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tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390Fri, 21 Aug 2026 09:35:01 +0000VegetablesCurriesChutneysRiceDesigningDessertsFruitsInterior decoratingJFIRotisaahaar vihaarFood for all five senses of sensationnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)Blogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-5197388012262906207Fri, 11 May 2007 13:52:00 +00002007-05-11T09:04:18.094-05:00Long Time, no post!!!It has been crazy at work for the past three weeks. Slowly getting back in shape. I have been reading all your posts. Read the amazing roundup's for RCI event and JFI: greens. But couldn't really post anything in my blog. Will definitely try to post in the next few weeks. Thanks for checking my blog. See you soon!!!2007/05/long-time-no-post.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-252443138156996761Fri, 20 Apr 2007 15:34:00 +00002007-04-20T13:12:41.252-05:00Methi Dal - JFI-WBB: Green Leafy VegetablesI love to cook green leafy vegetables in any form. Who wouldn't??? I keep adding spinach, methi, amaranth, etc. in my cooking regularly once a week. Spinach has a rich source of Iron. Of course, all greens contains Iron in different proportions. We very well know that iron content in our body will give strength and prevents from anemia/weakness. It helps keep your body brisk all day.<br /><br />I remember a greens seller in my hometown who sells fresh green leafy vegetables everyday on our streets. She had many different varieties of greens. Of which i remember only few of these,<br />Thandukeerai(Keerai in tamil means Greens),<br />Araikeerai(Amaranth contains vitamin A),<br />Mulakeerai,<br />Vendayakeerai(Methi/Fenugreek leaves),<br />Vallaraikeerai(said to be good for memory power),<br />Mudakathankeerai(cures arthritis),<br />Sirukeerai(small leafy greens),<br />Murungaikeerai(leaves of drumstick tree),<br />Thooduvalaikeerai(removes congestion due to cold),<br />Manathakkalikeerai(good for stomach & mouth ulcers),<br />Ponnangannikeerai(improves eyesight),<br />Kezhanellikeerai(cures jaundice)<br />Pasalaikeerai(Palak or spinach),<br />Pulichakeerai(Gongura).<br /><br />The list is long and there are many other varieties of indian greens which i do not know the names exactly. Mom says even now she buys greens from her. She sells greens that are freshly picked, early morning from the fields in her village, nearby to our town and we get them right at our doors. <br />I love methi for its rich aroma. Though it has a slight bitter taste, when pressure cooked with dal, reduces the bitterness. It's also rich in Iron and fibre content and believed to have many medicinal properties. Methi is supposed to cool the body and is good for diabetic patients. I made Methi dal for the JFI-WBB event by Indira of Mahanadi and Nandita of Saffron Trial. Here are the steps to make it.<br /><P><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5055567335349856978" /></a><br /><center><small> Methi dal with rice and lemon pickle</small></center></P><br />Recipe...<br /><br />1 bunch of Methi, pluck the leaves<br />1 cup of toor dal<br />1 medium onion and tomato, chopped<br />Pulp of a lemon-sized tamarind<br />1 tbsp of sambar powder.<br />1 tsp of turmeric.<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Seasoning...<br />1 tbsp of oil/Ghee<br />1 tsp of mustard seeds<br />1 tsp of cumin seeds<br />1 tsp of asafoetida<br />5 to 6 curry leaves<br /><br />Method...<br />Rinse methi leaves in three changes of water, till the water looks clear. <br />Similarly wash toor dal too. Pressure cook toor dal, methi leaves, tomato, turmeric with little salt till 4 whistles. Let it cool and when pressure is released, mash them and set aside. Heat oil in a pan, fry onion till translucent. Add this to the pressure cooker contents. Stir in tamarind pulp, sambar powder with salt and let all this boil till the dal thickens. <br />Finally heat oil and toast the seasoning ingredients one by one in order provided. Add this to the dal. <br />Serve hot with rice and a side curry. <br /><br />This recipe can be adapted with any other greens. Sending this to JFI event.2007/04/methi-dal-jfi-wbb-green-leafy.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)30tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-1974315202475246295Fri, 13 Apr 2007 15:46:00 +00002007-04-13T12:11:05.149-05:00Adai - Lentil DosaThere were days when we hated a particular dish during childhood and would cry to eat 'em when mom says it's good for our health. Later when we start cooking, we make them over and over again, saying that it's so delicious. I am sure you all would have been thro' this. I don't know what makes the food we dislike in childhood to be an all time favaourite when grown up. Once such thing is "Adai" to me. I have literally fought with my mom to make me something else when she prepares Adai during my childhood days. But when i started cooking, it's tastes heavenly now(Don't know why???). Since our everyday meal is based on my husband's likes, food i hate the most has now become my ultimate favourites. <br />Adai, as we call as lentil pancake, is a mix of four types of lentils and rice.<br />It is a protein rich diet since it contains lentils. Apart from proteins, adai also contains dietary fiber. It's also an ideal diet for diabetes. This tiffin is mostly made in south india. It's also a tradition to make Adai on the festival of lights(Karthigai Deepam). The proportion on which the lentils are added alongwith rice gives it the crunchy, rich taste. Here's how i make it.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5052960833329398962" /></a><br /><br />Raw Rice - 1 cup<br />Chana dal - 3/4 cup<br />Toor dal - 1/2 cup<br />Urad dal - 1/4 cup<br />Moong dal - 2 tbsp(1/8 cup)<br />Red chillies - 5 nos.<br />Onion - 1 medium, finely chopped<br />Curry leaves & corriander leaves<br />Coconut pieces - 1 tbsp finely chopped<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Soak rice and dals alongwith the red chillies for 2 hours. Grind into a coarse batter adding little water at a time. Do not add lot of water to the batter, let it be thick. The dals should just be split while grinding and not ground to smooth. Add salt, mix well and set aside for atleast 4 hours. Adai can be made in the same day on which it was ground. There is no need for fermenting. <br />Heat a dosa griddle. Mix finely chopped onions, curry leaves, corriander leaves, finely chopped coconut pieces. Pour the batter in the griddle and make it as dosas. Coat the sides of the adai with oil. Let it be there for two minutes on one side in medium heat and flip it over to the other side. Let it become crunchy. Cook on medium heat since the batter is thick, it might take sometime some time for this to cook. The coarse texture of dals and rice in the batter will give it a crunchy taste. <br />Serve it with Coconut/Peanut chutney, powdered jaggery, and chutney podi(Milagai podi). Traditionally in south indian hotels, Adai is served with Aviyal(A coconut curry made with vegetables). I like my adai with sugar and ghee mixed together.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5052961224171422914" /></a>2007/04/adai-lentil-dosa.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-1472524254422468293Fri, 06 Apr 2007 17:25:00 +00002007-04-06T13:38:38.672-05:00CurriesVegetablesMushroom masala with fresh green channaI like trying different combinations of vegetables and legumes in my curries. Yesterday i got all excited and decided to combine Mushroom and green channa. I haven't heard of this fresh green channa(Garbanzo beans)when i was in India. Recently found frozen green channa in the indian grocery store. I have always used dried kabuli channa or brown channa. These green channa are so fresh and do not require soaking in water overnight. That's one thing i liked about these. I usually think of making channa masala for the next day and would forget to soak it overnight. Any form of channa or garbanzo beans is rich in protein and fiber, and low in fat and calories. They are a good source of folate, folic acid, calcium, Vitamin B and iron.<br />And speaking of mushrooms, i like fresh white ones. One thing about the mushrooms is it gets dark when kept for long time. Proper wrapping with ziploc or storing them in air-tight containers can help. Mushrooms combined with green channa was so delicious as a side dish. Here is some of 'em for you.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5050381717034348866" /></a><br />10 to 15 nos.- White button mushrooms<br />1 Cup - Frozen or fresh green channa or garbanzo <br />1 - Medium Onion Chopped<br />3 - Medium Tomatoes chopped<br />1 tsp - turmeric powder<br />1 tsp - red chilli powder<br />1 tsp - corriander powder<br />1 tsp - cumin powder<br />1 tsp - garam masala<br />1 tsp of Kasuri methi<br />1 tsp - cumin seeds for tadka<br />1 tbsp - oil<br />Salt to taste<br />Fresh cilantro to garnish<br /><br />Remove stems from mushrooms, clean and with a neat cloth wipe the surface of the mushrooms to remove any dirt. Cut into halves or any shape. Wash channa into two to three runnings of water, drain and set aside. Heat oil in a pan and add cumin seeds. Let the cumin seed splutter. Add turmeric powder to them. Then add the onion and fry till transparent. Add mushrooms and saute for two minutes. Add Chopped tomatoes to the pan and cook till the tomatoes are mushy and mixes with the mushroom. Stir in red chilli powder, corriander powder, cumin powder and mix well to coat the mushroom with the masala. Let the spices cook for two minutes. Add green channa and enough water and let it cook covered for 10 minutes. Stir in the garam masala and continue to cook for another 5 minutes. By then the mushrooms should be soft and green channa doesn't require more time to cook. Mix the kasuri methi and cook for another minute and then garnish with cilantro. <br />Serve hot with naan or your favourite rotis.<br /><br />Add-on...<br />Add quarter cup of milk or cream before adding the garam masala. This would give the dish a rich creamy colour. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5050382052041797970" /></a>2007/04/mushroom-masala-with-fresh-green-channa.