1. If your jeans slip on easily, go down a size. Yes, it’s ok if you have to squeeze into them!
     2. If you can fit your whole hand in your waistband, it’s too big. Try one size smaller.
     3. The crotch should be nice and snug. There shouldn’t be any material to grab when you first try them on, as they will only loosen with wear and create an unflattering pucker.
     4. Look at the material composition. You need no more than 3% spandex, or your jeans may lose their shape with wear.
     5. Don’t be afraid to have your jeans hemmed. Most designer brands leave extra material on the inseam to accommodate different leg lengths. \When you take them in, make sure to bring the shoes you would normally wear with that pair, and have your tailor measure the hem to the back of the heel.

     Below are general guidelines for body types. Not all of us will fall into one category (some may be curvy and petite). These are tips to keep in mind as you browse different styles:

          The slight curves of petite gals work especially well with skinnies and crops (the most popular styles of the season). Here are a few extra tips to keep in mind:

• Be careful with flares and large bootcuts, as too much fabric on the bottom can overwhelm your small frame.
• For bootcut jeans, opt for baby bootcut or slim bootcut styles.
• Higher waists (7.5’‘ and over) will lengthen your legs and make you appear taller.
• Have your jeans hemmed. It will give you more brand options.

Pictured Above: Natalie Portman addds length to her legs by pairing tall boots with dark-washed jeans. Eva Longoria (petite and hourglass) looks great in her beige crop and silver heels. Mila Kunis adds height to her skinnies with tall stilettos.

          Boyshapes are blessed in the jeans department. Slighter hips, a trim waist and a smaller bottom make these body types easy to dress in denim. Since your figure works well with most cuts (skinnies, chino, boyfriend, flare, etc), flatter your physique with low-rises and strategically designed pockets. Here is how to show it off:

• Opt for low-rise or mid-rise jeans to add a feminine curve to your hips.
• Give your backside more shape by choosing jeans with back flap pockets or other interesting pocket designs.
• Since you got it flaunt it! Experiment with different washes, zippers and pockets.

Pictured Above: Kate Moss pairs her rolled bootcuts with matching flats for a cute, feminine style. Megan Fox goes tomboy with distressed denim, laced boots and a fitted plaid button-down. Victoria Beckham goes streamlined in her waxed jeans and slim blazer.

Do you want slimmer-looking legs?

Do: A-line skirts.
Do: Wear darker stockings than your skirt.
Do: Stay with heels that are two to four inches high.
Do: Wider legged pants.
Do: Tan or cream colored heels (very elongating!)
Do: Match your stocking color to your shoes.
Do: Structured heeled boots that hit two inches below your knee and pair it with black leggings.

Don’t: Slouchy boots or ankle boots.
Don’t: Skirts that fall at your knees or right above your knees are unflattering.
Don’t: Shoes with ankle straps.

Do you want to look thinner?

Do: Blouses with jeans or a long A-line skirt.
Do: Narrower, but not tight, pants are ideal.
Do: Show more skin around the neck makes you look slimmer.
Do: Define your waist by choosing structured dresses with subtle cinching at the waistline.
Do: Slim, long boxy coats with heeled boots.
Do: Stay with solids.
Do: Wear dark colors like black or navy.

Don’t: Stretchy fabric like spandex.
Don’t: cuffed pants.
Don’t: Soft, flowing materials.

Are you busty?

Do: V-neck sweaters and blouses (not too low!).
Do: Shirts with vertical designs or large breast pockets take the attention away from the chest.

Don’t: Horizontal stripes. If you must, choose smaller stripes.
Don’t: Long strands of necklaces.
Don’t: Big prints.

Are you flat-chested?

Do: Colorful prints and pretty florals.
Do: Lower necklines to give an illusion of more curves.

1. Body Language: Simple movements like crossing your legs, touching your cheek, arching your back, holding a gaze just a second longer are all subtle signals that guys pick up on. It let’s them know you’re comfortable with your body and who you are. Pay attention to your physicality but don’t make it cheesy. You can always practice in the mirror.

2. Let Loose: This doesn’t mean jump on the stage and hump the stripper pole. It can mean not checking your phone every 5 minutes, or sizing up “competition”. When you’re less concerned about what you look like and what others around you are thinking, you’ll be a much more interesting person. Men are drawn to women who can have fun. It exudes confidence and subconsciously lets him know that you aren’t going to be clinging onto his arm the rest of the night.

Here are 10 ways you can start today:

1.      Start with a change in lipstick shade. Or overlay an old favorite with a daring new shade to create a color you can live with. Go to the drug store and try out some new, fun colors. It’s the quickest way to add spice to your look.

2.      Have your eyebrows professionally shaped. Though most Asians are blessed with tame eyebrows, you’ll be surprised how shaped eyebrows can open up your face.

3.      Change your hairstyle. Get layered, get bangs, try something you’ve never had the courage to do but always secretly wanted.

4.      Re-part your hair. Part your hair drastically to one side and you’ll go from plain to sophisticate in one sweep.

5.      Layer a light, fun shade over your usual eyeshadow routine. Try lightly sweeping a soft purple, pink, even green over your lids and experiment with the effects.

(1) Have Fun!

     Ever notice how vibrant someone looks when she can kick her head back with a good hearty laugh?
     Not only does laughing radiate youth, but studies have shown that laughter extends peoples’ lives. A study in Norway showed that a patient diagnosed with cancer was 70 times more likely to survive until the end of the study if laughter was an important part of his or her life.
      Who knew that having a good time was so powerful? As we age we become burdened, cynical and less likely to “let loose”. It’s a tough but important life skill to learn how to exclude your professional stresses from your personal life.

How: At least once a week do something fun. This can be anything from seeing a funny movie, line-dancing or skydiving along the Monterey coastline. Just make a commitment to reconnect with your fun side.