1. Many of You HAVE no career progression goals at all.

• You're floating along
• You have no intention or direction
• Maybe it hasn't occurred to you that you should.

2. A lot of you have this idea that career progression is only about getting a promotion.
3. Some of you do have a career progression goal, but it's not the right one.
4. You have a career progression goal, it's the right one, but the way you're chasing after that goal is going to make it unsustainable when you get there.

So you're either

• underestimating the IMPORTANCE of career progression and/or
• you're taking such a narrow a view of it, (I.e. that career progression = promotion) that you are missing out on the VALUE of other forms of career progression.

This means you are denying yourself the opportunity to create the results of:

• Being in a better place in your career today than you were yesterday
• Or at the end of this year than you were last year
• And to have as your future goal: the ambition of being in a better place in your career at the end of 2023 than you are the beginning.

In this last episode of the Caroline Flanagan Podcast, we cover:

1. Why you should ALWAYS have a career progression goal.
2. Why it's really important to make sure that your goal is the RIGHT goal.
3. How to choose the right goal by focusing on the 4 Pillars of Career Progression, the concept we teach in Imposter Syndrome Coaching.
4. What the 4 Pillars of Career Progression are and how to use them.

In my Imposter Syndrome Coaching programme, you do a Progression Audit to work out which of the 4 pillars needs the most immediate attention, and we spend 6 months progressing that pillar first. When you do the work to progress one pillar, this has a knock on effect of progressing the other pillars too.

You can get started RIGHT NOW with identifying your progression goal for the next 6 months. I'm giving you FREE ACCESS to the Progression Audit Form (the exact same one we use when you join in Imposter Syndrome Coaching) to everyone who joins my Waitlist. .

To access your audit now, join the Waitlist. Add your details there, and a link to the Progression Audit will be sent straight to your inbox.

And make a note! Enrolment for Imposter Syndrome Coaching opens on 6th December. So head over to the waitlist and get your Progression Audit. This is your opportunity to be ready for when doors open on enrolment.

This is the last episode of The Caroline Flanagan podcast and we're excited to have recently introduced a brand new podcast, Legal Imposters, which is super tailored especially for lawyers with Imposter Syndrome. You can listen to it here, and head on over to LinkedIn to subscribe to the Imposter Syndrome in Law newsletter.

This introductory episode is to welcome fellow legal imposters into the fold, and to explain to you how the key to tackling your Imposter Syndrome lies in turning it into your strength and using it to your advantage in your career.

We bust the three Imposter Syndrome myths:

• That it's 'just you' and that everyone else is confident and capable.
• That Imposter Syndrome is a problem that you need to fix.
• That Imposter Syndrome is a sign of weakness.

And we explain how rather than 'fixing' your Imposter Syndrome, you need to change:

• The way you think about your Imposter Syndrome.
• The way you think about YOURSELF as a person with Imposter Syndrome.
• The way you think about what it means to succeed in the legal industry.

We'll explore all of this in detail over the coming episodes. But if you're a lawyer, you want more, your negative thoughts about belonging and deserving are holding you back, you're ready to stop doing that, and you're now ready to see what you're capable of, you're in the right place!

Welcome to Legal Imposters. We're so excited you're here.

SUBSCRIBE and tell ALL your fellow lawyers – everyone needs to know how to feel good about their Imposter Syndrome! In Imposter Syndrome Coaching we follow a simple practical process for progressing your career when you have Imposter Syndrome. Enrolment for the next programme opens soon. Join the waitlist so that you'll be the first to know!

But if you want to keep your career on track during difficult times you need to do the opposite.

It's more important than ever that you take control of your career, by:

• Being visible
• Adding value, and
• Building relationships.

I'm not here to scaremonger or to try to make you worried. But in turbulent times, when there are so many things in the world that are out of your control, one thing you can have power over is the direction and progression of your own career.

In this episode, I explain:

• How to think about uncertainty so that you do not panic, or ignore coming change, and
• What to do to bolster your career so that you are in a position of strength to weather the prospective storm.

The episode covers all you need to do to 'double down' on your career so that you make yourself the most visible, valuable and well-connected lawyer you can be. I explain how you should do this, even, and in fact, especially, when you suffer from Imposter Syndrome.

Because it's your Imposter Syndrome that is holding you back.

It's what stands between you and doubling down. And doubling down is how you make your career more resilient and ensure it's sustainable in troubled times.

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching we follow a simple practical process for progressing your career when you have Imposter Syndrome. You get everything you need to double down and recession-proof your career. Enrolment for the next programme opens soon. Join the waitlist so that you'll be the first to know!

It's the emotions that drive your actions that count. Why?

• Because emotion lies behind everything we do.
• Because FEAR is the emotion behind your Imposter Syndrome, driving overworking, overthinking, playing small and self sabotage – which are the behaviours keeping you stuck and stopping you progressing the way you want or need to.
• Because if you want to progress, you need to a) be AWARE of the emotions that don't serve you and b) learn how to TURN ON those that do.

And the good news is, you only need to master 5 of them!

In this podcast episode, I describe the 5 emotions that you need to choose to feel, and then explain how to feel them consistently and intentionally, if you are going to progress your career.

NB - confidence is not on the list!

Tune in now to find out what these 5 emotions are. And If you're a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome seeking better balance, more recognition, more confidence or you just want to do your day job with a lot more ease, check out Imposter Syndrome Coaching for lawyers. Enrolment opens soon. Join the waitlist so that you'll be the first to know!

Faking it 'til you make it may help you out when you need a quick fix, but it is not a long term strategy for building confidence.

It's often one of the 'tricks' you're advised to use to help you 'overcome' your Imposter Syndrome - a mindset tactic that encourages you to do something you're terrified or reluctant to do. It works on the premise that if you 'pretend' to be able to do something often enough, or for long enough, you grow the capability to actually do it.

Sounds good, right?

The problem with faking it though is that your relationship with yourself doesn't change. It gives you a mask to wear, it makes you well-practised - but you are still practising being someone you are not. The best way to 'make it' is by gaining confidence in who you really ARE.

In this episode, I cover all the downsides to the faking it approach and describe what you need to do instead. I explain how you need to put in the work to discover who you really are, and learn to take action from a place of trusting that you are enough.

This is the method I teach in Imposter Syndrome Coaching. Enrolment for the next coaching programme is coming soon. Make sure you're on the waitlist so that you're the first to. know.

We're also excited to be launching a new podcast on 1 November - 'Lawyers with Imposter Syndrome'. It will have lots of client case studies, interviews, and will revisit key issues about Imposter Syndrome in the Legal industry. It will also support you through Imposter Syndrome Coaching.

The deadline for applications to ISC for lawyers is Monday 3rd. If you're a lawyer and you think Imposter Syndrome may be holding you back in your career, this programme is for YOU. For details on how to apply, head to carolineflanagan.com/imposter-syndrome-coaching.

Remember, doors close at midnight on Monday 3rd October so don't delay. Get your application over to me asap.

APPLY HERE:

P.S. If you still have unanswered questions, email me here or you can DM in all the usual places on social.

Can't wait to see you in the program!

If you were there, this episode will be a useful reminder of all the reasons why you should drop what you're doing right now and rush to apply for Imposter Syndrome Coaching.

If you missed Monday's class, today's you're lucky day. Listen, learn, then get yourself over to the application page asap.

Remember, doors close at midnight on Monday 3rd October so don't delay. Get your application over to me asap.

APPLY HERE:

P.S. If you still have unanswered questions, email me here or you can DM in all the usual places on social.

Can't wait to see you in the program!

Tune into this special announcement to find out everything you need to know to apply, including details of the money back guarantee.

Don't delay! Doors close at midnight on Monday 3rd October so get your application into me asap.

If you still have unanswered questions, email me here or you can DM in all the usual places on social.

Can't wait to see you in the program!

APPLY HERE:

Or do you find yourself attributing your success to someone or something else? Or perhaps keep your wins to yourself? Do you, in effect, refuse to take credit for your achievements? When you have Imposter Syndrome, you feel compelled to avoid being exposed as the fraud you think you are. This means you indulge in Self-Sabotage, one of the 4 negative behaviours (or 4 Horsemen as I call them) that characterise Imposter Syndrome. Refusing to take credit for, or capitalise on, your successes, is a sure-fire way to sabotage or undermine your career progression.

In this week's podcast episode, I show you how to look more compassionately and proactively at your achievements, and, something typically overlooked, the other ways in which you have made clear and measurable progress to date. What I talk about here will help you become more confident and level up the way you think about yourself. The episode covers:

• How to identify the circumstances where you are currently not taking credit for things that you should be.
• The common mistakes you are making in dealing with success or praise.
• The ways in which discounting your achievements is undermining your progress.
• What you can say or do instead to take credit for your achievements and internalise your successes.

Having Imposter Syndrome means your brain will resist these changes. One of the biggest values of my Imposter Syndrome programme is that I coach you through this discomfort. Sign up to my FREE MASTERCLASS on MONDAY 26TH SEPTEMBER 18.00 PM UK "How to Progress Your Legal Career (when you struggle with Imposter Syndrome) to hear more.

When coaching my clients on how to achieve their progression goals, I don't just set off in the vague hope of helping them get what they want. We get really clear on how you'll know when you get there and we always measure your progress. Because more important than achieving your goal is who you become along the way.

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Being visible is a core essential for career progression.

• It's how people get to know who you are
• It's how they get to experience your value
• It's how they learn to trust you enough to: - give you opportunities - recognise you - support you - promote you.

But when you have Imposter Syndrome, your fear of being exposed means that visibility is the last thing you want. You'll go to great lengths to avoid it, by:

• Turning down opportunities to showcase your value
• Not going for a promotion
• Avoiding networking events
• Avoiding public speaking
• Being intimidated by social media.

Perhaps you only do one or a couple of the above. But the problem is that any of these behaviours can hold you back and stop you from realising your true potential.

In this episode, I describe my own personal problem with Imposter Syndrome and visibility; raising my profile on social media.

I explain how, like me, you need to identify WHAT you should do to raise your visibility, and, more importantly, HOW you should do it. I share with you the results of an exercise I teach in Imposter Syndrome coaching which helps you to embrace negative emotion in order to do the things that will make you visible.