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-1447649073796482394Wed, 28 Mar 2007 15:03:00 +00002007-03-28T11:18:43.275-05:00CurriesVegetablesMoong dal with ZucchiniZucchini, funny name isn't it:-). Not knowing what to do with this summer vegetable, i was reluctant to buy them. But my husband said that i could use them in stir-fry. Ofcourse it was good in stir-fry. Almost everyday we have roti's for dinner and so i get really confused what to make as side dish for roti's. Yesterday i thought of making dal for roti's and then suddenly it strike why can't i use this zucchini in my dal. Guess what, turned out to be delicious. Being calorie consicious i checked the nutritional information on zucchini. Zucchini is low in calories (19 calories/cup). It is low in fat and carbohydrates. One cup of zucchini is a significant source of vitamin C and adds vitamins and minerals when added to recipes. Also found that overcooking(adding too much water and heat)zucchini might destroy the vitamin C in the vegetable. Here is how i made the dal with zucchini.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5047008294462618418" /></a><br /><br /><B>Ingredients</B><br />Moong dal - 1 cup.<br />Zucchini - 2 nos diced.<br />onion - 1 medium<br />Tomato - 2 nos.<br />Green chillies - 3<br />Sambar powder - 1 tsp<br />Turmeric powder - 1 tsp<br />Mustard seeds - 1 tsp<br />Cumin seeds - 1 tsp<br />Asafoetida - 1 tsp<br />Oil - 1 tbsp<br />Corriander leaves to garnish<br /><br /><B>Method</B><br />Pressure cook moong dal till soft, mash and set aside. Chop onion, tomatoes. Slit green chillies. Heat oil in a pan, splutter mustard seeds, cumin seeds, asafoetida, turmeric powder. Add the chopped onion,green chillies and fry till transparent. Then add the tomatoes and fry till it gets mushy. Stir in zucchini and fry for 2 to 3 minutes. Add sambar powder, fry for a minute. Sprinkle some water over this and let it cook till the zucchini is half cooked. Do not add more water or overcook zucchini. Cook in medium heat. Add the cooked dal and mix well. Let it boil for another 4 minutes. Garnish with coriander leaves.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5047008642354969410" /></a><br />Serve hot with Chapathi or rice. Add a tsp of Ghee on top before serving for added touch. <br /><br />Check out fellow bloggers zucchini dishes.<br /><b><br /><a href = " Kurma </a>from Mahanadi<br /><a href = " Potato-Zucchini Stir-Fry </a>from Foodie's hope<br /><a href=" and Feenel fritata</a> from WFLH<br /></b>2007/03/moong-dal-with-zucchini.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-8644079562254565997Fri, 23 Mar 2007 17:48:00 +00002007-03-23T14:08:17.398-05:00FruitsPineapple Salsa - Contribution to AFAM eventDietians say that we should eat three servings of fruit per day. My husband is a big fan of fruits and he drags me to the fruit aisle when we go for grocery shopping(i am not used to eating fruits regularly). But i volunteered to the fruit aisle this week to buy pineapple after reading the AFAM event by Maheswari Madanan of beyond the usual.I 've been trying to participate in AFAM event since she announced it. Ofcourse lack of time is the reason, finally i did manage to contribute this time.<br />Read about AFAM event <a href=" /><br />Now lets get into some details of this tropical fruit.<br />Pineapple is native to south america and was found by Christopher columbus(Discoverer of the Americas). But they are thought to have originated in Brazil and Paraguay. It contains large quantities of vitamin C. As far as medicinal uses are concerned, pineapple is said be rich in fibre which can cure constipation. It helps to improve digestion, increase appetite and reduce excessive gastric acids. The enzyme, bromelain present in pineapple aids digestion. <br />Though it has a prickly top, once removed it is a delicious juicy fruit. I made Pineapple salsa and here is how you make it. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5045196740403476914" /></a><center><small> Pineapple Salsa - a colorful treat </small> </center><br /><br />Pineapple slices - 3 or 4.(Remove the outer skin, edges and slice them horizontally).<br />Onion - 1 medium<br />Red bell pepper - 1 thinly sliced<br />Green bell pepper - 1 thinly sliced<br />Cayenne pepper - 1 tsp<br />Corriander leaves - 2 tbsp chopped<br />Lemon juice - 1 tbsp<br />Salt to taste.<br /><br />Combine pinepple slices, onion, red bell pepper, green bell pepper in a large bowl. Add the cayenne pepper, corriander leaves and lime juice to it. Add salt and mix well. Jalapeno pepper is an optional additional to this salsa. Cover tightly and refrigerate until serving time. Serve with tacos, an ultimate party snack. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5045196993806547394" /></a><br /><br />Check out this <a href=" pineapple slicer</a>2007/03/pineapple-salsa-contribution-to-afam.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-4881859696698405405Fri, 16 Mar 2007 16:33:00 +00002007-03-16T12:37:31.424-05:00RiceVegetablesSpicy Tomato PulavThanks to all fellow food bloggers who took a peek at my blog and dropped their valuable comments. <br /><br />Tomatoes are rich in vitamin C(which most of you might know very well), but do you know it can prevent cancer. The presence of pigment lycopene, which gives the red color to the tomatoes is the most powerful antioxidants which can protect us from the free radicals that cause cancer. It's also rich in vitamin A and E, which is good for your skin. All these information, i learnt by reading about health and diet. To me, its pretty much the one and only vegetable(or fruit???) i use in my everyday cooking. Be it dal, chutney, curries and so on, tomatoes are the main ingredient in any indian kitchen. I am sure you guys will agree with this. This spicy tomato pulav is a recipe which i got from my mother-in-law. BTW she is a great cook. You may also call it as tomato rice, but i prefer saying it as tomato pulav because of the varied spices used in this dish. There goes the recipe. <br /><br />Tomatoes - 5 nos. chopped<br />Basmati Rice - 2 cups<br />Red Onion - 1 big chopped<br />Garlic - 2 pods<br />Ginger - a small piece<br />Coconut - 1/2 cup<br />Green chillies - 2 or 3<br />Aniseeds/Fennel(Saunf) - 1 tsp<br />Poppy seeds - 1 tsp (optional)<br />Garam masala powder - 2 tsps<br />Cinnamon stick, bay leaf, Clove, cardomom - 1 no. each<br />Coriander leaves <br />Oil and salt to taste<br /><br />Wash the rice well in water, drain and set aside. Grind Coconut, green chillies, garlic, ginger, saunf and poppy seeds into paste adding little water. Heat oil in a kadai and the whole spices(lavang elaichi, patta fry for a minute. Add the onion and fry for a minute. Add the ground paste and fry till the raw smell of the paste leaves. Add the chopped tomatoes and cook till they turn mushy. Add the garam masala powder and fry for a minute. Then add the rice and mix well till the rice gets coated with the tomato curry. Transfer this to a pressure cooker, adding 3 cups of water. Add salt, coriander leaves and leave the pressure cooker open until it starts to boil. Place the lid and leave it in high until the regulator weight blows twice. <br />Switch off the flame, let it cool and serve with potato fry or onion-curd raita. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5042577334832225074" /></a><br /><br />P.S. If you follow the measurements of tomato, rice, water and the time to cook exactly as given above, the pulav will definitely not stick to the bottom of the pressure cooker.2007/03/spicy-tomato-pulav.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-7081844516691191451Tue, 06 Mar 2007 01:35:00 +00002007-03-05T22:21:41.623-05:00DesigningInterior decoratingInterior decorating I - An inviting and comfortable space to dineI have been thinking of posting my ideas on decorating a home for a while and voila! Apart from food blogs, i also read a lot about interior decorating. <br />Interior decorating is an art of creating a beautiful home by improvising color plans and accessorizing with elegant features. We often confuse interior decorating with interior designing. There is a distinct difference between these two. Interior decorating mainly focusses on finishes/accessories. Interior designing focusses on creating a lifestyle with the architecture of the interior space by analyzing the human psychology. <br />Basically we will be discussing about decorating ideas for each room in a house one after another. While i was thinking of which room to start with??! Since aahaar vihaar is a food blog why not start with the dining room...<br />Yes, here are some steps by which you can decorate your ordinary dining room to an attractive yet easy to use space. I greatly appreciate your comments on improving this subject. Check out this <a href=" Hall</a><br /><p align="center"><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5038646118921807122" /></a><Font face = "Verdana" size="1">Courtesy: Homemag.com</Font></p><br /><ul type="square"><li>Select a theme for the dining room which uniquely blends with the living room.</li></ul> <ul type="square"><li>Painting the room with varied color palettes will be the next step. Select a color for the wall and match the ceiling with the contrasting color. The color on the wall should be in contrast with the floor color. </li></ul> <ul type="square"><li>The window treatments should complement the paint color in the room and also the furniture in the room. One example, a pale colored drapes will suit well to a dark cherry dining table furniture.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li> Add a rug to the dining room based on the floor type and the one that enhances the look of the furniture. </li></ul><ul type="square"><li>Choose furnitures that are simple and gives room for a family of 6-8 for dining. Floral slip covers for the dining room chairs matching the theme of the room adds an elegant look. Also, adding buffet/server is optional, but they can help you organize your serveware and dinnerware. Keep it simple and not too cramped.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li> Choose a center piece for the dining table, let it be a floral arrangements or candle holders. Of course, there are no hard and fast rules of center pieces, you can decorate with the flowers or the candle holders or with an antique center piece. But in spring, bring in some fresh flowers instead of the silk or artificial floral arrangements. </li></ul><ul type="square"><li>Adequate lighting will project your rooms beauty. Select a chandelier that will lighten up the entire dinging area and also enhances your center piece.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li> Then comes the wall hangings. Choose pictures that suites best for the color of the wall. Again, no hard and fast rules, choose according to your ideas.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li>Tablecloths, placemats and runners should be chosen to mix with the furniture.