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Episode 276: Cross Country Meets Real Life

Tue, 03 Dec 2024 10:05:00 -0500

Our circumstances aren't always great, but we can work in the messes and keep moving forward. If you've got a cross country runner or love to run, then you'll want to listen. And if you're not, you'll still want to listen.

Episode 274: Talking to Our Kids About Scary World Events

Thu, 12 Oct 2023 22:00:00 -0400

Talking to our kids about scary world events can be overwhelming as a parent. Listen in to this episode for a 3 step framework you can use to guide you in tough conversations.

Episode 273: Let Go Of What's Not Working

Fri, 29 Sep 2023 14:48:00 -0400

If a parenting tool isn't serving you, let go! Set it aside and try something new.

Episode 272: Make Small Changes Now

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 22:32:00 -0400

Don't wait until your problems become so big to start trying new ideas. Start now, when small changes can make a big impact.

Episode 271: Curiosity Makes for Powerful Questions

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 17:36:00 -0400

We all ask questions as parents, but do you know the difference between a question full of curiosity versus fix-it, frustration, and fear? Listen in to hear the difference.

Episode 270: Feeling Stuck Making a Decision?

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 19:09:00 -0400

If you find yourself surveying the crowd or feel stuck making a deicison, here's another option for you.

Episode 269: You Didn't Overreact. Now What!?

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 15:55:00 -0400

You are awesome and didn't overreact or lose your cool. Nicely Done! So now what!? Listen in to this episode for some next steps when you have a kiddo who comes at you with BIG emotion.

Episode 268: Validating a Child Isn't Weak

Thu, 01 Jun 2023 20:51:00 -0400

Parents often think validating a child means they are weak or giving in, but that's no the case. In this episode I'm sharing a story about our dog that reminded us of what true validation looks like.

Episode 267: Pulling Weeds vs. Planting Seeds

Fri, 26 May 2023 16:04:00 -0400

In this epiode we talk about the difference between pulling weeds and planting seeds in family relationships. Where are you spending most of your time, and is it paying off?

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Episode 266: There is More Than One Path To Success

Tue, 23 May 2023 01:26:00 -0400

Contrary to popular belief, there is more than one path to success for our kids. Each one of them is unique and will not fit into the same mold despite our best efforts! Stop comparing your kiddo to your neighbors and be the light that helps them find their own path to success.

Episode 265:Do You Know How Good You Are?

Mon, 15 May 2023 15:02:00 -0400

When was the last time you stopped to think about how good you are? It's probably been a while. Even when you mess up, you are GOOD. And, your family needs this imperfect version of you-- not some idealic, perfect, wannabe creation that you carry around in your head.

Episode 264: Quit Trying to Build Relationships By Doing the Same Old Thing

Mon, 08 May 2023 19:36:00 -0400

If you aren't happy with where your family relationships are, then quit trying the same things over and over again. Listen in and get thinking about finding yourself you a better way.

Episode 263: May Is a Month of Transition

Tue, 02 May 2023 12:01:00 -0400

The month of May is often a month of transition for families. In this episode, we talk about three things you can do to help smooth transitions of all sorts.

Episode 262: I Don't Want to Be Forced

Thu, 27 Apr 2023 08:35:00 -0400

Kids and teens want to do well in their lives. You've taught them about goodness and they want to be on a good path. They don't want to be forced there. This episode is about the invitation versus the demand.

Episode 261: When Big Stuff Gets Dumped On You

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 12:18:00 -0400

When I was teaching last week a mom shared the idea of hot potato moments. This reframe is a great way to ease the stress of those times when our kids unexpectedly dump big information or events on us.

Episode 260: Is Your Lip Caught in a Zipper?

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 11:18:00 -0400

Mom, my lip is stuck in my zipper. WHAT!? Listen in for a great example of how we sometimes tackle hard problems.

Episode 259: Teach Your Kids With Pop Culture

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 16:35:00 -0400

Tired of getting blank stares when you try to share a valuable life lesson? Use pop culture or whatever tredn matters to your kids. In this episode I share a recent family experience and how we used it to guide value driven family discussions.

Episode 258: Come Meet Little Bear

Tue, 21 Mar 2023 00:06:00 -0400

In this episode I share the background behind my new children's book "Little Bear's Re-Do," and how it can impact your family.

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Episode 247: Siblings Fight

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 17:37:00 -0400

Stop trying to make your kids stop fighting. Use your enegry to make true progress instead.

Episode 256: Getting Lost in the Weeds

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 17:24:00 -0400

Do you ever get lost in the weeds of parenting and wonder if there is any progress? I'm here to tell you pulling the small weeds counts!

Episode 255: Love vs Consequences

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 16:24:00 -0500

Do we need love or do we need consequences? Is it one or the other? Maybe there is another possibility and we are talking about it in this episode.

Episode 254: Are You Believing the Parenting Lies?

Tue, 28 Feb 2023 14:30:00 -0500

As parents we have been sold lies that get in the way of us moving forward as families and recognizing progress in our kids. Listen in and see if you have been led in astray.

Episode 253: Are We Blind To Our Part?

Thu, 23 Feb 2023 20:38:00 -0500

I crawled into bed the other night irritated and done with one of my kids. Here's what I learned.

Episode 251: Facing Uncertainty As a Family, Part 2 with Erika Behunin, LCSW

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 07:29:00 -0500

Join Erika and I as we talk about the wide range of emotions you experience during times of uncertainty and how to navigate them.

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Episode 250: Facing Uncertainty as a Family with Guest Erika Behunin, LCSW

Thu, 16 Feb 2023 07:24:00 -0500

Join me and Erika as we talk about the skills you can develop to face uncertainty as a family.

Part 1 of 2.

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Episode 249: Using Photos and Memories for Connection

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 13:19:00 -0500

When was the last time you spent time scrolling through your camera roll? In this episdoe we talk about how to use those photos and videos to strengthen your relationships.

Episode 247: The THIEF of "SHOULD"

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 14:31:00 -0500

In this episode we are talking about how the idea of "should" can blur our vision and hamper our steps towards progress.

Episode 246: Different Kid, Different Needs, Same Parent

Thu, 26 Jan 2023 14:36:00 -0500

Have you ever tried to approach a family member in a way that is usually successful, but it just doesn't work? Well, you're not alone. Today's episode is a quick note to self to keep trying when things don't seem to work in the way you expected.

Episode 245: Intentional Recovery Time

Tue, 17 Jan 2023 19:01:00 -0500

Let's talk about intentional recovery time. When you are exhausted, overstimulated, stressed, or simply done with a bad day, do you have a plan to recover?

Episode 244: Look At What You've Done

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 14:12:00 -0500

"Look at what you've done!" Often we use this phrase in frustration, but let's stop and put it into practice as parents as we start this new year.

Episode 243: Small Steps Create Big Movement

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 17:32:00 -0500

Let's talk about the power in thinking small AND making progress in our lives and relationships.

Episode 242: Are Your Holiday Dreams Chasing Joy Away?

Fri, 02 Dec 2022 14:30:00 -0500

In this episode we talk about finding connection and warmth in an imperfect holiday season!

Episode 241: Perspective is Everything

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 17:58:00 -0500

Sometimes we throw around the idea of a change in perspective lightly. In today's episode, I share a personal example of learning about perspective and how is reshaped my approach to a difficult situation.

Episode 240: Looking for the Good vs Gratitude

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 13:27:00 -0500

Tis the season of gratitude, but what if you don't really feel grateful for life right now? You're not alone. This episode gives you another option to anchor in as you travel bumpy roads.

