Forest Park in Fort Worth. James Sanders, first-grader, and Julie Ann Melton, second-grader, prepare for a ride on the swings.
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June 23, 1939: Helen Hall, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A.L. Hall of Grapevine, enjoys a bite from a peach, one of the biggest and most irregular of small money crops in Tarrant and surrounding counties of North Texas
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Feb. 14, 1955: Grapevine dam
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Jan. 29, 1951: Catholic clergy from Dallas and Fort Worth helped dedicate St. Francis Church in Grapevine
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July 3, 1952: At Grapvine Dam, left to right, George Bennett, Fort Worth; R.C. Coffee of University Park; C.C. English, Dallas; J. B. Adoue Jr. of Dallas; John W. Carpenter of Dallas; Col. Herbert D. Vogel of Dallas; H. R. Hallock of Fort Worth and Gordon Tate of Grapevine. McAulay, Joe
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April 9, 1947: W.E. Keeling, editor and publisher of the Grapevine Sun
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Oct. 24, 1941: Early season heavy rains have delayed the cotton harvest a full month in Tarrant County, Texas. Local farmers are doing their best to get the last of the crop to the gin before the winter weather ruins their product. Riding on top of a load of cotton is Patsy Lee McPherson. She is the 4-year-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. T. W. McPherson, of Grapevine, Texas.
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July 3, 1941: Darlene Jackson, queen of the Grapevine Cantaloupe Festival.
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June 1940: View of Grapevine, Texas’, Main Street (Highway 121). On the left side of the road are various businesses, including a gas station, Willhoite Garage, a drugstore and a pharmacy. There are advertisements for Coca-Cola on the buildings. In the background, center, is the Grapevine, Texas, water tower. On the right side of the road is a laundromat and other businesses. The sign outside the laundromat reads, “Help U Self Laundry.”
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July 6, 1939: Large crowd attends Grapevine’s fifth annual Cantaloupe Festival, with a dance, baseball game, melon judging, carnival rides, and crowning of a queen
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June 1939: Grapevine’s WPA canning plant, which produces thousands of cans of fruit, vegetables and meat. From left, Mrs. A.J. McCord, Mrs. Ruth Long, Mrs. S.D. Coursey and J.W. Barnett
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March 24, 1942: Exterior of the new First National Bank building at Grapevine, Texas.
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March 24, 1942: D.E. Box, president of the new First National Bank at Grapevine, Texas, shown standing inside the bank building.
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July 10, 1941: Grapevine Mayor B. B. Wall, presenting cantaloupes to out-of-town guests at the Cantaloupe Festival. From left, Misses Jane Mangold, Granbury; and Betty Jo Quillin and Edith Lipscomb, Houston.
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July 13, 1940: Jim Daniel is the city marshal of Grapevine, Texas.
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June 1940: The intersection of Highway 114 (Northwest Highway) and Highway 121 in Grapevine, Texas. On the side of the road, far left, are various buildings and businesses, including a Mobil gas station. A sign on the building reads “Willingham Service.” Another building has a sign out front advertising Southern Select Beer.
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April 16, 1940: Mayor B.R. Wall of Grapevine, Texas, will be honored as his town’s No. 1 citizen on Wednesday night. He is shown in his law office, admiring one of the gifts he received – a string of beads from Pitcairn Island. A copy of the “Grapevine Sun” is displayed on his desk.
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June 23, 1939: Grapevine Cantaloupe Festival: Festival Queen candidates, Helen Hall, Mildred Hines and Darlene Jackson
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Capt Aug. 30, 1929: Main Street in Grapevine, Texas ion
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And one more modern view of downtown for good measure. This image is probably 7-8 years old.
Just to be clear, I was standing behind an L-screen and my entire body was behind it when the ball was struck. What I wasn’t aware of, was the small hole that had opened up between the netting and the pole that it was attached to right about face-height for a pitcher as they follow through with their motion. The ball found it and my maxillofacial bones without too much trouble.
