I witnessed ground-breaking research back in the hills of West Virginia years ago. Research coal owners tried to stop so they wouldn't have to compensate miners who were suffocating from black lung.
]]>I witnessed ground-breaking research back in the hills of West Virginia years ago. Research coal owners tried to stop so they wouldn't have to compensate miners who were suffocating from black lung.
]]>When I arrived in multi-cultural San Francisco, I was newly 21. It was 1978 and large marches and protests against the Shah of Iran were already happening there. I just didn't notice it much at first.
This is the story of what I learned there and how what happened in 1979 mirrors today's events.
]]>When I arrived in multi-cultural San Francisco, I was newly 21. It was 1978 and large marches and protests against the Shah of Iran were already happening there. I just didn't notice it much at first.
This is the story of what I learned there and how what happened in 1979 mirrors today's events.
]]>Chaos. Everything is chaos. American Citizens are dead from the guns of ICE.
What's a senator or congressman to do? For heaven's sake, what do we expect them to do?
We've been here before, haven't we?
I grew up deep in the heart of southern West Virginia coal country where men risked their lives, every day, to line the pockets of the Coal Kings. When the Black Lung Wild Cat Strikes came, I fled to Baltimore, only to find it again. Here's the story of those times when we experienced chaos.
I invite you to listen and then share this story and invite people in your community into a conversation. Because change has to start somewhere.
]]>Chaos. Everything is chaos. American Citizens are dead from the guns of ICE.
What's a senator or congressman to do? For heaven's sake, what do we expect them to do?
We've been here before, haven't we?
I grew up deep in the heart of southern West Virginia coal country where men risked their lives, every day, to line the pockets of the Coal Kings. When the Black Lung Wild Cat Strikes came, I fled to Baltimore, only to find it again. Here's the story of those times when we experienced chaos.
I invite you to listen and then share this story and invite people in your community into a conversation. Because change has to start somewhere.
]]>When I heard that "The President" and our news-commentator-turned-secretary-of-war had invaded Venezuela and kidnapped their leader, memories flew out of my mind like F-22 Raptors on a tarmac because…
I know what it feels like to be invaded.
The story starts at my aunt's house, near Pittsburgh. I went there for a week one summer to hang out with my cousins. She lived in a brick home in the suburbs and the bathroom door had a white bag with tubing that swung from a hook.
]]>When I heard that "The President" and our news-commentator-turned-secretary-of-war had invaded Venezuela and kidnapped their leader, memories flew out of my mind like F-22 Raptors on a tarmac because…
I know what it feels like to be invaded.
The story starts at my aunt's house, near Pittsburgh. I went there for a week one summer to hang out with my cousins. She lived in a brick home in the suburbs and the bathroom door had a white bag with tubing that swung from a hook.
]]>I believed her, because the Grandma I knew was mean to everyone. Everyone except Boots, her big gray tomcat with white paws.
She wasn't the kind of grandma who held you on her lap, only Boots got to sit on her lap. She was the kind of grandma who held you to standards of adult behavior when you were only eight.
The only room of her house that was heated was the sitting room. It had a big gas fireplace flanked by two walnut rockers her brother had made her as a wedding gift. A daybed piled high with quilts sat against the back wall. When she wasn't napping, that's where the guests sat. Adult guests, that is. Kids were to be seen and not heard. While Boots sat on her lap, we sat at her feet on a hand-hooked rug.
She was always baking something so the oven kept the kitchen warm. The bathroom was above the kitchen, and all the other rooms were cold as ice, especially the bedrooms.
She heated the beds upstairs with hot water bottles. She'd stick one under the covers at the bottom of the bed, which was really rather effective, once you stopped shaking and the shivers wore off.
I hated sleeping at Grandma's house, because I had to share a bed with Betsy, my baby sister. We fought so much Daddy called us The Cinderella Sisters. She had nails like razor blades and kicked like a mule. I snored, so neither of us slept much when we had to sleep together.
We were always forced upstairs to go to bed before it was even dark. It always happened the same way. Grandma Long would let out a big sigh and say, "I've had my fill of you kids. Let's get you off to bed."
Long after we were tucked away upstairs, the grown-ups were still swapping stories downstairs. Their laughter wafted up the steps and laid down in the hall next to the aromas of butter cookies and strong coffee.