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li>Choosing the dinnerware which resembles the color of the room is a wise idea, but going on with a classic white and cream based set of dinnerware is also a good choice.</li></ul><ul type="square"><li> Last but not least, keep your room so comforting and serve your food with love. </li></ul>2007/03/interior-decorating-i-inviting-and.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-4394125284928153085Wed, 28 Feb 2007 14:45:00 +00002007-02-28T14:29:40.874-05:00JFIRotisVegetablesAloo Batura - for JFI PotatoWho wouldn't like this vegetable -- Potato??!<br />Be it the kids or grownups, everyone likes potatoes in any dishes... When i first saw the JFI for potato announced by vaishali of "Happy Burp", ideas flew into my mind. But somehow managed to end up with something new which i tried for the first time. "Aloo Batura" is my contribution to JFI-Potato...<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5036667977804777682" /></a><br /><br />Maida - 2 cups<br />Aloo or potato - 3 (medium)<br />Jeera - 1 tsp<br />Ghee - 1 tbsp<br />Oil for frying batura<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Boil the potatoes, peel off the skin and mash well without any lumps. With this add maida, salt, ghee, jeera and mix well adding little bit of water. The dough should be in chapathi dough consistency. Do not add more water to the dough as it may get loose and gets all sticky to roll. Roll the dough into batura's and deep fry in oil.<br />Serve with chana masala or any korma.2007/02/aloo-batura-for-jfi-potato.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-7166502810809637918Sun, 25 Feb 2007 23:14:00 +00002007-02-25T21:27:06.334-05:00CurriesVegetablesSambar with freshly ground spicesSince my husband mostly prefers variety rices packed for lunch during weekdays, i get to make sambar and gojju only during weekends. Sambar mixed with rice and a dollop of ghee has a heavenly taste. Back at home, mom makes sambar and gojju alternately all week. Honestly, in my home even if it's sambar or gojju, the type of dish once prepared is not repeated until atleast a month. Though usually sambar is made with the home-made sambar powder, there are other varieties of sambar made with instantly ground pastes and powders. Here is one variety of sambar which we usually call as "Arachuvitta sambar" made on festive occasions. This is a thick gravy of vegetables(in any combination) with a freshly ground spicy paste. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5035663145892078226" /></a><br />Vegetables(red pumpkin, drumstick, potato, raw banana, broadbeans) - 2 cups<br />Toor dal - 1 cup.<br />Tamarind - large lemon sized ball<br />Chana dal - 1 tbsp<br />Coriander seeds - 2 heaped tbsp<br />Methi seeds - 1/2 tsp<br />Red chillies - 5-6<br />Jeera - 1 tsp<br />Grated coconut - 1/2 cup<br />Turmeric - 1/2 tsp<br />Asafoetida - 1/2 tsp<br />Mustard seeds - 1 tsp<br />curry leaves - 6 leaves<br />Oil - 2 tbsp<br /><br />Pressure cook toor dal in 2 cups of water along with turmeric. In a kadai heat one tbsp of oil. Fry chana dal, red chillies, coriander seeds, methi seeds, jeera. When the spices turn light brown, switch off the flame, add coconut and fry for a minute. Cool and grind to a paste adding water. Get pulp out of tamarind(i usually boil tamarind with water in microwave for 2 minutes and then extract the pulp).<br />Boil vegetables and tamarind extract until vegetables are half cooked. Add the ground paste and let it boil for few more minutes. Add cooked toor dal and let it boil for 5 minutes. Fry mustard seeds, curry leaves, asafoetida in remaining oil and add this tadka to sambar. Serve with rice and a side dish, rice crispies.<br /><br />Pair radish and small red onions(sambar onions) as vegetables for this sambar. The rich flavor of red onions adds a unique taste of the sambar.2007/02/sambar-with-freshly-ground-spices.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-1070103418852476826Mon, 19 Feb 2007 23:53:00 +00002007-02-19T19:55:35.303-05:00CurriesVegetablesRasavangi and Cabbage PalyaThough we do not get the exact taste of indian brinjal in here, I always keep brinjal in my crisper. My weekly grocery list will definitely have brinjal listed in it. We have a strong desire for eggplant. Kojju and vathakuzhambhu are the ones with a heavenly taste. My grandmother(Dad's mom) makes kojju which tastes yummy even after 2 days. My mom used to say that she learned many dishes from her. She is not with us today but she gave all her magics of cooking to my mom. Rasavangi is one among them which we got from my grandma. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5033408240817037954" /></a><br /><Big><B> Rasavangi </B></Big><br />Brinjal - 6-8 nos.,preferably small ones, Cut into plus shapes easy to stuff masala<br />Tamarind - big lemon sized <br />Urad dal - handful<br />Red chillies - 5<br />Mustard seeds - 1 tsp<br />Methi seeds - 1/2 tsp<br />Turmeric - 1/2 tsp<br />Oil - 4 tbsp<br />Asafoetida <br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Tadka<br />Mustard seeds - 1/2 tsp<br />Curry leaves - 5 leaves<br /><br />Heat little oil in a wok and fry urad dal, red chillies, mustard and methi seeds. Cool and grind to a fine powder. Stuff the eggplant with half of the ground powder. Heat oil and fry the stuffed eggplant seasoning with salt. Extract pulp from tamarind, add turmeric and asafoetida to it. Set aside. Once the eggplant is fried and half cooked, add it to the tamarind extract alongwith the remaining ground powder. Let it boil until it becomes a thick curry adding salt to taste. Fry mustard seeds and curry leaves in oil and add it to the rasavangi. Serve with rice and papad and cabbage palya(fry).<br /><br />Added touch...<br />Add a tsp of gingelly oil while serving rasavangi for rice since gingelly oil reduces the heat in a dish, particularly for kids.<br /><br /><Big><B>Cabbage Palya(Cabbage Fry)</B></Big><br />Cabbage - 1/2 of big cabbage, thinly sliced<br />Coconut - 1/2 cup shredded<br />Red chillies - 2<br />Mustard seeds - 1 tsp<br />Chana dal - 2 tsp<br />Curry leaves - 5 leaves<br />Oil - 1 tbsp<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Cook cabbage in microwave adding enough water and salt. Drain and set aside. Heat oil in a wok and add chana dal. Once the dal turns slight red, splutter mustard seeds and curry leaves. Then add red chillies, fry till they turn bright red. Add the shredded coconut and fry for a minute. Then add cooked cabbage, salt to taste and fry till they fully cooked. Serve with rasavangi or vathakuzhambu.2007/02/kathrikai-rasavangi-eggplant-rasavangi.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-4830592777539367325Wed, 14 Feb 2007 20:03:00 +00002007-02-14T15:50:32.259-05:00RiceDal Bath(Rice and Toor dal cooked together)Today i had to cook lunch just for myself, and was so bored to eat noodles(usually i make noodles when i have to cook only for myself). I felt too lazy to spend time in the kitchen today, since i was admiring the snow on the roads through my window. Yes, we had ice storm warning and had freezing rain too. So, thought of "Dal bath" which can be made within minutes. This dish is usually made in south india where toor dal is the main ingredient in everyday meal, either as sambar or in rasam. Dal Bath is easily digestible and can be had during fever(instead of the bread/milk which most children doesn't like). It is a best medicine for ulcer stomach too.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5031492854958631986" /></a><br /><br />Rice - 1 cup<br />Toor dal - 1/2 cup<br />Turmeric powder - 1/4 tsp<br />Garlic - 4-5 pods<br />Jeera - 1 tsp<br />Green chillies - 1(optional)<br />Ghee - 1 tbsp<br />Curry leaves - 5 leaves<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Wash rice and toor dal together. Cook rice, toor dal, turmeric powder, 1/2 tsp of jeera, salt, garlic, green chillies(optional) alongwith 5 cups of water in a pressure cooker. Heat ghee, fry remaining jeera, curry leaves and add this to cooked dal bath. Serve with papad, potato fry.2007/02/dal-bathrice-and-toor-dal-cooked.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-2197017711896067964Wed, 14 Feb 2007 01:40:00 +00002007-02-14T14:20:25.824-05:00ChutneysOnion Chutney - Recipe from Pedatha"If you hear an onion ring, answer it".<br /><br />It took me two weeks to post a recipe. I was busy with my work and had guests coming to my home. We had a superbowl party at my home and i made veg. biryani, paneer butter masala, roti's and onion/curd raita for our friends who came home to watch the game. So, things were kind of busy and meanwhile i started trying the recipes from "Cooking at home with Pedatha". The onion chutney was the one that i liked the most. I have tried many varieties of onion chutney's according to my mom's recipes. But this method of onion chutney was different than i usually make. So, gave it a try and guess what it turned out to be a delicious accompaniment for dosa at dinner today. <br />Over the days, the one thing that i have learnt from cooking is to add the right amount of ingredients to make an ordinary meal a gorgeous one. I followed the recipe from Pedatha except for the chillies according to my taste. Here goes the recipe.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5031471478906399778" /></a><br />Large Onions - 3, chopped<br />Ginger - 2 inch piece<br />Pulp from lemon sized tamarind<br />Green chillies - 2<br />Red chillies - 4<br />Coriander leaves - 1/2 cup<br />Curry leaves - 6-8 leaves<br />Black gram - 1 tbsp<br />Fenugreek seeds - 1/4 tsp<br />mustard seeds - 2 tsps<br />asafoetida powder - 1 tsp<br />Oil - 1 tbsp<br />salt to taste<br /><br />Heat oil in a pan fry the gram. When it turns golden, splutter the mustards and add fenugreek seeds. Add red chillies and as it turns red, add green chillies, coriander leaves, curry leaves, and asafoetida. Fry for a minute and add the onion, grated ginger and fry till the raw smell of the onion disappears. Grind this with the tamarind pulp and salt. Serve with Idli or dosa. <br /><br />Facts about onion...<br />The origin of onion dates back to 5000 B.C. <br /><br />Libya has the highest consumption of onions with an astounding average per capita consumption of 66.8 pounds.<br /><br />Onions are also a source of vitamin C, potassium, dietary fiber and folic acid. They also contain calcium, iron and have a high protein quality.<br /><br />Onion has no fat and less in sodium. Add lots of onions in your diet if you wish to lose weight.