Episode 239: Find An Anchor

Tue, 15 Nov 2022 12:30:00 -0500

Do you know how to anchor yourself to your kiddos so that in a moment of stress or chaos you can keep your cool? Listen in to learn more about why anchoring matters and how to use it to your advantage.

Episode 238: STOP THE YELLING, Part 5

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 13:37:00 -0500

6 practical ideas to stop the yelling. We're bringing the learning we've done in the last several episode together and putting them into practice.

Episode 237: STOP THE YELLING, Part 4

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 17:36:00 -0500

What do you do once you recognize your red flags? This episode shares 3 things you can try once you know you're about to loose your cool?

Episode 236: STOP THE YELLING, Part 3

Tue, 01 Nov 2022 15:29:00 -0400

If you're sick and yelling and want to really learn how to stop, this episode is for you. Today we're taking the data you've collected from the past two episodes and using it to make a personal list of red flags.

Episode 235: Stop Yelling, Part 2

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 16:27:00 -0400

We're continuing the conversation on what you need to consider if you really want to decrease the amount of anger and fight in your home.

EPISODE 234: STOP THE YELLING, Part 1

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 18:21:00 -0400

If you're sick of failed attempts at trying to reign in your first reactions, this episode is for you. We are diving a little deeper into taming those blasts of energy that derail our best attempts.

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Episode 233: Do You Need To Be Reminded When You Screw Up?

Fri, 21 Oct 2022 12:17:00 -0400

We think our job as parents is to teach lessons and make the learning clear for our kids, but is that really what they need when they mess up? I've got a story for you from my favorite four year old that might change your perspective.

Episode 232: Choices, Choices, Choices!

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 19:30:00 -0400

In this episode we learn how to offer choices in a way that benefit both us and the child. It's a critical piece of parenting that often gets left behind!

Episode 231: Are Assumptions Blurring Your Vision?

Thu, 13 Oct 2022 07:31:00 -0400

When we make assumptions about our kids, we might miss the most important part of the story. Sometimes we think we know exacty what's going on, BUT we don't. Listen in to more lessons from my favorite four year old.

Episode 230: Lessons on Teamwork From a 4 Year Old

Tue, 11 Oct 2022 17:55:00 -0400

Today we're talking about teamwork. Do you know how to work with your kids instead of unintentionally fighting against them to get what you want?

Listen in for ideas on how you can help things go right when you're met with resistance.

Episode 229: Are You Getting In Your Own Way Without Realizing It?

Sat, 08 Oct 2022 15:19:00 -0400

Sometimes without even realizing it, we get in our own way. Especially in how we parent. In this episode we talk about the importance of acknowledging our blindspots and making shifts.

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Episode 228: My Kid Snuck Out and I Was So Proud

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 09:37:00 -0400

As a parent sometimes you'll have an idea that goes against "traditional" parenting methods. Don't be so quick to toss that idea out the window. A step towards connection may be your best bet!

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Episode 227: Did He Just Flip Me Off?

Sun, 02 Oct 2022 01:12:00 -0400

When someone is unkind, it's hard not to take it personally. As parents, we need to learn to change our perspective so we can keep our cool and make decisions with clarity.

Episode 226: Have a Kid Who Proves You Wrong With Their Crazy Ideas?

Tue, 27 Sep 2022 17:33:00 -0400

Got a kids with crazy ideas?

Don't squash them quite yet!

Come listen to the power of diving into the creative and sometimes crazy world of our kids.

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Episode 225: Juggling Extracurricular Activities

Thu, 22 Sep 2022 18:42:17 -0400

Extracurricular demands are heavy on families. Let's talk about key elements to conisder when making decisions for your family.

Episode 224: Candy Bar Meltdown

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 17:03:08 -0400

Do you know what’s creating extra stress and worry for you as a parent?

The list could be long, but at the top is the false belief that you have to get it right to be good.

In episode 124 I share about the great candy bar meltdown and how we can learn from it.

Episode 223: Reclaiming Pieces of Joy

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 14:22:25 -0400

Let's get real about getting past the daily grin of family life and reclaim pieces of joy. Join Michelle for 4 tools you can try today.

Episode 222: What's Stealing Your Joy?

Tue, 06 Sep 2022 15:47:13 -0400

Do you know what sucks the joy out of your day?

In this episode we talk about the importance of slowing down to pay attention to joy stealers so you can push back to reclaim the presence and calm you want.

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Episode 221: Transitions and Behavior Shifts

Thu, 01 Sep 2022 07:42:07 -0400

Behavior shifts often come AFTER transitions and we as parents miss the connection. In this episdoe I share some words to try when you see a shift in behavior, but aren't sure what's going on.

Episode 220: Building Relationships With Less Time

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 14:54:19 -0400

Now that kids are back to school, you may feel limited on the time you have to build relationships. No worries! In today's episode I share a simple way to shift your conversations to create more connection and lightness with the limited time you have together.

Episode 219: Absolutes Are Energy Killers

Thu, 18 Aug 2022 17:05:43 -0400

Is the use of absolute language shutting down communication in your home? A few small shifts and a little intention can dramatically change the energy in your home.

Episode 218: Fight the Entitlement Trend

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 14:39:07 -0400

Tired of the selfishness or entitlement you see creeping into your family? You are not alone!

If you have 2 minutes, you have time for a family kindness challenge. In this episode we talke about the simple process to help fight back against entitlement and selfishness.

Episode 217: Are You Guiding of Forcing Your Child?

Mon, 01 Aug 2022 13:18:26 -0400

It's hard to let our kids make mistakes. No one likes to watch someone they love stumble. And, our responsibility as parents is NOT to pave the way for our children. Let's talk about how and why this matters.

Episode 216: You Don't Have to Get Everything Right

Wed, 27 Jul 2022 06:37:17 -0400

As parents you are asked to sort through a lot of information and make a lot of decisions. Sometimes the pressure to get things right becomes overwhelming. Join me on this episode for a different perspective and a few questions to help lighten your load.

Episode 215: What You Practice You Get Better At

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 15:26:47 -0400

What is your family practicing this summer?

In between sports camps, theater classes, swim team and summer reading programs, can I invite you into a simple practice that will build the relationships in your home?

Join me for Episode 215 and let's think about the simple victories we experience every day.

Episode 214: Lessons Learned From 23 Kid Filled Summers

Wed, 22 Jun 2022 01:51:56 -0400

Scrolling through social media, I see a lot of great suggestions about summer systems, chore charts, and plans to manage the time you have with your kids. We need these things to survive.

However, I have to ask, "Are we placing our focus on the areas that our going to serve us best?"

Let's stop trying to have a perfect summer and shift to a real summer- and a great one at that!

Episode 213: Kids Are Not Little Adults

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 18:17:48 -0400

The expectations we hold onto surrounding our kids behavior set us up for failure. Let's talk about why it's helpful to lower our expectations as parents, and how that helps us make more progress.

Episode 212: Getting on Each Other's Nerves?

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 17:15:26 -0400

If spending time together is creating and increase in conflict, know that you are not alone! In this episode we talk about shifting perspective and learning from our frustrations.

Episode 211: Summer Travel Tips

Thu, 09 Jun 2022 16:19:04 -0400

If your family is traveling this summer, don't forget this critical step. Prepare yourself mentally for bumps in the road or plans that don't work out the way you had hoped.

Episode 210: Thoughtful Parenting

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 18:29:06 -0400

Often we look to our kids to place value on our parenting. Are they excelling? Did they get a good grade on a test? But what is the measure of a good parent? Is there such a thing? One common element is that all parents struggle. Especially the "good" ones.