It was a wild night outside that Christmas Eve. Sleet slashed at the single-pane windows, mountain smoke drifted up from the river, and angry West Virginia winds were chasing gray clouds around the sky like a sheriff after moonshiners.
Betsy and I couldn't sleep for all the laughter, so we pulled the homemade curtains back to watch for Santa Claus and prayed he knew we were there.
Just as our eyes could stay awake no longer, a star, not Santa Claus, appeared in the sky. Betsy, who was destined be a pastor like our Daddy, clapped her tiny hands and said, "Look Sister! It's God's star and it's so bright, the dark can't cover it!"
My sister died just before Christmas last year.
As I remember her words now, I realize that even at five years of age, she was a deep soul who had it figured out right:
When God's light reigns in our hearts, the darkness cannot overcome it.
]]>
I believed her, because the Grandma I knew was mean to everyone. Everyone except Boots, her big gray tomcat with white paws.
She wasn't the kind of grandma who held you on her lap, only Boots got to sit on her lap. She was the kind of grandma who held you to standards of adult behavior when you were only eight.
The only room of her house that was heated was the sitting room. It had a big gas fireplace flanked by two walnut rockers her brother had made her as a wedding gift. A daybed piled high with quilts sat against the back wall. When she wasn't napping, that's where the guests sat. Adult guests, that is. Kids were to be seen and not heard. While Boots sat on her lap, we sat at her feet on a hand-hooked rug.
She was always baking something so the oven kept the kitchen warm. The bathroom was above the kitchen, and all the other rooms were cold as ice, especially the bedrooms.
She heated the beds upstairs with hot water bottles. She'd stick one under the covers at the bottom of the bed, which was really rather effective, once you stopped shaking and the shivers wore off.
I hated sleeping at Grandma's house, because I had to share a bed with Betsy, my baby sister. We fought so much Daddy called us The Cinderella Sisters. She had nails like razor blades and kicked like a mule. I snored, so neither of us slept much when we had to sleep together.
We were always forced upstairs to go to bed before it was even dark. It always happened the same way. Grandma Long would let out a big sigh and say, "I've had my fill of you kids. Let's get you off to bed."
Long after we were tucked away upstairs, the grown-ups were still swapping stories downstairs. Their laughter wafted up the steps and laid down in the hall next to the aromas of butter cookies and strong coffee.
It was a wild night outside that Christmas Eve. Sleet slashed at the single-pane windows, mountain smoke drifted up from the river, and angry West Virginia winds were chasing gray clouds around the sky like a sheriff after moonshiners.
Betsy and I couldn't sleep for all the laughter, so we pulled the homemade curtains back to watch for Santa Claus and prayed he knew we were there.
Just as our eyes could stay awake no longer, a star, not Santa Claus, appeared in the sky. Betsy, who was destined be a pastor like our Daddy, clapped her tiny hands and said, "Look Sister! It's God's star and it's so bright, the dark can't cover it!"
My sister died just before Christmas last year.
As I remember her words now, I realize that even at five years of age, she was a deep soul who had it figured out right:
When God's light reigns in our hearts, the darkness cannot overcome it.
]]>
I have awful night vision.
And with the end of Daylight Savings Time, the darkness feels really dark, and it always arrives before I'm ready for it.
But, my elderly Jack Russell, Mr. Pip,
HAS TO HAVE a late-night constitutional if I want an accident-free dawn. So, every night I bundle up against the cold and try to figure out which way he's headed. It's like snipe hunting at summer camp.
Fortunately, I have a fancy flashlight.
Last night when we were out, I heard a cat crying.
and immediately, my mind built a story about a tiny calico cat, stuck way up in a tree, scared to death in the pitch-black night.
I opened the back gate and wobbled partway down the river bank,
balanced myself on a granite outcropping, shone my light this way and that and called, "Here kitty, kitty, kitty!" My calls were met with silence.
But the movement disoriented me.
The riverbank no longer felt like my domain. I struggled to make sense of trees and granite outcroppings, while grapevines as thick as my wrist swayed in the wind like rainforest anacondas looking for a snack.
My heart was pounding, I began to sweat.
Footsteps crunched in the leaves behind me!
What was that?
I focused my light on the ground behind me, only to see Mr. Pip carefully tiptoeing toward me.
My flashlight hit a poplar tree, and two enormous eyes blinked at me.