You don't have to make this journey alone. I teach you the process for becoming more visible in Imposter Syndrome Coaching for Lawyers, and I coach you every step of the way. You also get the support of other members of the group who are on the same journey. With this level of support, your success is inevitable. Enrolment opens 12th September for 7 days only and places are limited. As a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome, you have to check out this programme. Get your name on the waitlist now, so you are the first to hear. I will be prioritising applications from people who are already on the Waitlist when enrolment opens.

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The answer is the Goldilocks Gauge.

Overworking is all the work you do that is driven by fear. It takes up valuable time but adds little or no value. Such as:

• Labouring over emails.
• Excessively checking your work.
• Prolonging tasks so you never finish your work, you only ever run out of time.

Overworking makes you inefficient and puts your career at risk. If you want to progress your career, you need to learn how to stop.

In this episode, I introduce you to 'The Goldilocks Gauge' - the unique tool you learn in Imposter Syndrome Coaching to help you understand what is the 'just right' amount of time to spend on your work. This is the efficiency sweet spot.

You'll learn how to evaluate how long things will take, and a formula to work out how long tasks SHOULD be taking you so you can stop Overworking and focus only on the work that will produce the best results.

The better you get at stopping overworking, the more efficient you'll be, the better balance you'll have, and the more your career will progress.

To get started on stopping Overworking with The Goldilocks Gauge, join the next class of Imposter Syndrome Coaching. Enrolment for the next class is on September 12th 2022. Be the first to know by Signing up to the waitlist here.

But when the perceived danger is a work challenge, all this Overthinking isn't protective, it's detrimental.

Being 'in your own head' means:

• You're not fully present in your environment.

• You experience the world through the filter of your negative thoughts.

So you are:

• Less efficient (things take you longer).
• Less effective (you're less focused).
• More hesitant, quieter, withdrawn (where you are making negative assumptions).

All of which stops you from progressing in your career.

In this podcast episode, I explain the importance of 'getting out of your own head'.

We cover:

• Why you need to be able to shift your attention away from your thoughts and direct it towards what is actually happening right in front of you.
• When you need to be able to do it.
• How to do it.
• The Blink-of-an-eye Attention Redirection strategy I teach in Imposter Syndrome Coaching.
• Obstacles to expect and how to overcome them.

When you've learned how to stop Overthinking you are more alert and focused and 100x more effective. You notice more. You think more clearly, solve problems more quickly. You're free to be creative, more responsive. And you'll be so much more in control.

Join Imposter Syndrome Coaching to learn the tool that will help you get out of your own head. Enrolment for the next class opens on 12th September 2022. Click here to find out more and join the waitlist.

It's time to go back to basics.

In this podcast episode, I get to the bottom of the coaching conundrum, and give you all the information you need to make an informed decision about Imposter Syndrome Coaching.

I cover:

• What coaching is: an explanation of the listening and questioning technique that helps you get from where you are now to where you want to be.
• What coaching is not.
• Who coaching is for.
• How coaching works.
• The best conditions for coaching.
• The value of coaching: how is it worth the money?
• What to look for in a coach.

I also explain how Imposter Syndrome Coaching ticks all these boxes in a unique coaching programme tailored just for lawyers with Imposter Syndrome.

Coaching will take you further than you can go by yourself. If you'd like to give it a try, the next class of Imposter Syndrome Coaching is coming soon. Click here to join the waitlist and find out more.

Many people struggle to honestly assess how they're doing.

• It takes effort; when you have Imposter Syndrome, looking for the things you have done wrong or could improve is a massive trigger.
• It feels time consuming.
• You don't have a process; self-evaluation is not a skill that is usually taught.

But self-evaluation is one of the most important lessons you learn in Imposter Syndrome Coaching. It's the process that ensures that every time you go through a growth cycle , you are progressing through the cycle (I.e. improving), instead of just going round in circles! Together with asking for feedback, it's the part of the process which is going to most accelerate your progress towards your goal.

In this episode, I cover:

• What to evaluate
• How to evaluate

I explain how in Imposter Syndrome Coaching, we take a unique approach: Imposter Syndrome is not a problem you need to fix, it's just the puzzle you need to solve.

And that is the puzzle of who you are.

When you know who you are, and you take action from "who you are" instead of who you're not: you get access to all the resources you need to fulfil your potential.

• You don't succeed by doing. you succeed by being.
• You don't succeed because of a list of achievements, or what you've done, you succeed because of who you've become.

So in Imposter Syndrome Coaching, I teach you to evaluate your performance differently. It's not about what you did, it's all about who you were.

In this episode, I walk you through the step-by-step process to evaluate who you were when you performed each action, and explain how you can act on the results of your self evaluation to progress.

Who you are is your most valuable asset. Self evaluation is about holding yourself accountable to showing up as who you are. If you'd like to get started, book a free consultation with me.

Coaching forms the backbone of ISC (my coaching programme for lawyers with Imposter Syndrome.)

In these special 'client breakthrough' podcast episodes, I'm sharing examples of client progression due to their coaching experiences. If you've never had coaching before, this is a brilliant way to gain some insight into the process. You'll get to zoom in on real client scenarios and get a glimpse of the types of transformations you can achieve through my Imposter Syndrome Coaching programme.

In this client breakthrough session we're covering: all or nothing thinking.

The scenario:

A corporate lawyer, returning from maternity leave, is anxiously looking for recognition and promotion, in the knowledge that one of the partners has been unsupportive of her ambitions.

In this episode, I walk you through the coaching process for this scenario:

• Identifying the client's progression goals (recognition and promotion).
• Exploring the obstacles to her achieving those goals (her feelings of anxiety and stress about the partner's hostility which triggers her Imposter Syndrome).
• Examining the reasons behind those feelings (memories of past feedback causing negative 'all or nothing' thinking).
• Helping her recognise and find a solution to rebalance her thinking and move forward.

This Imposter Syndrome Coaching process:

• Shows you how your Imposter Brain works – driven by fear of exposure, it wants to avoid this at all costs.
• Shows you how your Human Brain works – it likes to generalise (because it's more efficient), causing you to stay stuck in your story and miss vital information you can use to move forward.
• Reveals your blindspots – all the information you're ignoring which tells a better, more useful story.
• Gives you back your power by providing you with an opportunity to take action towards your goal.

If you're a lawyer who is ready to tackle your own all or nothing thinking and to find out how Imposter Syndrome Coaching can help you too, book your free consultation with me by clicking here.

It sounds counterintuitive, but at its core, this is about choice; the choices you have when

your Imposter Syndrome is triggered:

1. The choices around what you make it mean, and
2. The choices over what to do next.

This is the philosophy I teach that supports step 4 of Imposter Syndrome Coaching: follow your Imposter Syndrome to your goal. Imposter Syndrome will get in your way, but don't shy away from it; lean into it. Turn your weakness into a strength. Life is an arena and this is your playbook.

This episode covers:

• What 'Imposter Syndrome is the Way' really means, including workplace examples.
• Why you need to adopt this philosophy.
• How to apply it in the workplace.
• What to expect along the way.

Episode takeaways:

When you have Imposter Syndrome, you're always going to trigger those feelings of anxiety and self-doubt on the path towards your goal.

The 'Imposter Syndrome is the Way' philosophy is your reminder that:

• Your Imposter Syndrome is the signpost that points you straight in the direction of the result you want to create.
• Your Imposter Syndrome being triggered is a sign you're on the right path; and
• Your Imposter Syndrome being triggered reveals the path of your growth and what will prepare you for the next level.

Listen to this podcast episode and you'll walk away with a new lens through which to see and experience the world as a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome, in a way which is going to make it so much easier:

• To do the things you want to do
• To make decisions
• To create results
• To overcome adversity, and
• To build better relationships

If you're a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome and you're ready to get serious about your career, book a free consultation with me to discuss how this could work for you.

• What Growth Cycles are and why they're important.
• Why, as a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome, you need to understand how they work.
• How to use Growth Cycles to create the career results you want.

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching, I guide you through a 4-step process to help you solve your Imposter Syndrome and progress your career. This is:

• Normalise your Imposter Syndrome
• Remember who you are
• Trust you are enough
• Follow Imposter Syndrome to your goal

Having a clear process is one thing. But staying on track and seeing that process through to the end is another. You're likely to fall off track. You're bound to experience setbacks. There are going to be failures along the way.

I created the concept of the Growth Cycle to help you prepare for when this happens and so you know exactly what you need to do to get back on track.

A Growth Cycle is a series of sequential stages you need to go through in order to progress. There are 3 stages in a Growth Cycle:

• Fail
• Fail again
• Fail better.

You need to pass through all three stages in order to learn and grow, perhaps multiple times. Doing this will help you:

• Measure your progress, so you stay motivated and keep failure in perspective
• Understand the key role of failure in progress, and
• Build the failure tolerance that will help you succeed at every stage of your career.

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching, Growth Cycles are part of step 4 of the coaching process: follow your Imposter Syndrome to your goal. You keep failing until you get there. And you will get there! If you're a lawyer with Imposter Syndrome and you're ready to get out of your own way, book your free consultation with me by clicking here

When you have Imposter Syndrome, asking someone 'how did I do?' feels risky. When you feel like a fraud, that your success is down to luck and that you might be exposed, asking for feedback is one of the last things you want to do. Why would you risk drawing attention to yourself where someone might spot your mistakes? Ask for feedback and you risk confirming your worst fears.

But feedback is essential for progress.

When you do a piece of work, you need to know 3 things:

• What went well
• What didn't, and
• What to do differently next time.

Without this knowledge, you won't be able to make adjustments to your work, adapt to new situations, build resilience, or improve your performance - all of which you need to do to progress your career.

In this episode, I explain:

• How your Imposter Syndrome stops you from asking for feedback
• Why NOT asking for feedback is a problem for progressing your career
• Why failure and feedback are fundamental parts of the growth cycle
• 8 recommendations for how to ask for feedback
• How to solve your Imposter Syndrome so that you can ask for feedback more easily.

You've tried all the tips and tricks. Power-posing. Faking it 'til you make it. Telling yourself you deserve to be here and that your success isn't down to luck.

But none of them have worked. Not in a transformative way. They give you a boost, but the results never last. You always end up back here:

• Overworking.
• Overthinking.
• Playing small.
• Sabotaging your success.

You're looking for a solution that will solve your Imposter Syndrome for good, so you can progress your career and get more of the recognition you deserve.

That solution is available to you now.

To stop Imposter Syndrome holding you back in your career, you must change the way you're thinking about it. Imposter Syndrome isn't the problem you think it is. It's just the puzzle of who you are. You don't need to fix it to progress your career. You just need to solve it.