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Episode 209: The Comparison Trap

Thu, 19 May 2022 05:57:15 -0400

Few things make us more miserable than comparing our journey to another's. Today's episode addresses one area comparison sometimes sneaks up on us.

Episode 208: Look Beyond the Surface

Mon, 16 May 2022 13:47:33 -0400

Is your parenting game stuck at the surface level? If so, join us for this episode to pause and consider the current focus of your parenting efforts.

Episode 207: Trust the Process

Thu, 12 May 2022 11:18:39 -0400

Do you ever wonder if you are making any progress? If so, this episode is for you. Learning to trust the progress we make is a critical step in moving forward.

Episode 206: Seasons of Transition

Mon, 09 May 2022 10:34:46 -0400

The month of May always brings a mixture of emotion for me. It's a time of the year that marks comings and goings.

We get excited, celebrate, and I do my fair share of crying. In this episode we talk about how to navigate periods of transition in our families.

Episode 205: Empowering Choices

Fri, 06 May 2022 03:06:53 -0400

Today we are talking about how to use choices with your kids AND how your personal preferences matter in the family dynamic.

Episode 204: What Keeps You Up At Night?

Mon, 02 May 2022 11:31:18 -0400

Recently a listener asked me, "What keeps you up at night?" In this episode we are talking about two questions you can ask when you have concerns that weigh heavy on your heart and mind.

Episode 203: What Your Kids Wish You Knew - Respect Edition

Thu, 28 Apr 2022 11:46:55 -0400

Are you building a relationship of respect with your kids? In this episode we learn from an expert, a teenager, about the #1 secret they want you to understand in building a respectful relationship.

Episode 202: Am I just Letting My Kids Get Away With It?

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 06:28:02 -0400

When I ask parents to reconsider how they approach their teens, a common concern I hear is, “Well, am I just going to let them get away with it?”

The answer is simple, “No.”

If you’ve ever wondered a similar thing, then listen in to episode 202. I think you’ll enjoy the discussion and shift in perspective.

What Your Kids Wish You Knew - Friends Edition

Thu, 21 Apr 2022 07:56:38 -0400

Worried that your kids like their friends more than you? You are not alone! What if there was another option?

I recently asked a group of teens this question, “What do you wish your parents understood about being a teen today?”

Episode #201 highlights one of the most common responses I received about their friends. Here’s what they wish you understood better.

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Episode 200: 200 Days, One Direction

Tue, 19 Apr 2022 06:49:07 -0400

In our 200th episode I share one small adjustment you can make as you lead your family. Asking two questions will help you feel more confident, build relationships, and recognize progress along the way.

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Episode 199: Push Back Against Overwhelm

Thu, 14 Apr 2022 07:07:39 -0400

In episode 199 I talk about fighting back against the feeling of overwhelm. Listen in for two managable ideas you can try to move throught the feelings of overwhelm.

Episode 198: Learn to Validate Big Emotion

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 07:07:04 -0400

We give our children a gift when we teach about emotion and offer a safe place to express what they are feeling.

In episode 198 of the podcast we talk about how to start validating your people.

Episode 197: Do You Have a Kid Struggling in School?

Thu, 07 Apr 2022 07:31:09 -0400

Do you have a kid who is struggling in school and you just don’t know how to help them? It’s hard. We wonder what’s going on for them. We feel the frustration as we watch them reject what appears to be “easy” steps to success. We worry about their future and visions of them living in our basements forever! I get it. Episode 197 is full of ideas and way we can help.

Episode 196: Is Anxiety a Trend?

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 11:49:48 -0400

D you ever wonder if anxiety is a trend or if kids are claiming mental health issues just to get attention?

That's what we're talking about in this episode.

Episode 195: Use Instagram to Connect

Thu, 31 Mar 2022 06:30:55 -0400

We don't have to spend all our time fighting social media. Listen in and learn how to use Instagram and other social media apps to build a relationship.

Episode 194: Small Steady Steps

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 11:33:50 -0400

The idea that the growth and progression of our family will be a clean linear experience is failing you.

We are all human. We make mistakes, shift our focus, and need permission to try again. We get to keep teaching. Our kids get to keep practicing. We all get to keep making mistakes.

In this episode, we talk about taking small re-focused steps to help our families grow.

Episode 193: Just Love Them

Thu, 24 Mar 2022 07:30:45 -0400

I sat in a meeting once where the instructor told us all to "just love" the students we were teaching. What did she mean and how does it apply to us as parents when there's no question if we love our kids? That's what we're covering today.

Episode 192: Bedtime Woes

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 06:24:30 -0400

If bedtime is ruining your night, listen in for two tips to help make a shift towards a more cooperative and reasonable bedtime hour.

Episode 191: Behavior Gives Us Information

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 10:20:30 -0400

When I think of all the times my kids have responded to me by yelling, being sarcastic, or even by being disrespectful, I cannot think of a single time that I improved the situation by demanding that their behavior stop. In this episdoe we talk about how we can respond to our kids and gain valuable information to parent better.

Not once.

Episode 190: Try Something Other Than Correction

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 11:04:16 -0400

Behavior is what we see our kids do, and too often our parenting efforts focus on changing behavior. Unfortunately, that is our least effective option.

Episode 189: Importance of Family Story

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 07:09:48 -0500

Reseach tells us that when kids learn their family stories, their level of resliency increases. In this episode we talk about how to use family stories to our benefit.

Episode 188: Navigating Uncertainty With Confidence

Thu, 03 Mar 2022 06:15:38 -0500

Parents do not need to know or have all the answers to create a stable safe environment for their children.

In this episode I talk about 3 things you can do to navigate uncdertainty with greater confidence.

Episode 187: Work Creatively

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 06:28:25 -0500

If you want something to change in your family, yes, you’re gonna have to work for it. Please don’t make the mistake of trying the same approach over and over again. Look at the problem from a new angle. Ask for an outside perspective. Have some fun in the process of problem solving. Whatever you do, try something new and don’t give up.

Episode 186: Responding to Bad Ideas

Thu, 24 Feb 2022 06:53:43 -0500

Do you have a tendency to ignore, brush off, or dismiss the random ideas your older kids share? Pay attention. If you initially feel like the child is sharing a bad idea, what is your response?

How we respond impacts how willing our kids are to share with us as they grow. If we are consistently shutting down their ideas or dismissing their perspective, will they come to us when they need to sort through a more important issue?

They might. They might not. We increase the odds if we show them that we are willing to LISTEN, LEARN, and ENGAGE. Today you might be talking about Minecraft or a stunt they tried at the skatepark, but tomorrow it could be something more impactful.

Episode 185: Afraid of Losing Your Kid?

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 10:45:23 -0500

We do not have to lose the relationship we have with our kids as they get older. We do, however, need to let go of the idea that we get to control their world. I know this is a difficult idea to accept. This reality is a piece of what makes parenting older kids so dang hard.

You have a new role. A role that allows you to influence your child and build a stronger relationship in the process.

Episode 184: Connecting Conversations

Thu, 17 Feb 2022 07:39:26 -0500

Too often we forget that there is more to the relationship we share with our kids than life management. Homework, chores, calendar details are all important, but not more important than taking the time to connect with our kids in ways meaningful to them.

Episode 183: Are We Raising Quitters

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 07:49:12 -0500

By teaching our kids to win, are we uninentionally teaching them to quit? That's the question we are discussing in today's epsiode.