Aha! There was the cat!
Only the eyes didn't belong to a cat.
I was staring into the face of a juvenile screech owl. His grey ear tufts blended perfectly with the grey of the tree bark.
We blinked at each other,
and he flew on silent wings in a huff.
I slowly climbed back up the bank,
through the English ivy and wild rose briars that clung to my pants. I made it into the yard, and closed the gate.
There's a lot of winter left.
The nights are dark and sometimes the days feel even darker so I'm grateful for my flashlight.
It's always a good thing to have some night vision.
]]>
I have awful night vision.
And with the end of Daylight Savings Time, the darkness feels really dark, and it always arrives before I'm ready for it.
But, my elderly Jack Russell, Mr. Pip,
HAS TO HAVE a late-night constitutional if I want an accident-free dawn. So, every night I bundle up against the cold and try to figure out which way he's headed. It's like snipe hunting at summer camp.
Fortunately, I have a fancy flashlight.
Last night when we were out, I heard a cat crying.
and immediately, my mind built a story about a tiny calico cat, stuck way up in a tree, scared to death in the pitch-black night.
I opened the back gate and wobbled partway down the river bank,
balanced myself on a granite outcropping, shone my light this way and that and called, "Here kitty, kitty, kitty!" My calls were met with silence.
But the movement disoriented me.
The riverbank no longer felt like my domain. I struggled to make sense of trees and granite outcroppings, while grapevines as thick as my wrist swayed in the wind like rainforest anacondas looking for a snack.
My heart was pounding, I began to sweat.
Footsteps crunched in the leaves behind me!
What was that?
I focused my light on the ground behind me, only to see Mr. Pip carefully tiptoeing toward me.
My flashlight hit a poplar tree, and two enormous eyes blinked at me.
Aha! There was the cat!
Only the eyes didn't belong to a cat.
I was staring into the face of a juvenile screech owl. His grey ear tufts blended perfectly with the grey of the tree bark.
We blinked at each other,
and he flew on silent wings in a huff.
I slowly climbed back up the bank,
through the English ivy and wild rose briars that clung to my pants. I made it into the yard, and closed the gate.
There's a lot of winter left.
The nights are dark and sometimes the days feel even darker so I'm grateful for my flashlight.
It's always a good thing to have some night vision.
]]>
I spent a lot of time looking at stained glass windows on Sunday mornings and Wednesday evenings.
Not because my Daddy's sermons were boring.
But because preachers practice their sermons like singers working on a song, and when you've heard the same one several times, your mind tends to wander when you hear it again.
Some of the stained-glass windows were inspiring, some were bland, and still others were works of art.
Take the glorious Tiffany windows I starred at for hours as a senior in high school for instance. They radiated religion out into the world with their intricate patterns and rich, jewel-tone colors. I remember wanting to wear Mary's blue velvet dress to the prom.
During middle school, I starred at geometric squares of harvest gold and avocado green in the sanctuary of a coal-country church. They matched the appliances in our kitchen.
When I was in first grade, the church had windows that were tinted a pale white.
They were just like the windows in the bathroom at school: frosted to keep peeping Toms from watching little girls pull up their skirts.
My son grew up in churches, too.
He's 30 now and he was telling a friend of mine that he knew she was important to him because her color was in his soul.
Intrigued, she said, "What do you mean by that?"
He answered, "Well, when we take out first breath, our souls are crystal clear.
Then life happens to us.
Each person we meet adds their color to our soul. Some people touch us with love and soft colors, others touch our minds or imagination and splatter us with vibrant colors. And, of course, meanness and sorrow add the dark colors that make the shadows in our soul."
Love and beauty, sorrow and pain.
These are the things that change our crystal-clear souls into colorful stained-glass.
]]>I spent a lot of time looking at stained glass windows on Sunday mornings and Wednesday evenings.
Not because my Daddy's sermons were boring. But because preachers practice their sermons like singers working on a song, and when you've heard the same one several times, your mind tends to wander when you hear it again.
Some of the stained-glass windows were inspiring, some were bland, and still others were works of art.
Take the glorious Tiffany windows I starred at for hours as a senior in high school for instance. They radiated religion out into the world with their intricate patterns and rich, jewel-tone colors. I remember wanting to wear Mary's blue velvet dress to the prom.