In this episode, I explain how.

Here's what you'll learn:

1. Why your attempts to get rid of Imposter Syndrome aren't working for you, and what you should do instead.
2. The 4 workplace behaviours which are holding you back and threatening to derail your career.
3. How to normalise your Imposter Syndrome using Imposter Syndrome Mapping and how to create your career progression road map.
4. How to process negative emotions like fear, doubt and anxiety without them holding you hostage.
5. What the Imposter Speech is, and how to use it as a process for knowing who you are and a tool for trusting you are enough, so you can follow your Imposter Syndrome all the way to achieving your goal.

This is the strategy I teach in Imposter Speech Coaching – a career progression coaching programme for lawyers with Imposter Syndrome. When you implement this strategy, you'll have everything you need not only to progress your career to the next level, but to progress your career at every level. This means:

• You'll be more productive and efficient, so you'll perform at a higher level.
• You'll have the courage to be more visible, so people know you and see your value.
• You'll feel calmer and more in control, instead of constantly feeling anxious and overwhelmed.
• You'll showcase your value, without being afraid of being "that person".
• You'll set better boundaries, so you avoid the risk of burning out.
• You'll seize more opportunities.
• You'll learn from negative feedback instead of making it about you.

There's still time to apply for the next class of Imposter Syndrome Coaching starting in July 2022, but you need to hurry. Enrolment ends tomorrow – Friday 17th June, 2022 – at midnight (BST). CLICK HERE to go straight to the application form.

In this episode:

The 4 Pillars of Career Progression

Progressing your career is about more than a new position, a new job title and the accompanying pay rise. These have their value. But unless they are accompanied by progression in other areas, their impact on your day-to-day experience and performance as a lawyer will be limited. You just find yourself facing the same challenges and problems you did before, only now at a level where the stakes are higher and you have less support.

How is this progress?

Real career progression goes deeper and it lasts SO much longer. It's not just about your career. It's about progressing who you are in a way that improves your day-to-day experience of life as a lawyer.

Enter the 4 Pillars of Career Progression.

The 4 pillars of Career Progression are the 4 principal areas of lawyer life that determine how happy and successful you are in your work. They are:

• Recognition
• Confidence
• Balance
• Ease

These pillars are an essential feature of career progression. It only counts as progress if one or more of these areas is in a more advanced state than it was previously. Specifically, if you achieve one or more of the following:

• More recognition
• More confidence
• Better balance
• More ease

You don't have to advance all 4 pillars for it to count as career progression. But the more pillars you progress, the more impactful and sustainable your career progression is. In the last 3 episodes we looked at more recognition, better balance and more confidence. The pillar we are focusing on this week is more ease.

More Ease

No-one signs up to be a lawyer because they think it's going to be easy. Getting into, practising, and progressing in the industry seems the very definition of hard work: the long hours, the extreme pressure, the intellectual challenges, the high expectations and the huge responsibility.

There's nothing easy about working in an industry that requires you to work this hard.

BUT having Imposter Syndrome, means the WAY you do that 'Hard Work' is harder than it needs to be.

When a high-pressure situation occurs, your Imposter Syndrome is triggered. Your resulting fear and anxiety make you:

• Overthink
• Overwork
• Self-sabotage, and
• Play small.

(These are the '4 Horsemen', the work place behaviours you default to when your Imposter Syndrome is triggered.)

Behaving in these ways makes an already hard situation so much harder because you are literally getting in your own way. When you overwork, overthink, play small and sabotage yourself, how can you expect to progress?

In this episode, I explain:

• Why more ease is one of the 4 pillars of career progression
• The consequences for your career progression when you get in your own way
• How to solve your Imposter Syndrome to overcome the behaviours that make your work harder
• How to measure your progress towards working with more ease
• The importance of who you become along the way.

Like the idea of working with more ease? In Imposter Syndrome Coaching you pick one of the 4 pillars of career progression as your main goal and we work through the 4-step process for solving your Imposter Syndrome to help you achieve it. Enrolment for the next class is open NOW. Join today, by clicking here.

In this episode:

The 4 Pillars of Career Progression

Progressing your career is about more than a new position, a new job title and the accompanying pay rise. These have their value. But unless they are accompanied by progression in other areas, their impact on your day-to-day experience and performance as a lawyer will be limited. You just find yourself facing the same challenges and problems you did before, only now at a level where the stakes are higher and you have less support.

How is this progress?

Real career progression goes deeper and it lasts SO much longer. It's not just about your career. It's about progressing who you are in a way that improves your day to day experience of life as a lawyer.

Enter the 4 Pillars of Career Progression.

The 4 pillars of Career Progression are the 4 principal areas of lawyer life that determine how happy and successful you are in your work. They are:

• Recognition
• Confidence
• Balance
• Fun

These pillars are an essential feature of career progression. It only counts as progress if one or more of these areas is in a more advanced state than it was previously. Specifically, if you achieve one or more of the following:

• More recognition
• More confidence
• Better balance
• More fun

You don't have to advance all 4 pillars in order for it to count as career progression. But the more pillars you progress, the more impactful and sustainable your career progression is. In the last 2 episodes we looked at more recognition and better balance. The pillar we are focusing on this week is more confidence.

More Confidence. When you think progressing your career is only about getting a promotion and a better job title, it's natural to think about all the things you need to do to get promoted (growing your network, being more visible, showcasing your value, seizing opportunities etc.) and think your lack of confidence is a barrier to achieving it.

So instead of getting started on progressing your career, either you wait and hope for the magical day when you'll suddenly feel more confident, or, you put off the idea of progressing your career altogether, believing that you will never be confident enough.

Here's what we cover:

• Confidence as one of the 4 pillars of career progression
• What can happen to your career if you wait to feel more confident
• The dangers of relying on external validation to build confidence
• How confidence is built and how to measure your progress towards it
• The importance of who you become along the way

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching you pick one of the 4 pillars of career progression as your main goal and we work through the 4-step process for solving your Imposter Syndrome to help you achieve it. Enrolment for the next class is coming soon. Don't miss the announcement. Click here to join the waitlist now.

In this episode:

The 4 Pillars of Career Progression

Progressing your career is about more than a new position, a new job title and the accompanying pay rise. These have their value. But unless they are accompanied by progression in other areas, their impact on your day-to-day experience and performance as a lawyer will be limited. You just find yourself facing the same challenges and problems you did before, only now at a level where the stakes are higher and you have less support.

How is this progress?

Real career progression goes deeper and it lasts SO much longer. It's not just about your career. It's about progressing who you are in a way that impacts every aspect of your life as a lawyer – in a positive and powerful way.

Enter the 4 Pillars of Career Progression.

The 4 pillars of Career Progression are the 4 principal areas of lawyer life that determine how happy and successful you are in your work. They are:

• Recognition
• Confidence
• Balance
• Fun

These pillars are an essential feature of career progression. It only counts as progress if one or more of these areas is in a more advanced state than it was previously. Specifically, if you achieve one or more of the following:

• More recognition
• More confidence
• Better balance
• More fun

You don't have to advance all 4 pillars in order for it to count as career progression. But the more pillars you progress, the more impactful and sustainable your career progression is. Over the next 4 weeks we'll be taking a close look at each of the 4 pillars.

This week's focus: More Recognition

Being recognised for your work and the value you bring is an essential part of career progression, and you probably believe that this recognition can only come externally from a promotion and a shiny new job title. But if you are focusing exclusively on promotion for validation, you miss all the other forms of recognition you are currently getting – not to mention the opportunity to recognise yourself.

If you see progression solely as a leap up to the next level, you miss the opportunities to internalise your achievements and progress along the way – which means you don't grow as a person or properly prepare yourself for what will be expected of you and who you will need to be at that next level.

Imagine you are fixated on going for partnership but don't get it. If you see that as a failure to get the recognition you crave, you are not taking into account all of your wins along the way: the times you stepped up to the challenge, the times you received positive feedback from clients, the occasions when a partner gave you more client-facing opportunities and responsibility.

Racing to be GIVEN recognition (like a promotion) means you don't take the time or energy to develop the capacity to recognise yourself for all your incremental achievements. If you fail to get a promotion, you see it as a rejection by your boss, or your firm. If you achieve the promotion, you've hung your sense of achievement on what was in someone else's control to give to you, rather than on all the steps YOU took and the progress YOU made along the way. This means you will always need recognition from others to feel valued.

In this episode, I explain why having a strategy for progression that also builds your capacity to recognise yourself is so important. Recognition needs to come from YOU too, not just from other people.

Progressing your career isn't about the promotion. It's about progressing who you are in a way that impacts every aspect of your life as a lawyer.

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching you pick one of the 4 pillars of career progression as your main goal and we work through the 4-step process for solving your Imposter Syndrome to help you achieve it. Enrolment for the next class is coming soon. Don't miss the announcement. Join the waitlist now.

In this episode:

The 4 Pillars of Career Progression Progressing your career is about more than a new position, a new job title and the accompanying pay rise. These have their value. But unless they are accompanied by progression in other areas, their impact on your day to day experience and performance as a lawyer will be limited. You just find yourself facing the same challenges and problems you did before, only now at a level where the stakes are higher and you have less support.

How is this progress?

Real career progression goes deeper and it lasts SO much longer. It's not just about your career. It's about progressing who you are in a way that impacts every aspect of your life as a lawyer – in a positive and powerful way.

Enter the 4 Pillars of Career Progression.

The 4 pillars of Career Progression are the 4 principal areas of lawyer life that determine how happy and successful you are in your work. They are:

• Recognition
• Confidence
• Balance
• Fun

These pillars are an essential feature of career progression. It only counts as progress if one or more of these areas is in a more advanced state than it was previously. Specifically, if you achieve one or more of the following:

• More recognition
• More confidence
• Better balance
• More fun

You don't have to advance all 4 pillars in order for it to count as career progression. But the more pillars you progress, the more impactful and sustainable your career progression is. Over the next 4 weeks we'll be taking a close look at each of the 4 pillars.

This week's focus: Better Balance.

When you have Imposter Syndrome, thinking of career progression only in promotion terms can put you off the idea of progression altogether. You consider the heavier workload and the increased level of responsibility. You consider that you're someone who already overworks and struggles with work life balance. So you decide you don't want to be a partner, for example, because that will only make things worse.