<br /><br />Reduce tearing when cutting onions by first chilling the onions for 30 minutes.2007/02/onion-chutney-recipe-from-pedatha.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-5494076408109232381Tue, 06 Feb 2007 20:49:00 +00002007-02-08T11:13:54.540-05:00Cooking with PedathaGuess what, I am cooking with Pedatha!!! Yes, i bought the precious cookbook "Cooking at home with Pedatha" recently from Mahanadi's ebay sale. When the mailman left the book at my doors, i rushed to the doors(i have been waiting for the past one week), picked the book and read from start to finish. The book not only has recipes from the 86 year old culinary queen pedatha, but also the variations and tips with which a recipe can be cooked. The good photography of the food along with the recipe adds to the fame of this cookbook. It brings the spicy vegetarian Andhra food to our kitchen...<br /><br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5028530326334879426" /></a>2007/02/cooking-with-pedatha.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-6312963188186250786Wed, 31 Jan 2007 16:20:00 +00002007-02-22T14:12:59.777-05:00ChutneysBrinjal (Eggplant/Kathirikai) ChutneyDo, you know, brinjal is actually a fruit but is cooked and eaten as vegetable. Brinjal is available all year, but is best in August and September. It offers antioxidants and is low in calories because it's almost 95% water, only 25 calories per serving(3 1/2 oz or 107g). I love the shape and dark purple colour of Brinjal. Of course, it's taste too. <br />I tried this dish with brinjal yesterday and couldn't wait to share with y'all. So, here i am posting two recipes in a week. <br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5026247409057804226" /></a><br /><br />Recipe...<br />Brinjal(Indian Eggplant) - 1/4 Kg; Cut into bite size pieces<br />Medium Onion - 2; Chopped<br />Medium Tomato - 3; Chopped<br />Red chillies - 5-6<br />Oil - 3 tbsp<br />Mustard seeds - 1 tsp<br />Urad dal - 1 tsp<br />Curry leaves - 4-5 leaves<br />Salt to taste<br /><br />Heat oil in a kadai. Add red chillies and fry on medium. Add onion and fry for 2 minutes and then add brinjal, salt. Fry till brinjal gets cooked and then add chopped tomatoes. Fry till the tomato gets mashed and mixes well with the brinjal-onion mix. Let it cool for sometime and then grind to a thick paste. Heat the remaining oil in kadai and toast mustard seeds, urad dal and curry leaves. Add tadka to the chutney. Serve with idli, dosa and rice. <br /><br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5026246545769377714" /></a><br /><br />Facts...<br />Brinjal is also a good source of folic acid, fiber, magnesium, pottasium, vitamin B6; it also has Vitamin C, Niacin, Iron, some protein, and pantothenic acid. <br />It's quite perishable, plan to use them within 4 days after buying them. Store unwrapped in a refrigerator crisper. <br />Choose firm, plump, smooth, smaller eggplant that are light for their size. The heavier, the more seeds; the more seeds, the more bitter.<br />Check out this cool link on <a href=";2007/01/brinjal-vankayakathirikai-chutney.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-4636886552873438150Mon, 29 Jan 2007 14:24:00 +00002007-01-29T12:50:40.264-05:00DessertsLife is uncertain. Eat dessert first...Since this is my first recipe post, i thought why not start with a sweet. Paal therattipaal is a milk sweet made mostly in south india. It is so so good that you cannot stop eating one spoon. My mom makes this sweet during many fiesta's and the container would be emptied within a day. It's an all time favourite in my home since everyone is fond of sweets. Usually it takes one to two hours to make therattipaal based on the quantity of milk. It's really tiresome but the end product is Mmm.. good. Can you believe if i say that we can make this within 10 minutes? Yes, this method of making therattipaal was told by my aunt living in Harrisburg. I visited them on New year's eve and she made this sweet for us within minutes. So, thought of sharing this to you all. Surprise your guests by making this within minutes!!!<br /><br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5025495630867214242" /></a><br />Sweetened Condensed Milk - 1 Can(396 g)<br />Curd - 2 tbsp<br />Ghee - 1 tbsp<br /><br />In a microwave safe container, add condensed milk and curd. Mix well and place in microwave for 3 minutes. Stir in every one minute. Remove the mixture, mix well again adding the ghee and place in microwave for another 3-4 minutes stirring in between until the mixture thickens and gets to a sticky consistency. Make sure you wear microwave safe gloves since the dish would be extremely hot. <br />Let it cool for few minutes and add the nuts of your choice. Serve cool or warm. <br /><br />Note...<br />The time can be reduced to 4 minutes totally based on the power level of the microwave oven. Constant stirring will keep you away from burning the dish.<br />Also, make sure the mixture does not overflow from the container.2007/01/life-is-uncertain-eat-dessert-first.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7729746454725919390.post-9059466822272909696Thu, 25 Jan 2007 19:24:00 +00002007-02-02T15:38:28.813-05:00Aahaarshuddho SattvashuddhiAahaarshuddho Sattvashuddhi<br />Sattvashuddho Dhruvsmriti ....<br />When Aahaar or Food becomes pure, sattva guna increases and when sattva guna increases, the intellect becomes subtle and things begin to look clear....<br /><br />Food and cooking has always been an interest in my life. The inspiration to cook healthy and gourmet food came from my Mom. I have been reading many food blogs for a while and finally decided to start my own food blog. I have to thank my husband who has been insisting me to start this blog. Apart from cooking, one other thing that keeps me occupied is interior designing. I will be posting some interior decorating ideas soon along with the recipes. Please feel free to share your comments.<br /><a href=" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="; border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5027038842681438162" /></a><br /><br />Welcome to Aahaar!!!2007/01/aahaarshuddho-sattvashuddhi.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Aahaar Vihaar)3

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tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593Thu, 01 Oct 2026 09:18:55 +0000book reviewya litarcnetgalleyblog tour stop5 starsindian author4.5schic litblog tourfffollow fridaytell me something tuesdayauthor interviewcoming of agegiveawaynew adultnet-galleysunday-postwowednet galleyreviewbook bloggingimmtop ten readswow2minreviewTBR PILE READING CHALLENGEanna and the french kissbest book everblogbook blogbookishnessexcerptfree daygraffiti moonlauren destefanolifelit ficpoetrysummer readin2.520112012201824hrsYa fictionadeleamericaamy joyattachmentsaudio book reviewawwbhattacharyablogaddabook releasebook-to-moviecath crowleychallengecourtney summersdeath cabdesi boydisreputable history of frankie landau bankse-books vs paper bookse. lockhartereadingfall for anythingfave book couplesfavouritesfirst-readsguest posthalflingshappy new yearharbartharpercollinsharry potterheaderheather burchibooksjennifer donnellyjenny downhamjudy balankarankaran purilistlola and the boy next doorlovehate and hubrismakeovermandatory first postmgmusicnabarunpromopuriramblingrandomrawread-alongreading as a hobbyreading challenge 2012reincarnationrevolutionsayersspinstephanie perkinsstephenie perkinsswati kaushaltaylor swifttbrtbr pilethe academiethe scripttranslated workvalentines daywitherOn books!I read, therefore I am.noreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)Blogger179125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-6085133917182774170Sat, 24 Feb 2018 20:02:00 +00002020-05-09T12:45:36.518-07:0020185 starsReview: The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="267" height="320" src="; width="213" /></a></div> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publication date: </b>September 13th, 2016</div> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publisher</b>: HarperOne</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads </a>| <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon India</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon US</a></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Stars: </b>5/5</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Source: </b>Purchased</div> <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(11, 83, 148); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"><span id="freeText4132211334451263034"><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;">In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.<br /><br />For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Mason doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. </span><em><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;">The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k</span></em><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;"> is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.<br /><br />Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.<br /><br />There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, </span><em><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;">The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k</span></em><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;"> is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.</span></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: small;">  </span><a data-text-id="4132211334451263034" href="; </div> </blockquote> </div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b><br /> </b></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b>REVIEW</b></div> <b><br /> </b> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> This book is addictive, no - it is like that kid in school you wanted to be but would not openly associate with. We're talking about the kid who would bluntly echo all of the things you wanted to say, but were too afraid to even think, out loud. Or that teacher you loved to hate, who didn't bother pretending to be on your side ("you're not special, and no, your problems are never going away"); but who actually <i>was </i>on your side, as she grounded you and cut through, rather than worked around your bullshit.