During middle school, I starred at geometric squares of harvest gold and avocado green in the sanctuary of a coal-country church. They matched the appliances in our kitchen.
When I was in first grade, the church had windows that were tinted a pale white.
They were just like the windows in the bathroom at school: frosted to keep peeping Toms from watching little girls pull up their skirts.
My son grew up in churches, too. He's 30 now and he was telling a friend of mine that he knew she was important to him because her color was in his soul.
Intrigued, she said, "What do you mean by that?" He answered, "Well, when we take out first breath, our souls are crystal clear.
Then life happens to us. Each person we meet adds their color to our soul. Some people touch us with love and soft colors, others touch our minds or imagination and splatter us with vibrant colors. And, of course, meanness and sorrow add the dark colors that make the shadows in our soul."
Love and beauty, sorrow and pain.
These are the things that change our crystal-clear souls into colorful stained-glass.
]]>Why? Why would my loving son respond that way? Because the idea of bringing a child into "this ugly, burning world" terrifies him.
His Dad and I never thought about that when we were practicing procreation as a form of youthful recreation. (We were care-free about it! I wasn't supposed to be able to have a child, but that's another story, one I like to tell at women's retreats.)
We were able to afford a little house, the price of food was reasonable. Sure there was crime, but only in certain neighborhoods. School shootings hadn't started, no dark web internet was providing the motivation or instructions for that yet.
Once my sweet, caring son explained his fears about fatherhood, I couldn't forget it.
Every time I see a baby now the conversation flies back in my face. I can't help but wonder if the parents are "together" or if they can afford their child's future. I can't help but fear for the day that child starts kindergarten with a live shooter drill. I know two teenagers who peed their pants during their first one.
Sure, there have always been problems in our world. Yes, there was always a dark side. When Jesus was a baby, things were really bad, too. A king put a bounty on his head and killed all the boys even close to his age. That was obviously not a good future either.
I guess each generation faces their own challenges but the challenges of this time seem terminal. If we can't do something about climate catastrophe, we'll all burn up. If truces can't be signed in the wars raging around us, nuclear war is upon us. My son is right. What kind of future is that for a child?
But as a person of faith, I refuse to give up hope and my hope is that those of us who care about the future of children (and life itself!) will begin to claim our power. I am convinced each one of us is much more powerful than we think we are or are told we are.
If we can overcome our fear and our inertia, and bring pressure to bear on the places we can create change as we apply that pressure, I think people like us can make big things happen.
I'm the Christian who holds these words of Jesus tightly in my heart:
"Truly I say to you: if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed,
you will say to this mountain,
'Move from here to there,' and it will move,
and nothing will be impossible for you."
(Matthew 17:20-21)
Yes, I think we can move the mountains of climate change, divisive politics, and greedy oligarchs! But we better hurry, because the next generation is coming, and it needs us to talk truth to power, push where we can push, and make the world a little safer for each new baby that's coming soon to a backpack near you.
]]>Why? Why would my loving son respond that way? Because the idea of bringing a child into "this ugly, burning world" terrifies him.
His Dad and I never thought about that when we were practicing procreation as a form of youthful recreation. (We were care-free about it! I wasn't supposed to be able to have a child, but that's another story, one I like to tell at women's retreats.)
We were able to afford a little house, the price of food was reasonable. Sure there was crime, but only in certain neighborhoods. School shootings hadn't started, no dark web internet was providing the motivation or instructions for that yet.
Once my sweet, caring son explained his fears about fatherhood, I couldn't forget it.
Every time I see a baby now the conversation flies back in my face. I can't help but wonder if the parents are "together" or if they can afford their child's future. I can't help but fear for the day that child starts kindergarten with a live shooter drill. I know two teenagers who peed their pants during their first one.
Sure, there have always been problems in our world. Yes, there was always a dark side. When Jesus was a baby, things were really bad, too. A king put a bounty on his head and killed all the boys even close to his age. That was obviously not a good future either.
I guess each generation faces their own challenges but the challenges of this time seem terminal. If we can't do something about climate catastrophe, we'll all burn up. If truces can't be signed in the wars raging around us, nuclear war is upon us. My son is right. What kind of future is that for a child?
But as a person of faith, I refuse to give up hope and my hope is that those of us who care about the future of children (and life itself!) will begin to claim our power. I am convinced each one of us is much more powerful than we think we are or are told we are.