So, you pass up opportunities for progression thinking that to do otherwise would give you worse balance.

But the opposite is true.

When you don't progress your career, your career plateaus and your way of working does not evolve. You keep working the way you always have – overworking, overthinking, playing small and self-sabotaging. There's no incentive to change these unhealthy work habits if all you're doing is staying where you are.

When you commit to progressing your career this changes. It forces you to take a long hard look at your Imposter Syndrome and to recognise that the way you've been trying to manage it all these years is what is holding you back. And this is what motivates you to change.

One of the unhealthy work habits you'll be motivated to change is overworking. All that quadruple checking your work, trying to make everything perfect, refusing to delegate… as you start to tackle these behaviours something magical will happen. You'll become more efficient and productive. For example, you'll:

• Start setting boundaries (especially with yourself)
• Stop labouring over emails and constantly rechecking your work
• Delegate more and ask for help.

What all of this adds up to is less time wasted on work that doesn't add value. Which means less unproductive work, less stress and ultimately, therefore, better balance.

Progressing your career isn't about the promotion. It's about progressing yourself.

Discussed in this episode:

• How you get there is how you stay there
• The value of progress
• Measuring your progress towards better balance

In Imposter Syndrome Coaching you pick one of the 4 pillars of career progression as your main goal and we work through the 4-step process for solving your Imposter Syndrome to help you achieve it. Enrolment for the next class is coming soon. Don't miss the announcement. Join the waitlist now.

This is the received wisdom about the law profession.

• It's hard to get into
• There are high expectations and exacting standards when you get there
• It means long hours, late nights and is intellectually challenging
• There's intense competition for promotion
• There's extreme pressure where the consequences of making a mistake are huge.

Being a lawyer is nothing like the glamorous portrayal you see in the media and movies. If you've ever felt disappointed with the reality of your daily experience of work, it may be comforting to know you're not the only one.

Being a lawyer has its challenges, you know that. But what you may not know is how a deeply ingrained belief that lawyering is hard exacerbates the challenges you experience every day.

In this episode, I explain how you can change that experience, and 'make lawyering easier'. This requires:

• A willingness to question and examine the "accepted truth" of lawyering being hard
• An understanding of how seemingly innocent statements, cliches and stereotypes about lawyering being hard reinforce that "truth"
• Recognising that "making lawyering easier" is within your control
• Adopting a new belief about being a lawyer, that invites the possibility of ease into your real-life experience of being a lawyer
• Seeing possibility as the key.

I'm not trying to convince you that being a lawyer is easy. It isn't! I want to show you that there is a way to make it easier and to help you understand the impact of your thoughts on your results.

I explain how changing your thoughts from 'lawyering is hard' to, 'I can make this easier', will make you feel empowered, in control, proactive, creative and motivated and drive you to actions that will make lawyering easier. For example, actions like:

• Honing your craft: the better you are at something, the easier it is to do
• Growing your network: the more people you know, the more help you have access to and the more opportunities you'll attract, which will make getting the support you need easier
• Speaking up in meetings: the more you speak up, the more you'll show your value. The more you show your value, the easier it will be to attract the right work
• Learning to stay calm: the better you are at staying calm (despite the urgency and panic all around you), the easier it is to stay focused, be efficient and get the job done.

All the above are examples of what you need to do to progress your career. What it takes to progress your career and what it takes to make lawyering easier are the same - this is no coincidence. When you progress your career, you also progress who you are. The more YOU progress as a person (develop skills and experience, push through discomfort), the better equipped you are to cope with what being a lawyer throws your way.

When you join Imposter Syndrome Coaching you get the strategy and a process for solving your Imposter Syndrome so you can progress your career. I walk you through every step.

Enrolment for the July 2022 class is coming, 10 - 17 June. Sign up to the wait list here.

There is a Free Webinar on 10 June : How to Progress Your Law Career (without fixing your Imposter Syndrome) which is a great introduction to this work - sign up here.

When you feel like a fraud, that your success is down to luck and that you might be exposed at any time, you are often stressed, overwhelmed and anxious at work. When your Imposter Syndrome is triggered, your reaction is to panic, and to spiral into self-doubt and confusion. The total opposite of calm!

But the ability to stay calm is a vital skill. Especially when you have Imposter Syndrome.

• It's how you do your best work.
• It's how you look after your mental and physical health.
• It's one of the key bits of value you can bring to your clients and colleagues.

The better you are at keeping calm, no matter what is going on around you (and especially when your Imposter Syndrome has been triggered), the more you will progress as a person. And the more you progress as a person, the more your career also progresses.

In this episode, I describe the meaning and value of calm. I explain that calm is not just the 'absence of' strong negative emotions - but also the creating of space for something new - like putting your car in neutral to prepare for the next move. It's how you neutralise unhelpful feelings, reset, and work from a place of stability and safety. I explain that however high-pressure and stressful your work environment may be, it's your responsibility to create that calm within yourself.

I walk you through this calming process, so that you:

• Develop self-awareness to recognise when you are not calm and understand how a calm version of you would react differently.
• Know and anticipate your Imposter Syndrome triggers.
• Allow the negative emotions to pass through without acting on them.
• Using the Imposter Speech tool, remember who you are and trust that you are enough.

When you do this, you can:

• Respond to a client's questioning or doubting, from a place of calm rather than defensiveness or fear.
• Have much easier access to your other internal resources because you've cleared the way by letting go of anger and frustration.
• Think more clearly about an issue, problem-solve at a higher level, and come up with more and better ideas.

In Imposter Speech Coaching one of the results you'll get is the ability to stay calm when all around you are losing their heads! Valuable for you, valuable for your employer and valuable for your client.

Enrolment is opening 10th June. Make sure you're on the waitlist to sign up.

Perhaps you experience the classic Imposter Syndrome feelings - that you are a fraud, that your success is down to luck, or that you might be exposed at any time?

Or perhaps you get carried away by one of the Four Horseman - overthinking, overworking, playing small, and self-sabotage?

Whichever way Imposter Syndrome triggers affect you, when you work in a high-pressure, competitive environment like a law firm, it is likely to happen ALOT.

There are so many stressful situations you face, day in, day out which can trigger those familiar negative responses - fear, anger, resentment, frustration...

For example:

• Receiving negative feedback.
• Feeling excluded at a networking event.
• Being the only woman/person of colour in a meeting.
• Being abandoned by a boss or partner to hold an important meeting or sign a deal.

No matter how many times these situations occur, you still feel shocked and upset when they happen, or you worry that something has gone terribly wrong. You wish you - or events, could be different.

In this episode, I walk you through one of these common triggers. I describe how your Imposter Syndrome makes you respond, and how these negative feelings adversely affect the quality of your work performance, your decision-making skills, your ability to problem-solve and think critically. I also explain that the problem with your Imposter Syndrome, is not that it gets triggered - but how you react when it does.

The key is to know your Imposter Syndrome triggers.

That means fully understanding the events or circumstances that trigger your Imposter Syndrome so you can anticipate it and recognise it when it happens and then remind yourself that nothing has gone wrong.

Knowing your Imposter Syndrome triggers means you'll be ready for your negative feelings, instead of being ambushed by them. You'll be able to calm your nervous system and neutralise the negative effect of your Imposter Syndrome.

Imposter Syndrome triggers are the first thing you'll work on when you join Imposter Syndrome Coaching. You learn the 9 Imposter Syndrome triggers that can happen in the work place and identify those that most typically happen to you. I teach you a technique called Imposter Syndrome Mapping where you identify your core Imposter Syndrome triggers, understand how they work, and then you learn how to neutralise them. Add 17th June 2022 to your diary. The next enrolment for Imposter Syndrome Coaching opens on that day. Make sure you sign up to the Waitlist now, so that you get all the details in time.

But confidence isn't something you're born with. It isn't innate. It's earned.

Earned confidence is the confidence you get from doing hard things, uncomfortable things, things you are afraid of doing because you don't know how to do them yet. When you think about how a toddler learns to walk, you accept that the only way he or she becomes a confident walker is to take a step then fall then get back up again; try and fail and try again and again until they figure it out. So why, when it comes to you – when you want to be confident at doing something – do you expect it to be the other way round? You want the confidence first before you take any action!

In this episode, I want to transform how you think about confidence so that instead of wishing you had the confidence to act, you take action first to earn the confidence later. Here's what I cover:

• The 3 things that walking and talking teach us about confidence, and how you are ignoring these principles every day.
• Why you should treat confidence like you do your salary.
• The compound effect of earned confidence.
• Why you should be intentional about discomfort.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Episode 4: Fail again, fail better
• Episode 11: The Discomfort Zone
• Episode 13: Courage as a Tool
• Episode 33: The Gift of Negative Feedback

Enrolment for the July 2022 class of Imposter Speech coaching starts on 10 June. Don't miss out. Sign up to the waitlist to register your interest.

Or attend and only speak to people you know or people more junior than you?

When you have Imposter Syndrome, walking into a room of people you don't know is triggering. If you feel like a fraud who is scared of being exposed, networking is the last thing you want to do.

And of course, it's entirely possible to go through your career, not attending events or going to as few as possible.

It's possible - but it's a missed opportunity.

If you don't attend in person networking events, you are missing the opportunity:

• To raise your visibility. You need to raise your visibility so that people know who you are and what you can do. You need people to know who you are and what you can do, so that you get the recognition - and the promotion - you deserve.

• To attract the support you need (a mentor or a sponsor) to help you progress your career.

• To build your business. You need to build strong relationships with clients so that they want to work with you and you bring in more business for the firm.

So how do you do it?

In this episode, I talk you through 5 steps to help you walk into any room. These are:

1. Stop thinking your Imposter Syndrome is a problem.
2. Allow yourself to experience the negative emotions of anxiety and fear without letting them take the reins.
3. Remember who you are.
4. Trust that you are enough.
5. Build confidence, one failure at a time.

You can implement these steps on your own. But if you're serious about solving your Imposter Syndrome so that networking becomes not just easy, but something you enjoy, then the answer is Imposter Speech Coaching, where you get:

• Imposter Speech mapping - a practical technique for knowing your Imposter Syndrome triggers and stopping you seeing Imposter Syndrome as a problem.
• The Imposter Speech - the discovery process, the tool and the evaluation process for remembering who you are and trusting you are enough.
• Emotional management - the strategy for allowing your negative emotions without letting them take the reins.
• The Confidence Formula - the process for building confidence one failure at a time.

