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When people talk about what eras they would ideally live in (the '60s for the counterculture and revolutions, the '70s for the music and drugs, the '20s for the arts scene in Paris, the 1880s for the wigs) I am always the person who plays the feminism/civil rights card; (Yep, I'm that guy!) I pick the present every time. I mean, I wouldn't kick a time machine out of bed or anything but I would not go back <i>to live</i> in a time when I had less rights just so I could chill with some lady-discriminating-against writers no matter how brilliant I think "For sale: baby shoes, never worn" is. Besides, TV is so damn good now. Miss <i>Arrested Development</i>, <i>Breaking Bad</i>, <i>Happy Endings</i>, <i>Parks and Recreation</i>, <i>The Wire</i>, <i>freaking Deadwood</i> just so that I could be an active, willing participant in colonization? Hell no. I'll just stick to fighting the racist, oppressive patriarchy in the present, thank you, taking breaks to watch shows and read books. Sometimes, reading books that compliment those shows perfectly and vice versa:<br />
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For <i>The Walking Dead </i>fans: <b><i>Zone One</i> by Colson Whitehead –</b> Before I read <i>Zone One</i> I was always like "bring on the zombie apocalypse! I'm so ready! I can run fast and I'm pretty strong and I can swing a bat really hard and I can think on my feet. Zombies? No problem!" And then I read it and Whitehead did what eight episodes of searching for Sophia never could: it made the zombie apocalypse real and human and heartbreaking and so, so, so sad. In <i>Zone One</i> there are these zombies, stragglers, who aren't threatening or dangerous. They just return to somewhere that was significant in their lives and just stand there. Forever. One stands in a field like it's flying a kite. Another, a little girl with ponytails, sits stalled over a well-worn board game. A teenager holds his lacrosse stick in permanent repose in his teenage bedroom. They are like fetid coma patients who are frozen doing what they loved most – until the living must bash their brains in. The characters in <i>Zone One</i>, whether the protagonist, the enigmatic Mark Spitz, or the eternal optimist Kaitlyn or Gary who spoke in plurals, unable to shake the habit since his brothers died, are so wonderfully fleshed out that I felt every one of their pains in my bones. <i>Zone One</i> does for the zombie apocalypse what <i>The Road</i> did for the regular apocalypse: shines the faintest of lights into the depths of despair. But however faint, hope is hope.</div>
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For <i>Dexter</i> fans: <b><i>The Face of Another</i> by Kobo Abe – </b>A scientist loses his face in a horrible accident. He is ostracized. He then creates a mask which leads to him creating an alternate identity, <i>a dark passenger if you will</i>, under which he does things that he would never do. An eerie Jekyll and Hyde story, there are a lot of ways that Abe's horror story differs from <i>Dexter</i> (also a Jekyll and Hyde story?), the most significant of which is the notable lack of Julia Stiles. </div>
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For <i>Community</i> fans: <b><i>On Death and Dying</i> by Elisabeth</b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><b> </b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; line-height: 16px;"><b>Kübler-Ross –</b> We need to figure out how to move past denial : (((((( </span></span></div>
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For <i>Homeland</i> fans: <b><i>The Quiet American</i> by Graham Greene –</b> CIA agents, spies, Americans fucking around in/with other countries... I can't wait to start watching <i>Homeland</i>. Mandy Patinkin! Claire Danes' cry face! That stoic soldier from Band of Brothers! </div>
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For <i>Boardwalk Empire</i> fans: <b><i>The Growth of the Soil</i> by Knut Hamsun –</b> Hamsun's novel is about homesteading in Norway in the 19th century. It is not a drama, nor is it full of action, gangsters or Paz de la Huertas but like <i>Boardwalk</i>, it's still about building something from nothing. The novel is understated, unhurried, and phenomenal; it is a story of humanity. Unlike the show, it has all the elements of perfection and puts them to use, instead of letting an incredible cast and plot just fizzle out. Honestly, instead of watching <i>Boardwalk Empire</i>, everyone should just read <i>Growth of the Soil</i> instead. Other suggestions include <i>The Emperor's New Clothes</i>.</div>
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For <i>American Horror Story</i> fans: <b><i>Shadowland</i> by William Arnold –</b> The "biography" of actress Frances Farmer that went on to be the basis for the "biographical" movie Frances starring none other than the star of American Horror Story, Jessica Lange. Shadowland tells of Farmer's breakdown and subsequent institutionalization, shock therapy and alleged lobotomy. While lacking in ghosts, aliens and other spooky behaviours, the film adaptation is chilling and said to be Scientology propaganda so I'd say it's on par in terms of horror. </div>