Episode 182: Know Your Why

Thu, 10 Feb 2022 06:37:28 -0500

Do you know your why?

In this episode, I share my why. What are your hopes for your family, and how can I support you in this parenting journey? I would love to hear from you.

Choices Reduce Resistance

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 07:30:00 -0500

Do you like to be bossed around? Nope? Neither do your kids. If we want more cooperation and less resistance, we can get there by offering choices. The more control a child feels they have, the less they have to fight for it.

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Excellence in Relationships

Thu, 03 Feb 2022 10:03:23 -0500

We all love a job well done. We’ve been taught our whole lives to strive for excellence, but sometimes we do so at the expense of our closest relationships and we don’t even realize it.

Episode 179: Assumptions - Harmful or Helpful

Mon, 31 Jan 2022 09:41:41 -0500

Did you know that assumptions, good and bad, can get in the way of a great relationship with your child?

When we make assumptions, we jump to conclusions and miss out on vital information that helps us parent our kids better.

Episode 178: Taming the Initial Reaction

Thu, 27 Jan 2022 09:36:23 -0500

Our first reaction matters. In this episode I peel back the layers on our initial reactions so that we can begin to tame the how we respond.

Episode 177: Learning from Pain

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 10:51:24 -0500

When we feel pain and discomfort in our relationships, we’re being given valuable information. Unfortunately, we often want to run from the pain and miss out on some great learning, but not this time.

STOP AND LISTEN!

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Episode 176: Guiding Our Kids Through Uncertain Times

Thu, 20 Jan 2022 10:21:04 -0500

Ignoring and dismissing the uncertainty in our lives doesn't make it go away. Today's episode offers you two tools you can use to decrease the stress and anxiety the unknown often brings into our families.

Episode 175: How Many Times is Too Many Times?

Mon, 17 Jan 2022 06:30:00 -0500

We often fear that there is an invisible number of chances we have to try again in our family relationships. Have you ever wondered if you're getting close to maxing out? Listen in as we bust this myth and replace it with truth that will help you build relationships at home.

Episode 174: You're Not Failing Your Family

Thu, 13 Jan 2022 06:30:00 -0500

If you've ever looked around and wondered how you have failed so miserably, you're not alone. I remember a long stretch of time when I felt that way about my family. In today’s podcast episode, we’re talking about one step you can take away from the crushing weight of failure towards progress.

Episode 173: Breaking Down Barriers to Connection

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 09:58:53 -0500

I’m curious. Is it easy or more difficult for you to connect with your kids-- especially the one who challenges you? For us, there is a lot of variation. Sometimes building a relationship is easy and sometimes we struggle more.

In today's we are talking about one barrier that might be getting in the way of strengthening relationships with your people. Listen in and please, share with a friend!

Episode 172: Kids Want a Relationship with Parents

Thu, 06 Jan 2022 10:17:42 -0500

Your kids want a relationship with you. Yes, their friends matter a whole lot and sometimes appear to be more important than anything else. However, they deeply care about their relationship with you.

The problem is, sometimes they feel totally stuck. They think the only way to connect with you is to do everything you want in the way you want it done. Think about that for a minute. Are they right?

Episode 171: Small Steps and Laser Focus

Mon, 03 Jan 2022 08:45:14 -0500

Feeling overwhelmed or defeated by your goals for the new year? Don't let that stop you from progressing. In today's episode, we talk about a few options for moving forward that do not require a complete overhaul of our lives and families.

Episode 170: Power of Words with Becky Kemp

Thu, 30 Dec 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Our guest Becky Kemp shares with us the power of words and how they can impact how we feel heading into this new year. She offers 3 words to act as guides as we move forward and create personal change.

Episode 169: Press Forward with Hope with Lynnette Sheppard

Mon, 27 Dec 2021 06:30:00 -0500

There are times parenting feels like a long journey that will NEVER end. Certainly the months of November and December can feel like a long journey that we love, but wonder if we will survive! Listen in for words of encouragement from our guest Lynnette Sheppard as we wrap up 2021 and begin our journey into a new year.

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Episode 168: Caring for Myself with Tricia McKenna

Thu, 23 Dec 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Today Tricia McKenna shares with us her journey in developing a personal spiritual practice and how that directly impacted her family dynamics.

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Episode 167: Adjust Your Expectations with Cheryl Cardall

Mon, 20 Dec 2021 09:49:17 -0500

Do you have an agenda for how things go with your family? I think most of us do this time of year. Are that agenda and the expectations that come along with it helping bring you closer to your family? That's what we're talking about today with our guest host, Cheryl Cardall.

You can find Cheryl on Instagram @cherylcardall and on her podcast Fight Like a Mother.

Episode 166: Finding Joy by Lowering the Hurdle with Monica Packer

Thu, 16 Dec 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Monica Packer from the podcast About Progress is here to share 3 tips for finding joy. She teaches us how to lower our hurdles, or how to make hard things just a little bit easier.

You can find her on Instagram @aboutprogress

Episode 165: Grief and the Holidays with Kelly Norton

Mon, 13 Dec 2021 10:14:47 -0500

If you have found yourself asking, “What’s wrong with me?”

“Why can’t I just feel happy?” “How is everyone else finding so much joy, but I’m not.”

There is a reason you might have overlooked, and Kelly's suggestions might just surprise you. I promise no overwhelming tasks to add to your to-do list!

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Episode 164: Simple Family Service

Thu, 09 Dec 2021 10:37:24 -0500

In this episode we talk about creative ways to incorporate service into your holiday season without adding extra stress and pressure.

Episode 163: Is Your To-Do List Weighing You Down?

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 10:46:32 -0500

If you are feeling buried by a lengthy to-do list, listen in. If you are ready for some options, we've got you covered.

Episode 162: Things Will Go Wrong

Thu, 02 Dec 2021 07:30:00 -0500

One thing we can count on in life, is that very few things will go exactly as we imagine they will. Things will go wrong. Our job is not to try and control "all the things" but to learn how to respond in the tough moments.

Episode 161: Same Page Parenting

Mon, 29 Nov 2021 06:30:00 -0500

Can parenting from the same page really be a thing? Yes....and no. Let's talk about what you can try if you and your parenting counterpart disagree.

Episode 160: Ready for Thanksgiving?

Mon, 22 Nov 2021 06:00:00 -0500

Holidays can hold a lot of emotion. Beautiful tender feelings AND also difficult, stressful, painful ones. It is okay to make room for both. You don't have to choose.

Episode 159: Let's Help Our Kids Navigate Holiday Gatherings

Thu, 18 Nov 2021 13:21:06 -0500

Holiday gatherings are intended to be fun, but we all know that our kids don't always agree. Helping our kids preview what to expect and how we can navigate gathering, will decrease our stress and increase our personal enjoyment.

Episode 158: Stop and Breathe

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 06:00:00 -0500

We run fast as parents. Join me and take just a small break to breathe.

Episode 157: How to React When Kids View Pornography

Thu, 11 Nov 2021 06:00:00 -0500

Finding out that our kids have been exposed to online garbage like pornography will make us sick every single time. Preparing ourselves with a plan, will help us react in the best way possible.

Episode 156: Protecting Kids Against Pornography

Mon, 08 Nov 2021 12:25:24 -0500

It totally stinks, but we as parents get to learn to talk to our kids about hard things like pornography, and these conversations need to start a lot younger than you might think.

Episode 155: Practice Sharing Control

Thu, 04 Nov 2021 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode we talk about the progression of learning to share control with our kids so that we can empower them to take charge of their own life.