This is about so much more than improving your networking skills so you can be more visible. Doing this work will give you the confidence to walk into any room, sit at any table, and speak to anyone. Not just now, but at every stage of your career.

Enrolment for the July 2022 class of Imposter Speech coaching starts on 10 June. Don't miss out. Sign up to the waitlist to register your interest.

Not speaking up in meetings is a secret sign of Imposter Syndrome. It's one of the ways in which you play small, and playing small is one of the 4 work behaviours that is harming your career.

It means that:

• You're not visible.
• When you're not visible, people don't know you.
• When people don't know you, they can't see your value.
• When they can't see your value, you don't get the recognition and rewards you deserve.

Why, when you are confident and gregarious in your personal life, are you a different person at work?

Because of your Imposter Syndrome. Your biggest fear is of being exposed as a fraud. Speaking up in meetings makes you visible. So it feels too dangerous to expose yourself in this way.

In your personal life, you're surrounded by family and friends who know and love you. There is no risk of exposure. It feels safe to speak freely and be yourself.

At work, things are different. You can't rely on those around you to make you feel safe. You have to create safety for yourself.

In this episode, I explain how to do this so that:

• Speaking up doesn't feel life threatening.
• You can say something no-one agrees with.
• You can say something everyone disagrees with.
• Where getting it wrong doesn't mean anything about you.
• Where what you say and how you say it is not 'proof' that you don't deserve to be here.

Stop waiting for confidence. Start speaking up in meetings, hesitantly, imperfectly. Be willing to do it again and again, until you become confident.

The way you do this is to know who you are, and trust you are enough. I teach you the practical process for doing this in Imposter Speech Coaching. You follow the 5 step Imposter Speech process to reveal who you are, then create your unique, 5 part Imposter Speech to use as a tool for trusting you are enough. Enrolment for the July 2022 class of Imposter Speech Coaching is coming. Join the waitlist here.

These four behaviours are:

1. Overworking - when you waste time doing work which adds no value.

The signs:

• Labouring over emails
• Excessively checking your work
• Not delegating
• Not finishing tasks
• Being a perfectionist.

2. Overthinking - when you waste time and compromise your performance with types of thinking that add no value. The signs:

• Worrying you are going to let people down
• Procrastinating
• Being scared of not knowing the answer.

3. Playing small - when you don't get the recognition or opportunities you deserve because you're hiding and keeping your head down to avoid being seen or risking failure.

The signs:

• Keeping quiet in meetings
• Passing up opportunities
• Not showcasing your value.

4. Self-sabotage - when you limit your potential by undermining yourself as soon as you start to make progress. The signs:

• Judging yourself
• Discounting praise
• Taking negative feedback personally instead of using it as a learning experience.

All of these behaviours are driven by fear, your brain's response to the perceived threat (of being exposed) that you feel when you are a high achiever with Imposter Syndrome. And all of these behaviours add no value. They make you less efficient, and less productive.

You behave like this because your brain craves safety. Ironic, then, that it's these behaviours that are making you less secure in your career.

The Four Horsemen represent the four ways you are galloping away from the fear brought on by your Imposter Syndrome. But every time you run away, you reinforce a negative circle of behaviour. Imposter Syndrome is who you are - so continually running from your Imposter Syndrome means you're running from yourself!

But you can never outrun yourself.

In this episode, I explain how holding on to the Four Horsemen threatens to derail your career. I reveal that the way to STOP these behaviours is to solve your Imposter Syndrome. This means figuring out who you really are, and what is your unique value.

It's time to say goodbye to the Four Horsemen and the limiting, negative effects they bring. Solve your Imposter Syndrome, and look forward to fulfilling your potential, getting the recognition you deserve, better balance, and more confidence.

Check out Imposter Speech Coaching, where I walk you step by step through the process of solving your Imposter Syndrome, taking action from a place of trust (instead of fear) and staying committed until you achieve your goal.

Enrolment for the July 2022 class opens on 1st June. Go to carolineflanagan.com/imposter-speech-coaching, and sign up to the waitlist to make sure you get the details.

Going for a promotion puts pressure on anyone. The pressure to consistently present yourself in the best light, to keep delivering results, to achieve the recognition and pay you deserve. But when you have Imposter Syndrome and you already feel like a fraud, or not good enough, this pressure massively intensifies.

Going for a promotion is actually a TRIGGER for your Imposter Syndrome. Your usual coping mechanisms go into overdrive, so you:

• Overwork with excessive preparation and checking
• Overthink by wasting more of your time worrying
• Play small by making yourself less visible, and
• Self-sabotage by becoming even more self-critical.

But these coping strategies will not improve your chances of success. They deprive you of time to do work of real value, and they negatively affect your performance. When you overwork, overthink, play small and self- sabotage on your way to promotion, you are setting yourself up to do exactly the same when you GET the promotion.

How you get there is how you stay there.

• Whatever you do now to earn your promotion is what your brain is going to tell you you need to do to stay there!
• Because when you have Imposter Syndrome - your instinct (and what you will default to if your Imposter Syndrome remains unsolved) is to do everything you can to AVOID exposure. So, you will keep doing what you've always done.
• With your current way of working, even if it brings you immediate success and you are promoted - you pay the price in the long run because you further ingrain the negative work practices that:

a) put you at risk of burnout b) stop you from fulfilling your potential c) don't give you the recognition you deserve, and d) make work less fun.

Instead, you need to be ready for your next level of success, which means being equipped to deal with it, being able to enjoy it, and stepping into being the next version of yourself.

In this episode, I explain how solving your Imposter Syndrome NOW, is the way to stop overworking, to stop overthinking, and to get that promotion you deserve.

When you solve your Imposter Syndrome, it means you trust that you're enough. When you trust that you're enough, every action you take, decision you make, and problem you solve, is delivered at a much higher level. Your partnership application will be stronger - and you will be better equipped and prepared for solving your Imposter Syndrome when it is triggered at the next level.

• Today is the last day for enrolment in the May 2022 class of Imposter Speech Coaching.
• You're not too late to apply
• 6 months. Weekly coaching. £3000
• Go to carolineflanagan.com/Imposter-speech-coaching to apply

Seize opportunities to raise your profile (eg by working on high-stakes projects)?

Attend in-person work events?

Reach out to colleagues or partners you don't know?

Share your accomplishments at work and on social media?

If the answer is no, then you're not being visible enough at work.

Being visible is an essential career skill. If you want to attract opportunities, recognition, promotion, or a pay rise, it's not going to happen if people don't know who you are.

Keeping your head down and getting on with your work - however competent and efficient you may be - is not enough. When people don't know who you are or what you can do, you're overlooked, you feel excluded, and you may see less capable people being rewarded ahead of you. When you have Imposter Syndrome, being visible doesn't come naturally. When you feel like a fraud, you worry that making yourself more visible could lead to you being exposed, so you do nothing. And to compound the problem, working from home has made being visible more challenging than ever, adding that extra barrier of effort to making contact with others or showing up at in person events.

But the real problem is not your lack of confidence. Confidence isn't the requirement for action, it's the reward.

The real problem is not knowing who you are, and not trusting that you are enough. Because you don't know who you are or trust that you're enough, you don't do the things you need to do to be visible. The result, of course, is that you're not visible, you're not known, and you don't get the recognition and opportunities you deserve.

In this episode, I explain how to make yourself more visible when you have Imposter Syndrome, so that you will:

• Stop wishing you were more confident, and
• Start knowing who you are, trusting that you're enough and then taking action from a place of trust instead of fear.

This work is deep and foundational. We're not quick fixing here. We're building confidence that lasts. And the good news is, you can get started now, by signing up for my FREE WEBINAR, 5 Vital Steps To Building Confidence That Lasts, Thursday 10th March, 9.30 GMT. CLICK HERE to register.

Do you constantly talk about your Imposter Syndrome to friends, but never talk about the solution?

Are you always searching for that elusive magic fix for your own special brand of Imposter Syndrome, but never finding it?

Do you frequently tell yourself that you're going to do something about your Imposter Syndrome, but then never actually commit to doing anything?

If this is you then join the club! We've all been there. You know what you want (real confidence that lasts) and you know how to get it (by solving the puzzle of your Imposter Syndrome). So what's stopping you from getting stuck in? Perhaps you have all sorts of sensible-sounding reasons. "It won't work for me. It's not the right time. I'm too busy at work. I'm different. Maybe my Imposter Syndrome is too bad to solve."

But these really are just excuses. The problem is not that the solution to Imposter Syndrome won't work for you, or that you don't have the time. The problem is how you're thinking about it. These negative thoughts make you feel powerless and unmotivated. They put imaginary obstacles in your way. If everything seems hopeless and too difficult from the get go, why even bother trying?

So you don't ever get started. And because you don't get started, nothing changes. Your Imposter Syndrome is still causing you the same problems this year as it did last year. It's a vicious circle.

But what if instead of thinking, "it won't work", you just took that first little step? What if you did just, 'get started'?

In this episode, I explain how getting started is the most important part of the process. By getting started, you've got skin in the game. You're giving yourself a chance to get to the finish and achieve the results you want, with little wins and changes along the way motivating you to keep going. Imagine you want to run a 10k. If you don't go out and train, the likelihood of you achieving your goal (or even turning up on race day!) Is small. Signing up for that first running club session, however, might just put you on the path to eventual 10k success.

I talk you through how to make that vital start and explain how to get started on the most important project of your life - solving your Imposter Syndrome.

P.S. Enrolment for Imposter Speech Coaching opens on 10th March, 2022. Sign up to the waiting list so that you don't miss out.

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That's because you're trying to solve your Imposter Syndrome with quick fixes that don't get to the route of the problem; your lack of trust in who you are.

When something happens to trigger your Imposter Syndrome, you make it mean that you're not enough: not experienced enough, not knowledgable enough, not assertive enough, not male enough...

And because you feel you're not enough, you show up that way at work:

• Overthinking - spending hours worrying about your performance, feeling that you are a fraud and that you are letting people down
• Overworking - procrastinating, labouring over your work, excessively checking what you've done, and
• Playing small - shying away from opportunities and not speaking up in meetings.

But the real problem isn't you. Or that you're not enough. The problem is a lack of trust. You don't trust who you are. You don't trust that you are enough.

Imagine a house with no foundations. It wouldn't stand up for long! Your confidence is the same. Without the firm foundations of trust in yourself, your confidence won't last.