I was immediately turned and dropped with a handful of blood and a gaggle of 7th grade boys running to my side to check on me. While it happened fairly quickly, I remember most of it quite vividly.
Since I’ve made it about seven days, I figured I’d document a few things I don’t want to forget going forward:
- I am a lucky/blessed man. Depending on what your belief system is, I am fortunate on multiple fronts.
- It could have been a lot worse. There’s a chance this story could have never been pinned and I’ve thought about that more than once.
- I have people in my life who care deeply for me and I hope I never take that for granted. My wish is the same for each and every one of you… to have this and to know this (without enduring a similar experience). The calls, texts, food, prayers, emails, texts, calls, notes, kind words, hugs, etc. Y’all are awesome.
- With all of it’s faults, we do have a pretty spectacular medical system in the United States; my journey isn’t over yet but the speed, the expertise, and the technology that I have seen over the last week has been pretty impressive.
- People are understanding. Everyone has deadlines and needs but most I’ve dealt with have been understanding of my situation and provided grace as I return back to full speed.
- Protein shakes aren’t that tasty. I’m looking down the barrel of a 6-week soft food diet and trying to find things to keep me from wasting away. I’ve tried a couple so far and I had a buddy bring me a new mixable powder today but I can’t say that I’m ready to go all-in on a liquid diet forever, just yet.
- I didn’t realize how much I talked. Sorry all, maybe the next 6-8 weeks will train me to be a little slower to speak and quicker to listen. Strong verbs, short sentences. *
- It was only a matter of time. It’s kind of morbid to think about but I’ve been climbing into batting cages (or fields, bullpens, sand lots) for over 11 years as a coach/father and you just have to figure with the law of averages that at some point, I was going to get hit. I’ve taken plenty of arm and leg shots, but I’m assuming this will be the one I remember the longest.
- It wasn’t his fault. Note to self: You’ve reached out to both of his parents and will continue to do so, just help him to understand nothing about this was his fault. He hit a great ball and it was a total freak accident, don’t let him wear it.
- I’ll be back. It’ll take a minute and I’m sure it will rattle me a little, but I love those dudes and that game too much not to saddle up and give it another go.
- They know best and they mean well. There are days where your wife and your mom are probably right, even when you don’t agree with them. Let them be right sometimes.
- I’ve never had orthodontia. But I guess now is as good of a time as any.
- I turned down the plates and screws. It’s his job, it’s how he gets paid, obviously he’s going to recommend it. But I don’t have to do it. I’ll endure the protein shakes and mashed potatoes over metal and surgery. Sure hope I’m right.
- Medical stuff wigs me out. Pretty sure that CT Scan shot lasers through my brain and I didn’t like it one bit.
- Telling others is weird. Writing this post, telling people via text or phone, or generally sharing in any capacity feels odd. It feels like I’m bragging but I promise, I’m not. It’s why I haven’t posted on social media or anywhere else yet, I don’t want it to seem like I’m pandering for empathy. I know you care.
- I’m glad it was me. Do you know how bad I would feel right now if I had one of my players throwing batting practice that night to the other ones? I don’t think I could sleep.
- My business partner is a pretty solid dude. I’d have fired me long ago. He just rolls with it and continually picks up the slack.
- “At least 3 fractures.” Bones (and our bodies) are crazy things. They break and then they heal. Hard for me to reconcile that fact with other theories out there.
I’m sure there’s more.
I’m re-adjusting. It’ll take time but I’ll get back to 100. If you want to see me in rough-ER-aftermath-shape, I’ve added a picture after the break. I don’t blame you if it’s not your thing.
*Bernadine Healy
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Youth sports is a machine now. It’s a money making engine. And it’s not just baseball; many of you parents do it for soccer, cheer, dance, lacrosse, swimming, basketball, etc.
I am fully aware that my family feeds into it.
1/x
There is a place for recreational sports, it doesn’t have to be ‘select’ or nothing.
My Saturday morning consisted of hosting Opening Day ceremonies for our local Rec program and it was amazing. The joy on the faces was contagious.