Episode 154: It's Holiday Season

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 19:04:27 -0400

If October felt like a whirlwind, you're not alone! Listen in to today's episode for a few ideas on how to approach the upcoming holiday season.

Episode 153: Stand Up With Confidence

Thu, 28 Oct 2021 11:44:23 -0400

Have you ever wondered when to step in or when to let your kiddo handle a problem on their own? Teaching our kids to stand up for themselves requires practice. Listen in for some tools you can teach and practice when supporting your kid.

Episode 152: Before You React, Try This.

Mon, 25 Oct 2021 11:39:57 -0400

It's so easy to react in anger and frustration, but before you do, try asking these two simple questions.

Episode 151: This Stuff Really Works!

Thu, 21 Oct 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Guys, this stuff really works!! Really. So come join me on episode 151 to learn what tool I used in a recent interaction that completely changed the dynamics of a conversation.

Episode 150: Can I Be a Safe Space and Hold a Boundary

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 06:30:00 -0400

The short answer, you can't be safe unless you are willing to hold a boundary. We become safe when we learn to manage our big reactions.

Episode 149: Problem Solving - Where Do I Start?

Thu, 14 Oct 2021 07:00:00 -0400

We know we need to teach our kids how to solve their own problems, but do we know HOW to do it? Listen in for a few guiding questions and options that will help you teach your kids to become problem solvers.

Episode 148: I Have Choices with Special Guest Ellie

Mon, 11 Oct 2021 13:40:29 -0400

I've got a special guest this episode who shares her story about making a choice that wasn't her favorite. If you've ever made a choice you've regretted, then this episode is for you.

Episode 147: Making Room for the Good and the Mess

Fri, 08 Oct 2021 13:45:18 -0400

If you end the day feeling like you have failed your people, then come join me as we discuss one shift you can make to bring in some hope. The good news is- you may not be perfect, but you aren't a failure.

Episode 146: Our Families Require Care...Kinda Like a Houseplant

Mon, 04 Oct 2021 10:52:31 -0400

Our families require constant care and nourishment. Our approach may need adjusting along the way, but the principles we follow remain constant.

Episode 145: Kids Lie...Now What? Part 2

Thu, 30 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Join us for part 2 of our conversation about what to do when kids lie. Today we are talking about how to rebuild trust that has been diminished.

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Episode 144: Kids Lie...Now What? Part 1

Mon, 27 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Typically, no one likes to be told a lie. Am I right!? It never feels good. Unfortunately, kids lie. It's a natural part of their development and honesty is something they get to learn.

The good news is that we don't have to fall into the depths of despair when our kids lie to us. Listen in to episode 144 and leave ready to handle the moment your child lies with confidence.

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Episode 143: Using Memories to Anchor Our Hearts

Thu, 23 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

In moments of frustration, overwhelm, and anger, we can use memories from better times to anchor our hearts and lead us to more positive experiences in our families.

Episode 142: You Can't Be Everything For Everyone

Mon, 20 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Sometimes in parenting our kids we take on too much. We end up feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and ready to quit. One small shift can lighten your load and decrease your stress and anxiety.

Episode 141: Get on Your Kid's Team

Thu, 16 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Life with older kids gets messy. We don't get to control their choices and they will mess up. We can count on it. The question I want you to consider today is, "How do I show up for my kids when they make a choice I don't like or disagree with?" Do they know you're on their team.

Episode 140: Remembering and Learning from 9/11

Mon, 13 Sep 2021 10:59:51 -0400

We can remember, but we also need to carry lessons we have learned from 9/11 and other difficult moments in our life forward.

Episode 139: Do You Know Your Why?

Thu, 09 Sep 2021 06:30:00 -0400

When was the last time you stopped to think about why you chose to do the things you do? Today is your day. Listen in and learn why your WHY matters.

Episode 138: Parenting Is Hard Work

Mon, 06 Sep 2021 08:00:00 -0400

After spending a week with little kids, I was reminded just how hard every stage of parenting can be! If you need a little encouragement today, I've got ya.

Episode 137: A Family Plan for Managing Big Emotion

Thu, 02 Sep 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Does your family struggle to manage big emotions? Most do. Big emotions are a reality for all of us, but we often don’t practice how to express and feel big in safe and healthy ways. In this episode, we talk about steps you can take to help your family (this includes you) process big emotions without shattering the environment in your home.

Episode 136: Relationships and Accountability in Parenting

Mon, 30 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

If you’ve ever wondered about why building a relationship matters and how it fits with holding kids accountable and creating responsible adults, you are not alone. I get this question all the time!

Episode 135: Helping Kids Solve Problems without Frustration

Thu, 26 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Sometimes when our older kids come and ask for our help or share their problems, what they’re really asking for is for us to listen. We often jump in too quickly and begin trying to fix their problems. Then, they end up rejecting our ideas or tuning us. So frustrating, right? In episode 135, we cover 3 key questions you can use to guide you in these tricky conversations. I’ll give you a hint….we need to stop assuming they want our solutions! Anyone else struggle with this? Good thing we get to learn together.

Episode 134: Talk less. Listen More.

Mon, 23 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

A trip to the dentist reminded me that I needed to talk less and listen more. Episode 134 is short and sweet- don’t miss it!

Episode 133: Guiding Kids Through Tough Transitions - Part 2

Thu, 19 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Whether your child is a big kid or little kid, transitions can be tough. It might be the start of school, a new activity, or group of friends. Listen in for specific ways to support your child and calm the chaos of tough transitions.

Episode 132: Guiding Kids Through Tough Transitions - Part 1

Mon, 16 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Whether your child is a big kid or little kid, transitions can be tough. Listen in for some tips to connect and support your child today.

Episode 131: Are You Taking Advantage of the Power of Teaching?

Thu, 12 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Tired of telling your kids the same things over and over again? Time to make the shift from telling to teaching. Listen in for some specific ideas and how to connect with your kids in the process.

Episode 130: Let's get Reacquainted

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Welcome! It’s time for a little re-introduction around here. Come say hi and learn how I ended up on this side of the mic and what you can expect to find in each episode.

Episode 129: The Compliment & Forgiveness Games with Guest Host Scott Sorensen

Thu, 05 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Join guest host Scott Sorensen as he shares two games that will build relationships and individuals, teach family values, and create energy shifts in your home.

Episode 128: Paige Sorensen Guest Hosts- Fashion & Relationships

Mon, 02 Aug 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Have you thought about fashion as a way to connect and build relationships in your family? Join, Paige, our favorite fashion stylist as she guides us through a series of questions and prompts to help us build relationships around clothing. If you're tired of fighting over clothes, you don't want to miss this episode.

Episode 127: Busting a Myth and Final Thoughts with Andrea Parks

Thu, 29 Jul 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Is sexual orientation only about sex? Today we wrap up our conversation with Andrea Parks and answer this question.

Episode 126: Creating Affirming Environments

Mon, 26 Jul 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Did you know we can take small steps to send huge messages of hope? Today we visit with Andrea Parks about our part in creating affirming and safe environments.

Episode 125: But What If I Don't Have a Gay Kid?

Thu, 22 Jul 2021 07:00:00 -0400

We continue with our guest Andrea Parks. As a parent you might wonder if these conversations apply to you if you don't have a gay child. Today we are talking about how and why our treatment of LGBTQ community members directly impacts all children.

Episode 124: Supporting our LGBTQ Community

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 15:13:53 -0400

Join me and Andrea Parks as we explore our role as parents as it relates to our LGBTQ community. This is the first in a series of three episodes with Andrea.