In this episode, I explain that if you want to build confidence that lasts, you must trust that you're enough, and make sure every action you take comes from this place of trust. Forget confidence as the objective. When you trust you are enough, your confidence takes care of itself. This is part of the step by step process I walk you through in Imposter Speech Coaching for building the trust you need to create confidence that lasts.

P.S. Registration for Imposter Speech Coaching opens on 10th March, 2022. Sign up to the waiting list so that you don't miss out.

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It should feel like a huge pat on the back to have a senior or respected colleague appreciate you like this:

• It's a reflection of your good work
• It shows they are invested in you
• It suggests they are keen to support your career.

But when you have Imposter Syndrome, people believing in you isn't welcome approval - it's a daunting trigger.

Having a boss who believes in you makes you feel even more pressured and afraid. That's it! Your time's up! You're going to be found out for sure. The stakes are higher now. You not only have to worry about letting yourself down, but letting your boss down too. The risk of shame feels real, and it pushes you more than ever towards behaviour that is holding you back:

• Overthinking
• Overworking and
• Playing small.

In this episode I explain how this behaviour creates unwanted results and I tell you what to do instead to create the results you DO want.

Remember - Imposter Syndrome isn't a problem you need to fix. It's a puzzle that you need to solve. In this episode I give you

the simple, practical 3-step process to help you solve it.

When you solve your Imposter Syndrome, other people's belief in you won't tell you anything new. It will confirm what you already know.

Tune in to learn more.

P.S. Registration for Imposter Speech Coaching opens on 10th March, 2022. Don't miss out. Sign up to the mailing list so you receive the info straight to your inbox.

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Instead of celebrating in your success and believing in how great you are, your Imposter Syndrome is triggered and you have thoughts like:

"I shouldn't be here"

"It's all down to luck" and

"My luck is going to run out".

This way of thinking is the reason you are:

- Overworking

- Playing small

- Seeking external validation.

When this happens, trying to tell yourself your success isn't down to luck seems like the best solution (and it's what your friends and colleagues will tell you to do). But it never works, and here's why: Imposter Syndrome doesn't care about the truth.

So you can resist all you like. You can tell yourself how hard you worked to get here. But it won't make any difference. No matter how successful you are, when you have Imposter Syndrome, your success always feels like luck.

This isn't a problem.

In this episode I explain why, and I give you the simple solution that will:

• Help you feel responsible for your own success
• Leave you feeling more in control
• Build trust in your ability to create success in the future.

Tune in now to find out. Enrolment for the Imposter Speech Programme is opening 10th March 2022. Don't miss out. Sign up to the mailing list so you receive the info straight to your inbox.

P.S. To make sure our emails don't end up in your Junk folder, add caroline@carolineflanagan.com to your mailing list today.

It doesn't have to be this way.

You may not be able to change your demanding clients. You may have little control over the hours. But what you can control, is how much you allow negative emotions like fear and anxiety to define your experience of work. Tune in to discover more.

If you frequently feel like you're dreading the start of the working week, there's a problem.

Getting the Sunday 'dreads' is a sign that your Imposter Syndrome has been triggered. Perhaps you're thinking about all the things you should have done but haven't? Perhaps you're worrying because you don't know what's coming in the week ahead - or feel insecure about your ability to cope with any challenges that may arise?

But the problem isn't really with what's coming - or what you haven't done, it's with how you are thinking about you and what you are making it mean.

P.s. If you found this episode helpful, you can get more great advice on Imposter Syndrome free every week, direct to your inbox. Sign up here

If you suffer from Imposter Syndrome, I know that failure is one of the things you want to avoid at all costs.

If this is you, then it's time to revisit your beliefs about failure, what it takes to succeed and why failure tolerance is a skill you need to start developing today.

In this episode:

• What is Failure Tolerance?
• Why does it matter?
• The mistakes you are making in how you view failure
• How to develop your Failure Tolerance

Recognition - when others show appreciation for what you do and the value you bring - is a basic human need and is particularly important when you work in an industry that demands so much of you. That's why it's important to understand what recognition is, why it matters and what you're doing that is stopping you from getting the recognition you deserve.

Tune in to learn more.

It may feel like it's best to keep checking. But excessively checking your work comes at a cost. It eats up time that could be better spent completing other work, catching up with loved ones or taking better care of yourself. It undermines your performance and stops you attracting the recognition you deserve. And it makes your job less fun than it should be.

In this episode, I explain what excessively checking your work is, why you're doing it and I talk about the powerful practical portable tool that will help you stop.

In this episode, I talk about what I call Overworking - excessive working, driven by Imposter Syndrome (that feeling of not being enough), which adds little or no value and is causing you to work longer hours than you need to. The most obvious examples of this are perfectionism and procrastination.

Just like Overthinking (see episode 108), Overworking is responsible for the 4 key challenges you are struggling within your career:

1. not enough time
2. not performing to your potential
3. not getting the recognition you deserve
4. not enjoying your job (as much as you used to)

And, as with Overthinking, the solution for stopping Overworking is just one simple tool: your Imposter Speech.

In this episode I introduce you to the concept of Overthinking - what it is, what it's costing you in your career, and the first steps you need to take to put a stop to it.

Mentioned in this episode:

Episode #52: Thought Drama Book:

Flow:The Psychology of Happiness by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Your approach to writing emails may seem like a small thing, but how you write them and how long it takes you speaks volumes about how you're showing up to your work. When it's a laborious process that takes longer than it should, it means you are showing up from some form of not being enough, and that points to Imposter Syndrome.

Fixing this is easier than you might think. You don't need a confidence-building course, you just need a strategy for getting out of your own head when your Imposter Syndrome is triggered.

In this episode I explain why you are always trying to make your emails perfect, how it is stopping you from doing your best work and how to use your Imposter Speech to change that, so you stop overthinking, stop overworking and start getting the recognition you deserve.

Being haunted by the shadow of past failure is one of the secret signs of Imposter Syndrome that is causing you to overthink and overwork and is stopping you from performing as well as you could. This is not what failure is supposed to do.

I've had my share of failures and disappointments. But they don't haunt me, they teach me - a better way of working. A more effective way to show up. Most importantly, I use my past failures to build my present belief.

Past failures shouldn't haunt you, they should evolve you. When you process them correctly they don't undermine your self-belief, they build it.

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Things taking longer than they should is one of the secret signs of Imposter Syndrome. It comes from overthinking and overworking and it means you're not performing at your highest level.

If you suffer from Imposter Syndrome you probably blame yourself. You think you don't know enough or aren't experienced enough and that everyone around you does things more quickly. But this kind of thinking causes procrastination, (more) self-judgement and doing more work than is actually needed so that in the end, things really do take longer than they should!

In this episode, I explain the importance of showing up to your work from a place of sufficiency and belief so you can laser in on the task at hand and get stuff done in the right amount of time. But sufficiency and belief aren't built in a day. They need to be shaped and formed and built over time using your Imposter Speech.

In this podcast:

• Why things taking longer than they should is a secret sign of Imposter Syndrome
• 4 behaviours that make things take longer than they should
• The right amount of time to spend on a task
• How your Imposter Speech builds sufficiency and belief

Resources:

The Imposter Series - episodes 78 to 86 of the Caroline Flanagan Podcast.

Many of you are placing too much importance on what you know. Or more typically, on what you think you know or don't know. In this episode, I talk about why knowledge is important but, if you suffer from Imposter Syndrome, why it will never be enough.

You'll hear the story of my client who claims to know he is a good lawyer, but whose thoughts and actions show that he doesn't actually believe it. This is one of the Hidden Signs of Imposter Syndrome (no.56 - knowing but not believing) which may be causing you to overthink and overwork and could be stopping you from getting the recognition you deserve.

But although "feast or famine" seems like a fun and frivolous way of thinking about the vicissitudes of lawyer life, there is no such thing as an innocent thought. Every thought creates a result. Think "it's either feast or famine" and that's exactly what you'll get.

In this episode, I explain why, if you want work to feel less volatile, you need to stop entertaining volatile thoughts. And if you want to work in a calmer and steadier way, you need to start entertaining calm and steady thoughts. And then I offer you a calm and steady thought that will ensure you never experience feast and famine again.

If you're someone who thinks holidaying on your own is a sad and lonely affair to be avoided at all costs, think again. It is one of the most powerful things you can do.

Mykonos is beautiful and fun (and expensive!). But for all its beauty, it wasn't the island that made my holiday, it was me: the time I spent with myself, the attention I gave myself and the things I rediscovered about myself that I'd forgotten. I made my relationship with myself a priority and it was just brilliant.

Episode 102 is about being On Your Own:

• How important it is to spend time on your own
• How valuable it is to spend time on your own
• And why spending time on your own can help you solve your imposter syndrome

Mentioned in this podcast:

Episode 35 Internal Validation

Episode 100 Self Concept

If you're facing the prospect of going back to the office and it's causing you to fret and worry, you have to listen to episode 101 of the podcast.

In it, I break down the reasons why your brain is fearing the worst and how to calm those fears. You'll discover that how you feel when you return to the office doesn't depend on your commute or those you'll come face to face with every day. It depends on you.

If you're wondering why your imposter syndrome won't go away, despite all you've achieved, the answer is an outdated self-concept. You're progressing to a new level in your career with the old version of who you are.

The way to avoid this is to work on your self concept so that you become the new version of yourself ahead of time. It's what I do each time I want to achieve big goals and the results have blown my mind.

The up side of sharing responsibility for your results is that there's always someone or something else to blame or share the blame with when you don't get the result you want.

1. If you don't get the result you want, it reinforces your belief that you have no control
2. If you do get the result you want, it reinforces your belief that your success is built on luck
3. You miss opportunities
4. You give up too soon
5. You don't even come close to achieving your potential

It doesn't have to be like this. There's a way to feel more in control and still succeed, even if you don't get the result (at the first attempt). There's a way to get the result and actually internalise the success of it, so your confidence grows. There's a way to ensure you spot every opportunity and never give up too soon, so that you prove to yourself what you're truly capable of.

All you have to do is stop setting goals and start creating results.

They think that working hard is enough.

They think their work should speak for itself.

They think that putting the client first, making sacrifices in their personal life and getting the job done to a high standard is enough.

But none of this will get you the recognition or promotion you deserve if people don't know you. It's not enough to be valuable. You have to showcase your value to the world, continuously.