</div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> I'm wary of self-help literature and its contribution to "pop" psychology. This book though, is a wonderful piece of experiential wisdom. It utilizes the inception of solid psychological (drawing inspiration from the seeds of terror management theory) and philosophical gems, and <i>combats </i>more sensationalized, misinterpreted assumptions emblazoned in self-help literature (like self-esteem being the motivator to great performance (not really, not when all it breeds is entitlement), or "positive thinking" being the end-game, rather than <i>working through </i>the negative to emerge at the positive). It was the fire I needed to quit settling, and remember what excited, and energized me; over what I end up doing to "get by". </div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> Read it, if you are at the crux of some major life decisions, or you are running out of reasons to keep doing what you are doing. <i>The Subtle Art </i>does not pretend to give you any concrete suggestions, but it is that tequila shot you need to relieve you of the debilitating anxiety that near-cripples you, and get you dancing towards a much larger, much more important purpose.</div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #20124d; font-size: large;"><u><b>Rating:</b></u><b> ★★★★</b><b>★</b></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> </div> </div> </div> 2018/02/review-subtle-art-of-not-giving-fck.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-839109003620069881Tue, 14 Feb 2017 18:39:00 +00002017-02-14T10:39:38.271-08:00book blogginglifereading as a hobbyvalentines dayBreaking Out of the Reading Slump<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> When I first started this blog I posted once a week, and then slowly, I got posting every other day. I found other blogs to hop over to, hosted giveaways and started receiving Advanced Review Copies. Blogging became part of my routine, and reading truly felt like breathing.<br /> <br /> "What are you reading?" you could ask me, at any point of the day and during any season of the year. I would have one or two titles at the tip of my tongue. Book boyfriends, quirky protagonists and the fictional plot twists were as much a part of my day as what I was learning at my internship or texts from the guy I was crushing on. As Rainbow Rowell phrased it in <i>Fangirl</i>: "reality was something happening in my [her] peripheral vision."<br /> <br /> <b>The Slump</b><br /> <br /> Then, one day. I got busy with my master's thesis and GRE preparation. I was pouring over journals and the books on my to-read list remained on my to-read list. I went to a book fair, and bought more than I needed. The books piled on top of each other, but I never read them. Much depended on my final project grade, and giving myself fully to that experience.<br /> <br /> I took a year off after my master's. I bought more books:  horror, romance, non-fiction, and literary fiction.They sat pretty in my bookshelf, as I worked two part-time jobs. I crossed paths with people who were anything but cardboard cut-outs. As I navigated through real-life plot twists, I started several books. Sometimes, I'd take them with me to places, but I'd lose my bookmark or forget the crux of the plot.<br /> <br /> Then <i>Harry Potter and the Cursed Child </i>came out, and I was hooked for a couple of hours. It was a rush of nostalgia and adrenaline, even if it was not perfect. I appreciated the fresh perspective Albus gave us of the Slytherin dungeons, and was finally convinced by the rationale for love over power.<br /> <br /> I joined grad school for the second time, this time in California. Choosing <i>five</i> of my favorite books of all time to take with me to a whole other continent drove me crazy. My five most treasured paperbacks sat tall in my new university apartment. My first semester was a blur, with zero non-academic books read by the end of it.<br /> <br /> <b>The Slow Burn</b><br /> <br /> In November, I subscribed to the Book of the Month club. I started reading <i>The Sun is Also a Star </i>by Nicola Yoon. It had everything I appreciated about a young adult book: well fleshed-out characters, layers, the pulse of a busy city and the intricacies of the universe. I took the book with me everywhere: to train stations, to my study table, to coffee shops and even to Universal Studios, Hollywood. But I did not make it past two pages at a time - as urgent phone calls, fast-diminishing lines to rollercoasters, deadlines and the lurch of a new life often caused me to snap it back shut.<br /> <br /> The few pages I read though, it integrated with my day. When I drank too much coffee, the protagonist Natasha felt vivider in my head. When Natasha argued for science, I thought about it while reading about the subjectivity of many objective research methods.<br /> <br /> <b>Breaking Out of the Slump</b><br /> <br /> Then, last night, I burned through the last forty pages. It all came together and floored me the way a good book hadn't in a long time. I let it seep into my heart, rooting for people and places and contexts outside of me in a way that always cleansed my soul. Reality was back in my peripheral vision, my hypersensitivity to it and anxiety about it fading into the background.<br /> <br /> I felt closure when I hit the end. It was similar to the satisfaction I felt when I got a good grade, the elevation I felt when I saw something selflessly adorable or the peak I got to when I focused. Only this was something I had always had, until somehow, one day I didn't anymore. <br /> <br /> It felt like coming home.<br /> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="249" src="; width="320" /></a></div> </div> 2017/02/breaking-out-of-reading-slump.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-3889411206302654136Sun, 13 Dec 2015 14:48:00 +00002015-12-13T06:48:42.424-08:00book reviewindian authorya litReview: When Our Worlds Collide by Aniesha Brahma<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="; width="211" /></a><br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publication date: </b>October 30th, 2015</div> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publisher</b>: General Press</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads </a>| <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon India</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon US</a></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Stars: </b>4/5</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Source: </b>Review copy<span style="text-align: center;"> </span></div> <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(11, 83, 148); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Akriti has led a pretty much sheltered life. <br /> Zayn has been shuttled from city to city when he was growing up. <br /> She is comfortable watching her life from the sidelines. <br /> He wants to feel rooted to a place he can call ‘home’. <br /> They meet each other quite by chance. <br /> And both seize the chance to be someone they both need in their lives: <br /> For Zayn, it’s a 'Partner-In-Crime'. <br /> For Akriti, someone who just knows how to be there for her… <br /> When their worlds collide, <br /> It is not what either of them expected it to be. <br /> Zayn has a steady girlfriend. And Akriti has a crush on him. <br /> What happens when these two become friends? <br /> The biggest adventure of their lives? Or the road to heartbreak? <br /> What happens when two completely different people collide? <br /> Do they become friends? Or, is their friendship doomed from the start? <br /> 'When Our Worlds Collide' is the story of two twenty-three-year olds, Who are finally growing up and finding their feet in the world. <br /> A tale of friendship and love, crushes and betrayals, messes and second chances, <br /> Marriage and divorce… and the elusive happily ever after! </span></div> </div> </blockquote> </div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b><br /> </b></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b>REVIEW</b></div> <b><br /> </b> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> I remember reading Aniesha Brahma’s debut. It was a colourful and well written novel, though a little rough around the edges. While reading her latest novella <i>When Our Worlds Collide</i>, I couldn't help but notice how far she’d come along as a writer. The dialogue flowed smoothly and the humour was subtle but made me laugh out loud. I read it without stopping for a break, and cried so much towards the end.</div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <i>When Our Worlds Collide</i> is the story of Akriti, a twenty something girl managing her mother’s café in Kolkata. She was a wallflower in school and college, preferring not to let her guard down. Her family situation was complicated, and she preferred having no friends to letting people into her life. Fast forward a few years, and she’s still as much of a misfit. The only person she talks to is her co-worker Ayoub. Then she re-connects with Zayn, a boy she once almost spoke to in school through his girlfriend Nimmi, a girl she’d reluctantly been friends with at one point. Their worlds collide, and Akriti finds herself crushing on someone whom she knows is taken.</div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> The novella is packed with sweet, teary and some surprisingly real moments. It does not take the easy way out; loose ends aren't tied together with a frilly pink ribbon. Akriti’s at a phase of her life a lot of people in their twenties will be able to relate to. She has dreams, but hasn’t yet realised them. She has hope, but is too scared to pin it on anything. She’s too young to be defined by her past, and yet it isn’t something she can neglect. She’s transitioning, and every step she takes in any direction opens up so many possibilities. There’s freedom and then there’s responsibility weighing in on the consequences of every “free-willed” choice.</div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> </div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> The author does a great job exploring these conflicts. She’s not afraid to have things take a raw turn, allowing the protagonist to grow in a more than superficial way. There’s more than enough quirk in it too. Poetry slams play a huge role in the story, but in a different way compared to Colleen Hoover’s <i>Slammed.