Episode 123: Rachael Curfew Guest Hosts

Thu, 15 Jul 2021 15:23:42 -0400

Today we have Rachael Curfew as our guest host. Rachael is a mother an anxiety coach. She shares with us the power of a free pass in our parenting journey. We hear so much about the importance of consistency and follow through that sometimes we forget about the importance of a free pass. Listen in to learn more.

You can find Rachael at RachaelCurfew.com

Episode 122: Adjust and Adapt

Thu, 01 Jul 2021 06:00:00 -0400

We can count on failure. Let's get better at learning how to adjust and adapt.

Episode 121: Modeling Gratitude

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 06:00:00 -0400

If we want to raise kids who practice gratitude, we get to lead the way through our example. This episode is short and sweet but full of specific ideas you can try.

Episode 120: Seeing Your Child From a New Perspective

Thu, 24 Jun 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Is it easier to see the good in other people's children? There might be a reason. Join me for an exercise that helped me see my own kids in a brighter and healthier light.

Episode 119: Approach From a Different Angle

Mon, 21 Jun 2021 06:00:00 -0400

Sometimes we fail to look at all of our parenting options. Don't get stuck making the same mistakes again and again. Let's get creative and approach from a new angle.

Episode 118: Expectations

Thu, 17 Jun 2021 11:52:46 -0400

Let's talk about expectations- are the ones you have for yourself realistic? Bumps and mishaps are an unavoidable part of our family journey.

Episode 117: Making Big Decisions

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 06:00:00 -0400

As leaders in our home, we make a lot of big decisions, and sometimes those decisions feel daunting. Listen in for a few thoughts to gain clarity in the decision making process.

Episode 116: Try Again

Thu, 10 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Two of my favorite words to use when I don't know what to say or do. Listen in to learn how and when to use them.

Episode 115: Engaging with a Child who Gets Under Your Skin

Mon, 07 Jun 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Sometimes it feels like a child knows just what to do to get under your skin. Knowing how to respond when you feel this is tricky. Listen in for some things to consider in your sticky relationships.

Episode 114: Traveling with Older Kids

Thu, 03 Jun 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Listen in for tips to help lighten your load when traveling with older kids this summer.

Episode 113: A Day of Remembrance and Gratitude

Mon, 31 May 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Let's make Memorial Day a day of remembrance and gratitude.

Episode 112: Inviting in More Kindness

Thu, 27 May 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Our family needs a little less criticism and a lot more kindness. How about yours? Listen in for specific ways to increase kind energy.

Episode 111: Reality Check

Mon, 24 May 2021 12:04:43 -0400

We all need a reality check every once in a while. Join me in this episode for a good dose of reality and hope.

Episode 110: Sharing Control is not Letting Go

Thu, 20 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Often I hear parents say, "I just need to let go." Learning to identify what we can and cannot control is not hands off parenting. As parents we aren't trying to let go so much as we are trying to loosen our grip and guide.

Episode 108: Seasons of Transition

Mon, 17 May 2021 11:23:13 -0400

This week marks the beginning of graduation season for 2021. Take a breath and let's chat about making room for the ups and downs we feel during seasons of transition.

Episode 107: Boundaries, Accountability, Compassion, and Control

Thu, 13 May 2021 08:00:00 -0400

Let's get specific about the roles of boundaries, accountability, and compassion in a way that allows us to share control within our familyl.

Episode 106: Who's In Control?

Mon, 10 May 2021 07:30:00 -0400

Recognizing what we can and cannot control is a critical element in developing healthy relationships. Do you know the difference between what you want to control and what your child turthfully controls?

Episode 105: Managing Overwhelm

Thu, 06 May 2021 07:30:00 -0400

When we see our kids stuck in overwhelm, it can be hard to find empathy and compassion. Why can't they just get their stuff done? In this episode, we talk about options and tools for moving through it.

Episode 104: Calming the Chaos

Mon, 03 May 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Feeling the chaos of a busy family and kids' activities picking up? You're not alone! Join me as we talk about skills you can use to reclaim the present moment and invite a feeling of calm into your life.

Episode 103: We're on the Path Together

Thu, 29 Apr 2021 07:30:00 -0400

It's easy to lose sight of our own progress. Join me for a quick reminder- you are right where you need to be in this moment.

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Episode 102: Getting Dressed in the Morning and Parenting

Mon, 26 Apr 2021 15:34:22 -0400

Parenting and getting dressed in the morning- what do they have in common? Join me in this episode to find out. Let's think of parenting as a new adventure of creation.

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Episode 101: Managing Anxiety - Get Curious about Thought Patterns

Thu, 22 Apr 2021 16:31:57 -0400

In this episode we discuss how thought patterns impact levels of anxiousness and explore tools to push back against the distortions.

Episode 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 14:23:52 -0400

Celebrating how we got here to 100 episodes! Winners of our giveaway announced.

Episode 99: Tools for Managing Anxiety

Thu, 15 Apr 2021 08:00:00 -0400

Join us in this episode for a few tools you can practice with your family to help navigate the bumpy road of anxiousness.

Episode 98: Supporting an Anxious Child

Mon, 12 Apr 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Knowing how to help someone when they're experiencing moments of high anxiety can feel daunting. In this episode we identify 5 steps to act as your roadmap through to the other side.

Episode 97: When You Really Mess Up

Thu, 08 Apr 2021 07:30:00 -0400

We all have moments when we mess up and handle our emotions poorly. Let's talk about how to take those moments that negatively impact our kids and move forward in a healthy way.

Episode 96: Patience is More Than Waiting

Tue, 06 Apr 2021 19:44:03 -0400

We all need a little patience, but what does that mean and how do we get it? In this episode we talk about patience as an active process that can be learned.

Episode 95: Let's Celebrate One Year!

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 07:30:00 -0400

It's the Build Family Connection Podcast's first birthday, and we're celebrating with a giveaway! Listen in for details on how you can win one of four $25 Amazon gift cards.

Episode 94: How to Encourage a Conversation of Trust

Thu, 01 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Do you want to have more meaningful conversations with your older kids? We've got to lay a foundation of trust. Join me in this episode for a few phrases to help you on your way.

Episode 93: We All Get Stuck Sometimes!

Mon, 29 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0400

Have you seen the shipping vessel stuck in the Suez Canal? Too often we find ourselves in a similar situation. Let's talk about our options when we find ourselves stuck.

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Episode 92: When Our Kids Meltdown, Is it About Us?

Thu, 25 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Believe it or not, your child's poor behavior likely has nothing to do with you. You're a fantastic parent even when you child melts down!

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Episode 91: What to Do When A Child Lies

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we discuss a few ways to approach lying and sneaking that is becoming a habit.

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Episode 90: Parable of the Lotus Flower

Thu, 18 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Struggle is a natural part of our family life. We don't love it and we can learn from it. In this episode we talk about the beginnings of the lotus flower and the end result and how that relates to our parenting journey.

Episode 89: Small Moments of Connection

Mon, 15 Mar 2021 14:59:22 -0400

Do you ever feel like you end the day and haven't connected with your kids? In this episode we talk about taking advantage of the small moments to build strong relationships.

Episode 88: Simple (Really) Self Care

Thu, 11 Mar 2021 06:30:00 -0500

If you're tired of hearing ideas for self care that require a lot of time or even a babysitter, tune in for a fresh take and simple ways to offer yourself some care.

Episode 87: Creating Yes Opportunities

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0500

We've had a year full of restrictions. Join me for creative ways to say yes at home- even to the craziest ideas!