My clients already know this, but they don't do it. They think that showcasing their value is bragging. They think talking about their achievements is boasting. They all seem to have a colleague who showcases his or her value and comes across as arrogant and unappealing. They do not want to be that person. Sound familiar?

I'm here to tell you that showcasing your value has nothing to do with bragging or boasting. It's about service. When you tell others how capable, experienced and hard working you are, you are giving them the information they need to help them make important decisions - such as who they should work with, who to pass the next opportunity on to, who they can hand over more responsibility to.

If you struggle with the idea of showcasing your value, you'll love episode 98 of the podcast where I encourage you to showcase more of your value. In it I share the 3 simple mindset shifts that will free you from the fear of bragging, and motivate you to showcase your value in service to others and, in doing so, attract the recognition and promotion you deserve.

If you're human, the answer is likely to be yes!

But what if it didn't have to be that way?

What if you could experience an emotions like fear or anxiety, without being held hostage by them?

Emotional management is not about ignoring emotions or pretending not to feel. Quite the opposite. It's about paying attention to your emotions and allowing yourself to feel them, and then being intentional about where you go next. As my coach likes to say about one of the most powerful emotions we all experience: "fear can be in the car, but it can't be in the driving seat!".

All of this is available to you, too. Not just as a way of coping with difficult emotions, but also as a way of learning how to enjoy and fully experience positive ones. All you need is emotional management. Of all the tools I could give you, this is the one.

Are you committed?

Are you invested?

Do you have something to lose if you don't achieve it?

There's a noticeable difference between my clients who book their sessions, show up on time, engage in the coaching process and do the work; and those who don't do any of that.

That difference is skin in the game and it is the difference between those who create extraordinary results, and those who don't.

Which one are you?

When you have skin in the game you are heavily invested. The stakes are high and you have something to lose. When you have something to lose, you're motivated to go all in on your goal and that's what leads to extraordinary results.

That I'm willing to let go of clients who are not invested in their goal tells you a lot about the kind of coach I am.

I won't let you sit on the fence about achieving your goals.

I won't let you waste time chasing goals you don't care about.

I'm going to show up for you by insisting you have skin in the game, and that's how you'll learn to succeed.

In this episode:

1. What we mean by skin in the game
2. What happens when you don't have it
3. How to have skin in the game
4. The results you create when do

Today I long for the surf! I miss the push and pull of the waves as I try to paddle out; the nervous anticipation as a wave approaches and the excitement as I stand up on the board. Woohooooo!

What changed?

The ocean didn't change. It is still fierce, intimidating and absolutely freezing.

I stopped thinking "I can't do it" and I started thinking "I can figure it out".

One simple thought shift gave me everything I needed to succeed:

the commitment to book a surfing holiday! the courage to take that first step into the sea. the willingness to be taught the resilience to get back up and learn from my fails the enthusiasm to enjoy it all - even squeezing myself into a wetsuit

All this, because I shifted one simple thought.

This isn't just how I learned to surf.

This is how I create results.

I don't wait for the world to change - to become less intimidating, less challenging or to guarantee that I'm not going to fail. I don't wait for the conditions to be perfect. I change a thought, and the thought changes everything.

This episode is about how you, too, can start creating results with your thoughts.

I would and I do. In fact I am proud to call myself an Imposter. In this episode I explain what that means and I challenge you to call yourself an Imposter too so that it can help you show up more powerfully in your life and create better results.

Calling yourself an Imposter is all about building a powerful relationship with yourself. It requires that you understand the cause of your Imposter Syndrome and that you 100% believe yourself to be unique, valuable and capable of creating extraordinary results. It's a process. It requires work. But it's one of the most powerful pieces of work you could ever do.

If you're tired of being held back by your Imposter Syndrome and you're ready to start creating extraordinary results, book a consultation with me here: Book a consultation

P.s. apologies if the sound is a challenge in this episode! Recorded from LaPoint surf camp in Portugal!

If this is not a question you've thought to ask yourself before, maybe it's time that you did. I discovered that when I sat down and really thought about it, the thing I craved so badly and thought I needed in order to succeed, was not what I needed at all.

In this episode I unpick the idea of confidence and explain why, when it comes to succeeding or fulfilling your potential or rising to challenges - you already have what you need. So stop pursuing confidence as if it's the holy grail of success, just show up as who you are and let confidence take care of itself.

I know It's not easy to see how imposter syndrome and confidence can sit comfortably together. I know this is the opposite of what you've always thought about imposter syndrome or been told by those who are trying to help you overcome it. But there's another way to think about Imposter Syndrome. It's a more empowering and effective way to think about it and it's a way that produces the kind of confidence that lasts. Want to know how? Start listening.

The answer to dealing with Imposter Syndrome, whether caused by high expectations or any other trigger, is always to turn your Imposter Syndrome into a strength. In this episode I show you how in 4 clear steps.

The first of those steps is to clean up your thinking and it's relevant to every problem you want to solve. In any situation you encounter, there are the facts (what happened, what was said etc.) and then there are your thoughts about those facts.

The problem is that our thoughts are often driven by assumptions or beliefs that don't serve us. They clutter our brains, making it hard to see things clearly and making us less receptive to the solution.

To hear me talk through all 4 steps in details, tune into the episode.

The most effective strategy for coping with setbacks and failures, is to have the structures in place before these things happen. That's one of the reasons why the Imposter SpeechTM is so powerful. Because you've already done the work in creating it, you know exactly where to find it, and which bit to draw on, when you need it.

In this episode I walk you step by step through a process I would use to coach a client to pick themselves back up again. You'll discover the importance of separating out the facts from your thoughts, emotions and actions, and then the transformational way your Imposter Speech gives you the motivation, courage and resourcefulness to get back up again.

I never used to. It never really occurred to me that I should. I think that had a lot to do with working in a huge global law firm where so much was organised and paid for by the firm - training, professional development, all that stuff. But when I started my business 15 years ago I discovered how important it is to invest your own money in yourself. It helps you value yourself more, feel more valued and it makes you more valuable in return.

What could you invest in right now that would increase your value? That investment is often money, but it doesn't have to be. Often what we need to invest most is our time. If you're stuck for ideas, I've got you covered. In this episode I share the list of 7 things I invest in and from which I continue to get a huge return.

But this is the wrong approach. If you want a result (to feel valuable, to get promoted) you need to believe in the result before you have it. Why? Because belief in the result is what drives the action you must take to create that result. Simply put, if I believe I'm valuable, then I show up as valuable and this makes me show up with the energy, focus and commitment I need to create valuable results.

In this episode of the podcast I talk about the importance of valuing yourself, before you can expect others to value you. I talk about the 5 (and a half!) common mistakes people make when it comes to feeling valued, and then I share how to use the 80:20 rule to create a healthy balance of external validation and a sense of value that is internally generated.

At the end you'll discover the only tool you need to help you access that value. Can you guess what it is?

Not any more. These last few years I have tried and tested a tool I use in the face of every Imposter Syndrome crisis and during all those moments when I doubt myself, want to give up or just lose motivation. It has been an absolute game changer. This approach doesn't just work in the moment. It creates exponential results over time. The more I use it, the more effective it is and the more confident I become in my ability to create the results I want.

That tool is the Imposter Speech. This week on the podcast, following a series of episodes introducing the Imposter Speech, I now talk about how to use your Imposter Speech in the real world as a way to solve the problems that are holding you back in your life and/or career right now. I talk about how I use the speech as a whole in times of crisis, but also how I identify and apply specific parts of the speech to the problem I'm facing in the moment.

Here are just some examples of how to use your Imposter Speech in the real world: To give you courage when you experience self doubt To help you make decisions when you're unsure which way to go To affirm past decisions when you questions the decisions that brought you here To stay focused on your goal when you're being drawn off track To motivate you when you've lost your drive As an authenticity check to ensure you honour who you are

Tune in to hear more.

On the podcast this week I talk about both goals and purpose - the difference between the two and why they are critical to helping you solve your Imposter Syndrome. I explain what a purpose is and why it's so important to ensure your goals and purpose are aligned. I also give you 3 recommendations of where to look in order to find your purpose.

In this episode:

• Goals vs Purpose
• 3 reasons why purpose is important
• Why your goals and purpose help solve your imposter syndrome
• How to set goals
• How to find your purpose

Mentioned:

• Episodes 78 to 84: The Imposter Series - Parts 1 to 7
• So Good They Can't Ignore You by Cal Newport

If you'd like to learn more about setting goals and defining your purpose as a way to solve your Imposter Syndrome, book a free consult with me

Your backstory is important because at every crossroads or hurdle you encounter, it can either work for you or against you. If you want yours to work for you, then you have to shape it that way.

I used to think my backstory was a negative one. When I thought about the difficult parts of my past, I would feel disappointed and angry and so I would prefer to not think about them at all. It took me years to realise my mistake. By refusing to think about the challenges I'd faced, I was denying myself the opportunity to see not only how resourceful I was, but also the experiences that made me so unique and valuable. Are you making that mistake too?

Owning your backstory will help to build a stronger identity and empower you to rise to future challenges, especially where those challenges trigger your Imposter Syndrome.

Interested in creating your backstory as part of your Imposter Speech? Join the Imposter Speech Facebook Group to learn more and to register for the Imposter Speech Programme.

It's a common question amongst my clients as they battle with their desire to succeed, their fear of failure and the inevitable discomfort of rising to their potential. Sometimes the frustration goes further and before you know it, they are questioning everything:

• Why did I choose this career/role/industry?
• I didn't actually choose this, I just did it because it was the obvious next step/ it was what everyone else was doing/ my parents expected

The problem with this type of thinking is that it makes the challenge you're facing so much harder to overcome. It undermines your confidence in your own decisions at the exact time when you need to go all in on the task and have your own back.

In this episode I explain why being able to answer the question "why am I here?" with, "I chose this" is a much better strategy for getting through tough times. Understanding what motivated the decisions that brought you here will help you move away from the debilitating thought "I shouldn't be here" towards the infinitely more empowering and effective "I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be".

In this episode:

1. Why it's important to be able to answer the question: "Why am I here?"
2. What is your why and what does it do?
3. Examples of "why" that are impacting your decisions right now
4. How to start exploring your why

Mentioned in this episode:

• Podcast episode #43: Living Your Why
• Book: Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World, which is published on 26th February 2021, and is available to preorder here

So many of you are clocking up success after success without taking a moment to internalise their value. Is it any wonder then, that no matter how hard you work or how much you succeed, you still believe your success is down to luck and you question your right to be here?