</i> I could feel myself rooting for this girl, and I found the not-so-clichéd ending satisfying. <i>When Our Worlds Collide </i>is as much a story about personal responsibility as it is a story about a “hopeless” crush. I found that refreshing, as it was something I could relate to. </div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #20124d; font-size: x-large;"><b><u>Rating:</u> ★★★★☆</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <br /><b>A post-script on the novella's cover design: </b>If there was one thing that bugged me a little bit, it was the cover. The cover could've been so much more representative of Akriti and Zayn or Akriti's life, or even just...<i>Indian</i>. Hopefully, future editions come up with a design that is more true to the book and the ethnicity of the main characters.</div> </div> </div> 2015/12/review-when-our-worlds-collide-by.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-643364673768780783Mon, 06 Apr 2015 09:38:00 +00002015-04-06T02:38:38.745-07:00book reviewya litMini Review: Mind Static by Jen Naumann<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="; height="320" width="215" /></a></div> <b>Publication date: </b>August, 2013</div> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publisher</b>: At or With Me Publishing</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon US</a> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Stars: </b>3/5</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Source: </b>Review copy<span style="text-align: center;"> </span></div> <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(11, 83, 148); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"><br /> Keyanna Sanders is about to get everything she could ever wish for on her 18th birthday: a hot guy who’s really into her, the sports car she’s always dreamed of owning, and the party of a lifetime that no one will forget any time soon.<br /> <br /> But before long, she’ll understand these wishes are more than a coincidence, and that they come at a steep price. Keyanna is more than just an average high school senior, her best friend is more than the innocent boy next door, and her sudden good fortune isn’t just by chance. When her estranged father suddenly re-enters her life, she’ll have to decide who to trust, and whether or not the man she loves has become the enemy. </span></div> </div> </blockquote> </div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b><br /> </b></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b>REVIEW</b></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> This has got to be the most bizarre book I've ever read. It starts, well, <i>truly </i>starts, the day Keyanna Sanders turns eighteen and everything she wishes comes true. In the beginning, it's mildly amusing and seems coincidental, but soon, it's clear that something has changed. What follows is this completely crazy sequence of events that feels as rapid as the blink of an eye. Seriously, every time I'd get used to something, there would be a twist and <i>bam</i>- completely different turn of events!</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> I loved how unpredictable and fun the characters were: whether it was Lock-the token hot British guy who kept me guessing-, Dallas, Keyanna's mother, her father, her best friend Nora or Dominic, I either loved to hate them or flat out liked them. There's no one I could take completely seriously, as everything we know about them is consistently put to test, but they were so <i>exciting </i>and fun. I was constantly guessing their motives and true intentions!</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> This is the kind of book that can be taken only at face value, but is nevertheless so entertaining, I didn't <i>need </i>to dig deeper. </div> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #20124d; font-size: x-large;"><b><u>Rating: </u></b>★★★☆☆</span></div> </div> 2015/04/mini-review-mind-static-by-jen-naumann.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-5714629094549306397Wed, 28 Jan 2015 06:47:00 +00002015-01-27T22:55:03.145-08:00book reviewya litReview: Enter the Bluebird by Brendan Halpin<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="; height="320" width="207" /></a><br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publication date: </b>September 28th, 2013</div> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publisher</b>: Peter Parley Publishing</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon US</a> </div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Stars: </b>4/5</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Source: </b>Review copy<span style="text-align: center;"> </span></div> <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(11, 83, 148); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <div> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Enter the Bluebird is the story of Julie Rouge, who's nearly 16 and can't wait to join her mother, the masked crimefighter Red Talon, patrolling the crime-ridden streets of New Edinburgh. </span></div> <br /> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"></span> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Unfortunately, Julie's mom has disappeared, and, while searching for her, Julie is going to discover that the city she calls home is even nastier, more corrupt, and riddled with toxic secrets than she ever knew.</span></span> </div> </div> <br /> <br /> Enter the Bluebird is a noir YA superhero novel about secrets and betrayal and violence and love.</blockquote> <b><br /> </b> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b><b>REVIEW</b></b></div> <b> </b> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <i>Enter the Bluebird </i>tells the story of Julie Rouge, the daughter of meta human Sonia Rouge who is also known as the Red Talon. The Red Talon loses her life fighting street crime in the city of New Edinburgh. Julie is left with a costume for her new avatar: The Bluebird, which kicks off her thirst for justice and revenge. In the process, she confronts the reality of the city she grew up in and the ghosts of her mother's past.</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> The only other Brandon Halpin book I've read before this is <i>A Really Awesome Mess</i> but the two books don't have much in common. <i>Enter the Bluebird</i> has no room for cutesy; it's darker and grittier than your average YA book. The world building is crazy amazing: with the Syndicate: the nucleus of corruption, Snake Oil: an addictive drug and agent of evil, the Legion of Freedom, the layout and atmosphere of New Edinburgh and the world outside it. All of my senses were enraptured by this world that could easily double as a comic-bookverse. </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> It's a coming of age/origin story that is far more real than any superhero story I've ever seen. Julie has the ability to fly, and in her determination to rid New Edinburgh of corruption there's a fair amount of window-breaking, fires and angsty moments by the cemetery. More than this, though, the book confronts other harsher realities: namely, the people Julie/The Bluebird rescues, who don't necessarily find her superhero stunts amazing; not from where they're standing.</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq" style="text-align: justify;"> "Are you kidding me?" Kendra said. "Now I get to spend the rest of the night picking glass slivers off the beds. And then I have to go out to fill a form in triplicate and hope the housing authority fixes the window before winter comes. What happens the next time it rains? What happens if the piece of glass gets in my little brother's eye? Did you think about that?"<br /> "No," The Bluebird said. "I only thought about the person who was screaming and trying to help her. I didn't know she was too stupid to know that she needed help."<br /> "You're the stupid one. You're dumber than your costume. You think you know things, but you don't know anything. You think the solution to every problem is to kick somebody-"<br /> (...)<br /> "Fine," Julie said. She tried to find The Bluebird inside her somewhere, but she could only find little hurt Julie...</blockquote> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> I found Kendra and her little brother refreshing. They made the story all the more gripping, and showed that yes, fighting evil isn't as easy as a well placed punch. In fact, Halpin does not simplify any of the broader issues the world of <i>Enter the Bluebird </i>is filled with. He is unafraid to expose Julie to hurt, heart wrenching grief, people who have more than two dimensions and danger that strikes from more than one direction and never conveniently works in her favour.</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> As Julie struggles to pick up the pieces, make sense of her mother's death and gets infatuated with the Mayor's son, The Bluebird carries the weight of the city and<b> </b>falls more than once.<i> Enter The Bluebird </i>is, from start till end, a vividly written YA noir that I couldn't get enough of.<br /> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: center;"> <b><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: x-large;"><u>Rating:</u> ★★★★</span></b><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: x-large;"><b>☆</b></span></div> </div> 2015/01/review-enter-bluebird-by-brendan-halpin.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-561892515410444434Mon, 19 Jan 2015 06:15:00 +00002015-01-18T22:25:33.847-08:00audio book reviewnew adultAudiobook Review: Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="text-align: center;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="; /></a></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publication date: </b>August 5th, 2014</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Publisher</b>: Simon & Schuster Audio</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Reado</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Simon & Schuster</a></div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Stars: </b>2/5</div> <div style="text-align: left;"> <b>Source: </b><a href="; <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(204, 0, 0); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">When Tate Collins meets airline pilot Miles Archer, she knows it isn’t love at first sight. They wouldn’t even go so far as to consider themselves friends. The only thing Tate and Miles have in common is an undeniable mutual attraction. Once their desires are out in the open, they realize they have the perfect set-up. He doesn’t want love, she doesn’t have time for love, so that just leaves the sex. Their arrangement could be surprisingly seamless, as long as Tate can stick to the only two rules Miles has for her.