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For <i>Nashville</i> fans: <b><i>Theatre</i> by Somerset Maugham –</b> A story about an aging theatre actor, Julia Lambert, who is the Beyoncé of the 1930's London stage scene, who's supremacy is suddenly challenged by some young nobody named <strike>Rihanna</strike> Avice. Basically sounds a lot like what I've read of the plot of Nashville. I'm going to have to start watching it because I've made a promise to myself to watch everything starring my favourite <a href=";
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For <i>The Office</i> fans: <b><i>A Confederacy of Dunces</i> by John Kennedy Toole –</b> A group of weirdo outsiders bonded by their weirdness that no regular person would be able to handle? Elaborate plots to accomplish relatively simple tasks? Dwight and Ignatius are soul twins and don't even get me started on Irene and Meredith being the same character: both sex-crazed drunk red-heads with strange sons they've neglected. </div>
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For <i>Treme</i> fans:<i> </i><b><i>Babylon Rolling</i> by Amanda Boyden – </b>In <i>Babylon Rolling</i> the narrative crisscrosses back and forth between five different households on the same street in New Orleans, just before Hurricane Ivan and one year before Katrina. The novel offers a dissection of human nature and everyday life: sex, marriage, race, opportunity, childrearing, drugs, violence, jealousy, age and how the world is changing. As well as offering a look at pre-Katrina New Orleans – a beautiful, vibrant and fragile city on the brink of disaster. </div>
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Ah, fall! Sweaters, long walks through crunchy multi-coloured leaves, pumpkin-flavoured everything (sadly no apple-flavoured stuff this season – t'was a bumper crop year : ((( ), the return of network TV, the stress of finding a (group) Halloween costume (Limp Bizkit backup dancers? The girls from <i>The Craft</i>? <i>The Babysitter's Club</i>? Agents Scully and Reyes? A binder full of women?) before just abandoning every idea to stay in and do nothing like the curmudgeon you're trying desperately to avoid becoming... Oh baby, it's my favourite time of year! It's also that magical time when droves (packs? schools? murders?) of authors descend upon Toronto for the <a href=" Festival of Authors</a>. And this IFOA? <a href=" one is a doozey</a> (<– I'm a good writer). Here are a few of my favourite authors who will giving interviews and readings at the festival.</div>
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<b><a href=" Diaz</a> – </b>I get fluttery, bookish feelings when I see his name/face/books. He is the greatest and maybe I'm emotional because I have a headache but I feel like crying just thinking about his writing. His new book, <i>This is How You Lose Her</i>, is a collection of short stories that I've not read yet because I sometimes get off on withholding things from myself (also: I'm poor) but his other collection, <i>Drown</i>, and his novel <i>The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao</i> are mind-blowingly phenomenal. Just terrific.</div>
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<b><a href=" Munro</a> –</b> If I could grant immortality to one person (outside of loved ones) it would be to Alice Munro because I want her to just write forever. Selfish? Absolutely. Every one of her stories is a slow burning drama which in my expert opinion is the best kind of drama. Each character, each plot haunts my waking life (I'll never get Juliet and Penelope out of my head or Carla and that poor little goat, Flora). She is the masterclass of short fiction.</div>
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<b><a href=" Auster</a> –</b> Paul Auster writes in such a cool, unaffected style that I always forget about how much I love Paul Auster. His books are subdued and subtle but still steeped in depth and meaning. He is very much an "American Male Writer" but he remains, in my mind, separate from those other 'masculine' schools heralded by Hemingway and Fitzgerald and trumpeted by DeLillo and Ford and Salter – so overspent in sex and angst. His work often has overtones of noir (if not being outright detective novels as with The New York Trilogy) but always remains extremely meditative. </div>
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<b><a href=" Crosbie</a> –</b> A Canadian poet, Lynn Crosbie flays you open, pours in some salt then makes you laugh. Her poems are like my mum's back massages: they somehow dig beyond the muscles, between the tendons and are uncomfortable and painful. Unlike my mum's massages though, Crosbie's poems are therapeutic in their precision and offer commiseration after the hurt. Sorry mum – love you! </div>
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<b><a href=" Erdrich</a> –</b> Louise Erdrich has the precision of a surgeon when it comes to laying bare the human condition. Her characters are painfully three-dimensional with all their dreams, hopes and flaws viscerally real. And the way she shows how devastating colonialism, racism and the various (and plentiful) systemic policies of oppression facing American Indian people have on communities and on individuals is nearly unrivalled in American literature. I just finished <i>Tracks</i> and I am already feeling like I need to go back and read it again as soon as possible. </div>
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<b><a href=" Ralston Saul</a> –</b> Are there scholarly, history-nerd, interested-in-Canadian-law Lefties who don't have brain crushes on John Ralston Saul? I didn't think so. </div>