2/x
Parade of teams; first pitches; new uniforms; home run derby’s; T-ball kids running to the wrong base; and parents that were just excited to see little Johnny try something out.
Parents of young ones, if I have any advice, don’t look past those days.
3/x
Will there be a day that you need to move Johnny into something more competitive? Possibly. But I promise you, it’s entirely okay to allow them to play for fun.
Please don’t take the fun away. Not for an upgraded jersey or a $5 ring (or worse, your own bragging rights).
4/x
Let them dream of playing in the big leagues. Are their chances high? No. Do fractional statistics about their chances of playing SS for a living on the Yankees matter to a 10-year old? Nope. Encourage them to dream big.
5/x
Utilize team sports to teach lessons. Teamwork. Encouraging others. Dusting yourself (and others) off when you fail. Overcoming struggles and losses. Celebrating little and big wins. Building (and re-building) confidence.
6/x
I’ve seen it and said it 1 million times:
Parents ruin youth sports.
Don’t be that parent.
7/x
My rules for being a good sports (or other extra-curricular) parent:
1. Cheer for your player and their teammates.
2. Repeat.
Now, I admit that I break rule number 1. I don’t have it all figured out but I’m working on it. When I’m a grandparent, I’ll nail it.
8/x
When the game is over. Tell them you love them and that you enjoyed watching them play. Mean it.
They’re going to strike out. They’re going to make errors. They’re going to *insert every mistake you can think of for your preferred sport*.
Tell them you’re proud of them.
9/x
Some of the best lessons my boys have learned have come from things that have happened in the participation of activities with others. I’m thankful for those lessons, some of which I can’t teach on my own.
However, there are a couple I can teach; your mileage may vary…
10/x
Lessons that I have on my plate to teach them:
1. Love God
2. Know that God loves you.
3. Love your neighbor.
4. Know that your family loves you.
If I can get them to understand those, the rest has a good chance of working itself out.
11/x
If I ever make it my goal of teaching them that their worth is based on their performance, I failed. (And trust me, I have)
“I love you and I enjoyed watching you play.” – dad
If you can do that, you’re gonna nail being a sports parent.
12/x
My apologies, this tweet storm probably would have been a little more suited for an email or a blog post.
I guess the moral of the story is this: baseball is fun. Go play catch with your kid (or do whatever else it is that they love to do).
13/13
]]>Last week was Spring Break for our kids. It wasn’t in the cards for us to do a big SB trip but we also didn’t want the boys to not have anything the whole week, either. We opted for a few days of mixed rest, chores, and play for them and them and then Melanie and I both took Friday off to hang and do a bit of a stay-cation date with them. If you’re local to DFW and wanting to pull one of your own off, here’s our itinerary and my feedback:
9:30a
La La Land Coffee (Oak Lawn)
★★★★☆
Cool spot. Lots of yellow. Plenty of parking behind the building. Wait was probably 15 mins from entry to getting coffee. Limited seating inside and tables were totally full, had to get it to go. Cohen got some sort of “campfire” drink that was pretty cool — they dropped some marshmallow cream on top and cooked it with a torch, crumbled graham crackers, etc.
10:30a
OSO Climbing Gym (Design District)
★★★★☆
If I could figure out how, I’d give this 4.5 stars. I had a blast and I think the boys did as well. Melanie enjoyed it but I don’t think it’s going to be her “thing.” OSO is a ‘bouldering’ gym only which means that there are no harness or ropes, just shorter walls that you climb down or jump off when you’re done and mats at the bottom. OSO was welcoming and friendly; the place was super-clean; they were cool with the boys being there; and I felt zero judgement from anyone. They had ‘routes’ for everyone from beginners to experts. We just bought day-passes which gave us access to everything but if I was 10 years younger and 10 miles closer, they might have been able to talk me into a membership. Lessons learned:
- 1. Climbing folks are tough cookies!
- 2. Your forearms and fingers will hate you for a day or two after.
- 3. It’s physically impossible to do some of the things the regulars were doing, they had to have glue on their hands or actually be Spiderman.
