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]]>So, with a little understanding and some scientific data to back it up, even overworked medical professionals seeing dozens of patients every day can be taught to relate better to the emotions of others. So what does this have to do with the rest of us?
Being in a service business, we are all too familiar with anxious clients making what seem like irrational demands. A normal reaction to this kind of behavior might be defiance, resignation or exasperation. Not exactly the kind of emotions that drive professional excellence. Over my 20-ish years in the agency business, I have learned that the first step to success is to try to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes. The focus here is not just to stop feeling bad for ourselves and simply start feeling bad for him or her — that is mere sympathy and it won’t take you far enough. The point is to actually be him or her. Empathy means moving into their world emotionally and feeling it. This can often be accomplished by asking some very direct questions – on the phone or in-person. (Sorry, no email, texting or IM’s.)
Establishing Empathy: 4 Key Questions
What are you worried about right this minute?
What can we get done in the next few hours that will help alleviate that worry?
What are our biggest obstacles?
How can we overcome them?
Note that the questions gradually move from first and second-person to third person. By the time you get to the end of the conversation, you should have established a mutual goal and made the person feel your support as a member of their team. Once we can establish a position of empathy, we are working with a much different set of emotions – granted, they may not necessarily be positive emotions, but they are usually the dynamic emotions most likely to inspire action rather than passive emotions that just make us feel bad. So, rather than think about what someone is doing to you, you can start focusing on what you can do for them. Stop feeling like a victim and your problem-solving skills will take over.
What’s more, if a truly empathetic approach is effectively communicated, it can have a very calming effect on the person you are empathizing with. Like the patients who experienced more positive outcomes in Dr. Riess’ study, when people are feeling understood, they are much less likely to harangue, harass and make unreasonable demands. Empathy is an enormously empowering approach to even the most difficult situations.
Dr. Riess has founded an e-learning company called Empathetics. The initial product offering is to physicians, but the possibilities seem limitless. Let’s hope there’s an upcoming module for us gardenvariety service professionals up against the occasional bad day.
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]]>In vivid contrast to our normal experience, once in a while a rogue sales rep makes an appearance, something we have had the unfortunate experience in dealing with recently. This rep has pestered, cajoled, threatened and complained until none of us can take it anymore. In the interest of sharing (and, yeah, perhaps a little venting) here is a list of the rep’s five most obnoxious tactics:
Monstrous tactics like these make us really appreciate all of the great sales people out there who work together with us in a spirit of mutual success and understanding.
As for the sales-rep-from-hell, go away. Leave us alone. Leave our clients alone. We don’t want you. We don’t want your services…
…but thanks for the blog fodder!
Posted by Alison Moore
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]]>09/16/2009 | Jobs, Marketing
A recent job posting on LinkedIn has yielded hundreds of resumes from qualified professionals across the country. Most of the applicants sent well-written cover letters to accompany succinct and interesting resumes. Sure, we’ve seen our fair share of grammatical mistakes and typographical errors. We’ve even conducted a few interviews that ended before they started, if you know what I mean.
However, my worst moment in the recruitment process occurred today when this beauty arrived on my desktop through LinkedIn. Read it and weep for all those poor marketing people who have spent so much time in hype mode, they’ve just plain forgotten how to write.
FIRST WITHOUT COMMENTARY
Hi Alison,
I came across your listing for a communications and PR pro focused on tech and thought it might be interesting for us to at least have an initial dialogue. As a senior executive, my disciplines encompass 360-degree experience in corporate communications and PR with a sound track record of leadership and direct line C-suite reporting. With heavy thought leadership advocacy underscoring my portfolio, I’ve authored and published numerous byline feature articles and editorial focused on technologies, while targeting a wide array of global professional audiences, and I have of course written numerous news releases.
Mastery in pitching the press taken together with a deep international media network that encompasses trades, the business press as well as industry and financial analyst communities, compliments my abilities in crafting compelling messaging. In the end, my hallmark is one of building brand equity and driving top line revenue.
Should you find my credentials of interest, it would certainly be my pleasure to speak with you.