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And there are so, so, so many more amazing authors! Go see as many as you can! Students and youngsters under 25 get in free! Also happening in Toronto this weekend? The <a href="; film festival at the TIFF Lightbox! Lots of great looking movies/shorts to check out! And the <a href=" Dark Film Festival</a>! And? Dinner and Western movie night at my friends' James and Erica's (you're probably not invited to that, though, sorry)! And? That's probably it. Well, probably not, there's definitely a couple bands playing and there's most likely some kind of theatre thing going on. How even do you decide what to do?! </div>
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There is an abortion debate happening in Canada right now. It might be shrouded in coded language and denied by the Prime Minister but it is happening. <a href=" Woodworth, an anti-choice conservative MP for Kitchener-Waterloo proposed a private members motion (M-312) to create a committee whose purpose is to redefine personhood</a>. Canadian law considers a person to be a person once they check out of the womb by way of the vaginal canal. Woodworth thinks that it's a pretty dated definition considering the advances of modern medicine and science (science! Super important when taking away women and Trans* people's bodily autonomy! Meaningless when put up against creationism and climate change!) which, ok fair enough, the definition doesn't account for c-section births or the stork babies or cabbage patch kids but this isn't about being a stickler for medical science: it's about criminalizing abortion. The definition he's all grumpy about is found in <a href=" 223 of the Criminal Code, the section that defines homicide</a>. Make no mistake, if the definition of person is extended to fetuses, at all, abortion will be criminalized.<br />
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The past week a number of MPs debated the motion and any illusion that anti-choicers are capable of coherent and rational thought was dispelled with <a href=" conservative Saskatchewan MP, David Anderson, comparing the current personhood laws to the way Nazis exterminated people with disabilities and to the struggles of African Americans</a>. Oh man. There is so much that is incredibly, sickeningly offensive about such comparisons like how they diminish the 400 years of systemic and institutionalized racism against African Americans and how they compare women to Nazis. I'll just repeat that:<i> An</i> <i>elected</i> <i>Member of Parliament thinks that women who need abortions are Nazis</i>. FUCKING NAZIS. If anyone ever needed proof of the hatred that forced-birthers have for women there it is: an abortion = genocide. I cannot even.</div>
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<a href=" Harper is on the record saying that he has no interest in reopening the abortion debate</a> and that Wednesday's vote will be a free vote. It should be comforting that the PM has vowed not to touch abortion with a ten-foot pole, given his record of lies, half-truths and double-speak believing him would be a bit like Aesop's fable about the scorpion and the frog – can't expect him to go against his nature (and his ideologies) even if it puts him at a mild risk (considering we've seen how apathetic majority of Canadians are to the Conservative's hijinx (lol election fraud wut) his hubris is hitting Achilles levels). And the free vote thing is equally disquieting, how many pro-choice conservatives are there? <a href=" Kenney, Citizenship and Immigration Minister and one of the PM's inner circle, sure isn't pro-choice</a> – he's on the record saying that he'll vote in favour of Woodworth's motion. In a cabinet as closely guarded and controlled as Stephen Harper's, I have a hard time believing that if the issue truly was closed and <i>not-to-be-opened-ever-ever-fingers-crossed-promise</i> that Kenney wouldn't have gotten the memo. Something tells me that Harper can just sit this one out and let his goons do his dirty work for him. </div>
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You know who definitely qualifies for the personhood definition? I do. So does every other woman and every Trans* man and every other person with a uterus capable of bearing children – we are all people. We are people with lives and dreams and the ability to make decisions based on what is best for them and sometimes that decision is to have an abortion. It doesn't matter, ever, why someone gets an abortion. Maybe it's in an instance of rape or incest. Maybe it's because zie already has too many mouths to feed. Maybe it's because zie has cancer and needs chemotherapy. Maybe zie is financially unstable and has very little support. Maybe zie never wanted kids. Maybe zie is too young. Maybe zie is in an abusive relationship and hir partner tampered with their BC. Maybe zie suffers from mental illness and can't go off their medication. Maybe zie discovered that hir fetus has a terrible condition ensuring that it will live an extremely short, extremely painful life and so needs to get a late-term abortion. Maybe zie just got drunk and had unprotected sex. There are thousands of reasons why people need abortions but ultimately it is no one else's business. </div>