12:45p
Hurtado BBQ (Arlington)
★★★★★
I’d never heard of Hurtado until Texas Monthly ranked them in the Top 50 BBQ joints last fall, and they are absolutely deserving of that award. So good. Brisket, ribs, burnt ends, birria tacos, smoked turkey, etc. We stood in line for probably 20-25 minutes and lucked out with an indoor table right as we paid. It was windy/cool that day so sitting outside would have been a challenge. They’re open Wed-Sun from 11a until 5p or sellout. The only thing that was sold out when we got there was the sausage and I believe we got the last of the burnt ends (my apologies to everyone behind us). The customer service was great and the prices were actually reasonable for BBQ. We got the El Jefe platter for $40 and it fed all four of us with some leftover to take home.
2:30p
Urban Air Adventure Park (Southlake)
★★★☆☆
This one was a fail on my part. On Thursday, I had looked up Crush It Sports in Grapevine and the times were wide open; I had no idea it would fill up so quickly on Friday. We showed up and they didn’t have anything available. We also looked at Free Play Arlington and Corky’s Gaming Bistro as options but when we asked the boys, they said they’d prefer Urban Air. As a parent, this place isn’t all that exciting but the boys had fun and it was what they wanted to do. They both played dodgeball, hit the trampolines for a bit, and Keegan drove the go karts one time. I’d give it 2.5 stars, your mileage may vary.
6:15p
Derby (Dallas)
★☆☆☆☆
This place had so much potential. We found it on our phones while sitting at Urban Air. We wanted to finish out the day with a fun dinner spot. The concept and ambiance were really cool, the execution, not so much. The idea is that they’ve got a pristine warehouse full of a variety of cool cars stored there (privately owned) and you eat dinner alongside it. There were old cars, new cars, motorbikes, etc. The only problem is? You can’t get out and walk around and get a look at the cars. You eat in a room next door with big glass windows but unless you’re a member, you can’t walk out near them. Let. down. To top it off, the pricing was a bit much ($18 hamburger) and the food was less than mediocre. I don’t think any of us liked our meals. The boys got a Cuban sandwich for $18 and they immediately pointed out that Wienberger’s (the local deli here in Grapevine) would kill it for half the price! Can’t recommend this place to anyone, even car enthusiasts.
7:30p
Howdy Homemade Ice Cream (North Dallas)
★★★★★
Where Derby failed, Howdy made up for it. I’ll eat ice cream just fine though I don’t crave it like some. And the ice cream here was very good but my favorite part about Howdy is that one of their missions is providing work for — and building up — the special needs community. We had the pleasure of meeting Hannah and Megan and I can imagine we will be returning again. Mission-minded businesses always have a good chance of earning my business, especially when they execute it right. Well done, Howdy.
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All-in-all, we had a really good day. It wasn’t skiing in the Alps but I think the boys enjoyed it. There was no fortnite-ing; very little arguing; and several, “thank you’s” throughout the day, so I call it a success.
This typically isn’t a travel blog so feel free to pass right on through if it isn’t your thing.
If you are in the Dallas area and need some other date-night or family-night ideas, hit me up. If you have any, feel free to send those along as well.
At the time of this writing, I’ve been married over 21 years. I bought this hat in college, prior to getting married, meaning that I’ve owned it for more than 21 years. As you can see, it’s been worn a couple times.
The bill shows signs of wear. A frayed edge; exposed guts; sweat rings; a faded autograph. There’s paint on it. The blues are muted and the whites definitely aren’t white when you set it next to something that is.
I don’t wear it that much anymore. Sometimes I’ll pull it out of the closet and toss it on backwards. The barrelled curve of the bill isn’t as trendy as it used to be, but more than that, it’s a little hard to finagle when wearing with my glasses. I’ve mowed in it. I’ve surfed in it. I’ve rescued it just before sinking to the bottom of the lake on a summer day. I’ve worn it to baseball games. I’ve tucked it under my leg while riding my motorcycle knowing that when I took my helmet off I would want something to hide the craziness of helmet-hair.