Cordially,
(Name withheld out of pity and concern)
NOW, WITH COMMENTARY
Hi Alison,
I came across your listing for a communications and PR pro focused on tech and thought it might be interesting for us to at least have an initial dialogue (does this mean talk?). As a senior executive (clue: senior executives don’t refer to themselves as senior executives), my disciplines encompass 360-degree experience (starting to feel queasy here) in corporate communications and PR with a sound track record of leadership (how many times have you used that phrase today?) and direct line C-suite reporting (lunch starting to swirl in stomach). With heavy thought leadership advocacy (lunch lurching upward) underscoring my portfolio (huh?), I’ve authored and published numerous byline feature articles and editorial focused on technologies, while targeting a wide array of global professional audiences (really wishing I’d stuck with plain white rice), and I have of course written numerous news releases (but, of course).
Mastery (don’t go there with me, mister) in pitching the press taken together (thin ice, buster) with a deep international media network (running for the ladies’) that encompasses trades, the business press as well as industry and financial analyst communities, compliments (your thesaurus works, now try the dictionary) my abilities in crafting compelling messaging (compelling is good, I like compelling). In the end, my hallmark (as in “with my deepest sympathy kind of Hallmark?”) is one of building brand equity (so much for lunch) and driving top line revenue (I bet those sales guys think you’re swell).
Should you (I really shouldn’t, thank you) find my credentials (what credentials?) of interest, it would certainly be my pleasure to speak with you.
Cordially, (Do I know you?)
(Name withheld out of pity and concern)
SUGGESTED IMPROVEMENT
Hey Allie,
I’d like to talk with you about your job posting on LinkedIn. I’ve been around the block a few times and know how to turn a pretty phrase. I have a thesaurus and I’m not afraid to use it. CEO’s love me, and so do editors and reporters. You’ll love me, too.
Call me, babe.
(Name withheld out of pity and concern)
– Posted by Alison Moore
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]]>The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. Tihs is maninly treu for tpye set in loewr case, buaecse the mnid rezcoignes vayrnig lteter shepas and upepr csae lteters are all the smae hgeihht. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!
Word shapes are very powerful which is why a company name set in upper and lower case is more memorable than one set in all upper case.
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]]>Our clients will tell you that when you sign BluePoint up to be your outsourced marketing team, you can bet that you will get us whole-hog. All of us have numerous client email accounts and most of our clients don’t discern between the “outsourced” marketing team (ie. BluePoint) and their internal teams. This is how we want to be. Call it white-label marketing, whatever. It’s who we are and it’s how we love to work. Call us an agency, and we will cringe. Call us a vendor, and we’ll be pretty sure that we can start doing the dishes.
So, we don’t spend a lot of time thinking about our own milestones and accomplishments. But, something crazy and important happened to us last week on April 1. Our BluePoint email went down. OK, you’re thinking, “Wow, Alison, that is like totally nuts”, but there’s more to the story.
We had a team of 5 people working for hours to try to figure this out. Our clients were frustrated and I was trying to do everything I could not to start giving out my personal email address, not because I am worried about client infringement on my personal life, but because my personal account is an AOL address. OK. You can snicker, but how many of you have had the same email address for 20 years?
Back to my point. We had a team of people from Boston to Pennsylvania to Pensacola, and even some clients in Israel and California trying to help us figure this out. I kept hearing that the DNS wasn’t pointing correctly. We all know the expression “that dog don’t hunt”, so I started thinking about a dog that don’t hunt. He don’t hunt if he’s got no instincts or if there’s nothing to hunt. Sure enough, I called GoDaddy and our dog wasn’t hunting because our 10-year license on the BluePoint domain had expired on March 31. The problem was hard to diagnose because it just doesn’t happen all that often. After about 10 minutes on the phone with the GoDaddy dude, I finally figured out what the username was….my little ole AOL account. Without it, we could have lost our domain and all my worst anxieties about clients not being able to reach us would have become a reality.
So, happy 10th birthday, BluePoint and a huge and hearty thanks to the friends, clients and team members who have helped us reach this terrific milestone.
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