</span></div> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"> <span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"></span></span> <br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Never ask about the past.<br /> Don’t expect a future.<br /> <br /> They think they can handle it, but realize almost immediately they can’t handle it at all.<br /><br /> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Promises get broken.</span></span></span></span></div> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"></span></span><br /> <div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Rules get shattered.</span></span></div> <span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"><div style="text-align: left;"> Love gets ugly.</div> </span></span></blockquote> <div> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b>REVIEW</b></span></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> This is a really difficult review to write because I love<i> </i>Colleen Hoover. I love how butterflying transformative her writing is; how it turns even the most tired cliches into something wholesome. And yet nothing<i> </i>could pretty up <i>Ugly Love</i>. </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <i>Ugly Love </i>is your classic New Adult redemption story: girl, Tate Collins, who's new to San Francisco meets boy, airplane pilot Miles Archer when he's drunk, huddled outside her brother's apartment door. Right from their first meeting, it's clear that something about his past haunts him; making him renounce love. When the chapters alternate with Miles' point of view, to "six years earlier" when he meets a girl called Rachel in high school, there are no doubts about the "who", just the "how" and "what". </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> Tate and Miles, who's incidentally Tate's brother's best friend, soon embark on a relationship that's plain sex. But between Miles' smoldering gazes, Tate's fervent hope that it turns into something more and all the boundaries that they set only to break, they're not fooling anyone. The alternating perspectives, which shift from present to past, were a welcome relief as I didn't want to spend all of the time on either time period. There's just a lot of build up, characters that are "technically" well developed but don't mesh and poetic prose that falls flat.</div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> This was also my first audio book ever, and "listening" to it might've only accentuated everything I disliked about the narrative structure. Miles' perspective, especially, was filled trite repetitions in his unconditional devotion towards Rachel. It felt empty, as there's nothing we actually know about Rachel other than Miles' idealized and rosy-eyed-to-the-point-of-corny account; half of which I felt like skipping. Tates' perspective felt more Miles' perspective of Tate because I cannot for the life of me get a picture of who she is, despite living inside her head for a good part of the book. </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> The heart of the story is<span style="color: red;"> </span>every bit of the redemption story you're promised: there's confrontation, tragedy and confrontation of tragedy. And yet, as a whole, it felt dissatisfying.  </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> This isn't going to stop me from reading <i>Maybe Someday</i>, the only Colleen Hoover book I haven't read, but <i>Ugly Love</i> flat out<i> </i>didn't work for me.</div> <span style="font-size: x-large;"></span><br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;"><b><u>Rating:</u> </b>★★☆☆☆</span></span></div> <br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <i>This post is sponsored by </i><a href=";, India's largest audio book store, where you get one free audio book on sign up. :) All of the opinions expressed in this post are my own.</i></div> </div> </div> </div> 2015/01/audiobook-review-ugly-love-by-colleen.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Pooja. S)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7301578054809232593.post-8307410439348071255Tue, 04 Nov 2014 05:48:00 +00002015-11-10T18:45:03.968-08:00blog tourbook reviewNovel Publicity Blog Tour Stop; Review: Just Girls by Rachel Gold<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <a href="; imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; display: inline !important; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" height="320" src="; width="208" /></a><b>Publication date: </b>September 23rd, 2014<br /> <b>Publisher</b>: Bella Books<br /> <b>Links:</b> <a href="; target="_blank">Goodreads</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon US</a> | <a href="; target="_blank">Amazon India</a><br /> <b>Stars: </b>4/5<br /> <b>Source: </b>Novel Publicity Blog Tour<br /> <blockquote style="border-bottom-left-radius: 15px; border-bottom-right-radius: 15px; border-top-left-radius: 15px; border-top-right-radius: 15px; border: 2px dashed rgb(204, 0, 0); box-shadow: rgb(204, 204, 204) 0px 5px 15px; padding: 10px;"> <div> <span style="font-family: "georgia" , serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;">Jess Tucker sticks her neck out for a stranger the buzz is someone in the dorm is a trans girl. So Tucker says it s her, even though it s not, to stop the finger pointing. She was an out lesbian in high school, and she figures she can stare down whatever gets thrown her way in college. It can t be that bad. Ella Ramsey is making new friends at Freytag College, playing with on-campus gamers and enjoying her first year, but she s rocked by the sight of a slur painted on someone else s door. A slur clearly meant for her, if they'd only known. New rules, old prejudices, personal courage, private fear. In this stunning follow-up to the groundbreaking Being Emily, Rachel Gold explores the brave, changing landscape where young women try to be <i>Just Girls</i>.</span></div> </blockquote> <div> <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b><br /> </b></span></span> <br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b><b>REVIEW</b></b></span></span></div> <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b> </b></span></span><br /> <div style="text-align: center;"> <br /></div> I read <i>Just Girls </i>by Rachel Gold a month ago, and the earnestness with which it dealt with issues of identity, gender and sexual orientation instantly sucked me in. <br /> <br /> <i>Just Girls</i> tells us the story of Jess Tucker, who sticks up for a transwoman on campus; she doesn’t know who this woman is, just that it’s someone in the dorm. On encountering a bunch of girls who have already started making ignorant remarks about, speculating about the identity of and judging this girl, Tucker says it’s her (“You have anything to say to my face?”). Being an out-of-the-closet lesbian since high school, she figures she can handle it. <br /> <br /> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> “I know I don’t understand viscerally what it means to have gender dysphoria or to have people always questioning who you are, but I do know what it’s like to have people be assholes to you just because of who you are. And I just got really pissed and really afraid for this girl and so I said it was me. That way they’ll direct their bullshit at me and I know I can take it.” (p. 39)</blockquote> <br /> Meanwhile, Ella Ramsey, realizing what had happened and what Tucker did for her, much before they are even acquainted… is shocked and moved.<br /> <br /> What I liked most about <i>Just Girls</i> is that this is by no means where the story begins and ends. Instead, we are introduced to a diverse and wonderfully fleshed out cast of characters. While it would be easy to tag them as “transwoman Ella”, “genderqueer Nico”, “the transphobic Women & Gender Studies Teaching Assistant”, “codependent Lindy”, and so on, there’s much more to them than that. No one is a token member of any community, and their story transcends labels and stereotypes. <br /> <br /> Getting to know Ella, who was born a boy but was on hormone blockers to prevent male characteristics from kicking in during puberty, widened my understanding of what it feels like to be born a gender you do not identify yourself as. It was refreshing how her parents were supportive of the transitioning process and embraced her for who she was. As we get to know Ella as<i> Ella</i> – girly, funny, intelligent and loyal-, the premise of the novel felt stronger and its message truly hit home. <br /> <br /> The issues tackled, whether thinly veiled sexism, transphobia outside and within the LGBTQIA community, where transgenders factor in same sex restrooms, and more, never feel like too much. We are trained to even pay attention to the voices and views of characters whom the others are eager to dismiss as intolerant and prejudicial; as they, too, come from somewhere and it is essential to get to the root of that somewhere.<br /> <br /> Rachel Gold has this amazing ability to integrate feminist theory and debates into the story in a way that feels natural; never feels obscure or out of one’s depth even to beginners. She also does a great job demonstrating that no subculture is free from prejudice, abuse and hatred. At the same time, love, friendship, trust and protection can be garnered from just about anywhere. 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あゝ猫道猫嫌いウン十年、ミルと出逢って猫バカに。人生ってわからないものですね。 Wed, 22 Nov 2023 07:32:21 +0000 ja hourly 1 ひさびさ多頭飼いの猫おばさんちに遊びに行ってきた！ /archives/6733 /archives/6733#respond Tue, 21 Nov 2023 11:15:27 +0000 /?p=6733 ひさびさ猫おばさんちへ。今年1月、猫おばさんの友人宅で捕獲し、おばさんちの子になった『グレッティ』↓↓↓（左から2匹目）生後11か月かな？すっかり大きくなって、こたつで皆とお昼寝。触れないことはないけど、触るとすぐに ... ]]> ひさびさ猫おばさんちへ。今年1月、猫おばさんの友人宅で捕獲し、おばさんちの子になった『グレッティ』↓↓↓（左から2匹目）生後11か月かな？すっかり大きくなって、こたつで皆とお昼寝。触れないことはないけど、触るとすぐに身を引いて嫌がる。「あなた、子猫の時、膝に乗ってきてたの覚えてないのー」そうそう、まだらちゃんこと『ティー子』やっぱり猫慣れはしてても、人慣れはしてなくて、どうしても触らせてくれない。手を伸ばすとこたつから出て、縁側に逃げていってしまった。おばさんもえさを食べている時に、後ろからお尻触るくらいだって。「ティー子、いつか少しでいいから触らせてよね！」と言うことで、最後に……. 猫おばさんちは現在、グレッティを入れて総勢9匹です！ ]]> /archives/6733/feed 0 【動画追加】猫おばさんから「子猫保護しました」の連絡が！ /archives/6710 /archives/6710#comments Wed, 17 May 2023 14:16:22 +0000 /?p=6710 1月某日早朝、猫おばさんからLINEが「子猫保護しました、うちに居ます」子猫とは猫おばさんの友人宅に居ついた子猫のことで、それより少し前に、画像が送られてきていた。保護出来たんだ！と早速猫おばさん宅へ ... ]]> 1月某日早朝、猫おばさんからLINEが「子猫保護しました、うちに居ます」子猫とは猫おばさんの友人宅に居ついた子猫のことで、それより少し前に、画像が送られてきていた。保護出来たんだ！と早速猫おばさん宅へGO！上の画像右の白地に薄グレーのハチワレ。性別は男の子。（左の子は、捕獲前日に行方不明に・・・・）先住猫ともすでに馴染んでるｗおちびの里親を募集していたのだけど、なかなか見つからず月日は過ぎていき・・・・ある日、猫おばさんに訊いてみた。「おちびちゃん、もしかして名前つけたとか？」「うん、つけたよ、グレッティ」つけたんかい！！しかもグレッティ！！あ、やっぱりおばさんちの子になるのね（9匹目）そしていつもながら、個性的な名前ｗ少し前にも見に行ったけど、すっかりグレッティは猫おばさんちの子になっていたのであった。 SNOWで撮影しちゃったから白飛びしてるけど、薄いグレーの部分がすこーーし濃くなっていた。