Episode 86: Taking a Moment to Reflect

Thu, 04 Mar 2021 07:30:00 -0500

Taking a moment to reflect back on a year of changes has value and can help define the direction we choose to head.

Episode 85: When Your Child Shares Bad News

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 10:42:11 -0500

Every parent receives much dreaded bad news from their child. None of us like it.....ever! How we respond in the earliest moments of the conversation can shape our path moving forward.

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Episode 84: A Bit of Encouragement

Thu, 25 Feb 2021 20:42:52 -0500

We all need a little encouragement when the weight of parenting is too much to bear. Know you are not alone.

Episode 83: No Strings Attached

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 12:29:04 -0500

In this episode we talk about having frequent "no strings attached" conversations with your family members- especially your teens. You'll find practical ways to apply this concept and start building your relationships today.

Episode 82: Navigating Negative and Anxious Thoughts

Thu, 18 Feb 2021 13:59:23 -0500

In this episode we push back against a common misconception when it comes to positive thinking.

Episode 81: Allowing Ourselves to Feel

Mon, 15 Feb 2021 08:00:00 -0500

Learning to let our emotion have a place and purpose in our lives is a hard and necessary piece of healthy living.

Episode 80: Getting Unstuck

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:11:13 -0500

Sometimes we get stuck or feel resistant to certain activities and don't quite understand why. In this episode, we walk through an example that illustrates the small steps you can take to keep moving forward.

Episode 79: Does Valentine's Day need a Refresh?

Mon, 08 Feb 2021 06:00:00 -0500

If your past Valentine's days have been less than ideal, join me in this episode for an idea to shake things up a bit and still build relationships.

Episode 78: Valentine Affirmations

Thu, 04 Feb 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Let's talk about the power of seeing and honoring one another's strengths...and have a little fun along the way.

Episode 77: Reaching a Child who Lacks Motivation

Tue, 02 Feb 2021 14:08:07 -0500

Knowing how to connect with and inspire a child who appears to "not care" is a tricky thing for parents. Our first step is to clearly communicate and instill a sense of worth within our children. Let them know they matter more than their most recent failure.

Episode 76: Err on the Side of Kindness

Thu, 28 Jan 2021 16:14:27 -0500

In this episode, we talk about the importance of sharing a compliment versus constantly criticizing.

Episode 75: Navigating Conflict by Looking to Understand

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 17:55:04 -0500

In this episode, we talk about how to shift the energy in a critical conversation and work towards connection instead of contention.

Episode 74: Choices and Control

Thu, 14 Jan 2021 06:00:00 -0500

Offering choices to our older kids and teens is a critical piece of sharing control and establishing trust in our relationships. In this episode, I share some examples of effective choices you can offer.

Episode 73: Keeping Our Eyes on Progress

Mon, 11 Jan 2021 06:00:00 -0500

Focusing on progress and including a dose of encouragement along the way will bring our kids and our families closer to their desired goals.

Episode 72: Guiding our Kids Through Anxious Times

Thu, 07 Jan 2021 13:43:13 -0500

The uncertain and unpredictable times in which we live are increasing levels of fear and anxiety in our children. In this episode, we talk about three simple steps we can take to guide our kids when we ourselves don't have the answers.

Episode 71: Stepping Gently Into the New Year

Mon, 04 Jan 2021 17:40:10 -0500

Feeling a little hesitant about the new year? You are not alone! Let's talk about options for stepping into the new year when you feel tired, worn out, and unsure.

Episode 171: Looking Ahead to a New Year

Mon, 04 Jan 2021 06:30:00 -0500

It may be a new year, but you do not have to transform into someone new! Join us in this episode for a few simple questions to guide you as you step into a year full of hope and possibility.

Episode 70: Check-In With Yourself

Thu, 17 Dec 2020 06:30:00 -0500

What you need matters. As we wrap up this crazy year, let's pause for a minute and evaluate.

Episode 69: Connection Through Simple Family Service

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 06:00:00 -0500

Giving doesn't have to require a lot of planning or big projects. We can create connection and meaning through our simple acts of service.

Episode 68: Connect Through Family Stories

Thu, 10 Dec 2020 06:00:00 -0500

We need the good AND the messy stories of our families to be told.

Episode 67: Mistakes are Chances to Learn

Mon, 07 Dec 2020 06:00:00 -0500

Let's talk about how to talk to our kids about mistakes.

Episode 66: Perfection is NOT the Goal

Thu, 03 Dec 2020 06:30:00 -0500

As parents, we need to give ourselves room to grow alongside our children. We get to make mistakes too!

Episode 65: Answers Will Come In Pieces

Mon, 30 Nov 2020 07:00:00 -0500

Are you looking for answers to a problem? You're not alone. In this episode we talk about how most answers come and how to tackle big problems.

Episode 64: Before You Rush Into the Holidays...

Wed, 25 Nov 2020 06:00:00 -0500

Stop and check-in before you and your family rushes full steam into the holidays.

Episode 63: Struggling to Make Decisions?

Mon, 23 Nov 2020 06:00:00 -0500

Join me in this episode for a few reminders when it comes to making decisions for our families.

Episode 62: Celebrating Differences

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode we talk about simple ideas to teach and encourage our families how to celebrate and honor differences.

Episode 61: Parenting Fail!

Wed, 18 Nov 2020 10:19:16 -0500

Do you ever want to give up on this whole parenting gig? You're not alone! Jon me as we address how to overcome this feeling of not enough.

Episode 60: It's Never Too Late for Gratitude

Thu, 12 Nov 2020 10:45:27 -0500

We're all feeling a little fatigued with 2020. There couldn't be a better time to join me in a practice of gratitude!

Episode 59: Teaching our Kids to Be Responsible

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 10:14:47 -0500

In this episode, we talk about 5 steps we can implement to teach our kids to be more responsible.

Episode 58: The Value of Perspective

Fri, 06 Nov 2020 13:16:35 -0500

Is it Flo Rida or Florida? In this episode we talk about the value of understanding another's perspective.

Episode 57: Holiday Season Choices, Options, and Boundaries

Mon, 02 Nov 2020 10:34:29 -0500

In this episode we pause for a moment to consider the choices and options this holiday season brings to our families. Join me for 3 questions that will help guide you in making decisions this year.

Episode 56: We Model Through our Actions

Fri, 30 Oct 2020 06:00:00 -0400

As we head into election week, let's remember to model behaviors we want our children to duplicate.

Episode 55: Experiencing Grief

Mon, 26 Oct 2020 14:57:34 -0400

Often we judge one another and ourselves how we experience grief or whether or not we "should" be grieving. In this episode we talk about some simple thoughts in making room for the sorrow and grief we feel.

Episode 54 - Part 3 Guiding Kids Through Uncertainty

Thu, 22 Oct 2020 10:53:07 -0400

This is our final episode in the series about guiding our kids through times of uncertainty. We focus on direct two-way conversations.

Episode 53: Part 2 - Guiding Kids Through Uncertainty

Mon, 19 Oct 2020 06:30:00 -0400

In this episode, we continue our discussion on guiding our kids through uncertain times.

Episode 52: Guiding Our Kids Through Uncertainty, Part 1

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 06:00:00 -0400

This episode is the first in a three part series focused on guiding our kids through uncertain times.

Episode 51: Do One Hard Thing

Mon, 12 Oct 2020 12:02:53 -0400

We ask our kids to do hard things all the time. How about us? Are we willing to stay in the parenting game and keep trying to show up when life gets hard?