The message I have for you this week is that your successes won't internalise themselves! It's up to you to take responsibility for your every success (and for recognising what success is) and then take deliberate action to internalise it.

My goal for you is that you start showing up to challenges and opportunities from where you are, instead of from where you think you should be. "Internalising your success", which is part of the process for creating your Imposter SpeechTM, is the strategy I created to help you do this.

When you know how to internalise your success, it won't matter that your Imposter Syndrome surfaces as you face a new challenge. The easy recollection of all those successes and achievements that led you here will give you the courage and confidence to show up to the challenge from where you are.

Questions to get you reflecting on your success:

1. What is your definition of a success?
2. How long do you wait before you chase the next success?
3. What have you done with your past successes?

Mentioned in this episode:

• Podcast episode #81 - Imposter Series Part 3: The Imposter Speech
• Book: Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World, which is published on 26th February 2021, and is available to preorder here

I want to introduce you to a powerful tool for creating instant courage, building lasting confidence and showcasing your value - to yourself and to others. It's free, it belongs to you and you can take it with you everywhere: it's your name.

But it's not enough to just have a name. It's vitally important that you know how to use it.

In this episode you'll discover that your name is the first part of your five part Imposter SpeechTM - the powerful identity statement I introduced you to in episode 80 and which I created to help you solve your Imposter Syndrome. Although the true power of your name can only be unleashed when you have been through each step of the Imposter SpeechTM process, there's still so much you can gain by thinking about how you say and communicate it, what it means to you and the difference it can make when you decide to James Bond your name.

Mentioned in this episode:

On the Podcast: Episode 13: Courage As A Tool

Book:

Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World

Facebook Group:

The Imposter Speech | Be The First community

I describe what it is and how it is different to the other solutions to Imposter Syndrome you may have come across, and how the process of creating it and repeatedly using it has helped me achieve goals I wouldn't have conceived of or believed possible.

As well as explaining what it does, I talk you through the benefits of having an Imposter SpeechTM always to hand. I then share the version of my Imposter SpeechTM that helped me to write the book and is helping me to go all in on its success this year.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Podcast episode 13: Courage As A Tool
• Book: Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World, which is published on 26th February 2021, and is available to preorder here

1. I've tried so many of the tips and tricks for ditching imposter syndrome over the years, but the results were always fleeting
2. I don't know anyone who has eradicated their imposter syndrome for good (but if you're out there, I'd love to meet you!); and
3. The moment I accepted that Imposter Syndrome was here to say, is the moment I got some authority over it and discovered how to turn it into my strength.

In this episode you'll learn that that accepting your Imposter Syndrome is so much more empowering than resisting it, because of the authority it gives you and the new perspective it brings.

This week's key takeaway: Imposter Syndrome is not a problem you have to fix, it's a puzzle you need to solve.

I'm going to be talking about the tool I created to help you solve your Imposter Syndrome next week, in episode 80.

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Caroline Flanagan Podcast Episode #70: Acceptance
• The book: Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World, which is published on 26th February 2021, and is available to preorder here

3 words to help you identify Imposter Syndrome: * FRAUD: you feel like a fraud * LUCK: you feel your success is down to luck * EXPOSURE: you're afraid that any minute now you'll be exposed

3 insights to help you solve your Imposter Syndrome: * Your Imposter Syndrome doesn't care about the truth * Imposter Syndrome does, however, contain a grain of truth * What matters with Imposter Syndrome is not whether it's true or untrue, but what you make it mean

Mentioned in this episode: - Jeremy Nicholas, Speaker, Humorist and Keynote Tickler

- Be The First: People of Colour, Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World, which is published on 26th February 2021, and is available to preorder here

It happens to us all. You'll have heard me say that life is an arena. That's because sooner or later (and perhaps more often than we'd like) we come across something we think we cannot do, or we simply don't enjoy or want to do. I'll bet you've felt that way at work a few times already this year, to say nothing of this seemingly endless lockdown.

On the podcast this week I want to share with you the tool I use to help me do hard things. What I love about this tool is that it's ludicrously simple, and surprisingly effective. It's a mantra I say to myself when things feel hard and I don't want to do them: "I know how to do hard things".

It's a bit like resilience, only it's better, because it's a tool you can actually use. Say it to get you through a difficult day, a challenging task or an overwhelming project. Or say it to give yourself the push you may need to step out of your comfort zone and do something bold that will progress your career this year. It's been my go to tool lately as I prepare for the launch date of my new book, Be The First, on 26th February. Trust me, it works.

We're all good at being consistent, some of the time! When it comes to actions like brushing our teeth we all know the importance of being consistent if we want the right results (healthy teeth and fewer trips to the dentist!).

But when it comes to creating other results in our life, we forget how powerful it can be to take small actions consistently over time.

In episode 76 of the podcast, I discuss why consistency is key to creating the results you want. I share the areas of my life where I have been really consistent and created amazing results (writing my second book, a 3 year weekly blog, 4 years of an energising and grounding morning routine and 31 days – and counting - of Ashtanga yoga), and the areas in my life where I am being inconsistent and so missing out on great results (reading, this podcast!). Then I share my tips on how to introduce more consistency into your life so you achieve bigger and better goals with less effort.

In this episode:

• 5 reasons consistency is key
• 4 common mistakes that stop you being consistent
• 6 tips for taking more consistent action

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Compound Effect
• Episode 34: All Or Nothing Thinking
• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
• Small Habits Revolution by Damon Zahariades

In this episode I talk about what internal thought work is, why it is so important, and why you need to make it a priority over the practical. It's all very well having a toolbox of tips and tricks to turn to when facing a challenge or problem or chasing a goal, but these will only work if you develop the underlying confidence to use them.

We all have "off days" – those days when we're off our game, or just not feeling it.

The problem is that off days can sneak up on us without warning and for no particular reason, sapping our energy and enthusiasm and leaving us feeling frustrated that we're not operating at our usual level. This can be a real challenge when we're still expected to show up and perform.

The good news is, your off days don't have to be a write off. In episode 74 of the podcast, I discuss why off days are important and I share practical ideas for using these days as an opportunity to press the reset button.

I've found the best way to deal with off days, is to be prepared for them before they come. You never know when your next off day will be. But when you've listened to this episode, you'll know exactly what to do when it does.

It's not uncommon to have an anti-role model: someone whose behaviour you dislike and will do anything to distance yourself from. But has it occurred to you that your determination not to be that person could be holding you back? Or that you could learn something valuable from that person?

In this episode I challenge your assumptions about the person whose behaviour, style or attitudes you don't like and invite you to take a closer look. Whether it's an overbearing boss, an arrogant colleague or an overly critical client – there's usually something beneath the surface of that person that you might do well to learn.

Get ready to have your assumptions challenged, and to start seeing your anti-role model in a whole new light.

In this episode I'm directing your attention to the opportunities you could discover or create for yourself this year. Most people think opportunities are gifts from someone else. But the best opportunities don't fall out of the sky. They are created. And you are the one who must create them.

In this episode I share some practical steps you can take to start attracting more opportunities into your life. Some of the best opportunities come out of adversity. Thanks to COVID, lockdown, Black Lives Matter and the many other challenges of 2020, the time is ripe for creating them.

I get that it has lots of negative connotations. Power can be about control and manipulation and the impact you have on others, but it doesn't have to be. It can be about your innate ability to rise to life's challenges and create incredible results in your own life.

If you struggle with words like "power" "powerful" and "empowerment", this week's episode is for you. I'm here to persuade you that when you reject the word power, you reject your own potential. You are powerful, whether you like it or not. The only question is, will you own that power and use it to create an amazing life for yourself, or will you plod through life pretending it's not there?

The idea of acceptance as a starting point for change seems counter-intuitive. It sounds like acquiescence, giving up or saying everything is ok. But the opposite is true. When you accept what's going on, you gain authority over the situation, it frees you up to see more clearly and you're better placed to find the solutions that will lead to change.

If you're anything like my clients, you tend to undervalue what you already have and put too much focus on what you don't. The problem with doing this is that you miss opportunities that would otherwise be perfect for you and you're depriving the world of your value.

My advice to you in this episode is to start with what you have and work with what you've got. The advantages of doing what comes easily and naturally are faster results with reduced stress and less effort. All you need to do is tap into your superpower, and find opportunities to put it to work.

Examples of superpowers:

• You're brilliant at connecting with others
• You're a master at connecting others
• You're a natural diplomat
• You bring humour to difficult situations
• You have the gift of the gab
• Your smile lights up the room
• You have an impressive memory
• You're also forming new ideas

It's time to stop depriving yourself and the world of your innate ability. Go find your cape and put it to work.

The Inclusion Illusion is the belief held by someone in a minority group (a woman in an all-male industry for example; or a BAME professional in an all-white organisation) that you can't feel valued or get access to the people and opportunities that will progress your career unless someone from the dominant group includes you and it's a very real challenge many of you experience every day.

The problem is, it takes away your power and gives it to everyone else. The message I'm sending you in this episode helps you claim that power back: when no one is including you, it means it's time to include yourself.

After the initial enthusiasm and excitement when we first commit to a goal, it's easy to lose momentum or become distracted on your way to achieving it. What I've also found is that it's easy to set goals. But setting goals and taking action to achieve them are completely different things.

That's why in this week's episode I want to introduce you to the concept of 'recommitment' – the act of recommitting to something you've already committed to in the past – as a way to boost your motivation and accelerate progress towards your goals. Recommitment can be used in connection with a goal, or a decision. But it could also be used in relation to a choice you have made – about who to marry, or where to work, for example.

It's not enough to set a goal or even to make a commitment to achieve it. If you're going to stay the distance, commitment is required again and again and again. Until the job is done.

Most of us take our body for granted. Years ago I heard a highly successful woman describe how she regretted viewing her body "as nothing but a vehicle for my brain". At the time, she was in remission from breast cancer. Her message was a reminder to all of us busy professionals in the room to pay closer attention to our bodies and what they tell us.

How you do this is easy: Your body speaks. All you have to do, is listen.

In this episode I talk about the many messages your body tries to send you, how to be better at listening to them and the risk of consequences when you don't. I share examples of some of my own bad habits, including perhaps one too many references to my bladder and the tendency I have to ignore the call of nature when I'm absorbed in my work. You'll be pleased to hear there's more: practical advice about how to listen to your body so you can perform at your best and stay well.