If we can overcome our fear and our inertia, and bring pressure to bear on the places we can create change as we apply that pressure, I think people like us can make big things happen.
I'm the Christian who holds these words of Jesus tightly in my heart:
"Truly I say to you: if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed,
you will say to this mountain,
'Move from here to there,' and it will move,
and nothing will be impossible for you."
(Matthew 17:20-21)
Yes, I think we can move the mountains of climate change, divisive politics, and greedy oligarchs! But we better hurry, because the next generation is coming, and it needs us to talk truth to power, push where we can push, and make the world a little safer for each new baby that's coming soon to a backpack near you.
]]>The scorching heat of our record-breaking summer had broken. A shy coolness was in the air.
I'd washed the sheets, and since I love the smell of sunshine, I took them outside to dry on the line.
And that's when I saw her. A butterfly as big as a bird.
Each time she floated into view, I began savoring my own precious time.
Hanging up the sheets, I smiled at the thought of lying down that night and smelling the sunshine again.
In the whisper of butterfly wings, I found quiet amidst all the noise
]]>The scorching heat of our record-breaking summer had broken. A shy coolness was in the air.
I'd washed the sheets, and since I love the smell of sunshine, I took them outside to dry on the line.
And that's when I saw her. A butterfly as big as a bird.
Each time she floated into view, I began savoring my own precious time.
Hanging up the sheets, I smiled at the thought of lying down that night and smelling the sunshine again.
In the whisper of butterfly wings, I found quiet amidst all the noise
]]>I volunteer at the animal shelter and the dogs there are all wanting the same thing we are: to belong.
We all want to belong to a pack, it's instinctual and necessary. And we all want a leader who makes wise decisions and takes everyone into consideration. Because, if the unthinkable should actually happen, we want to know our pack has our back.
]]>I volunteer at the animal shelter and the dogs there are all wanting the same thing we are: to belong.
We all want to belong to a pack, it's instinctual and necessary. And we all want a leader who makes wise decisions and takes everyone into consideration. Because, if the unthinkable should actually happen, we want to know our pack has our back.
]]>On a visit to the vet, a scared little Jack Russell mix has the opportunity to do just that. A magical story that just happens to be totally true.
]]>On a visit to the vet, a scared little Jack Russell mix has the opportunity to do just that. A magical story that just happens to be totally true.
]]>When my sister died this year these legacy questions began coming one after another. And then during a week at the beach, I saw something that helped me name exactly what I hope to leave behind when I'm gone. Now the only question is how to do that.
]]>When my sister died this year these legacy questions began coming one after another. And then during a week at the beach, I saw something that helped me name exactly what I hope to leave behind when I'm gone. Now the only question is how to do that.
]]>I've been sleepimg more after the difficult death of my sister. Winter is a time for rest. Perhaps tonight you should nourish yourself with a warm bowl of soup and a long winter nap. It's a beautiful way to take care of you!
]]>I've been sleepimg more after the difficult death of my sister. Winter is a time for rest. Perhaps tonight you should nourish yourself with a warm bowl of soup and a long winter nap. It's a beautiful way to take care of you!
]]>I've been finding hidden messages at the back of the sock drawer, flipping through memories from childhood, teen times, and adulthood. Memory after memory flashes from every corner, from every found item.
Some of our memories are like life preservers, they hold us up when we're in deep water. But other memories speak to all that went wrong. And those memories are an anchor that drags us down to the bottom and holds us there until we run out of either courage or breath.
Our memories are our stories. And our stories remind us that each moment of our lives is a sacred place in time.
]]>I've been finding hidden messages at the back of the sock drawer, flipping through memories from childhood, teen times, and adulthood. Memory after memory flashes from every corner, from every found item.
Some of our memories are like life preservers, they hold us up when we're in deep water. But other memories speak to all that went wrong. And those memories are an anchor that drags us down to the bottom and holds us there until we run out of either courage or breath.
Our memories are our stories. And our stories remind us that each moment of our lives is a sacred place in time.
]]>This is the story of how I first met racism and the way that impacts my life today.
]]>This is the story of how I first met racism and the way that impacts my life today.
]]>But have we entered a time like the one that made my Grandmom put her money in the mattress?
Listen to her story, and mine. Maybe it's time to give that idea some new consideration.