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I think that what anyone who is on the fence or who has never really thought much about abortion really needs to consider is why every single anti-choice argument is so deeply steeped in severe misogyny. Think about why it's women and Trans* bodies that are constantly being threatened with regulation, not cis men. The hypocrisy of the conservatives are trying to regulate my body while decrying any sort of government regulations for corporations in a bid to appear small government would be laughable if it wasn't so goddamn soul-crushing. Think about the language – both spoken and implied – that describes women who need abortions, language that dehumanizes and slut-shames and is paternalistic and ascribes sexist tropes like the 'irresponsible tramp'. Think about how if children are so valued and cherished, they are also supposed to be a punishment for loose women who don't use birth control. Think about how little support there is for low income families, for childcare, for education, for Indigenous children, for children with disabilities, for Children of Colour, for new Canadian children – I'll believe it's really about the children the day that there is equal ferocity for the support for existing families. </div>
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I am pro-choice. I believe that people should have unfettered access to abortion. I believe that people with noble reasons should be free to get abortions, I believe that people with less than noble reasons should be free to get abortions. I am so incredibly grateful to live in a country that grants those abortion rights and has for twenty-four years. We cannot stand by and let those rights be whittled away by MPs who would refer to us as Nazis. We cannot stand by and let anyone tell us that our bodies need to be regulated, that we are undeserving of the respect granted cis men who are able to make all the decisions regarding their bodies. We cannot stand idly by and just shrug off misogynistic attacks. Fuck that. </div>
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Write to <a href=" MP</a>. Write to <a href=" Woodworth</a> (he's on <a href=";, too). Write to <a href=" Harper</a> (his <a href=";). Write to <a href=" Kenney</a> (his <a href=";). Sign <a href=" petition</a>. Tweet about it. Post about it on Facebook. Make <i>a lot</i> noise; let's stop this assault on our choices, on our bodily autonomy before it happens. </div>
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2012/09/the-non-debate-abortion-debate-beyond.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Alex)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021851682736515743.post-2393563065175310586Fri, 21 Sep 2012 14:28:00 +00002012-09-21T10:28:46.177-04:00astrologyBirthdaysmusicVideosNas: 'Virgo' ft Ludacris & Doug E Fresh Posted by Alex<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It's almost the end of Virgo-rama 2012 so here's this little ditty for all my fellow Virgos out there. Don't know if it's my inherent virgocity that draws me to other Virgos but, man, have I got a lot of Virgo friends. Some of my best friends are Virgos! Also, most of my friends' kids are too. SPOOKY. In short, if you're a Virgo and you want to be my friend, your chances are pretty good. Capricorns on the other hand? lol, dream on.</div>
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</span></i></span></b></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Doris: This is awkward. I thought this was going to be fun but we're just watching The X-Files. It's only 10:30. On a Saturday.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Mona: I am very unhappy.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Doris: I had no idea this is what slumber parties were like.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Mona: This is no slumber party. When I was a girl, we played kissing games and got into the parents' liquor. Once at Meriweather Potts twelfth birthday we played with the Ouiji board and summoned the spirit of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Epaphroditus Sneer, a 19th century apothecary who was hanged for running a larceny ring. He ended up possessing Tabitha Cuthbert through most of middle school. </span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Doris: Is that why I was never allowed to stay the night at anyone's home?</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Mona: That was because Lulu Gifford-Charles set Carolee McGee's bathroom on fire in retaliation for a particularly gruelling truth or dare session.</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Alex: Not to be that guy, but can you two maybe quiet down? Netflix is really quiet and lord knows Scully is a soft-talker!</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"><br />
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Alex: Can you guys even believe how often Scully misuses 'beg the question'? Hashtag: Look it up!<br />
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Mona: Oh god.<br />
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Doris: I need a drink.<br />
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Mona: There's not enough liquor in the world.<br />
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2012/09/doris-and-mona-spend-night-by-alex.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Alex)