On the back, it has a ‘1974’ embroidered on it. It’s a commemorative hat. April 8, 1974 was the day that Hank Aaron hit career home run number 715, passing the mark set by Babe Ruth. Hammerin’ Hanks record (755) stood for another 30 years (and if you ask some purists, still stands today).
The lower case ‘a’ on the front is a throwback to the one worn by the Atlanta Braves in the 70’s. Today’s version is a capital ‘A’, sometimes combined with a tomahawk.
There’s controversy with the name. There’s precedence for change. The Football Team went first and then the Guardians. One has to wonder how much longer before the Braves become the Vipers, or the Pine Trees, or the all encompassing Team of Baseball Players.
My home state(s) didn’t have a professional baseball team growing up. We got one in an expansion era when I was in high school.
Funny side note, my cousin and I got tickets one time to go see the Rockies play in April. It was probably their first or second season to play. We got up early, made the 4-ish hour drive over to Denver, found the stadium, parked, got inside, grabbed our hot dogs, found our seats, and promptly waited in the snow for an hour before they postponed the game to a later date in the season. I was part of what was probably the first “snowout” in the Colorado Rockies franchise history.
Even though they came to my state, I didn’t really ever have many ties to the home team.
I already had a team.
I have no idea how Ted Turner is as a person. I vaguely recall stories of his ex-wife being “un-American” and if you Google him today, he’s got some controversial viewpoints of his own. His personal interests are of little consequence to me mostly, but I am grateful for his contribution to my life in one area.
For a time, Ted owned a medium-sized-market franchise baseball team called the Atlanta Braves. That in itself probably wouldn’t have too much impact on my life if he hadn’t also been the founder of a small cable TV channel called WTBS.
In the plains of eastern New Mexico and on the western slope of Colorado, we might have had a shortage of professional baseball teams but we had TV and access to a random cable network called TBS. And with TBS, we had baseball.
Real baseball. Live games. Skip Carey. 7th inning stretches. Dale Murphy. Take Me Out To The Ballgame. Intentional walks. Steve Avery. And so much more.
Leroy Thomas moved to Portales, New Mexico nearly two decades before I was born. From what I’ve seen with my own eyes, he’s been a small business owner; a preacher of the Word; a civically-minded stalwart in his community; a family man; a lover of grand kids; a lender of hands, feet, advice, love, and money; and I’m grateful for all of these things and for the example he’s set for generations. He’s far greater than even what I’ve seen with my eyes though.
I know him as Ponga. And today, the thing that I’m really grateful for, is my grandfather’s love for — and the introduction to — the Atlanta Braves.
It’s been a quarter of a century since the Braves had won the World Series. But this morning, they get to reset that clock again. It took them 6 games and unfortunately they didn’t even get to do it on their own field, but they are champs once more. Quite frankly, from a talent standpoint, they shouldn’t be the champs. They aren’t a group of mashers nor are they a set of 4 top aces that go 8-innings deep each outing. They’re not quite misfits but as Joe Buck told us 312 times, they’re mostly newbies around each other, only coming together in their final form at the trading deadline.
But they’re Ponga’s team. And by proxy — starting somewhere around the age of 2 or 3 — they became my team.
Ask many Braves fans and I bet they’ll tell you a similar story. The Braves were all we had. And for this short while, we get to tell you the story again.
I haven’t called him yet but I have no doubt that Ponga was watching last night. Unfortunately his eyesight isn’t what it used to be but I know he enjoyed it. The home runs, the double plays, the non-challenge in the first inning of game 6; I know he was as plugged in as I was.
“The one constant through all the years, Ray, has been baseball.”
– Terence Mann
This morning I pulled my old hat out of the closet and carried it with me to work. Today it’s been on my desk, on my head, waived in the air at my luncheon, and prompted smiles from many. And I’m happy that it still fits.
So, lets cheers to old hats. And shared interests. And legacies. And baseball.
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