きっともっと濃いグレーになるんだろうな。グレッティったら、触ることは出来たけど抱っこはさせてくれないの。そうそう、まだらちゃんことティー子！猫慣れはすぐにしたけど、相変わらず人慣れはしていなくて・・・「いつか触らせてね、まだらちゃん」そんなこんなで、猫おばさんちに9匹目の猫が加わったのであった。また遊びに行ってこよう。 ※YouTubeに動画アップしました。 ]]> /archives/6710/feed 2 【愛猫ミルの三回忌】ペットロス症候群は続くよどこまでも /archives/6697 /archives/6697#respond Fri, 24 Feb 2023 06:24:58 +0000 /?p=6697 記事にするのが2か月も遅くなってしまった……. 2022年12月23日は、ミルの三回忌。 2年経ったわけだけど、私からしたら「まだ2年？」それほどミルの不在を長く感じている。この2年はほんといろ ... ]]> 記事にするのが2か月も遅くなってしまった……. 2022年12月23日は、ミルの三回忌。 2年経ったわけだけど、私からしたら「まだ2年？」それほどミルの不在を長く感じている。この2年はほんといろいろな事があった。ミルが居ない事に絶望しながらも進めた、調停の準備。つらかった。ほんとつらかった。今はというと、たまに悲しみの発作に襲われ、ミルが居ないという現実に、これまた絶望しかけることも。なので、そこからは目を背けているかも。この悲しみは一生続くかも知れないし、どこか直地点を見つけるかも知れない。こればっかりは、自然に任せるしかないなと思っている。 ]]> /archives/6697/feed 0 後編【新事実発覚】脳炎でない？！ペットの医療過誤で民事調停申し立て中止 /archives/6640 /archives/6640#comments Tue, 11 Oct 2022 11:05:56 +0000 /?p=6640 はじめに前回、前の動物病院を民事調停に掛けるべく、その申し立ての直前までの経緯を書いた。 2018年ミルの不調が出始めてから、2019年8月に歩けなくなるまで一貫して『老化』と言い続けた獣医。もっと早く ... ]]> はじめに前回、前の動物病院を民事調停に掛けるべく、その申し立ての直前までの経緯を書いた。 2022年7月18日前編【新事実発覚】老猫の医療過誤？で民事調停の準備をするまでの経緯 2018年ミルの不調が出始めてから、2019年8月に歩けなくなるまで一貫して『老化』と言い続けた獣医。もっと早く診断し治療に入れれば、悪化させることはなかったのではないか。それに加え暴言を吐かれた事が許せなかった。 2つの動物病院にカルテ開示を請求したが、セカオピの病院では開示をしぶられ時間がかかり、やっと申立書を出そう！と思ったが、その前に第三者に見解を聞いた方が良いのではないかと、すでに死去してこの世に居ないペットの相談が出来る病院やサイトを探した。そして見つけた某獣医師会の電話無料相談。そこで予想外の新事実発覚！！ [※やっと本題に入ります。諸事情あり後編を書けずに時間が過ぎてしまい、大変申し訳ありませんでした。] 某獣医師会の無料電話相談脳炎ではない？！某獣医師会の電話無料相談を見つけた。相談は週1日、水曜日のみ。時間も2時間のみ。見つけた翌日が水曜日だった為、すぐに相談する事が来た。電話口に出たのは女性。受付の方かな？と思ったが女性の獣医だった。今迄の経緯を話し、見解を訊いてみた。耳から脳へ炎症が広がることはあるのか、もっと早く治療を始めていたら、治ることはなくても軽い状態で済んでいたのではないか、と。すると、開口一番こう言った。「耳から炎症が広がったとは思えないですね。」え？！！耳から脳へ炎症が広がったとは考えにくい「まず、耳から脳へ炎症が広がったとしたら、飼い主がきづかないはずがないです。耳は汚れていましたか？」と訊かれた。「蛇行歩行をし始めた頃ですか？汚れていません。症状が進んでからは、汚れていたことはあります」「そもそも耳から炎症が脳へ広がることは無くは無いですけど珍しいです。野良猫で治療が出来ないような猫なら、炎症が進んでしまって脳へ広がることもあるかも知れませんが、飼い猫で脳へ進むほどの炎症なら、その前に飼い主が気付くはずです」そう言われればそうだ。ミルが2018年初め、蛇行歩行をしだした時、ミルの耳は汚れていなかった。症状が進んで寝たきりになる少し前、耳の毛にべたっと茶色っぽい物が付くようになって、前の動物病院で診察の時に掃除して貰ったことはある。その後少ししてセカオピした時にも、まだ少し汚れていると言われ、再度掃除してもらっている。でも臭いなんてなかったし、その電話口の獣医が言うようにダラダラ耳だれもしていなかった。「そんな・・・・」じゃあ、レントゲンは？！セカオピで脳のレントゲンを撮ったら、耳の骨に炎症の跡のような物が写っていると言われたけど、それは何？！「内耳の状態はレントゲンではわかりづらいんですよね、CTやMRIでないと」「え・・・・」そう言われてみると、貰ったレントゲン写真を観てみても、どこに炎症の跡があるのかわからない。パソコン画面で見ているからかな？と思っていた。じゃあ、脳炎でなければ何なの？？「血管が切れて小脳障害が起きてたと考えた方が自然です」え？！！血管？！！血管が切れたことでの小脳障害蛇行歩行から始まったミルの症状は何かというと【小脳障害】これは確かなようだ。前の病院の獣医も「加齢でバランスを取る小脳の働きが悪くなっている」としきりに言っていた。電話口の女性獣医によると、小脳変性から小脳障害が起こっているが、原因は脳梗塞や血管が切れることで起こるのだと。切れた血管が太いか細いか、位置による（障害の出方が違う？）再疎通があったり、周りの血管が補ったりすると、復活することもある。だが、その後また、他の血管が切れてを繰り返す。一旦良くなっと思ったら、気圧の影響で再び切れてしまうことも。ミルの症状からまとめると蛇行歩行から寝たきりになるまで1年半かかっているのを考えると…… 脳の血管が切れ、蛇行歩行に ↓ 再疎通することなく、追加で細い血管が切れたのではないかということだった。そして電話口の女性獣医は続けた「むしろ、血管が切れるまで長く生きられたということですよ」これが泣かずにいられようか。（今も書きながら泣いている）さらに、こうも言われた。「寝たきりになってからも1年3ヶ月も生きられたのは、内蔵、消化器が丈夫だったから（心臓も）」号泣しそうになるのをぐっと堪える。ミルは脳炎というより、血管が切れたことによる『小脳障害』の可能性が高いということはわかった。ならば…..一番の問題点を質問してみた。早く治療すれば直ったのか最後に一番肝心な問題について質問した。それは、蛇行歩行が始まってすぐに診断されて、すぐに治療に入っていれば、完治とまではいかずとも、症状が改善され、寝たきりにまで進行することはなかったのではないか、という事。蛇行歩行だけでは診断は難しい脳の病気はいずれにしても、ステロイド＋抗生剤（腫れ等を抑える）蛇行の時点で治療を初めても、治るということはない再疎通があるかどうかで、それは自然の成り行き「そんなぁ・・・じゃあどうする事も出来なかったってことなんですか…..」毎日死にたかった大事に大事に大事に育ててきたミル猫を飼うのが初めての私は、猫は高齢になると腎臓病を患う確率が高くなると知り、腎臓に対してはとても気を付けた。 7歳からは毎年腎臓の検査を欠かさなかった。フードも腎臓対応の高齢用に替えた。少し数値が基準値から外れた時、SDMA検査（早期発見出来るとされる検査）もした。フードも速攻療法食に替えた。肝臓が一時期悪かった時、こんなに大切に育ててきて、なんで？と泣いた。それも一時的で、その後ミルはどこも悪くなく、16歳と高齢なのに毎晩大運動会をするほど老いを感じさせなかった。それなのに……. 最後の3年、ミルにあんな思いをさせてしまったのは、私のせいだ。もっと早くセカオピしていれば、もっと早く治療していれば、完治はせずとも、寝たきりは避けられたのではないか。私はミルにどう償えばいいのミルが亡くなってからずっと、「毎日毎日死にたかった」調停だって本当はしたくない。でもこれをしないと進めない。その先に何があるのかどんな変化があるのか、はたまたなくて、死にたい思いはずっと続くのか。そんなのはわからないが、ミルと私がその後どうなったのか、どうしても前の獣医に知らせたかったのだ。ミルに暴言を吐いたことを謝罪させたかったのだ。電話相談の後電話の最後に、相談に乗って下さった獣医さんに名前を訊ねた。もし今後猫と暮らす事があった場合、地元の動物病院で納得した診断が得られなかったら、この獣医さんに診てもらいたいと思ったから。だが、匿名で受けている為、「〇〇〇市の獣医」としか言えないと言われた。実際に診察して答えているのでなく、相談者の話を総合して判断しているのだから、それは仕方がない。私の変化はというと…..電話を切り、ミルの骨壺を抱きしめ泣き叫んだ。そしてやっとミルに心から「本当によく頑張ったね」と言ってやることが出来た。それと同時に、心の重しがすっと軽くなったのを感じた。あれから4か月。ミルを失った悲しみや、こうしてやれば良かったという後悔や、それとは逆にこれはやめてあげれば良かったという後悔は消えることなくあるが、それまでとは全然違っているのは間違いない。今言えるのは、獣医との出会いは運。納得がいかない時は言うまでもなく、病気や症状の重さによっては、セカンドオピニオンだけではなく、サードオピニオンも視野に入れた方がいい、ということだ。もし、この女性獣医に出会っていなかったら、今もそしてこの先も一生、私は苦しみ続けていただろう。想像しただけで恐ろしい…… ［※後編のアップがかなり遅くなってしまいましたが、読んで下さりありがとうございました］ ]]> /archives/6640/feed 6 前編【新事実発覚】老猫の医療過誤？で民事調停の準備をするまでの経緯 /archives/6578 /archives/6578#comments Mon, 18 Jul 2022 11:11:13 +0000 /?p=6578 はじめに ※記録としてなので細かく書いています。不快な方は閉じてください。ミルが亡くなって約1年と半年。6月8日新事実が発覚した。それについて書くには、それまでの経緯を書く必要がある。だが【医療過誤】や【民事調停】と ... ]]> はじめに ※記録としてなので細かく書いています。不快な方は閉じてください。ミルが亡くなって約1年と半年。6月8日新事実が発覚した。それについて書くには、それまでの経緯を書く必要がある。だが【医療過誤】や【民事調停】と言った話なので、内容的に書いていいものか迷った。（以前Twitterでほんの触りをつぶやいた際、やりとりすらしていない獣医にブロックされたこともあり）読んで不快に思う人もいるだろうから。だが、新事実を報告するには避けて通れないし、ここは無料のブログサービスでもなく、私が所有するブログなので書くことにした。それにこの件に関しては、全てが終わったら書こうと思っていたから。私の罪昨年12月、ミルの一周忌前に書いた記事で、「命には限りがある、ミルだけが不老不死なわけない、そう気づいたら気持ちが少し楽になった」と書いた。 2021年12月20日【ペットロス】最愛の猫ミルを亡くしてからの変化それは嘘ではないし、（その時点では）ミルの死を受け入れることは出来た。だがそれとは別に、私はずっと【自責の念】に苛まれていた。ミルが亡くなってから、いや、脳炎（の可能性が高いでしょう）と診断された時からずっと、どうしてもっと早くセカオピしなかったんだ。セカオピして治療を早く始めていれば、治っていたかも知れない、と….. その自責の念は死後強いものとなっていた。ミルに異変が出てからの経緯（※記憶を頼りに書いている部分があるので、細かいところで違っているかも知れませんご容赦を）替わったばかりの動物病院での診断 2018年3月辺りから、ミルは蛇行して歩くようになった。真っすぐにではなく左右に蛇行するのだ。おかしい…… すぐに気づき、当時長年通った動物病院から替えた病院の診察時に話すも、老化で小脳が衰え、バランス感覚が悪くなっていると言われた。猫を初めて飼う私は、歳を取るとそんな症状も出てくるのか、、と思った。そのうち片側（左）に頭を傾けるようになる。ブログのコメントで「斜頸ですよ」と言われた通り、それは斜頸という症状でやはり老化現象だと言う。足の先を内側に曲げた状態で、歩き方もゆっくり、斜めになって足を滑らせて歩くようになり、トイレでも用を足せなくなり（トイレに辿り着けない）廊下や台所などあちこちで粗相するようになった。目も瞳孔が開き、どこかうつろでどこを見ているのかもわからない。徘徊をしてはごみ箱に前足を突っ込んだり、部屋の隅で方向転換も出来なくなっていった。それでも老化だと言われた。どんどん体を動かせなくなり、支えてやらないと歩けなくなった頃、ミルの首の後ろがこわばったように、顔を上に向けるようになった。後ろにひっぱられてる感じ。診てもらったら「どうしてなのかわからない、上が見たいんでしょ。枕でもかってやったら」そう言われた。何それ……わからないくせにそんな言い方ある？その時一気に不信へと変わった。これはただ事ではない。老化なんかでこんな症状が出るわけがない。もうその頃は、立ち上がることも出来ず、そこでやっと転院したのだセカンドオピニオンの病院へ転院セカンドオピニオンで受診した動物病院は、いつも混んでいて遠くからも患者が訪れるという動物病院。診察台にミルを寝させるやいなや、「脳の症状だね」後ろに首を反らすのは「後弓反張」と言って脳からくる症状と言われた。典型的な症状らしく、なぜそれが前の病院でわからなかったのか！…… ウイルス検査、血液検査、レントゲン検査をしたところ、耳の骨にうっすら炎症の跡があるという。その時ミルの耳も汚れていた。前の病院で耳の掃除をしてもらったばかりなのに。私が耳の炎症が脳に広がったということはないかと訊くと、その可能性はあるかも。最初左に傾いていたのは、左耳が炎症を起こしていて、その後どちらも傾くとなったのは、両耳に広がったのではないか、と言った。とはいえ、原因はMRIを撮らないと特定出来ない。脳腫瘍の可能性もある、とのことだった。処方されたのは、ステロイドと抗生物質。炎症を抑えるステロイドと、免疫力が落ちるので感染予防と、細菌性の脳炎かも知れないので、抗生部物質は必須。原因を特定は出来ないけれど、ミルは脳炎と言うことで治療は進んでいった。許せない…….. 蛇行歩行の時点で治療すれば、耳だけの炎症で治まったのではないか。ミルをこんな苦しい目に合わせることもなかったのではないか。前の獣医を許せない！だけど、今はミルの治療が優先。とにかく症状を緩和させる為、治療に専念した。ミルが生きているうちは…. そしてミルは蛇行歩行してから寝たきりになるまで約1年半。寝たきりになってから約1年3ヶ月。症状が出だしてから約3年、長い闘病の末、天国へ旅立った。医療過誤で民事調停へ転院した後、ミルと私がどうなったのか、どうしても前の獣医に知らせたい。早く治療に入れば、ミルは寝たきりになることもなく、今も生きていたのではないか。どうしてもその気持ちがぬぐえずにいた。例えそれが無理でも、「上が見たいんじゃない？」なんて言い方、獣医としてひどくないか。その2点を伝え謝罪を要求したい。弁護士に相談ミルが亡くなって約3か月後の2021年3月、弁護士に相談。動物病院に電話をして、口頭で伝え謝罪を求めることは容易だが、それでは只いちゃもんを付けてるだけ、営業妨害と取られかねない。だから私は正当な権利を使いたかったのだ。民事調停か民事裁判か。弁護士に何をしたいのか、何を要求したいのか訊かれ「その後のことを伝えることと謝罪」と答えた。それならば、民事調停をするといいと言われた。裁判は勝ち負けを決めるだけ、謝罪はしてもらえない。それならば、同じく申請する時に請求額を決めなくてはならないが、調停で話し合いをした方がいい。調停ならば弁護士も必要なく、あなた一人でも出来るのでと。問題の動物病院へカルテ開示請求まずは問題の前の動物病院へカルテ開示請求の電話をする。すると受付から獣医に電話を替わり、なぜ必要か訊かれる。その質問される想定をしていなかったので、口ごもっていると「持っていたいのかな？」と訊かれたので「はい」と答える。そして次にこう訊かれた。「ミルちゃんはどうしましたか？」ここで「脳炎だった」とは言わず「昨年12月に亡くなりました」とだけ伝えた。獣医もただならぬ気配は感じていて「そうですか・・」とだけ言った。「郵便で送りましょうか」と言われ、てっきり取りに行き、獣医と対面しなくてはならないと思っていたので、ほっとした。そしてカルテは翌々日には届いた。緊張しながら開けてみると、受診した日付と処方した薬剤名しか載っていない。あと会計の明細もお願いしたので、そこに付け足してあった。これだけ？人間のカルテと大違いで、これじゃあ治療の経過がわからないではないか、と思ったが、薬剤名から脳炎の治療はされてないのはわかる。転院した動物病院へカルテ開示請求セカオピ後亡くなるまで診てもらった動物病院へは、なかなかかけることが出来ずいたが、2021年4月半ば、意を決して電話したら、やはりどうしてカルテが必要なのか訊かれ、ここでは正直に調停で必要だと伝えた。伝えたことを後で後悔する。なぜなら、開示をしぶられたからだ。まず「開示していいか、獣医師会に訊いてからじゃないと、時間を下さい」と言われた。（カルテ開示に獣医師会の許可がいる？？）むしろ獣医師会が職業論理として定めた『小動物医療の指針』には、『飼育者から診療簿の開示を求められた場合には、積極的にこれに応じるよう努めなければならない』と明記されている。返事の電話は一向にかかってこず、6月初めにこちらから訊ねた。ずると、獣医師会には訊ねていないのか、どういう返事があったのか話はなく、「ではカルテ開示しましょう」となった。カルテのコピーとレントゲンデータ。死亡している為診断書は書けないので、その代わりに治療経過も書いてく下さることになった。それからまた時間は流れた。診察をしながらの書類作成。時間がかかるのは仕方がない。それにしてもかかり過ぎている・・・・ 8月初め、こちらから電話。「再来週には渡せるから、電話してから取りに来てください」そう言われ、やっと動物病院へ受け取りに行った。言っていた書類は全部そろっていた。レントゲンデータはUSBメモリーに入っていた。カルテを見ると前の動物病院とは全く違い、人間のカルテ同様、処方された薬剤名だけでなく、症状と処置も書かれていた。院長曰く「（前の病院の様に）処方箋だけ書く病院の方が多いです。うちは誰が見ても流れがわかるようにしてあります」そしてここで、はっきりわかった。出し渋っていたことが。「うちの病院名は出さないでくださいね。もし出す必要がある場合、連絡してからにしてください」そう言われたのだ。「関わりたくない」というような言葉も。「調停と言ったって、裁判と変わりないですから。」←これはそのまま言われた。そもそも前の動物病院は、獣医師会に所属していないのに、そう伝えても「そんなはずはない」と。一癖ある院長で、通院中もいろいろあったが「カルテを持っていたい」だけでは、治療経過は書いて貰えなかっただろうから、事実を話すことは仕方がなかった。裁判所に申立書を出す前に何とか2つの病院のカルテは揃った。この後、裁判所に直接電話で【申立書】の書き方を教えてもらった。HPにペットの医療過誤のテンプレはなかったから。あと、カルテなどの資料をコピーし、内容をまとめなければならない。なのに私の気は重く、なかなか手を付けることが出来ないうちに、季節は初夏へ……. 2022年6月。その準備をする前に、第三者の獣医の意見も聞いた方がいいのではないかと思い、相談出来るサイトや病院を探した。すると、とある獣医師会の無料電話相談を発見！相談は週1日のみ受け付けている。すぐにその日は来て、当番の獣医の見解を聞くと、思いもよらぬ展開に！！そんなことって…..じゃあ私は何で今まであんなに苦しんできたの？ ※長くなったので、続きは後編へ。なかなか書けずにいたのに、ひっぱってごめんなさい。 ]]> /archives/6578/feed 6 【過去画像】ミルとのツーショットが出てきた 2006/12/30 /archives/6572 /archives/6572#comments Wed, 15 Jun 2022 02:33:46 +0000 /?p=6572 身辺整理をしていたら、ミルとツーショットの写真が出てきたので、ブログに上げておく。（旧「あゝ猫道」にひょっとしたら載せているかも知れないけど）ノーメイクの飼い主と、無理やり撮らさせて不機嫌なミル。 2006年12月 ... ]]> 身辺整理をしていたら、ミルとツーショットの写真が出てきたので、ブログに上げておく。（旧「あゝ猫道」にひょっとしたら載せているかも知れないけど）ノーメイクの飼い主と、無理やり撮らさせて不機嫌なミル。 2006年12月30日ミル5歳今から約16年前。うちにパソコンとデジカメがやってきた年で、毎日毎日ミルを撮ってたね。 ]]> /archives/6572/feed 8 【ペットロス】猫が居なくなって1年3ヶ月｜抜け毛が介護シーツから見つかる /archives/6556 /archives/6556#comments Sat, 19 Mar 2022 05:22:23 +0000 /?p=6556 ミルが亡くなって1年と3ヶ月。脱衣場にずっと置きっぱなしの、ミルが使っていた防水シーツ。洗おう洗おうと思いつつそのままで「いい加減にしないと」と思い手にしてみたけれど、これって洗わなくて良くない？脱衣場に置きっぱな ... ]]> ミルが亡くなって1年と3ヶ月。脱衣場にずっと置きっぱなしの、ミルが使っていた防水シーツ。洗おう洗おうと思いつつそのままで「いい加減にしないと」と思い手にしてみたけれど、これって洗わなくて良くない？脱衣場に置きっぱなしだと湿気るので、窓際で干してからしまおうと部屋に持って行き広げてみると….. しみの取れない裏側。吐いたフードのついた表側。匂いを嗅いでみると懐かしい匂いがそこにあった。（洗えるわけないじゃん！）さらにミル毛発見！！ミルちゃん、こんなところにも居たのね！！先日も、出先で昨年クリーニングに出さずしまった上着にミル毛を発見し、ティッシュにくるんで帰宅。帰宅後、晩年ミル毛を入れていた瓶にしまった。最初、毛玉を作ろうと思って丸めていたけど、するんじゃなかった。丸めずふわふわのまま保存しておけば、ミルのふわふわ感をそのまま体験出来る。なので、丸めてフエルト状になった毛玉を、今度はほぐしてふわふわに戻している。ちなみにオチはない。ミルを抱きしめたいよ！！！！ ]]> /archives/6556/feed 4 愛猫の一周忌に花束が届いた！ /archives/6539 /archives/6539#comments Sat, 26 Feb 2022 12:33:05 +0000 /?p=6539 一周忌にって、随分記事にするのが遅くなってしまって、ごめんなさい(T∇T) 前回の記事にも書いたように、ミルの一周忌を迎えるのに沈んでいたら、なんと！ミルにブーケが届いたのだ！贈って下さったのは、元々YouTubeの視 ... ]]> 一周忌にって、随分記事にするのが遅くなってしまって、ごめんなさい(T∇T) 前回の記事にも書いたように、ミルの一周忌を迎えるのに沈んでいたら、なんと！ミルにブーケが届いたのだ！贈って下さったのは、元々YouTubeの視聴者さんで、Twitterにも来てくれたフォロワーさんでもあり、今ではかけがえのない友達のmariちゃん！見て！クリスマスをイメージして赤のブーケ！私はばかの一つ覚えでピンクばっかり選らんじゃうから、とっても新鮮！可憐でミルちゃん淑女みたいよ～一周忌にと買ってあった、KINTOのフラワーベースにもピッタリ。 KINTO（キントー）フラワーベース AQUA CULTURE VASE L ガラス花瓶水耕栽培水栽培ポットおしゃれ大きい花器アクアカルチャーベース | 花びん大インテリアシンプル大型花フラワー植物球根栽培 created by Rinker Amazon 楽天市場 Yahooショッピングその後、長～く楽しませてもらって、今はまつぼっくり飾っています(*´∀`*) mariちゃん本当にありがとう☆これからも仲良くしてね！ ]]> /archives/6539/feed 2 【愛猫ミルの一周忌】一緒に庭へ散歩に出る｜2021年12月23日記 /archives/6490 /archives/6490#comments Mon, 14 Feb 2022 12:02:06 +0000 /?p=6490 注）この記事は、ミルの一周忌2021年1

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