]]>But have we entered a time like the one that made my Grandmom put her money in the mattress?
Listen to her story, and mine. Maybe it's time to give that idea some new consideration.
]]>Affordable health care, homelessness, food insecurity, mass shootings and more.
Social media is slicing and dicing us like a red tomato into little voting segments. We're being fear-mongered into seeing each other as dangerous. Is that the America you want?
Let's come together and prevent a second Civil War.
This Memorial Day, let's take back our freedom. People died to keep you free. Honor that.
]]>Affordable health care, homelessness, food insecurity, mass shootings and more.
Social media is slicing and dicing us like a red tomato into little voting segments. We're being fear-mongered into seeing each other as dangerous. Is that the America you want?
Let's come together and prevent a second Civil War.
This Memorial Day, let's take back our freedom. People died to keep you free. Honor that.
]]>This is a story about the time we almost drown there.
Best enjoyed wearing your Big Girl Pants.
]]>This is a story about the time we almost drown there.
Best enjoyed wearing your Big Girl Pants.
]]>She earned her Badge of Courage when she survived it and learned how to transfer herself from a bed to a wheelchair, open a can, and go to the bathroom by herself.
We watched Star Trek together and drank Coca-Cola when got back home. She encouraged me to do the impossible when it was necessary.
]]>She earned her Badge of Courage when she survived it and learned how to transfer herself from a bed to a wheelchair, open a can, and go to the bathroom by herself.
We watched Star Trek together and drank Coca-Cola when got back home. She encouraged me to do the impossible when it was necessary.
]]>We should never have dropped those mandatory classes. Now we have young parents who can't cook a potato or change the oil in their car.
]]>We should never have dropped those mandatory classes. Now we have young parents who can't cook a potato or change the oil in their car.
]]>When trouble is looming, you need your Big Girl Pants.
]]>When trouble is looming, you need your Big Girl Pants.
]]>This is the story of how I "got to" go to Scout camp where the first thing I "got to" do was dig a latrine. Things went downhill from there.
]]>
This is the story of how I "got to" go to Scout camp where the first thing I "got to" do was dig a latrine. Things went downhill from there.
]]>
I was a clumsy child. I flunked out of ballet. I fell on my teacher after trying to turn my feet out in fourth position one too many times. Atop a horse, I was regal and elegant. Wrapping my legs around their power has always been magical for me. I dreamed of having a dappled gray Arabian but that dream never came true.
]]>I was a clumsy child. I flunked out of ballet. I fell on my teacher after trying to turn my feet out in fourth position one too many times. Atop a horse, I was regal and elegant. Wrapping my legs around their power has always been magical for me. I dreamed of having a dappled gray Arabian but that dream never came true.
]]>As the divides between the "haves" and the "have almost nothings" continues to grow, you might find this story of life in the 60's informative.
]]>As the divides between the "haves" and the "have almost nothings" continues to grow, you might find this story of life in the 60's informative.
]]>Sunshine can be hard to find. That's why it's important to go looking for it.
]]>Sunshine can be hard to find. That's why it's important to go looking for it.
]]>Winter gives us longer nights to sleep. Bears and rabbits take advantage of these longer rests. While we light up our houses and plan late-night parties.
What is this is the year to rest in the quiet of winter? Winter is a good time for thinking.
]]>Winter gives us longer nights to sleep. Bears and rabbits take advantage of these longer rests. While we light up our houses and plan late-night parties.
What is this is the year to rest in the quiet of winter? Winter is a good time for thinking.
]]>The greedy world you live in always makes you feel like you are never enough. That you can never have enough, or do enough, or be enough.
But this is a capitalistic lie. You are always enough and you almost always have enough.
So join me in an act of counter-capitalism by participating in this guided meditation to celebrate your abundance and offer gratitude.
Because your every breath is a gift and you are precious.
]]>The greedy world you live in always makes you feel like you are never enough. That you can never have enough, or do enough, or be enough.
But this is a capitalistic lie. You are always enough and you almost always have enough.
So join me in an act of counter-capitalism by participating in this guided meditation to celebrate your abundance and offer gratitude.
Because your every breath is a gift and you are precious.
]]>What once seemed so important now doesn't. COVID and years of widowhood have changed my perspective.
]]>What once seemed so important now doesn't. COVID and years of widowhood have changed my perspective.
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