Episode 50: Stay Focused on the Good

Thu, 08 Oct 2020 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the importance of maintaining focus on what is working in our families. Good is always mixed in with the struggle.

Episode 49: Meaningful Self-Care

Mon, 05 Oct 2020 06:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about creating more meaningful self-care practices.

Episode 48: Stepping Out of Power Struggles

Fri, 02 Oct 2020 14:08:44 -0400

We lead by our example as parents. Preparing ourselves with a few key phrases can help reduce power struggles and arguments with our kids around accountability.

Episode 47: Reframing Failure

Wed, 23 Sep 2020 06:00:00 -0400

Failure can provide us with valuable information and opportunities for learning if we allow it.

Tantrums in Public

Mon, 21 Sep 2020 05:30:00 -0400

How to handle tantrums and meltdowns in public.

Parable of the Bamboo Tree

Thu, 17 Sep 2020 06:30:00 -0400

Our parenting efforts often feel like the process of growing a bamboo tree. Great patience and trust are required!

Meeting People In Their Space

Mon, 14 Sep 2020 08:00:00 -0400

In this episode we talk about why our willingness to meet people in their space matters.

Relationship AND Accountability

Fri, 11 Sep 2020 00:11:42 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the importance of focusing on the relationship and following through with boundaries for accountability.

Episode 42: Who Needs to Hear From You Today?

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 13:39:44 -0400

Who in your family needs to connect with you today?

Episode 41: My Phone Won't Work!

Fri, 04 Sep 2020 05:00:00 -0400

Sometimes the tools intended for our convenience, make finding places of quiet and stillness more difficult. In this episode, we talk about the benefits of a broken phone.

Episode 40: Give it Another Try

Mon, 31 Aug 2020 12:01:44 -0400

If something doesn't workout the first time, give it another try and trust the process of learning.

Episode 39: Slow Down to Observe

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 02:30:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the power of slowing down to observe and connect with our family members.

Episode 38: When to Push and When to Back off Extracurricular Activities

Mon, 24 Aug 2020 02:30:13 -0400

In this episode, we consider a few principles in knowing when to encourage a child to push through difficulties in their extracurricular activities or when to back off.

Episode 37: Control

Thu, 20 Aug 2020 01:30:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about focusing on what we can control.

Episode 36: Managing Technology

Mon, 17 Aug 2020 16:40:02 -0400

In this episode, we talk about three steps to help manage technology use in the home.

Episode 35: Your Voice Matters

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 11:17:04 -0400

In this episode we talk about the importance a parent's voice carries in conveying strength and hope in the family.

Episode 34: Advocating for Your Child's Medical Care

Mon, 10 Aug 2020 18:24:02 -0400

In this episode we focus on navigating your role as an advocate in your child's medical care.

Episode 33: Focus on the Process of Learning

Fri, 07 Aug 2020 11:41:14 -0400

In this episode, we focus on maintaining perspective and trusting our kids to learn when the circumstances around us aren't ideal.

Episode 32: Building an Active Family

Mon, 03 Aug 2020 13:06:54 -0400

In this episode, we look at guiding principles for building an active family.

Episode 31: Focus on One Challenge at a Time

Sat, 01 Aug 2020 15:59:06 -0400

In today's episode, we continue our focus on adapting to a new school year. We talk about the importance of tackling one challenge at a time.

Episode 30: Plan for the Unexpected

Thu, 30 Jul 2020 02:13:52 -0400

In this episode, we continue our focus on preparing for a successful school year. We talk about the value of expecting bumps in road and the need to adapt.

Collaborating for Success

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 19:52:46 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the importance of offering choices and collaborating with your kids as we start a new and different kind of school year.

Episode 28: It's Never Too Late

Wed, 22 Jul 2020 11:45:16 -0400

This episode is a reminder that it's never too late to make a change and improve a relationship.

Episode 27: Bring the Calm

Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:48:21 -0400

In this episode, we talk about how to keep your calm when life is feeling chaotic. The examples focus on younger kiddos but the principles stay the same when interacting with our teens.

Episode 26: Look for the Small Moments

Thu, 09 Jul 2020 06:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the value of small moments of connection during times of stress.

Episode 25: Summer Bucket List

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode we talk about having kids create a summer bucket list to add some variety to your days.

Episode 24: Power of Availability

Wed, 01 Jul 2020 06:30:00 -0400

We discuss the value of creating time and space to be available in our homes.

Episode 23: Validating Kid's Emotions

Mon, 29 Jun 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Instead of demanding that emotions stop, validate and guide your child through the experience.

Episode 22: Understanding Emotion

Fri, 26 Jun 2020 02:30:00 -0400

Understanding that emotion serves a purpose in our lives is a critical step in navigating hard times.

Episode 21: When You Don't Feel OK

Wed, 24 Jun 2020 13:00:04 -0400

Not all days are great and it's good to remember that we all struggle.

Episode 20: Finding Value in the Struggle

Tue, 23 Jun 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Let's take a look at shifting our perspective on struggle before we remove all the obstacles and smooth the way for our kids.

Episode 19: Pushing Back Against Negative Thoughts

Fri, 05 Jun 2020 08:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we look at how to fight negative thought patterns with truth.

Episode 18: Hard but Necessary Conversations

Wed, 03 Jun 2020 02:30:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the importance of having hard conversations even when we don't have all the answers.

Episode 17: Monitoring Your Thoughts

Mon, 01 Jun 2020 08:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about recognizing your personal thought patterns.

Episode 16: Try Kindness Instead of Criticism

Fri, 29 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about focusing on kindness instead of criticism.

Episode 14: Gratitude

Thu, 21 May 2020 13:48:53 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the power of gratitude.

Episode 13: Look for the Yes

Thu, 21 May 2020 13:46:58 -0400

In this episode, we talk about setting boundaries and creating accountability using the word "yes" instead of "no".

Episode 12: Teaching Creatively

Wed, 20 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about tapping into your resources and teaching your kids in creative ways.

Episode 11: Remember Your Options

Fri, 15 May 2020 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode, I talk about the importance of remembering that we all will be moving forward at different paces.

Episode 10: Desirable Versus Undesirable Behaviors

Tue, 12 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

Identify the behaviors you'd like to see and focus your energy creating ways to practice there.

Episode 9: Taking a Step Back

Mon, 04 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

We all have our moments. Knowing when to step back and own your part is an important part of being a family member.

Episode 8: How Well Do You Know Your Kids?

Thu, 30 Apr 2020 10:04:00 -0400

Spend some getting to know the details of what your kids love and why they love it.

Episode 7: Choices

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 22:23:22 -0400

Recognizing we still have choices empowers us as individuals. Offering choices to children communicates trust and sends the same message of strength.

Episode 6: Healthy Boundaries

Tue, 28 Apr 2020 22:04:46 -0400

Small boundaries help us maintain our sanity and decrease resentment.

Episode 5: Is Fear in the Driver's Seat?

Wed, 15 Apr 2020 20:53:15 -0400

In this episode, we look at how to identify if fear acting as a protective or destructive element in your family.

Episode 4: Accept the Present Moment

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 23:58:55 -0400

What messy pieces of life are showing up for you right now?

Episode 3: What do you need?

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 23:54:29 -0400

We get so busy taking care of others, that sometimes we need a reminder that we're people too!

Episode 2: Look for the Good

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 23:47:38 -0400

Become a diligent detector of good in the world and in the members of your family.

Episode 1: Welcome to Build Family Connection

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 17:31:33 -0400

Come meet Michelle and see what this podcast is all about.